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Jan 27, 2016 3:23 PM
#1
In the list of dumb buzzword phrases that are used by idiots, slut shaming makes no sense to me. Can some explain to my little brain? |
Jan 27, 2016 3:33 PM
#2
I always thought it was putting girls down for enjoying sex with a higher number of people in a relatively shorter amount of time. But yeah the reason I find it confusing is because the word slut is already pretty shaming as is. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:35 PM
#3
RiggeeRascal said: /threadI always thought it was putting girls down for enjoying sex with a higher number of people in a relatively shorter amount of time. It's to make people (usually girls) feel bad for acting human about their sexual desires. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:40 PM
#4
I was slut shamed when I lost weight in high school. I ended up getting my braids snatched out of my head by some random guy at school, a trash can being dumped on me once a week, losing a job because someone made a fake Myspace about me, no friends, and getting jumped by two girls which lead to me leaving senior year early. I won't explain to you what it was, because you can look that up. I'm just telling you what can happen as a result of it. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:41 PM
#5
RiggeeRascal said: I always thought it was putting girls down for enjoying sex with a higher number of people in a relatively shorter amount of time. But yeah the reason I find it confusing is because the word slut is already pretty shaming as is. This is my problem. If calling someone a slut is bad then using slut shaming is bad as well. Thank you for the explanation. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:45 PM
#6
Isn't slut shamming basically when you call women slut for dressing provocatively or revealingly? At least thats what I understood anyway. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:45 PM
#7
It's just shaming girls that display promiscuous or tarty behaviour. I don't find these qualities very attractive or desirable myself, but I would never shame someone because of it - that's just messed up. So long as it doesn't harm anyone, people should be allowed to do whatever they want without having obnoxious asshats putting them down for it. |
MoogJan 27, 2016 3:50 PM
Jan 27, 2016 3:48 PM
#8
Moog said: It's just shaming girls that display promiscuous or tarty behaviour. I don't find these qualities very attractive or desirable myself, but I would never shame someone because of it - that's just messed up. So long as it doesn't harm anyone, people should be allowed to do whatever they want without having obnoxious asshats putting them down for it. exactly. It's just like I tell everyone else, I don't think certain traits are desireable, but I won't go out of my way to make someone feel like complete shit just because they have those traits. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:53 PM
#9
Moog said: It's just shaming girls that display promiscuous or tarty behaviour. I don't find these qualities very attractive or desirable myself, but I would never shame someone because of it - that's just messed up. So long as it doesn't harm anyone, people should be allowed to do whatever they want without having obnoxious asshats putting them down for it. People have the right to do what they want. They also have the right to be judged. People say mean things about everyone. "Republicans are redneck retards." "Liberals are pussies." Not trying to justify that, but it is a fact of life. |
Jan 27, 2016 3:57 PM
#10
slut shaming is basically when people put a girl down for enjoying sex or having more than " ONE HOLY SEXUAL PARTNER@!>@!@>!@!!!! " Meanwhile, generally if a guy does it, they get praise. But it gets people pissed because why would you get mad at someone for being human? It's no ones business what anyone does with their body as long as they're being responsible. Also people get slut shamed for the clothes they wear like me because I wear shorts in the winter but hoes never get cold . Aside from that, people should just cool it with slut shaming eachother. Don't be mad that they're getting it and you're not. |
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Jan 27, 2016 4:02 PM
#11
Its an example of how much more women are degraded than men because a guy can go around, fuck every girl in a 10 mile radius and he's some sorta cool guy that everyone praises but if a girl does that she's shamed and called a slut who has no respect for herself. It's yet another stupid thing society decided is right too do. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:02 PM
#12
It's what people do to me when i wear nothing but a speedo to lectures. #FuckThePatriarchy |
