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Feb 25, 2016 10:48 AM
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No matter how I look at it . My religious views overshadow my Logical view on this case . Killing an unborn is equal to killing a grown up .

Parents agree for abortion . Abortion happens but Parents and Doctors aren't labelled as Murderers .
Couple agree on Killing their young child . They Kill their child and are labelled as Murderers .
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Feb 25, 2016 10:54 AM
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Maybe not the most unbiased source. But it's something to think about:
Feb 25, 2016 10:56 AM
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Yes, because a fetus is not a child. After the point where it develops into an actual baby, then it gets a little more complicated. Sure, you could look at it as preventing a child from being born, but the same could be said for contraception, or not having sex, but it's not murder, because there isn't anything yet to murder.
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Feb 25, 2016 10:57 AM
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This is a truly hard question. I mean, if you want to have an abortion, you are obviously not ready for a child. But if you gave a birth to that child, how hard would it's life be? I honestly don't think there is a single good answer to this question. In my eyes, I don't know how to feel because I myself wouldn't be in a situation like this.
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Feb 25, 2016 10:57 AM
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Abortion isn't the same as murdering a young child. A developing fetus in the early stages can barely be qualified for life, and it hasn't developed a conciousness or a nervous system for the first 10-11 weeks of development, so it's incapable of feeling pain.

Abortion is pretty much required in some cases, such as when either the parent or child (or both) are at danger of losing their lives during childbirth.

Not to mention contraception isn't always 100% foolproof, condoms break, and the pill doesn't always work even when taken correctly. If someone isn't ready for a child (especially financially), and the pregnancy wasn't planned, there's nothing wrong with terminating the pregnancy.

And then of course there's rape... But I'm not going to go down that road.
Feb 25, 2016 10:59 AM
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I don't have any qualms with it as long as it's done pretty early on. Even then there are plenty of good arguments for late term abortions being allowed in individual cases.
Feb 25, 2016 10:59 AM
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As for your understanding of abortion, here is a good analogy. If you knew you could save many people by pulling a lever and killing few of them, would you do it? Now after you decided, if you could save many people by killing one with your own hands, would you do it? Now see how long it took you to answer first and then the second question. This is, in a way, much like abortion. You feel easier because you don't do it directly, and that is the difference.
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Feb 25, 2016 11:01 AM
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Women should have the right to terminate their child up to the 8 year stage. I see some annoying little brats running around sometimes.
Feb 25, 2016 11:04 AM
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There are pregnancies that got started from rape. If the child is unwanted, I see no reason why abortion shouldn't be allowed.
Feb 25, 2016 11:04 AM
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Yes it is. I think it is ok to abort in early stages if you feel you cannot raise the child properly.
Feb 25, 2016 11:04 AM
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SnugglyWhuggly said:
Abortion isn't the same as murdering a young child. A developing fetus in the early stages can barely be qualified for life, and it hasn't developed a conciousness or a nervous system for the first 10-11 weeks of development, so it's incapable of feeling pain.

Abortion is pretty much required in some cases, such as when either the parent or child (or both) are at danger of losing their lives during childbirth.

Not to mention contraception isn't always 100% foolproof, condoms break, and the pill doesn't always work even when taken correctly. If someone isn't ready for a child (especially financially), and the pregnancy wasn't planned, there's nothing wrong with terminating the pregnancy.

And then of course there's rape... But I'm not going to go down that road.


I may agree with you on some cases we call exception .

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There are pregnancies that got started from rape. If the child is unwanted, I see no reason why abortion shouldn't be allowed.


I agree with you on this point .
Feb 25, 2016 11:05 AM

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Of course it's okay. In the early stages of pregnancy it isn't even remotely akin to a human baby.
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Feb 25, 2016 11:08 AM
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Only in the case that the woman has been raped or if the child has a fatal disease that it will die eventually. Other than that, taking a life away from someone deserving of it is indeed murder. Life is a privilege, not an option.

