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Dec 28, 2012 2:55 PM
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How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.
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Dec 28, 2012 2:55 PM
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I'd like to date an 11 year old girl... And have sex.
Dec 28, 2012 2:58 PM
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monty1 said:
for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)


yeah... because the lack of sex makes that relationship okay!
Dec 28, 2012 2:58 PM
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I'm off turned by them, usually 3 maybe 4 years a difference is the max ill go unless they are both adults which its normal to have upwards to 10 years in age differance, One of the reasons why in gintama i cant get into the kagura and sougo ship everyone seems to love, the age difference is way to jarring

Only one i ever liked was rahXephon(MC17, heroine 28)

But there is a very good reason behind the age difference which i cant say as its a spoiler

Immahnoob said:
Jizzy, I know you have no idea how to argue for shit,

tokiyashiro said:

Jizzy as you would call yourself because youre a dick The most butthurt award goes to you And clearly you havent watched that many shows thats why you cant determine if a show is unique or not Or maybe you're just a child who likes common stuffs where hero saves the day and guys gets all the girls. Sad taste you have there kid you came up to me in the first place making you look more like a kid who got slapped without me even knowing it and start crying about it to me

Dec 28, 2012 2:59 PM
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I want to meet milf with big boobs, dressed like a teacher or something like that, that should be ok
Dec 28, 2012 3:00 PM
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pedo alert! (monty1 is 20 years old... coincidence?)
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Dec 28, 2012 3:01 PM
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Pedobear approves this thread.
Dec 28, 2012 3:04 PM
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Arkondeath said:
Pedobear approves this thread.


I don't think so

Dec 28, 2012 3:04 PM
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monty1 said:

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)


(watching the picture on the left) Are you talking about primates in general?
Dec 28, 2012 3:05 PM
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katsucats said:
pedo alert! (monty1 is 20 years old... coincidence?)

Oh, so this thread is more about "is it okay if I date this 11 year old I like"? I say go for it man. But, if she offers you cookies, run, run and don't look back!
Dec 28, 2012 3:06 PM

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DJIzzyIzzyHitler said:
One of the reasons why in gintama i cant get into the kagura and sougo ship everyone seems to love, the age difference is way to jarring
... Not even a nice ship...

Lets double the age gap with Gintoki x Kagura...
Dec 28, 2012 3:06 PM

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monty1 said:

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


What is the username of this 11 year-old girl?
Dec 28, 2012 3:08 PM

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YorozuyaGinSan said:
DJIzzyIzzyHitler said:
One of the reasons why in gintama i cant get into the kagura and sougo ship everyone seems to love, the age difference is way to jarring
... Not even a nice ship...

Lets double the age gap with Gintoki x Kagura...
I dont care for any gintama ship thats not gintoki and tsukuyo so i dont really mind anyway

Immahnoob said:
Jizzy, I know you have no idea how to argue for shit,

tokiyashiro said:

Jizzy as you would call yourself because youre a dick The most butthurt award goes to you And clearly you havent watched that many shows thats why you cant determine if a show is unique or not Or maybe you're just a child who likes common stuffs where hero saves the day and guys gets all the girls. Sad taste you have there kid you came up to me in the first place making you look more like a kid who got slapped without me even knowing it and start crying about it to me

Dec 28, 2012 3:08 PM

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SetsukoHara said:
monty1 said:

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


What is the username of this 11 year-old girl?
Does she have a 9 year old sister?
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Dec 28, 2012 3:09 PM

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That has to be the shittiest example of age gaps I've ever seen in my life. One is almost fully developed while the other is barely hitting puberty or has not even hit it yet. If you really wanted an example of where it wouldn't matter, both parties would be over the age of 20.
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Dec 28, 2012 3:09 PM

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monty1, why don't you ask the smartest motherfucker you know?
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Comogury said:
the other is barely hitting puberty or has not even hit it yet.
That's why it's so appealing...
Dec 28, 2012 3:10 PM

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ramboro said:
I want to meet milf with big boobs, dressed like a teacher or something like that, that should be ok
Yes, 30 years old at least.
Dec 28, 2012 3:13 PM

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katsucats said:
monty1, why don't you ask the smartest motherfucker you know?

people in my family are generally ok with such things we aren't brainwashed by religion or feminism but i was looking for what other people think
Dec 28, 2012 3:14 PM

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Comogury said:
That has to be the shittiest example of age gaps I've ever seen in my life. One is almost fully developed while the other is barely hitting puberty or has not even hit it yet. If you really wanted an example of where it wouldn't matter, both parties would be over the age of 20.

ok but thats not what this thread is about
Dec 28, 2012 3:17 PM

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jkun said:
monty1 said:
for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)


yeah... because the lack of sex makes that relationship okay!
why isn't it?
Dec 28, 2012 3:18 PM
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Stupid example, a case of a 11 yo girl and 20 yo guy never happens, if so: it should not be allowed, a girl that age isn't conscious of her own situation.

