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Jul 28, 2014 12:02 PM
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I think it is over-rated, especially as a website for socializing with people. Let me explain why.

I have 164 friends on Facebook. That seems like a lot of friends right? Except very rarely do my so-called friends on Facebook ever reply back to the messages in the chatbox I send to them. Even when I had over 600 friends on my previous Facebook account, people RARELY responded to my chatbox messages. So chances are very few of my so-called friends on Facebook actually know me.

If you want to socialize with people online in a fast and fun manner, you are better off posting on a really popular online forum like Reddit, 4chan, ign.com or gamespot. You can get much faster and funner replies on a forum like that than Facebook.

In fact, about the only thing Facebook is good for is showing off how glamorous your life style is. And occasionally chatting with a few friends that live far, far away from you, but that's about it. Having several hundred (and even several thousand) friends on Facebook is POINTLESS, and it does not make for a better social life online. If you want a good social life, just post on a popular online forum or chatroom. Facebook is NOT a good place for an online social life.
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Jul 28, 2014 12:05 PM
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I use it to keep in contact with some people, but I never post stuff on timelines. I also like to play some Facebook games, please don't judge me.
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Jul 28, 2014 12:06 PM
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I don't have any friends and I'm too weird, so my Facebook page remained empty until I deleted it.
Jul 28, 2014 12:06 PM
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I don't use it. So I really don't care about it.
Jul 28, 2014 12:11 PM
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I used it to keep up with old friends for a long time.

Then I realize I rarely talked to them any longer and the website was just selling my info for advertising, therefore it was deleted.

Facebook is a cancer that should fall off the face of the planet.
Jul 28, 2014 12:22 PM
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It's good for staying in touch with friends and organizing events, etc.

Very helpful if you have a social life

I need to make an account at some point
Want to talk?
Club!

"Would you like an anti-psychotic?"

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Jul 28, 2014 12:27 PM
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It's nice for staying in touch with friends and family. I've accumulate like 200 friends since I joined in 2007 but I don't care for 75% of them, lol.

I don't really use Facebook. I check in on it a couple of times a day.
Jul 28, 2014 12:31 PM
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Don't care about it.

I log on once every few weeks to keep in touch with old friends, that's about it.


iRapeLolis said:

I think you should be busy killing yourself rather than posting here.


That came out of nowhere... are you projecting your own suicidal tendencies onto the OP?
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Jul 28, 2014 12:33 PM
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It's quite impossible to have social life here without it. It helps even in college, sharing materials, organizing some stuff we have to do in groups...
There are a few people that do not have a profile here, but they always depend on someone that has one for a lot of things.
Jul 28, 2014 12:34 PM
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It is a usefull tool to stay in contact with people you do not meet that often in a year.

I also use it as a tool to keep the contact with my old friends from school time.
Jul 28, 2014 12:34 PM

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I only use it because reading my news feed and replying can be fun,

but to house/ keep going actual friendships? Nope.
"Fuck this shit, fun things are fun!"
Jul 28, 2014 12:34 PM

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It causes more bad than good.
Jul 28, 2014 12:36 PM

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I have never had a Facebook account, and never will. If I wanted to talk to a member of my family that lives far away, I'd just call them on the phone.

Jul 28, 2014 12:38 PM
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Its great for me, its where i group chat with my best mates and find the most hilarious videos there.
Just stay away from the disgusting side of it.
Jul 28, 2014 12:40 PM

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i deleted mine 5 years ago cause it was boring. it doesn't seem any better today - maybe even worse from what i've heard


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Jul 28, 2014 12:46 PM

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I have a few good uses for it,

first of all we use it to plan dates for parties, we make polls and everyone can vote for days they are available.

Secondly, I have a friend who lives abroad (who studies here in Holland) that can't respond on his phone when he's at home, thanks to facebook we can still communicate.

