Men, do you feel offended when women give you feminine compliments such as "pretty", "cute", or "beautiful"?
jambutters said: WickedHeroine said: Don't deny the cute. Squishes your cheeks. Accept the cute. Iol I just don't think I deserve the compliments when girls tell me that stuff :p. What about guys- you're cute <3 |
| Some people says I'm cute, but I just reply: I'm manly! >O< |
jambutters said: WickedHeroine said: Don't deny the cute. Squishes your cheeks. Accept the cute. Iol I just don't think I deserve the compliments when girls tell me that stuff :p. Accept it!! FLAUNT THAT SHIT. If someone says it, then you deserve it bruh |
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traed said: Beautiful - Not sure. Id have trouble believing her. why do you say that? o: |
| Offended is a strong word.. maybe more like annoyed? I mean being pretty is no mans job after all, thats for girls and make up No man gives a crap about that |
| idgaf, fam. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
pufonD said: Offended is a strong word.. maybe more like annoyed? I mean being pretty is no mans job after all, thats for girls and make up No man gives a crap about that  |
| I aim to be the most beautiful man in the world. |
WickedHeroine said: jambutters said: Iol I just don't think I deserve the compliments when girls tell me that stuff :p. Accept it!! FLAUNT THAT SHIT. If someone says it, then you deserve it bruh rofl, usually I know how to get out of the situation asap tho. By saying things like, "You know who else is cute? That guy over there, Omg. I would just gobble him up nom nom." And then they would stop while being confused whether I'm gay or not while giving their thoughts on that guy. |
Is this where you live?  |
pufonD said: you dont care about being attractive?Offended is a strong word.. maybe more like annoyed? I mean being pretty is no mans job after all, thats for girls and make up No man gives a crap about that |
pufonD said: Awww, that's so cute ><Offended is a strong word.. maybe more like annoyed? I mean being pretty is no mans job after all, thats for girls and make up No man gives a crap about that |
Anna said: Waffly said: Some people says I'm cute, but I just reply: I'm manly! >O< Saying you're manly and then making that face is more cute than manly, friend. Pff~ How come someone who loves John Cena, isn't a manly waffle!? >~< Your concept of cute is weird! |
| The real question is: How much trust is to their statement? |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
Mischievous said: ToastofJustice said: I aim to be the most beautiful man in the world. You will not win as long as I draw breath! Nor will you, as long as my heart still beats. |
Dawn said: pufonD said: you dont care about being attractive?Offended is a strong word.. maybe more like annoyed? I mean being pretty is no mans job after all, thats for girls and make up No man gives a crap about that fam thats a pu**io thing, spending your time to get your little pretty face ready.. wut? a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. |
pufonD said: In my opinion a guy who knows how to take care of himself and is stylish is much more attractive than one who can plants a tree and build a house. It doesnt make them a pu**io whatever that even means.Dawn said: you dont care about being attractive? fam thats a pu**io thing, spending your time to get your little pretty face ready.. wut? a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. |
| I don't really care tbh. |
pu**io wtf is this? puchio? punnio? wat pufonD said: ohmigod a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. oh my god |
Dawn said: Low esteem.traed said: Beautiful - Not sure. Id have trouble believing her. why do you say that? o: |
traed said: I know how you feel.Dawn said: Low esteem.why do you say that? o: |
pufonD said: fam thats a pu**io thing, spending your time to get your little pretty face ready.. wut? a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. idk planting a tree seems pretty cute to me |
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Anna said: Waffly said: Pff~ How come someone who loves John Cena, isn't a manly waffle!? >~< Your concept of cute is weird! You should just accept it and adjust your lifestyle accordingly~ Damn you, human. =-= |
| >tfw no one ever gave you feminine compliments |
 "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." -Friedrich Nietzsche |
Dawn said: Somehow that made me almost tear up...and I dont know why ;-;traed said: I know how you feel.Low esteem. |