Abortion in most cases is murder. Why shit like Planned Parenthood exists is mind boggling.
Feb 25, 2016 11:09 AM

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Yes it is.
You shouldn't be forced to carry a parasite and then waste your life raising it.

Is that your final answer?

Ot It depends if you care about the sanctity of life I guess, and how far you think that sanctity extends.
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Feb 25, 2016 11:09 AM

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I do agree with abortion, actually. If a parent decides to make an abortion then it's obvious that that child isn't wanted, so in my opinion it'll be better if that child isn't born at all rather than be born and not get the love it deserves. Also, as other people have mentioned, killing a developing fetus isn't the same as killing an actual child.
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Feb 25, 2016 11:10 AM
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I have no intention of changing the current laws in my country regarding this matter. I think it's okey if it's done somewhat early on the pregnancy.


Feb 25, 2016 11:14 AM

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Yes it is. There is nothing wrong with wanting to abort a child that was either unintentional or if the family cannot afford the child.
Feb 25, 2016 11:15 AM

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im all for it

Abortion could be a result of rape, incest, not being able to provide a emotionally stable life for child(being abusive or having an abusive spouse, not being able to support your child financially, living in an unsafe environment, being under 18 and pregnant(or simply not ready) are all viable reasons to have an abortion, and are likely the most common ones(this is from my perspective but in any case abortion is the mothers choice and no one should impose on it)

If the woman is forced to give birth she should have fully paid leave and can immediately put it up for adoption if she wishes to, at the BARE minimum.
Feb 25, 2016 11:18 AM
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im all for it

Abortion could be a result of rape, incest, not being able to provide a emotionally stable life for child(being abusive or having an abusive spouse, not being able to support your child financially, living in an unsafe environment, being under 18 and pregnant(or simply not ready) are all viable reasons to have an abortion, and are likely the most common ones(this is from my perspective but in any case abortion is the mothers choice and no one should impose on it)

If the woman is forced to give birth she should have fully paid leave and can immediately put it up for adoption if she wishes to, at the BARE minimum.


"Why indulge in unsafe sex in the first place , if your are Economically and Socially poor and can't have Kids . Aborting also needs money . "

How much weight this statement hold ?
Feb 25, 2016 11:27 AM

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Temmie said:
im all for it

Abortion could be a result of rape, incest, not being able to provide a emotionally stable life for child(being abusive or having an abusive spouse, not being able to support your child financially, living in an unsafe environment, being under 18 and pregnant(or simply not ready) are all viable reasons to have an abortion, and are likely the most common ones(this is from my perspective but in any case abortion is the mothers choice and no one should impose on it)

If the woman is forced to give birth she should have fully paid leave and can immediately put it up for adoption if she wishes to, at the BARE minimum.


"Why indulge in unsafe sex in the first place , if your are Economically and Socially poor and can't have Kids . Aborting also needs money . "

How much weight this statement hold ?


Abortion costs a fraction of what childbirth and raising a child costs

If you're just attacking one thing I'll assume you think the rest is okay,which solves this issue
Feb 25, 2016 11:29 AM
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Temmie said:
ashishkaull said:


"Why indulge in unsafe sex in the first place , if your are Economically and Socially poor and can't have Kids . Aborting also needs money . "

How much weight this statement hold ?


Abortion costs a fraction of what childbirth and raising a child costs

If you're just attacking one thing I'll assume you think the rest is okay,which solves this issue


"If you're just attacking one thing I'll assume you think the rest is okay,which solves this issue"

My English is not that good , PLZ Explain ?
Feb 25, 2016 11:58 AM

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I would not consider abortion acceptable if the baby is:

1. Younger than 3 months old minimum. (Unless any of the next 3 requirements are met.)

2. Concieved out of rape.

3. The parent's are completely unable to support the child and give it a proper standard of care. (Though I believe people need to pass some basic standardized testing to recieve a permit to concieve a child.) All these poor people breeding like rats is fucking disgusting and just wrong. People who cant raise a child they willingly gave birth to are fucking scum.