Last but not least, I can't remember birthdays myself - Facebook can...
Jul 28, 2014 12:50 PM

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it IS useful as a tool to keep in touch with people that you haven't talked to in a while.

I don't use it anywhere near as much as when I first got a facebook in 12th grade. I used it a lot back then to chat with various high school friends and see what they were doing. Well I was also still using my myspace at the time too, it hadn't compeletly died out yet but was on the decline though.

Nowadays though I don't use facebook as much. I barely even use it to talk to old friends anymore. One of the anime clubs I'm apart of organizes events through facebook so I always check their page somewhat frequently.

Other than that though. I average logging in about twice per day, for about 5-10 min per session. I just scroll down my newsfeed to see what people are doing. Sometimes its interesting or funny. For some reason my facebook auto-plays videos that people post onto the newsfeed, that shit is annoying.
Jul 28, 2014 12:52 PM

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Facebook does provide some golden comedy every once in a while:

http://myanimelist.net/forum/?topicid=578947

gotcha
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Jul 28, 2014 12:54 PM

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Its okay i guess.

Jul 28, 2014 1:24 PM
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Use it, don't abuse it. Good for keeping contacts with some friends and relatives, bad for seeing everybody's shit everyday and making a problem about it.
Jul 28, 2014 1:25 PM

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I only use it for chatting (which I rarely do nowadays).
Jul 28, 2014 1:30 PM

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I barely use Facebook. I just go there to chat with some friends that I already know IRL.

DesuMaiden said:
I have 164 friends on Facebook. That seems like a lot of friends right?


Actually, not.

iRapeLolis said:
and also
>implying that reddit and 4chan aren't cancer


This.
Jul 28, 2014 1:48 PM

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i use it to look at pics of hot girls at school
RRRRRRRRRR
Jul 28, 2014 2:24 PM

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I deleted my facebook account a couple months ago. Everyone on there was a complete tool. Tumblr is so much better.

I had an anime club on Facebook and some cool pages, but even those weren't worth it.
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Jul 28, 2014 2:27 PM

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I don't use Facebook.
Jul 28, 2014 2:28 PM
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it's k as an 'everyone has it' messaging client, and mighty nice for anything related university project work. other than that, i don't care for it much anymore.
Jul 28, 2014 2:34 PM

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KaniowskiKun101 said:
Everyone on there was a complete tool. Tumblr is so much better.


HAHAHAHAAHAHAAH
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Jul 28, 2014 2:35 PM
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DerpHole said:
KaniowskiKun101 said:
Everyone on there was a complete tool. Tumblr is so much better.


HAHAHAHAAHAHAAH
i missed this post. let me laugh too.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Jul 28, 2014 2:40 PM

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I deleted or rather "deactivated my account" 4 years ago. I had absolutely no use for Facebook.

I'm not really that interested in other people's lives nor am I very interested in sharing my own.
Jul 28, 2014 2:40 PM
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beavis2323 said:
i use it to look at pics of hot girls at school
I-I still do that

Heredity said:
DerpHole said:


HAHAHAHAAHAHAAH
i missed this post. let me laugh too.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Can I join the party?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Jul 28, 2014 3:11 PM

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pretty much satan
Jul 28, 2014 3:58 PM

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Pretty useful for advertising/networking for people who would otherwise struggle to gain exposure. A lot of indie dev teams for video games have climbed the ladder with the use of facebook so it's definitely a powerful tool for business and generating interest for things.

Daily glimpses into peoples lives... is not necessary though. It blows my mind that people sit there refreshing their webpages/phones just to like peoples meaningless updates for hours on end.
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Jul 28, 2014 4:02 PM

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I rarely use facebook so I made a fake account just so facebook couldn't steal my data and use it for following pages etc..
I've been here way too long...
Jul 28, 2014 4:04 PM
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i have one but all the people I added from school rejected my friends requests. I think I have just over 20 friends on there and they're all family members. I don't really use it much tbh
Jul 28, 2014 4:12 PM
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cristiankim93 said:
I don't have one.
An opinion?
Jul 28, 2014 4:12 PM
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Assuming almost no one here has any real social life, I can understand the answers.

