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Dec 17, 2021 12:48 PM
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I want a woman who is the same personality as one of the anime or manga girls that I like.

I want a forever relationship, but NOT strictly monogamous.

She MUST have an interest in degenerate weeb stuff, and at least be willing (if she isn't already into it) to get into some kind of martial arts.
Dec 17, 2021 12:50 PM
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Someone that has a lot in common with me and has a good personality.
Dec 17, 2021 12:56 PM
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Objectively, 2D is superior to 3D, therefore we must strive to have the qualities found in 2D.
Dec 17, 2021 1:19 PM
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Kind loyal sensative smart introvert with same intersets and views as i have.

Dec 17, 2021 1:22 PM
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My girlfriend has my standard. Quirkish, Friendly, has interests and life outside of me.
Dec 17, 2021 1:25 PM
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-She must be strong metally and phisically
-She must be a good mother and teacher
-She must be cruel and punishing
-She must be either South-East Asian or African (I do not date my own race and I'm Daco-Celtic with a pint of germanic and hungarian blood)
-She must have an innate hatred for mediocrity


I could still date Litorians and Sardinians or Atlanto-Moroccans, But I don't find Italins attractive at all and I'm too uninterested in Western Arabians.
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Dec 17, 2021 1:28 PM
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I plan to remain a virgin for life, but my standards would be
-looks good
-healthy
-virgin
-likes anime/manga
-very loyal and religious
-age 18-25
-doesn`t work

Yeah, that will never happen.
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Dec 17, 2021 1:36 PM
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Phisically looking, those are the two types of women I find the most Attractive, third place would be Gauls and Arabians, but I'm not dating indo-europeans





Dec 17, 2021 1:38 PM
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rohan121 said:

-virgin
-age 18-25


it's 2022, there's no such thing as a virgin female above the age of 14, if they exist they are like the 0.1%





Dec 17, 2021 1:46 PM

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Being funny and kind are the only standards. Everything else depends, not set in stone.



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Dec 17, 2021 1:51 PM

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For men the long list of high standards is for marriage. For women the long list of high standards is for the first date.
Dec 17, 2021 1:52 PM

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Seem that many people tend to get standards and preferences mixed up, or they're in for some harsh lessons. Or maybe they'll be proven wrong eventually.

My standards have always been quite basic, I never dated someone for long if they weren't a good person. Sure, I had preferences, but those are worth nothing if your partner doesn't have a good heart.
My fiancée is everything I could have wished for and then some, but what really sets her apart from everyone else is how kind and compassionate she is. Beautiful inside and out.
But she wasn't someone my preemptive thoughts and fantasies could have encapsulated, and that seems to be the case for most people in good relationships.

The simplest way to describe this is through what I told my friend a few years back:
Imagine your ideal partner, they have every physical and mental/spiritual trait that you would love in a person. Welp, your wife/husband/whatever is not going to be that person, get used to it. But that's perfectly okay, you won't feel the slightest bit of regret once you're at that point.

Bakchos said:
Being funny and kind are the only standards. Everything else depends, not set in stone.


Goddammit you beat me to it lol.
Dec 17, 2021 1:53 PM

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Feircei said:
rohan121 said:

-virgin
-age 18-25


it's 2022, there's no such thing as a virgin female above the age of 14, if they exist they are like the 0.1%

Lmao you are probably right about that, but not much people would admit to that at such a young age given the consequences of what it actually means.
Dec 17, 2021 1:55 PM

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Erg_Orgy said:
Seem that many people tend to get standards and preferences mixed up, or they're in for some harsh lessons. Or maybe they'll be proven wrong eventually.

My standards have always been quite basic, I never dated someone for long if they weren't a good person. Sure, I had preferences, but those are worth nothing if your partner doesn't have a good heart.
My fiancée is everything I could have wished for and then some, but what really sets her apart from everyone else is how kind and compassionate she is. Beautiful inside and out.
But she wasn't someone my preemptive thoughts and fantasies could have encapsulated, and that seems to be the case for most people in good relationships.