4. The woman or child is in danger of death during birth.


I believe that the rights a living thing/robot/anything capable of though deserves is based off of its sentience. A fetus is not a sentient creature. It is just about as intelligent as a worm. Consider this example, you have an advanced robot capable of being programmed into a sapient robot. But at the very moment it is hasnt been programmed. Would it be morally wrong to take destroy this robot? Of course not. Because it doesnt have its programming yet, at the moment it is nothing but a hunk of metal. Likewise, an undeveloped fetus is nothing more than a hunk of flesh.
Feb 25, 2016 12:02 PM

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Only when the partner is in danger of losing her life.
Feb 25, 2016 12:03 PM

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I think rape is ok in cases where the mothers life is in danger, or in cases of rape or incest.
Feb 25, 2016 12:10 PM

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I have no problem with it what so ever . If the mother doesn't want the child and can get rid of it without any problems , what's the point of not doing so ?
But i can't say i care about that child anyway, as long as it is not mine
Also @Dimitrije1606 , your anology doesn't really work as i answered both questions pretty easly: I would save no one.If they can't save themselves, what's the point of me interfiring?
Feb 25, 2016 12:13 PM

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All human beings have a right to life so I don't agree with abortion under any circumstance with the exception of both the mother and child will die no matter what. The only case I see this happening is with ectopic pregnancies.
Feb 25, 2016 12:15 PM

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If you force a woman to bring to term a child she is hugely against having, what on earth makes you think she won't try to get rid of it through inducing a miscarriage (through heavy drinking, smoking, excessive exercise etc)?
Desperate times call for desperate measures...

And what if said child ends up being born anyway but is now deformed & brain damaged (because of the mothers attempts to get rid of it herself throughout the pregnancy)? What if the mother is now psychologically damaged? What if the mother ends up dying or seriously physically damaged through the labour etc? What if out of desperation the mother attempts an abortion herself and ends up dying?

Honestly I can think of few things more inhuman than a forced pregnancy. Its like reducing an intelligent human being into no more than a mere cattle-like incubator.

Pregnancy is no walk in the park and it can scar someone for life etc. It can even prove fatal at times (and its hard to predict when a pregnancy may prove fatal- unexpected things can happen like a major vein hemorrhaging and the woman bleeding to death etc).

If an abortion is performed within the legal limits, I have no issue with it. Safe legalized abortions have massively reduced the amount of women dying from botched abortions, dying from dangerous pregnancies, ending up mentally or physically scarred through forced pregnancies, reducing the amount of children born into poverty or with terribly inappropriate parents (meth addict prostitutes or underage kids) etc...
Feb 25, 2016 1:17 PM

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ashishkaull said:
No matter how I look at it . My religious views overshadow my Logical view on this case . Killing an unborn is equal to killing a grown up .

Parents agree for abortion . Abortion happens but Parents and Doctors aren't labelled as Murderers .
Couple agree on Killing their young child . They Kill their child and are labelled as Murderers .


I think elective abortions ie abortions for what ever someone feels like having them should be banned. I support abortion if carrying the baby to term will result in the mother losing her life and multiple doctors have confirmed this.I do not support abortion for rape and incest because it's not the child's fault one of the parents is a piece of shit.
Feb 25, 2016 1:20 PM

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No, abortion is not okay. But neither is having an unwanted pregnancy. And forcing a woman to carry is even less okay
Feb 25, 2016 1:20 PM

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It's okay. It's a persons body why must you be against what happens to their body? It will in no way affect you.

Also think about rape victims who were impregnated. Are you suggesting they live their life raising their abusers child? Take a step in their shoes and then tell me if you still think it's not okay.


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Feb 25, 2016 1:48 PM

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I think abortions are merciful. Life is horrible and pointless. Forcing people to exist is cruelty. It's better never to have been.
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Feb 25, 2016 1:52 PM

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I HAVE NEVER SEEN THIS TYPE OF DISCUSSION BEFORE!