Jan 27, 2016 4:09 PM
#13
It's not just women who sleep around, men do to, so they are all sluts and should be equally treated as such. |
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Jan 27, 2016 4:09 PM
#14
I find randon women at the park with revealing clothing and throw pies at them while yelling that they are sluts who like to get cream pied. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:10 PM
#15
Veneficia said: I find randon women at the park with revealing clothing and throw pies at them while yelling that they are sluts who like to get cream pied. what kind of creampie are we talking about? |
Jan 27, 2016 4:10 PM
#16
sluts are people too just because you cant get dick or that dank pussy |
Jan 27, 2016 4:11 PM
#17
Jan 27, 2016 4:13 PM
#18
PoeticJustice said: Veneficia said: I find randon women at the park with revealing clothing and throw pies at them while yelling that they are sluts who like to get cream pied. what kind of creampie are we talking about? Just the pie crust and the basic cool whip it's easier and cheaper to make. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:13 PM
#19
PoeticJustice said: In the list of dumb buzzword phrases that are used by idiots Sorry, I don't talk to idiot-shamers. I think it's similar to that, just attaching shame to anything. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:15 PM
#20
chokingasuka said: Its an example of how much more women are degraded than men because a guy can go around, fuck every girl in a 10 mile radius and he's some sorta cool guy that everyone praises Except around here, where such a man is shamed as been shallow and probably closet gay and thats why he looks after his body and is attractive towards women because he's insecure unlike anime watchers who know how to respect someone they sleep with!...when they sleep with them and also not tipping of the fedora enough m'lady. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:17 PM
#21
KonaKoffee4 said: Moog said: It's just shaming girls that display promiscuous or tarty behaviour. I don't find these qualities very attractive or desirable myself, but I would never shame someone because of it - that's just messed up. So long as it doesn't harm anyone, people should be allowed to do whatever they want without having obnoxious asshats putting them down for it. exactly. It's just like I tell everyone else, I don't think certain traits are desireable, but I won't go out of my way to make someone feel like complete shit just because they have those traits. Yup, I completely agree. PoeticJustice said: Moog said: It's just shaming girls that display promiscuous or tarty behaviour. I don't find these qualities very attractive or desirable myself, but I would never shame someone because of it - that's just messed up. So long as it doesn't harm anyone, people should be allowed to do whatever they want without having obnoxious asshats putting them down for it. People have the right to do what they want. They also have the right to be judged. People say mean things about everyone. "Republicans are redneck retards." "Liberals are pussies." Not trying to justify that, but it is a fact of life. Obviously, but there's a difference between judging someone, and actively shaming, harassing and bullying them because of a way they act. Stuff like slut shaming also oftentimes targets single individuals, in contrast to just saying mean things to a large group of people in general, like republicans or liberals. There is a difference between judging someone, and actively targeting them in a hostile manner and putting them down for no reason other than the fact that you don't approve of them. I am by no means in support of political correctness; in fact, I think it's a threat to freedom of speech, but treating other people like shit because of harmless behaviour is just distasteful and in bad character. Just because you have the right to do whatever you want, doesn't mean that you should take advantage of that right and justify being a dick towards people, just because you don't like them. |
MoogJan 27, 2016 4:20 PM
Jan 27, 2016 4:19 PM
#22
Themisto said: PoeticJustice said: In the list of dumb buzzword phrases that are used by idiots Sorry, I don't talk to idiot-shamers. I think it's similar to that, just attaching shame to anything. You are idiot-shaming-shaming. WE NEED TO STOP ALL THE SHAMING. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:20 PM
#23
the whole if a girl has a ton of sex she's a slut and should be shamed but if a guy has a bunch of sex he's considered a hero it's like how "men can't be raped" or "men can't be abused" but just "women can't have sex with multiple people" kind of things. It's bad. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:20 PM
#24