Dawn said: pufonD said: In my opinion a guy who knows how to take care of himself and is stylish is much more attractive than one who can plants a tree and build a house. It doesnt make them a pu**io whatever that even means.fam thats a pu**io thing, spending your time to get your little pretty face ready.. wut? a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. ToastofJustice said: pufonD said: fam thats a pu**io thing, spending your time to get your little pretty face ready.. wut? a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. I'm a very beautiful man and I get much more ladies than the ugly conservatives. That is the point... 'a man who gets all the ladies', sorry mate I got one lady and that is all I need. From real life experience, all the 'pretty boys' who spend more time dressing up than learning, ended up as scummy bastards with their women dramas in cocaine fueled parties, oh and with a shitty grade too. Yeah and forget about hollywood crap where you see Tom Cruise rolling, it's nothing like that |
battosai-01 said: >tfw no one ever gave you feminine compliments I'm with you on this one. But I'm not sad. I'm just too manly and awesome for them. |
[i]"Yet each man kills the thing he loves, [/i]By each let this be heard, Some do it with a bitter look, Some with a flattering word, The coward does it with a kiss, The brave man with a sword!'' ~Oscar |
mayukachan said: Now that I've been thinking about it, I think she meant pretty, not beautiful. I got confused because we don't use exactly the same words in Spanish.Because beautiful is a term to call someone who has a great personality + appealing looks. It's like a "bam ur perfect" compliment, rather than just "u look nice" |
traed said: Dawn said: Low esteem.why do you say that? o:  |
Is this where you live? |
| [/quote] ToastofJustice said: pufonD said: fam thats a pu**io thing, spending your time to get your little pretty face ready.. wut? a man should build a house, plant a tree, and have a son. I'm a very beautiful man and I get much more ladies than the ugly conservatives. pufonD said: That is the point... 'a man who gets all the ladies', sorry mate I got one lady and that is all I need. From real life experience, all the 'pretty boys' who spend more time dressing up than learning, ended up as scummy bastards with their women dramas in cocaine fueled parties, oh and with a shitty grade too. Yeah and forget about hollywood crap where you see Tom Cruise rolling, it's nothing like that But I get straight As without even trying. Also, who do you think gets the better grades here; the person who uses an acceptable amount of grammar or the one that does not? Anyway, I was joking. I am a pretty boy though. But I didn't chose to look this feminine. |
Status_EffectOct 19, 2015 2:54 AM
pufonD said: it's not just about getting ladies, it's putting value on taking care of yourself and your physical appearance instead of not doing so because you put so much value on some kind of outdated idea of "masculinity".That is the point... 'a man who gets all the ladies', sorry mate I got one lady and that is all I need. From real life experience, all the 'pretty boys' who spend more time dressing up than learning, ended up as scummy bastards with their women dramas in cocaine fueled parties, oh and with a shitty grade too. Yeah and forget about hollywood crap where you see Tom Cruise rolling, it's nothing like that |
DawnOct 19, 2015 2:55 AM
pufonD said: That is the point... 'a man who gets all the ladies', sorry mate I got one lady and that is all I need. From real life experience, all the 'pretty boys' who spend more time dressing up than learning, ended up as scummy bastards with their women dramas in cocaine fueled parties, oh and with a shitty grade too. Yeah and forget about hollywood crap where you see Tom Cruise rolling, it's nothing like that Tell me about it.... I usually don't mind if they don't complain about me bringing nothing new in terms of fashion on the table. But quite a few talk shit and it gets annoying. |
Is this where you live? |
Dawn said: pufonD said: it's not just about getting ladies, it's putting value on taking care of yourself and your physical appearance instead of just putting value on some kind of outdated idea of "masculinity".That is the point... 'a man who gets all the ladies', sorry mate I got one lady and that is all I need. From real life experience, all the 'pretty boys' who spend more time dressing up than learning, ended up as scummy bastards with their women dramas in cocaine fueled parties, oh and with a shitty grade too. Yeah and forget about hollywood crap where you see Tom Cruise rolling, it's nothing like that It's not about masculinity. It's about what matters and what doesn't. People don't understand the consequences of their actions and only at the end they see the light when they go through all of it. Thats why you get wiser with the age. I cared about being 'good looking' when I was 16/18. Yeah great, you'd get stuff like 'I love your eyes' but all of this made me fail my A levels because the concentration was elsewhere. Being 'pretty' is hardly going to get you anywhere as a man, this substance doesn't last long, it's not going to get you far thus it should not matter for a man if he want's to be happy unless he is the sort of person who lives every day like it is his last day. ToastofJustice said: But I get straight As without even trying. Also, who do you think gets the better grades here; the person who uses an acceptable amount of grammar or the one that does not? Anyway, I was joking. I am a pretty boy though. But I didn't chose to look this feminine. I'm not worried about my grammar, the last time i spend learning a language was 8 years ago (I studied arts after that). Well, good, but don't let it get into your head. Trust me, if you have natural looks and you spend your time into something that is going to make you something, you'll be way way more happier |
