| Excitement, maybe? I dunno. I wouldn't mind the experience. :) |
| yeah, because things people say in an asian movie must reflect what girls want irl |
Mayuka said: yeah, because things people say in an asian movie must reflect what girls want irl Most teenage girls tend to go for those types, lets not try denying reality on personal experience. As for the question it stands to reason that the stereotyping of society comes into play bad boys on motorcycles sweeping you off your feet and defending you with his great bod is something most women through the ages have been unable to shake secretly yearning for. Ever since the time of knights in shining armor riding to you on a horse. Do you think younger woman and teenage girls want the nerdy outcast guy because they can see your inner beauty? in general probably not, the younger we are the more we tend to be driven more by our animal sides. Males seek to impress and improve the female responds well to the confident bad boy male who dominates the weaker males around him. Only as we grow older does our taste in what we expect in a partner gets more complicated but that in built desire for the alpha male is still a strong impulse in women as is the males desire for a woman of breeding shape, good hips, bigger breasts ect. Its mainly subconscious but its still there. |
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rebornnora said: idk where the female mind logic is "Why do these females prefer confident, dominating males?" Seriously? |
Spooks said: they do? i've never met any bad boy in my all asian school //shrugs//Mayuka said: yeah, because things people say in an asian movie must reflect what girls want irl Most teenage girls tend to go for those types, lets not try denying reality on personal experience. girls tend to go for the guy who's a bit stupid but are really funny and happy to be around, or at least those are the only guys that get any girlfriends in my school |
Mayuka said: Spooks said: they do? i've never met any bad boy in my all asian school //shrugs//Most teenage girls tend to go for those types, lets not try denying reality on personal experience. girls tend to go for the guy who's a bit stupid but are really funny and happy to be around, or at least those are the only guys that get any girlfriends in my school Different girls like different kinds of people. Some girls like the "bad boy" type. Some like the type you described. |
| I guess you could say that I like that type to some degree. I like someone who is a little rough around the edges yet a genuinely good person deep down. It comes off as very endearing to me, even if it can be hard to deal with occasionally. |
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Rarusu_ said: Because those girls are immature and weak. Bad boys are fun in the short run. It's like alcohol, and then the hangover comes. Good analogy, only this hangover usually involves crying babies and a lot of debt. |
| Evolutionary psychology. Girls don't go for creepy bad, they go for "bad" bad, assholes in other words. In time immemorial those were the men who would bring home food, fearless, confident, cocky, they weren't afraid to punch someone in the face or even kill if it meant advancing their positions in the tribe. Women seek power in their mates, it's just biological. Like it or not, they don't like "bad boys" and hate "nice guys" a lot of "bad boys" are nice too, actually the only real difference between a nice guy and a bad boy is that one defines their entire personality with a single four letter word. nothing but beta cucks itt. Beta cucks and a few women. |
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Lothloran said: That's all nice in theory and all, but generally most girls judgement of "attractive bad" as you say, very well ends up to be "creepy bad" because the ideological dream guy you just described is about as real as aliens.Evolutionary psychology. Girls don't go for creepy bad, they go for "bad" bad, assholes in other words. In time immemorial those were the men who would bring home food, fearless, confident, cocky, they weren't afraid to punch someone in the face or even kill if it meant advancing their positions in the tribe. Women seek power in their mates, it's just biological. Like it or not, they don't like "bad boys" and hate "nice guys" a lot of "bad boys" are nice too, actually the only real difference between a nice guy and a bad boy is that one defines their entire personality with a single four letter word. nothing but beta cucks itt. Beta cucks and a few women. |
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Pesticyde said: Lothloran said: That's all nice in theory and all, but generally most girls judgement of "attractive bad" as you say, very well ends up to be "creepy bad" because the ideological dream guy you just described is about as real as aliens.Evolutionary psychology. Girls don't go for creepy bad, they go for "bad" bad, assholes in other words. In time immemorial those were the men who would bring home food, fearless, confident, cocky, they weren't afraid to punch someone in the face or even kill if it meant advancing their positions in the tribe. Women seek power in their mates, it's just biological. Like it or not, they don't like "bad boys" and hate "nice guys" a lot of "bad boys" are nice too, actually the only real difference between a nice guy and a bad boy is that one defines their entire personality with a single four letter word. nothing but beta cucks itt. Beta cucks and a few women. It's not a theory it's essentially considered a fact of anthropsychology. Creepy bad means you'd have to be a hybristophiliac to go with them. A study from (I forget where) concluded that women who return to quote unquote abusive partners return because on a base level they know they provoked the abuse. Women aren't stupid. Mod Edit: Bait Removed |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:38 PM