The simplest way to describe this is through what I told my friend a few years back:
Imagine your ideal partner, they have every physical and mental/spiritual trait that you would love in a person. Welp, your wife/husband/whatever is not going to be that person, get used to it. But that's perfectly okay, you won't feel the slightest bit of regret once you're at that point.

Bakchos said:
Being funny and kind are the only standards. Everything else depends, not set in stone.


Goddammit you beat me to it lol.


That sounds like the very definition of settling down or lowering your standards, I mean good for you, but still... it doesn't apply to everyone.





Dec 17, 2021 1:56 PM

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rohan121 said:
Feircei said:


it's 2022, there's no such thing as a virgin female above the age of 14, if they exist they are like the 0.1%

Lmao you are probably right about that, but not much people would admit to that at such a young age given the consequences of what it actually means.


Depends on your country, in Europe having sex at 11-14 is quite normal, parent's don't care and consider it normal, no one makes a wuss of it.





Dec 17, 2021 1:59 PM

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Feircei said:
Erg_Orgy said:
Seem that many people tend to get standards and preferences mixed up, or they're in for some harsh lessons. Or maybe they'll be proven wrong eventually.

My standards have always been quite basic, I never dated someone for long if they weren't a good person. Sure, I had preferences, but those are worth nothing if your partner doesn't have a good heart.
My fiancée is everything I could have wished for and then some, but what really sets her apart from everyone else is how kind and compassionate she is. Beautiful inside and out.
But she wasn't someone my preemptive thoughts and fantasies could have encapsulated, and that seems to be the case for most people in good relationships.

The simplest way to describe this is through what I told my friend a few years back:
Imagine your ideal partner, they have every physical and mental/spiritual trait that you would love in a person. Welp, your wife/husband/whatever is not going to be that person, get used to it. But that's perfectly okay, you won't feel the slightest bit of regret once you're at that point.



Goddammit you beat me to it lol.


That sounds like the very definition of settling down or lowering your standards, I mean good for you, but still... it doesn't apply to everyone


You alright there bud

Life isn't a character creator from The Sims, if any of you lot think the basis of a good relationship is something that can be jotted down on a list, boy do I have bad news for you.
And settling by definition would imply that you're not 100% happy with your partner.
Dec 17, 2021 2:00 PM

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IpreferEcchi said:
I want a woman who is the same personality as one of the anime or manga girls that I like.

I want a forever relationship, but NOT strictly monogamous.

She MUST have an interest in degenerate weeb stuff, and at least be willing (if she isn't already into it) to get into some kind of martial arts.

Given those criterions, you will marry with a pillow.
Dec 17, 2021 2:01 PM

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Erg_Orgy said:

You alright there bud

Life isn't a character creator from The Sims, if any of you lot think the basis of a good relationship is something that can be jotted down on a list, boy do I have bad news for you.


Yeah and I know that, and I would rather be alone than having to lower my standards, relationships are high effort.
Not gonna waste my mental energy and time for anything less than perfection.

if there's high effort to be given, then I do have high demands, it's only natural since I'm not a natural at it like others, relationships are never relaxing to me.
If i could just relax and enjoy my time with someone else without feeling like my head's in constant war, then yeah I would have no problem lowering my standards as no effort = no demands.
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Dec 17, 2021 2:04 PM

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Meusnier said:
IpreferEcchi said:
I want a woman who is the same personality as one of the anime or manga girls that I like.

I want a forever relationship, but NOT strictly monogamous.

She MUST have an interest in degenerate weeb stuff, and at least be willing (if she isn't already into it) to get into some kind of martial arts.

Given those criterions, you will marry with a pillow.


Or a child, a lot of young women are like that, if he turns out a pedo, I was the first one to predict it, give me my medal.





Dec 17, 2021 2:04 PM

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Feircei said:
Erg_Orgy said:

You alright there bud

Life isn't a character creator from The Sims, if any of you lot think the basis of a good relationship is something that can be jotted down on a list, boy do I have bad news for you.


