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Do You Prefer A Gentle, Intermediate, or a Rough Lover?
Nov 21, 9:29 AM
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As we all know, love makes the world go around, but there are many ways love can be manifested. You could be gentle and gentlemanly, caressing your beloved’s cheeks with the lightest touch. On the other hand, you can be rough, more liable to Kabe-Don your love interest, abruptly kissing them as you passionately erupt into the most energetic displays of intimacy. Or you can be intimate, that threshold where you are as likely to tease them as you are to compliment them.

Which one do you prefer to be on the receiving end of?

I prefer a woman who can kick my ass and suplex me onto a mattress with my hands tied behind her back.
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Nov 21, 9:44 AM
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if im healthy i wish for inbetween or intermediate on this one
Nov 21, 9:44 AM
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Teasing is key. That much is certain to me. Hard to Kabe-Don me when I'm above 6 feet tall. Don't know how I'd feel about that. 🤔

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I prefer a woman who can kick my ass and suplex me onto a mattress with my hands tied behind her back.

Have a masochist anthem:
Nov 21, 9:50 AM
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I prefer gentle roughness & rough gentleness.
No, this isn't my signature~desu.
Nov 21, 10:03 AM
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I like them being wild psycho/arrogant princess irl, but soft mango/icecream in bed.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Nov 21, 10:16 AM
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At this point I would be okay with any of the above.
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Nov 21, 11:10 AM
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I like wholesome gentle stuff
I think femdom especially is really weird but you do you
Nov 21, 11:33 AM
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At this point, none.

But overall, my preference goes to women who read a lot all the time; they tend to be less annoying, and they're more interesting to be around with compared to all other types. 
Nov 21, 11:39 AM
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I haven't been able to really find out what I like. I'd lean a little more on wanting the gentle to intermediate than rough though but not lacking in passion. Although rough in a gentle kind way id like too. But I'm not sure I even should be with anyone at all.
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Nov 21, 11:47 AM

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I haven't been able to really find out what I like. I'd lean a little more on wanting the gentle to intermediate than rough though but not lacking in passion. Although rough in a gentle kind way id like too. But I'm not sure I even should be with anyone at all.
        
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I'm not sure I even should be with anyone at all.

Why not?
No, this isn't my signature~desu.
Nov 21, 11:48 AM

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Teasing is key. That much is certain to me. Hard to Kabe-Don me when I'm above 6 feet tall. Don't know how I'd feel about that. 🤔

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I prefer a woman who can kick my ass and suplex me onto a mattress with my hands tied behind her back.

Have a masochist anthem:
@Freshell

Holy based 8) Cue the Spike Spiegel.

OT:

I don't know, I used to like submissive and breedable memes, now I feel fetishistically homeless 😦

Whatever this is seems neat

Nov 21, 11:49 AM

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In terms of hgames I like rough bull with innocent heroines.
Nov 21, 11:50 AM

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I'm sure they are healthy relationships that can work that way but I like feeling safe so rough is a no-no for me.
Nov 21, 11:59 AM

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Rough and passionate, gentle stuff can come afterwards after we had our fun.
Nov 21, 12:12 PM

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I don't really know.... haven't experienced any😅
I think probably gentle with some safe roughness.
Foreplay looks fun, and I think I have a slight sub fantasy.
Nov 21, 12:28 PM

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traed said:
I'm not sure I even should be with anyone at all.

Why not?
@Zarutaku
If I actually deserve it

If wanting love is just selfish of me

If true lasting love even really does exist

If I am even capable of bringing anyone happiness

If I can even feel a love deeply enough and able to fully express that

If anyone is really capable of making decisions they won't ever regret because I'd never want to bring any sadness

Because anyone I love I could lose any moment

And similar reasons
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Nov 21, 12:41 PM

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traed said:
If I actually deserve it

If wanting love is just selfish of me

If there is someone who deserves it THEN ITS YOU!!! But it wont happen because you will die for our sins instead. I am 100% certain of this, you are the Christlike figure of MAL. I just dont see a future where you are not crucified by your countrymen in the future. We will mourn until you rise from the dead
Nov 21, 1:25 PM
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I will say that I prefer it to be gentle.
Nov 21, 1:33 PM

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@Zarutaku
If I actually deserve it

If wanting love is just selfish of me

If true lasting love even really does exist

If I am even capable of bringing anyone happiness

If I can even feel a love deeply enough and able to fully express that

If anyone is really capable of making decisions they won't ever regret because I'd never want to bring any sadness

Because anyone I love I could lose any moment

And similar reasons
Can't speak from experience, but this are my takes:

traed said:
If I actually deserve it
Why care? Life isn't fair anyway, there are millions of people who get what they don't deserve.

traed said:
If wanting love is just selfish of me
What's the problem with being selfish if both benefit? Nobody should neglect their self-interest, that's unhealthy.

traed said:
If true lasting love even really does exist
Seems like a naive ideal, love usually doesn't last for a lifetime, but it often turns into lifelong respect.

traed said:
If I am even capable of bringing anyone happiness
If you really want to, then you probably can.

traed said:
If I can even feel a love deeply enough and able to fully express that
Don't worry, love chemistry is known to do its job and it's probably enough to simply try getting your feels across.

traed said:
If anyone is really capable of making decisions they won't ever regret because I'd never want to bring any sadness
Everyone makes some decisions they regret later, that's life. If you don't want to bring sadness that's already enough, the good will matters.

traed said:
Because anyone I love I could lose any moment
At least you were with them for a while, nothing lasts forever.
No, this isn't my signature~desu.
Nov 21, 1:38 PM

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I prefer funny masochists(30 limit characters).

Nov 21, 1:50 PM

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Bruh I've had encounters that have left me covered marks and bruises.

Rough plz.



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Nov 21, 4:47 PM
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In-between and somewhat submissive.

Except for these rare moments when I want her to be the Death Star while I'm Alderaan.

Nov 21, 5:08 PM

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This thread is yet more reason why you shouldn't take the Internet seriously.
Nov 21, 5:20 PM

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I'm sure they are healthy relationships that can work that way but I like feeling safe so rough is a no-no for me.
@fleurbleue

I feel the same. Some people just like rough intimacy, but it's a play and not the makeup of the whole relationship. Wouldn't feel comfortable.

I'm in general glad my partner isn't very sexual either, because I view my partner as a close friend.
Nov 21, 5:37 PM
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traed said:
If I actually deserve it

If wanting love is just selfish of me

If true lasting love even really does exist

If I am even capable of bringing anyone happiness

Love yourself first?

traed said:
If I can even feel a love deeply enough and able to fully express that

If anyone is really capable of making decisions they won't ever regret because I'd never want to bring any sadness

Because anyone I love I could lose any moment

Take you chances?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Nov 21, 8:40 PM

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I prefer verbally and physically abusive violent women who can and will kick my ass
Nov 21, 8:51 PM

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Gentle in every matters except on bed


Nov 21, 10:12 PM

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Somebody who alternates between the two sounds like my ideal.

I'd like a girl (or even guy) who can be intense, pushy, and eager to carry the energy between us about as much as I'd like a good amount of opportunities to savor the more delicate sensations while sharing affection with them.
Nov 21, 10:29 PM
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"Do You Prefer A Gentle, Intermediate, or a Rough Lover?"

Gentle.

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