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Lothloran said: I'm not blaming anything on anyone cuz, I'm talking about the amount of times I've had to treat broken noses and black eyes on some of my closest friends because their bad boys had a temper.Pesticyde said: That's all nice in theory and all, but generally most girls judgement of "attractive bad" as you say, very well ends up to be "creepy bad" because the ideological dream guy you just described is about as real as aliens. It's not a theory it's essentially considered a fact of anthropsychology. If there is one thing you are saying though, its that females are naturally gold diggers who depend on men to bring everything to the table because they're too weak to provide for themselves. Mod Edit: Modified quote of edited post and bait removed. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:39 PM
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Pesticyde said: If there is one thing you are saying though, its that females are naturally gold diggers Er...no they weren't. They were saying that the biological desire to seek out strong leader males is inherent in women, you got gold digger from that one. Many independent women seek out the stronger males to make their coupling in turn stronger. Ive known successful business owner women who still picked the alpha male type as a partner because even when self successful they're not biologically turned onto the creepy blame everyone else for my life guys. They see qualities they find in themselves reflected in the bad boy take charge leader types. Mod Edit: Modified quote of edited post. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:40 PM
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| They want someone who shows their sensitive side too. If you can be a bad boy, but also show your sensitive side to her, whilst staying true to your ideals you'll get laid. |
Trance said: I'm a guy and I can imagine buttfucking another guy. I don't find the thought repulsive, and I can even imagine kissing another man. |
Rarusu_ said: Lothloran said: Evolutionary psychology. Girls don't go for creepy bad, they go for "bad" bad, assholes in other words. In time immemorial those were the men who would bring home food, fearless, confident, cocky, they weren't afraid to punch someone in the face or even kill if it meant advancing their positions in the tribe. Women seek power in their mates, it's just biological. Like it or not, they don't like "bad boys" and hate "nice guys" a lot of "bad boys" are nice too, actually the only real difference between a nice guy and a bad boy is that one defines their entire personality with a single four letter word. nothing but beta cucks itt. Beta cucks and a few women. The misogyny is strong here. Why did you just not say "females think with their ovaries". The alpha vs. beta theory is just a theory. If it were true, humans would have been inbred as fuck now. Musicians, comedians, teachers, scientists, etc, etc, would never have existed. Only cave men. ROFL. That's a really strong jump, I say women want strong, dominant, confident males and that's misogyny somehow. Also. For the record, the people alive now are the byproduct of prehistoric sister rape. There's a reason everyone on earth is at the most 64th cousins. We're *all* related to some degree. Explain that if there wasn't a fuck don of inbreeding. Mod Edit: Removed baiting. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:44 PM
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Lothloran said: Rarusu_ said: The misogyny is strong here. Why did you just not say "females think with their ovaries". The alpha vs. beta theory is just a theory. If it were true, humans would have been inbred as fuck now. Musicians, comedians, teachers, scientists, etc, etc, would never have existed. Only cave men. ROFL. That's a really strong jump. Also. For the record, the people alive now are the byproduct of prehistoric sister rape. There's a reason everyone on earth is at the bare minimum 64th cousins. We're *all* related to some degree. Explain that if there wasn't a fuck don of inbreeding. Maybe it's because humanity is quite interconnected? Also, you're proposing the whole theory so why is it the other side who has to explain anything at all? |
| your waifu is shit |
| Because they only care about sex I guess. |
Eminem said: Because they only care about sex I guess. Relatively little to do with sex, more to do with status. The "big, dumb, buff assholes who would rather go to the gym than take their girl to a candlelit dinner" are the guys no one wants to get into a physical confrontation with. Something that baffles me about today's society is how afraid of violence everyone is that your imidate thought was sex instead of status. Power is all that matters in the world, whether it's the zeta male and his unorthodox powers of intelligence or the traditional alpha male with his physical strength and confident stature. Mod Edit: Removed baiting. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:47 PM
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| because they must be fucking masochists. |
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| Moronic isn't even a word I would use but it best describes their emotions. |