Moog said: My thoughts exactly. I honestly don't see why slut-shaming is a thing, anyway.It's just shaming girls that display promiscuous or tarty behaviour. I don't find these qualities very attractive or desirable myself, but I would never shame someone because of it - that's just messed up. So long as it doesn't harm anyone, people should be allowed to do whatever they want without having obnoxious asshats putting them down for it. |
Jan 27, 2016 4:30 PM
#25
Jan 27, 2016 4:49 PM
#26
Basically feminists finding women they don't consider true feminists and slandering them. |
Jan 27, 2016 5:45 PM
#27
Shaming people is bad, yo. That being said, I don't have to agree with everyone's behavior. I'm allowed to have my own set of standards and morals. The issue comes when you start expecting everyone to live by that code. Also, doing it to females specifically is a double standard, and that's pretty messed up. I don't particularly care for casual relationships from either gender. |
Jan 27, 2016 6:00 PM
#28
It's just the whole shes a slut and hes a stud double standard at play. |
Jan 27, 2016 6:02 PM
#29
I guess if women are the product and men the consumer, used goods is deserving of besmirchment |
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Jan 27, 2016 6:14 PM
#30
Whoresome-Jack said: I guess if women are the product and men the consumer, used goods is deserving of besmirchment This makes no sense whatsoever. You okay? |
Jan 27, 2016 6:20 PM
#31
Whoresome-Jack said: I guess if women are the product and men the consumer, used goods is deserving of besmirchment This is one way of looking at it Some guys like their products new and pristine Prob where this "objectification" stuff comes from |
Jan 27, 2016 6:20 PM
#32
ginkoshi said: Whoresome-Jack said: I guess if women are the product and men the consumer, used goods is deserving of besmirchment This makes no sense whatsoever. You okay? She is making a joke. Calm down please. |
Jan 27, 2016 6:24 PM
#33
It's just being a jerk to someone only for sleeping around or trying to. There is nothing wrong with criticizing someone for being promiscuous because of the dangers it would put them in and all the drama they would stir up but there are better ways to do it. It's best to keep it with people you actually know and care about, strangers wont really listen to you anyway. |
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Jan 27, 2016 7:03 PM
#34
Jan 27, 2016 7:36 PM
#35
The reason why slut shaming exists to begin with, is due to historical reasons. Most of our history, women has not been able to have sex without it may have resulted in a child. A child craves resources, and without a father, the mother and that child would be a burden on the community. A man does not give birth, nor is he very useful during the first time in a child's life time. We may not even know who the actual father is, which made it even more important to stay faithful. A woman was instead encouraged to find a good man who could provide for her and their children. It wasn't the sex itself that made it so important to shame people, but it's consequences. A wife and her husband could have all the crazy sex they wanted without any shaming. Now you wonder why this is still the case with all the pills and everything, but it takes time for a culture to evolve and adapt to it's new enviroment. Then of course, and I think this is actually more likely the case. If someone has anything against you, jealousy, etc, then they will take advantage of this opportunity. |
Jan 28, 2016 1:57 AM
#36
Slut-shaming is when you assign negative moral value to having sex with a lot of people. It's mostly targeted at females. For example, slut-shamers would think that if a certain girl had sex with 50 guys, she's done something terrible and isn't worthy. |
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Jan 28, 2016 2:13 AM
#37
in nepal if you're female slut then you're called valu which means BEAR and if you're male slut/stud then they call you BOKA which means he-goat...honestly i don't know what's exactly is slut shaming means but i see it quite often this term is used by feminazis so i'll not try to think very hard |
mountainheartJan 28, 2016 2:18 AM
Jan 28, 2016 2:37 AM
#38
basically i dont want a girl who has had 50 dicks in her vagina in the passed sorry not sorry |
Jan 28, 2016 8:55 AM
#39
There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. |
Jan 28, 2016 9:14 AM
#40
For some men it's a real achievement to have many different sex partners, wouldn't it be the same for some women? To be honest it puts me off, whether it's a guy or girl. But since it's none of my damn business, I keep my mouth shut. |
Jan 28, 2016 9:25 AM
#41
Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What about us guys, is the same for us? Are we slags if sleep with many men? |