Facebook is useful portal that keeps track of what's going on in your friends/family's lives. They post updates (or fotos) about something in their lives, and if they're your friends/family and you actually care about them, you should feel for them. It's a good way to see how it's going for everyone, basically. It can also keep you in contact with some friends, old, as it's a very big network who has hundred of million people on so there's a chance you'd find old friends (found 3-4 very close friends so far), or new, and you can chat with them for example. But again, if you don't have friends or family then I don't see how it can be useful for you.

I have a 5-7 yo Facebook account I still use until now. I don't post much on it, but I find it pretty entertaining as it does all of the above, and you can follow new updates from things you like, like people or bands or books or anime or something. And I chat with some people as well.
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Jul 28, 2014 4:40 PM

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Sonority said:
i deleted mine 5 years ago cause it was boring. it doesn't seem any better today - maybe even worse from what i've heard

DesuMaiden said:

4chan and Reddit are indeed cancer. That's why I don't use the sites.


could you explain why you think those sites are cancer?

Reddit is just a cesspool of circle-jerking and conformist opinions. Threads on 4chan expire too quickly for my tastes. That is why I don't like either of those sites.
Jul 28, 2014 4:49 PM

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That's because you need to already have a social life in real life in order to use facebook.
It better to use it with people you already know, not to meet strangers.
Jul 28, 2014 4:54 PM

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I have 1084 friends on facebook. Its ridiculous as I barely talk to any of them. But I have met all of them so it's not some random shit. I moved schools a lot so i have practically everyone who was in my year on there, as well as like people who were in the year above and below me. plus people from college, night life, work, and my tae kwon do association. Dunno it just all adds up. Its great for like keeping up with everyone n shit, found out my childhood best friend had given birth through facebook. Plus I'm pretty nosy. But i don't spend much time on it like some do

Jul 28, 2014 4:56 PM

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Aqua_Mars said:
That's because you need to already have a social life in real life in order to use facebook.
It better to use it with people you already know, not to meet strangers.


THIS.
Jul 28, 2014 4:59 PM

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I only have 148 friends on Facebook. But at least I know them all. Kinda.
~ça vax~

Jul 28, 2014 5:04 PM

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Facebook isn't any useful to me now.
Social life in Facebook? I only chat with one person since last year and she never responded to me again.
Jul 28, 2014 5:12 PM
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Facebook isn't used much by me anymore other than the messenger app just in case someone needs to get a hold of me. Ever since I left high school, I've also deleted 300+ people I knew I'd never speak to again in my life afterwards. I think I have ~400 friends now, although I check it about once every two days for about 10 minutes.
Jul 28, 2014 6:06 PM

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I more enjoying to waste time on forum than on fb, probably bcuz im just not good to socialize.
Jul 28, 2014 6:27 PM

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I only login to Facebook to tell people about parties or raves. Other than that I would rather talk to someone in-person or forum with random people from around the world.






Jul 28, 2014 6:33 PM

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There's other ways of communicating with people.

Though some of these pages on FB are hilarious admittedly.
Jul 28, 2014 6:35 PM
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It promotes nothing but futility
Jul 28, 2014 6:41 PM

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The only reason I even have an acount on FB is because my ex-GF kept pestering me to create one. I did to please her. Ironically she's the only person on my block list.

Nothing would change in my life if I deleted my FB account. All the peple I actually care about know where I live or have my cell phone #.
Jul 28, 2014 7:08 PM

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I used to always open my facebook and keep in touch with other people but now .. naah I don't open it anymore, I even consider deactivating it or maybe delete it? I don't know
Jul 28, 2014 7:46 PM

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Even if I had a facebook I'd still have no friends.
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