Yeah and I know that, and I would rather be alone than having to lower my standards, relationships are high effort.

Not gonna waste my mental energy and time for anything less than perfection.


Get used to being alone.

Or you'll grow out of the whole alpha male redpill thing.

You do you at the end of the day.
Dec 17, 2021 2:05 PM

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Someone unorthodox, very interesting individual, someone I can look at as someone who I've I can say "what a unique individual".

I don't suppose anyone would be able to fulfil those standards, too many normal people. Makes my life boring :c
Dec 17, 2021 2:06 PM

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Erg_Orgy said:
Feircei said:


Yeah and I know that, and I would rather be alone than having to lower my standards, relationships are high effort.

Not gonna waste my mental energy and time for anything less than perfection.


Get used to being alone.
Or you'll grow out of the whole alpha male redpill thing.
You do you at the end of the day.


I'm happily single, I get some affection(cuddling with no sex and no kissing) from a few female friends who are attracted to me, and I have some male friends.





Dec 17, 2021 2:08 PM

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Feircei said:
Erg_Orgy said:


Get used to being alone.
Or you'll grow out of the whole alpha male redpill thing.
You do you at the end of the day.


I'm hapily single, I get some affection from a few female friends who attracted to me, and I have some male friends .


You have nothing to prove to me or anyone on this site but I'm happy for you if you're happy.
Dec 17, 2021 2:10 PM

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If she's funny, kind, and trustworthy...home girl can like... get it.
Dec 17, 2021 2:14 PM

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Feircei said:
Meusnier said:

Given those criterions, you will marry with a pillow.


Or a child, a lot of young women are like that, if he turns out a pedo, I was the first one to predict it, give me my medal.

My prediction is that he will marry in prison. This had to be the most superficial criterions I have heard about in a while. He wants that she stays with him forever but is fine with him cheating on her, and she needs to be as silly as an ecchi anime character, and obsessed by cartoons and martial arts (that you can be sure the OP has never practiced himself, that requires some work and rigour).

Mm... you were sadly not the first, I let you search on the internet for more detailed information.
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- christian
- comes from a good family
- not a neet
- kind
- cute
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Dec 17, 2021 2:47 PM

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Communicative. My last relationship fell apart due to lack of communication on both sides so I've been striving to be more communicative.

Also must be willing to be seen with me in public. That's a big one for me since people I've been with in the past were ashamed of me.

Also must just not want to use me either. Had many problems with that in the past too.

I've been with alot of shitty people lol.



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Dec 17, 2021 3:22 PM

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Dec 18, 2021 2:00 AM

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I just want people around who don't remind me of the internet.

Dec 18, 2021 2:36 AM

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I would say they have to be similar to me personality wise, and definitely have to have similar humor as me as i always like to make jokes or joke around. and definitely have to have something in common with me, hobby wise i mean

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Dec 18, 2021 2:36 AM

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someone who has sexy brain and their best subject must be math



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Dec 18, 2021 2:49 AM

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This seems really weird, even to me sometimes, but I don't want a girl who's, like, super pure. She has to be at least a little bit of a degenerate, so to speak.
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Dec 18, 2021 3:12 AM

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She'd have to not be fake, be trustworthy and having things in common is always good.
Dec 18, 2021 5:00 AM
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My standards:

Personality:
Being nice
Has sense of humor
Honesty
Being kind

Look like:
Slavic/Asian
Blonde/Black/Brown hairs
Bright eyes
Long length of hairs, the back length (? idk how you call it exactly)
No freckles
No scars
No tattoos on face (idc if a girl has it on body)
Being slightly shorter than me but still in the area of my heigth (160-178 cm), below 160 it wouldn't be fun anymore
Being slim
Medium/Big breasts
Medium/Average ass

Here's examples:

Dec 18, 2021 8:44 PM
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The #1 thing is to be more or equally as mentally stable as myself. If I break down someone else has to keep the ship going
I think I'll just stick to 2D for now

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