OT: I'm just going to leave this here
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@Comic_Sans oh no y arnt ppl dieing i need more ppl dieing rly gud plot avansement jus liek tokyo ghoul if erbudy dies amirite
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I HAVE NEVER SEEN THIS TYPE OF DISCUSSION BEFORE!

OT: I'm just going to leave this here
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I hate it when this happens and I recognize the words and feels like a tape-recorder is unwinding in my head.

I'VE NEVER FELT LIKE THIS BEFORE!
Feb 25, 2016 1:58 PM

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Let's just all admit it. Abortions are obligatory.
Feb 25, 2016 1:59 PM

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Let's just all admit it. Abortions are obligatory.
In all honesty a little population control would go a long way.
Feb 25, 2016 2:04 PM

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I personally dislike the concept of abortion as I see it as cheating someone out of a chance at life. That being said I definitely wouldn't ban it as people living under certain circumstances wouldn't be able to raise a child properly.

And of course the option should definitely be open to rape victims.
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How can you talk about abortion and call it a casual discussion? LOL. This site's forum is amazing in many many ways. I'm not familiar with internet forums, so please forgive me.. But, come on, you don't talk about abortion with your girlfriend or friends in a coffee shop, right? Right? Or maybe I'm the minority here lol.

It is ironic, but I am going to join this casual discussion and give my opinions anyway lol.

Anyway, most of the time abortion is not okay for me, but I'm okay if it's lifethreatening for the mother (not to be pragmatic, but you can make the baby again later, most of the time I think the mother will agree too).

It's also okay for me if the mother is a victim of rape. I mean come on, you can't judge her. If she's mentally stong or has a personality as near as an angel, she'll accept the baby of course. But, if she's traumatized and the baby's reminding her of the rapist, especially if she dreams of a perfect wedding with her prince and building a happy family with him, of course she can't stand that baby and I won't judge her. I'm sure it'll end bad for her and for the child. Don't be a douche now, you may call her weak, but mental breakdown is a real thing. Not everybody's mentally prepared and kind-hearted enough for that sh*t. So don't judge!

I'm also okay if the child is disabled, imperfect, defective or whatever you call it to the point that the child's life will be absolutely miserable. This needs many many many considerations though. The parents conscience and the doctors insights play the main role here. For me, I'm totally okay if the child's blind, and I know I'll have a huge responsibility to make that child's life happy and it's gonna be harder than a normal child. I'm not sure for other kinds of disability and imperfection though, I cannot just say that I'm strong enough to raise any kind of child. It's not just about you and the child, you'll also have to deal with your wife, your family, your financial status (for example, if that child needs to be bedridden all the time), your society (for example, if that child ever get to go to school or college, that's gonna be hard), etc.

Not every people in this world is kind enough to accept those kind of child (the rape victim's child and the child with disability), and not every kind-hearted people is rich and powerful enough to help you.
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Comic_Sans said:
I HAVE NEVER SEEN THIS TYPE OF DISCUSSION BEFORE!

OT: I'm just going to leave this here
I hate it when this happens and I recognize the words and feels like a tape-recorder is unwinding in my head.

I'VE NEVER FELT LIKE THIS BEFORE!
That's probably because you've seen that specific post before
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@Comic_Sans oh no y arnt ppl dieing i need more ppl dieing rly gud plot avansement jus liek tokyo ghoul if erbudy dies amirite
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Feb 25, 2016 2:22 PM

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I think abortions are merciful. Life is horrible and pointless. Forcing people to exist is cruelty. It's better never to have been.


I swear you are a male version of me >_>
Feb 25, 2016 3:26 PM

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I don't believe there are many cercumstances where taking the life of an innocent is justifiable.

There are plenty of alternative options to raising the child should you not have the means or will to provide for it.