pufonDOct 19, 2015 3:07 AM
| and how exactly are being able to build a house or plant a tree important to a man in this day and age. Being able to take care of yourself helps in things as simple as getting a job, people are more inclined to hire someone who takes care of themselves. Someone who doesnt care at all usually just seems like they let themselves go and it's not like it even becomes something that takes over your life. You dont have to make yourself look like a movie actor, but not caring about your physical appearance in the slightest? that seems a bit ridiculous. |
| I'm not any of those things, so I wouldn't know. (ಥ﹏ಥ) |
Fintan said: You're really beautiful, my friend.I'm not any of those things, so I wouldn't know. (ಥ﹏ಥ) |
| I like when they call me cute |
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Dawn said: and how exactly are being able to build a house or plant a tree important to a man in this day and age. Being able to take care of yourself helps in things as simple as getting a job, people are more inclined to hire someone who takes care of themselves. Someone who doesnt care at all usually just seems like they let themselves go and it's not like it even becomes something that takes over your life. You dont have to make yourself look like a movie actor, but not caring about your physical appearance in the slightest? that seems a bit ridiculous. build a house, plant a tree, have a son is a good proverb By building a house, the young man has taken up the step to live independently from the house of his parents, that is to say, taken the steps not to depend on his parents’ cooking and money, but create his own livelihood and generate his own means of subsistence. He has to leave the parents’ house to create his own world, his own domain, his own house, and to accomplish this important step is definitively one of the first signs of maturity, of becoming an adult man. The day I left the house of my parents was in a very profound way the very day I was embarking of my own path, on my own journey toward becoming a man, making my own mistakes, figuring things out through my own experiences and through my own thinking. It was also the very process necessary of ownership of the house which I was building (my own life). I had earned it, it was mine, though my own sweat, my own thinking, my own tears and joys. Planting a tree illustrated the need for contributing to society and our community. A man can provide for himself but his sense of responsibility leads him also to an understanding of his role in society. We are part of that greater world beyond ourselves, we are part of a society, and to be a man means to fulfil our role in our environment by contributing to it in a positive and constructive way. Raising a son (or a daughter, of course) is about leaving something behind. It is about fulfilling one’s role in the family context, it is about doing the hard work, day in and day out, which will ultimately establish whether or not you have left a positive mark in this word, if you have left something behind. ^^ That is, if your interested to read (it's not mine). While about a job... Well, usually you've got CV's talking most of the time instead of looks, writing down: 'cut expenditure by 30% by providing a personal research on employees habits' or 'won a contract competition of $1m for my company' (all of this takes lots of time) instead of 'I'm good looking (but obviously most likely I will not be after 30)' will give you a big advantage of getting that job. Of course, you must be a complete fool to go to an interview with a track suit instead of a work suit, but then again - thats something natural - like cutting your nails. |
Remv_quevav said: I like when they call me cute  |
Dawn said: oh noRemv_quevav said: I like when they call me cute |
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Clockwerk said: Fintan said: You're really beautiful, my friend.I'm not any of those things, so I wouldn't know. (ಥ﹏ಥ) Now that I can comment... I have to agree it does kind of take away from my manliness.... ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ |
| "Cute" often means you're also sexually unattractive. That can be a bummer. Other than that, no, I'm flattered. I don't care how I fit the masculine role anyway. |
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| I'm a girl and I wouldn't really be comfortable calling a guy "pretty" or "cute" unless he's my close friend and I'm joking around. "Beautiful" however, applies to both genders imo. |
| No, but I find it very confusing. |
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