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Rarusu_ said: Lothloran said: ROFL. That's a really strong jump, I say women want strong, dominant, confident males and that's misogyny somehow. Also. For the record, the people alive now are the byproduct of prehistoric sister rape. There's a reason everyone on earth is at the most 64th cousins. We're *all* related to some degree. Explain that if there wasn't a fuck don of inbreeding. So does men in women, and? That is not what a bad boy or person in general is. It's easier to fuck others. 64 generations back is not back to prehistoric era... Confucius is about 80 generations back. It's simply because there weren't as many people back then, which only proves my point even more. If we would have had 100% genuine ancestors in our family tree, then there would have been more people back then, than it actually were. We're not talking about generations, we're talking about cousins. For the record, it's estimated that human beings as we know them go back about 300 generations. Think about it this way. You have two biological parents. And four biological grand parents. And eight biological great grand parents and 16 biological great great grand parents and 32 biological 3xgreat grandparents and 64 biological 4xgreat grandparents. That's only going back 5 generations. Now if you scale this back even to the days of Rome and Julius Caeser (about 100 generations) You would have more people than have ever been alive (estimated about 24-35billion since the dawn of humanity roughly 60-100thousand years ago) Go back 11 generations and you have 2048 "great great great.... great grand parents" 14 generations ago YOU personally have 16384 "great great great... great great grand parents" That's 14 generations. Now how big do you think 100 generations or 250 generations might be? It's the chess board rice grain trick. It keeps multiplying every generation by two. Mod Edit: Modified quote of edited post and removed insult. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:50 PM
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| You're only supposed to hu with those kinds of ppl |
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| Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position. |
Rarusu_ said: Lothloran said: We're not talking about generations, we're talking about cousins. For the record, it's estimated that human beings as we know them go back about 300 generations. Think about it this way. You have two biological parents. And four biological grand parents. And eight biological great grand parents and 16 biological great great grand parents and 32 biological 3xgreat grandparents and 64 biological 4xgreat grandparents. That's only going back 5 generations. Now if you scale this back even to the days of Rome and Julius Caeser (about 100 generations) You would have more people than have ever been alive (estimated about 24-35billion since the dawn of humanity roughly 60-100thousand years ago) It's the chess board rice grain trick. It keeps multiplying every generation by two. If you and I are 64th cousins, that means we have a common ancestor about 64 generations back. I can do the math, thank you, which I also have stated. It would have lived more people than it actually did if we had 100% genuine ancestors. Therefore the "inbreeding". Nothing to do with alpha/beta theories. That we have a common ancestor is because it all started at some point. Then of course, everyone has not been able to breed historically, either due to selection or due to infertility. You're not following this through to the logical conclusion point. If 200-300 generations back there were more people in your personal family tree than have ever lived. Someone (likely A LOT OF PEOPLE) were fucking their sisters, cousins and mothers. Deal with it. Mod Edit: Modified quote of edited post. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:53 PM
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| Mentality that you can change them like nurturing/bad boys are confident and that's just something that turns girls on/dangerous and exciting. |
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| Because their lives are boring, so they seek excitement through "bad boys". |
worldeditor11 said: Because she is a masochist (like the MC from Diabolik Lovers?). That's ridiculous, no real woman would be that naive irl unless they're addicted to drugs or alcohol. |
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| They get a bad boy so that the guy treats them like shit and then they can bitch about how all men are the same. Hypocrisy at its finest. |
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| Girls aren't attracted to bad boys. 'Bad boys' just know how to emotionally engage people. They make them react. If you make people react to you that generally makes you more attractive. That's why lead singers often have the most groupies. They attract attention. There are also attractive guys who are not 'bad boys' because they know how to grab attention without being assholes. Being sexually attractive simply means you can sexually harass longer without consequences. |
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| From what I see, its generally because they seek adventure and mystery... Which generally is sought out at a teenage age when hormones are all over the place and the urge of wanting freedom from parents/school/life comes in play. Tldr , its escapism. |
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| My dad kinda explained this to me, vaguely though. He said that girls (okay, a select few, probably the ones that go on Tumblr/Instagram all day and talk about how successful they'll be in the future and in reality are still looking for a job to match up their art degree) tend to go for bad guys because it fulfills a safety need, remember Maslow's hierarchy of needs, #2? Pretty much that. When they're with a bad guy, under the assumption that they're there protecting them, the girl [supposedly] feels safe. Which kinda makes sense. Would you ever run to a nice guy pacifist for protection? Same concept. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
| It is because of ignorance, intrigue and in some cases, rebellious streaks. |