You have all benefitted from having the right to exist. How any of you have the audacity to argue that taking other peoples rights to life away is in any way justified when you yourselves actively benefit with every breath you draw from having not been aborted is utterly disgusting.

It's really incredible the ways in which people perform mental gymnastics in order to justify what should obviously be murder.
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I often abort missions in videogames so I do not see anything wrong with it.
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Sure! go ahead go nuts for donuts! Bruh

I remember seeing this video of this woman trying to paint abortion in a nice light then saying "I think it's beautiful I can make a child" after or before she aborted it

That was the one time I was genuinely angered about someone being a giant attention whore

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Feb 25, 2016 4:02 PM

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I would not consider abortion acceptable if the baby is:

1. Younger than 3 months old minimum. (Unless any of the next 3 requirements are met.)

2. Concieved out of rape.

3. The parent's are completely unable to support the child and give it a proper standard of care. (Though I believe people need to pass some basic standardized testing to recieve a permit to concieve a child.) All these poor people breeding like rats is fucking disgusting and just wrong. People who cant raise a child they willingly gave birth to are fucking scum.

4. The woman or child is in danger of death during birth.


I believe that the rights a living thing/robot/anything capable of though deserves is based off of its sentience. A fetus is not a sentient creature. It is just about as intelligent as a worm. Consider this example, you have an advanced robot capable of being programmed into a sapient robot. But at the very moment it is hasnt been programmed. Would it be morally wrong to take destroy this robot? Of course not. Because it doesnt have its programming yet, at the moment it is nothing but a hunk of metal. Likewise, an undeveloped fetus is nothing more than a hunk of flesh.
That robot still has the potential to be a programmed robot. There would be an extra financial cost to build another robot .
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Feb 25, 2016 4:30 PM
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sure its fine for abortion especially if the pregnancy resulted from rape or incest (where the child will have genetic problems that will make the childs life miserable), its also fine to do abortion when the mother is not yet ready for parenting like if she is too young or has no financial security

this thread is like pro-choice vs pro-life, and i side with pro-choice
Feb 25, 2016 4:35 PM

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I don't think fetuses are life - they are things turning into life - so the comparisons to murder I find are a bit silly. That said, I wouldn't really complain if it was illegal since I'm a responsible adult, but it should always be permissible in cases of rape. I also hope that the super conservatives are aware and okay with the fact that forcing unplanned births to occur will significantly increase the amount of people who require welfare and other forms of government aid.
Feb 25, 2016 4:37 PM

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Are you guys so bored that your deliberately making these intensely debatable threads about the same shit just see everyone yell at each-other?
Feb 25, 2016 4:42 PM

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Are you guys so bored that your deliberately making these intensely debatable threads about the same shit just see everyone yell at each-other?


Topics that are debated endlessly like abortion and religion are debated endlessly for a reason. They're discussions worth having.
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Are you guys so bored that your deliberately making these intensely debatable threads about the same shit just see everyone yell at each-other?

Agreed!

This topic is not even casual. That discussion with a girl asking MAL users about her new bonsai's name is casual. Or that discussion where a person asking how often you wash your hair, that is casual.

Maybe this site should make a special room for "serious" discussions.
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chokingasuka said:
Are you guys so bored that your deliberately making these intensely debatable threads about the same shit just see everyone yell at each-other?

Agreed!

This topic is not even casual. That discussion with a girl asking MAL users about her new bonsai's name is casual. Or that discussion where a person asking how often you wash your hair, that is casual.

Maybe this site should make a special room for "serious" discussions.


I wasn't really thinking of it like that but yeah, your right.

This isn't "Casual Discussion" this person had made 2 threads about "Death Penalty" and "Abortion" both in the same Catagory of "Casual Discussion" like I don't care about those topics, people make them every other week and I dont want to see it anymore, they get met with mostly sarcasm at this point, nobody want's to debate about this shit anymore.
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It has no memories, no knowledge, no nothing. Religion is for stupid people to get on with living.
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