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Nov 11, 2013 8:25 PM

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fueille said:
I like to think they're have a dandy day and they're diced to bits, so they smile at whoever catches their eye so they can cheer them up too.
Sure it sounds like something a child would say, but there isn't anything wrong with that.


dandy is such a nice word

reminds me of an old song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r5UGzAHeRBE

^ agree with you comment 100%
Nov 11, 2013 10:56 PM

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I smile back.

Except when someone's wearing sunglasses. I find that slightly creepy, imo.
Nov 11, 2013 11:12 PM

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Well, never thought of this topic THAT way. In regards to most of the replies here.

I suppose that's what I get for not actively socializing with others for the past couple months. :P
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Nov 11, 2013 11:17 PM

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Iasuru said:
lol it's even weirder when they wink at you. Especially people that are the same gender as you. LIKE WTF IS DAT DUDE.

I'd feel flattered to the fact that people being gay just to admire your looks.
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Nov 11, 2013 11:48 PM

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Sometimes natural. It is either smile or look away. Eye contact and just staring with no expression is just plain awkward.
Nov 11, 2013 11:52 PM

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I smile at anybody I happen to make eye contact with. It's just polite, and diffuses the awkwardness of locking eyes with a stranger. Also, people like having their existence acknowledged.
Nov 12, 2013 12:03 AM

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kittyn said:
Pretty sure they're just being friendly/polite. Smiling is an automatic response for me when I walk past other people


Yeah this... I'm very in tune to people's body language and I don't see what there is to really read into it. I think nice people smile at each other, that's all...
Nov 12, 2013 12:37 AM

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Only crazy people or drunk people do that where I'm from
Nov 12, 2013 12:40 AM

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It happens to me, but when they smile at me, it's just the beginning of a hardcore night...
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Nov 12, 2013 12:44 AM

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iSheep said:
I never quite got why people randomly smile at you as you walk by


Smiles are a form of social indulgence evolved from submissive survival behaviors. To signify you are not a threat.

So, it's a form of submission, communicating you do not wish to challenge with violence.
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Nov 12, 2013 12:45 AM

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its a game

ya never break eye contact
always have a smile ear to ear
open ya eyes as wide as ya can
dont ask questions, just do answers
Nov 12, 2013 4:19 AM

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I hate it when people wave at me and smile *excitement builds*

...only to realise they were waving at the person behind me *excitement dies*

*sigh*
Nov 12, 2013 6:17 AM

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See's Isheep's thread.

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Nov 12, 2013 6:22 AM

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It's only strange if you're not a woman, if you're a guy then check your clothes and hair.
Nov 12, 2013 6:23 AM
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You probably look so ridiculous that they can't help it but laugh.
Nov 12, 2013 7:42 AM

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They secretly want to rape you OP. Run. Hide.
Nov 12, 2013 7:48 AM

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'Keep smiling - it makes people wonder what you've been up to'
Nov 12, 2013 7:54 AM

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ElPysCongroo said:
'Keep smiling - it makes people wonder what you've been up to'

You'd make an awful criminal, that will only draw suspicion.
Nov 12, 2013 8:09 AM

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Sometimes a "smile" could make someone's day.

If it's someone of the female gender, I automatically assume they fancy me. :D
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Nov 12, 2013 8:25 AM

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And here I thought this was the norm...
Nov 12, 2013 8:34 AM
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iSheep said:
I never quite got why people randomly smile at you as you walk by, mostly with people of the opposite gender. It happens to me quite often, and even then, the only response I have is to nod and smile back. I'm absolutely clueless as far as everything else goes though.

Anybody got an explanation for this? I Google'd it and I didn't get a very direct answer. Hopefully someone here does. :P


Dunno, when I take walks around here and pass other people we usually give a quick smile and nod as we pass eachother, I don't think there's much meaning to it.
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Nov 12, 2013 9:59 AM

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I don't really mind ^-^
Nov 12, 2013 10:03 AM

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djcassar said:
I hate it when people wave at me and smile *excitement builds*

...only to realise they were waving at the person behind me *excitement dies*

*sigh*


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sd3NBSf4_GE
Nov 12, 2013 10:10 AM

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i don't mind if people do it, but i never know how to react. usually i just awkwardly smile back
Nov 15, 2013 5:57 AM

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Those smiles always feel the most geunine. Sometimes I think smiles can say what words cannot. The definition of love can only be told in a smile.
Nov 15, 2013 5:58 AM

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That is just creepy if u don't know him or her.
Nov 15, 2013 6:03 AM
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I wish everyone would do that more often.
Nov 15, 2013 6:06 AM

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I actually do that unconsciously.
I don't really know why but it usually lightens the mood, seeing as counter service is a part of my work it actually helps dealing with customers.
Nov 15, 2013 6:27 AM

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Maybe they were trying to approach you, the very first step is to smile at them.

Smile and receive a smile back. There's a chance she may stop what she is doing and start a conversation with you. If so, it's your opportunity. Confidence is the main contributor of success here.

Try and make some small talk with her, something she can relate to and easily respond with an answer to. For example, if you're out on the street on a hot, summer day, and a girl smiles at you, you can initiate the conversation with "The weather's really nice today ^^" is a common one, but you can use any opener, it all depends on the situation. Then afterwards just talk to her like you would to any other human being, try to say something witty/funny, it'll break the ice a bit better, but it's okay if you can't think of anything. Ask questions like, how was your day? Talk a bit about yourself as well, plans for the day, etc. (the point is that you need to break the sheet of ice around each other)

After talking for a bit, and you think things have been going well so far, try and ask for her name, and her number. If she gives you it, then SUCESS, but if she doesn't then "on to the next one, this is a numbers games so don't get discouraged but one girl."

Advice for picking up girls 101 with danielcook

I've tried this method a couple times, usually starting off with opening the door for her with a smile, it is really effective, I opened up the door for her and talked to her while keeping the pace at the direction she is walking.
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Nobody ever smiles at me...
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Mup da doo didda po mo muhfuggen bix nood

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Nov 15, 2013 6:30 AM

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Shiratori99 said:
Nobody ever smiles at me...


(:
Nov 15, 2013 6:35 AM

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Capricious_Smile said:
Shiratori99 said:
Nobody ever smiles at me...


(:


wooo your avatar smiled at me! Does that count?
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Nov 15, 2013 7:09 AM
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i guess they are just friendly. don't think too much.
Nov 15, 2013 7:16 AM

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Because Happiness is infectious.
I love smiling at other people and I love it even more when they smile back. Its kind of a silent agreement that both of your lives are pretty fucking awesome.
Even if its not, it still lifts my mood.
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