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Jan 28, 2016 10:49 AM
#42
Sexymofo said: Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What about us guys, is the same for us? Are we slags if sleep with many men? Do you even have to ask? The answer is pretty obvious. |
Jan 29, 2016 12:50 AM
#43
Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What's so harmful about having sex with so many people? |
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Jan 29, 2016 1:09 AM
#44
- Being made fun of for being a very sexual person - For being a professional sex worker - For having multiple partners - Or just having lots of sex I don't see any problem with those above things unless they have STDs, are already in a relationship, are not being honest, or just being unsafe and unclean in general. We should focus on shaming people who knowingly spread their STDs and commit sex crimes.. i'm so tired of people getting pissed about stupid shit like girls having a lot of clean & safe sex. |
Jan 29, 2016 3:38 AM
#45
TheBrainintheJar said: Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What's so harmful about having sex with so many people? Shows a lack of loyalty, possibility of STIs, and studies show that a woman's happiness decreases with her lifetime number of partners. But I suppose you love pushing degenerate agenda, don't you, you israeli fuck? |
Jan 29, 2016 3:49 AM
#46
Mr__Wolf said: TheBrainintheJar said: Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What's so harmful about having sex with so many people? Shows a lack of loyalty, possibility of STIs, and studies show that a woman's happiness decreases with her lifetime number of partners. But I suppose you love pushing degenerate agenda, don't you, you israeli fuck? Lack of loyalty? How so? Loyalty is judged when you're in a committed relationship. There's no one to be loyal to when you're not in one. Happiness decrease and STI's are the woman's own demons. They're not a moral problem. |
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Jan 29, 2016 3:59 AM
#47
TheBrainintheJar said: Mr__Wolf said: TheBrainintheJar said: Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What's so harmful about having sex with so many people? Shows a lack of loyalty, possibility of STIs, and studies show that a woman's happiness decreases with her lifetime number of partners. But I suppose you love pushing degenerate agenda, don't you, you israeli fuck? Lack of loyalty? How so? Loyalty is judged when you're in a committed relationship. There's no one to be loyal to when you're not in one. Happiness decrease and STI's are the woman's own demons. They're not a moral problem. Morality is a human construct, it changes with the times. Liberalism, you'll find, often leads to failed seeking. If somebody wants to act like an animal, I'll treat them like an animal. |
Jan 29, 2016 4:07 AM
#48
Slut shaming is quite an interesting word, rather than following the literal definition it means something else entirely, it's a power word use by debate masters whenver goodwin's law is not applicable in an argument. |
Jan 29, 2016 4:17 AM
#49
Mr__Wolf said: TheBrainintheJar said: Mr__Wolf said: TheBrainintheJar said: Andomarn said: There is no such thing as "slut-shaming". Being a slut you should already be ashamed of yourself. Having sex with twenty different people every month doesn't make you anything other than a slag, a disgrace to society. The amount of people you've slept with doesn't equal to how superior you may think you are, but rather how disgusting you are. What's so harmful about having sex with so many people? Shows a lack of loyalty, possibility of STIs, and studies show that a woman's happiness decreases with her lifetime number of partners. But I suppose you love pushing degenerate agenda, don't you, you israeli fuck? Lack of loyalty? How so? Loyalty is judged when you're in a committed relationship. There's no one to be loyal to when you're not in one. Happiness decrease and STI's are the woman's own demons. They're not a moral problem. Morality is a human construct, it changes with the times. Liberalism, you'll find, often leads to failed seeking. If somebody wants to act like an animal, I'll treat them like an animal. lol Wolf and Andomarn are jokers. I'm a guy so don't try to bs me after you read this post. Let's be honest, if you two weren't in serious relationships and you could sleep with any girl at anytime, your willies would be sore. Let's be honest! Don't be like that just because you don't get any in real life. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sex, sex is a beautiful thing. Just be loyal when you're in a relationship. And wear a condom! |
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