| "Let Justice Be Done!" My Theme Fight again, fight again for justice! |
| Because they are still better than "good guys". |
| Not sure, I grew out of the simplistic "bad boys" and "nice guys" labelling when I was 15. |
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| Yeah, kind of along what SnugglyWhuggly said, I think it's useful to step back and ask what exactly a "bad boy" is to begin with. Are we talking about abusive assholes? Because if the question is "why does this guy have a girlfriend," it might be for the very fact that he's an abusive asshole : / Abusers are masters of manipulation. Let's not blame the girlfriend for being trapped in a scary situation, you know? Generally speaking, it's easier to break up with crazy ex girlfriends than crazy ex boyfriends. Not to undermine the toxicity of crazy ex girlfriends (I've met some scary ones in my friend circle, lemme tell ya), but with boyfriends you're more likely to be physically assaulted or stalked. So instead of treating a girl in this situation as some bimbo, maybe it would be better to think of her as trapped and realizing her situation too late... In terms of "oooh cool motorcycle guy with a dark past and a secret heart of gold bad boy"... That's pretty interesting to me actually xD I think often these kind of characters are alluring in fiction at least because they promise adventure on some level. With the "nice guy" you'll probably get married and have kids. With the "bad boy" you'll ride into the sunset on that motorcycle or whatever. I think that's the appeal of the fantasy, and unfortunately it doesn't translate overly well to real life. In this case, though, is it still the fault of the girls? Particularly teenagers? I mean, if we're gonna feed girls stories where the only interesting love interest is the bad boy trope or the hyper masculine trope, is it really such a huge surprise that they wind up looking for that sort of situation irl? It's not like girls are stupid and can't separate fiction from reality at every turn, but I do think there's a societal thing going on here, rather than just something happening within girls with no outside context. I dunno, I guess tl;dr maybe girls aren't immediately to blame here |
| all girls want a bad boy who is only good for them lol but yeah that is a terrible idea...i just want a nice boy who will spend lots of time with me =) |
shotz_ said: Fintan said: pretty much the most reality-grounded post in this thread tbhMost guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position. While I dislike the bad boy/nice guy dichotomy, haven't we learned already that we don't choose good people for relationships, often? Sexual attraction means you're good at arousing people, not that you're a good person to be in a relationship. |
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| It's definitely the excitement of someone who is naughty over someone who who is good and does what they are told. |
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| I have never liked bad boys myself. Bad boys hit on girls often where as shy guys don't, which could be why it seems like girls like bad boys more. I have dated bad boys in the past, but those relationships were shorter than with the decent guys. I have been with my man for four years and he is nothing close to a bad boy. I just hope most girls know that if they want a long lasting relationship to choose the right guy, whether he seems like a bad boy or a good boy. Just choose whoever is best for you. |
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KonaKoffee4 said: I have never liked bad boys myself. Bad boys hit on girls often where as shy guys don't, which could be why it seems like girls like bad boys more. I have dated bad boys in the past, but those relationships were shorter than with the decent guys. I have been with my man for four years and he is nothing close to a bad boy. I just hope most girls know that if they want a long lasting relationship to choose the right guy, whether he seems like a bad boy or a good boy. Just choose whoever is best for you. yeah i think it's pretty often shy guys who just don't really interact with women in the first place. or just generally unattractive people. past a certain age i don't think the bad boy thing is as attractive compared to other qualities |
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shotz_ said: Fintan only speaks the truth! :PFintan said: pretty much the most reality-grounded post in this thread tbhMost guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position. Mod Edit: Removed quote of deleted post. |
shawnofthedeadzJan 2, 2016 10:58 PM
truisms said: KonaKoffee4 said: I have never liked bad boys myself. Bad boys hit on girls often where as shy guys don't, which could be why it seems like girls like bad boys more. I have dated bad boys in the past, but those relationships were shorter than with the decent guys. I have been with my man for four years and he is nothing close to a bad boy. I just hope most girls know that if they want a long lasting relationship to choose the right guy, whether he seems like a bad boy or a good boy. Just choose whoever is best for you. yeah i think it's pretty often shy guys who just don't really interact with women in the first place. or just generally unattractive people. past a certain age i don't think the bad boy thing is as attractive compared to other qualities Yea this is true. The other thing is that "bad" can be subjective. I have seen so many guys complain about girls wanting bad boys and how they are so nice, when in reality those "nice" guys aren't nice at all and sometimes can be worse. People just need to pick the best person for them and not focus on superficial traits. |
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