Something like 17 - 28 is still a bit far imo, but whatever floats your boat on that age.
Dec 28, 2012 3:19 PM

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1 year younger is okay, but there's also the "half your age then add 7" rule that comes into play at 16. But meh, it depends on the people themselves.
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Karpman said:
Stupid example, a case of a 11 yo girl and 20 yo guy never happens
It's happening now:
monty1 said:
katsucats said:
monty1, why don't you ask the smartest motherfucker you know?

people in my family are generally ok with such things we aren't brainwashed by religion or feminism but i was looking for what other people think
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Dec 28, 2012 3:21 PM

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Remember the general rule, if you have to make airplane noises to get your dick in her mouth she's too young.
Dec 28, 2012 3:23 PM
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katsucats said:
Karpman said:
Stupid example, a case of a 11 yo girl and 20 yo guy never happens
It's happening now:
monty1 said:
katsucats said:
monty1, why don't you ask the smartest motherfucker you know?

people in my family are generally ok with such things we aren't brainwashed by religion or feminism but i was looking for what other people think

I don't think someone who "fucks" his mother will go for the paedophilia route.
Dec 28, 2012 3:24 PM
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I kinda feel like it's okay if they're older, not just teenagers and kids.
My mom and dad are actually seventeen years apart..
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I don't think someone who "fucks" his mother will go for the paedophilia route.
You're not seeing it. Oh well...
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monty1 said:
How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


u for real

is the little girl at least allowed to play with a doll such as this

Dec 28, 2012 3:26 PM

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RandomChampion said:
monty1 said:
How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


u for real

is the little girl at least allowed to play with a doll such as this



[images] i laughed so hard.

It's [img]
Dec 28, 2012 3:27 PM

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I don't necessarily mind a bit of an age difference. My parents are 6 years apart and dated when my mom was in high school.

I wouldn't have a problem dating someone that much older, as long as our relationship was platonic.

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RandomChampion said:
monty1 said:
How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


u for real

is the little girl at least allowed to play with a doll such as this



[images] i laughed so hard.

It's [img]


lol thanks
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Itami-chan said:
I don't necessarily mind a bit of an age difference. My parents are 6 years apart and dated when my mom was in high school.

I wouldn't have a problem dating someone that much older, as long as our relationship was platonic.


Much older? and how about younger? I'm 6 we could possibly make this work out.
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Dafuq? I was almost on the verge of giving a serious response to the OP but my sig just won't allow it.
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It depends on their current age. Say, if one is 15 and the other is 5, that's pretty weird, but if one is 25 and the other is 35 it's acceptable in my eyes.
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Itami-chan said:
I don't necessarily mind a bit of an age difference. My parents are 6 years apart and dated when my mom was in high school.

I wouldn't have a problem dating someone that much older, as long as our relationship was platonic.


Im 23, u ok with a long distance relationship?
Dec 28, 2012 3:39 PM

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Chaosmyth said:
Much older? and how about younger? I'm 6 we could possibly make this work out.


Of course, I'm sure that we could work something out.

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Im 23, u ok with a long distance relationship?


No.

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RandomChampion said:
monty1 said:
How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


u for real

is the little girl at least allowed to play with a doll such as this


an 11 year old is old enough for a serious relationship
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monty1 said:
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monty1 said:
for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)


yeah... because the lack of sex makes that relationship okay!
why isn't it?
Because the girl is someone who doesn't know anything about her own body and still lives with their parents without a single responsibility. She probably doesn't know what she wants in the future. She isn't even going to be thinking about it, really. Why would someone even be attracted to a little girl like that?

First of all, I'd rarely get to see a girl that age as it is. She goes to school and, as stated earlier, lives with her parents. She will have exactly no freedom to go out with friends. What is she going to tell her parents?

If it''s an online relationship, what is there to even talk about? You're not going to see her, and on top of that everything you'll ever say to each other will be lost in the age gap. You will not have anything relateable to say. Ever. Believe it or not, little girl problems aren't on the same level as post-high school boy problems.

What happens in a few years when she finally does want to have sex with her mid 20's boyfriend? Do you know what kind of emotional impact it will have when they break up? Relationships like this rarely ever work out, and if they do they are living in like Iran or something where women are objects and rape is okay. Even then, it rarely ever works out because the girl is unhappy or killed herself.
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OP do you read CardCaptor Sakura?
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monty1 said:
RandomChampion said:
monty1 said:
How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


u for real

is the little girl at least allowed to play with a doll such as this


an 11 year old is old enough for a serious relationship


well if then, in all seriousness, technically a true love relationship (without sex either) is fine and possible IF the child is very mature and undrestands what's going on and whatnot...hell it happens in plenty societies around the world today even (although these societies can be considered backwards and most of these marriages are forced)

however, if i ever have a daughter and some 20 year old tried to get srious with her at 11 years old, then i'd beat his ass away regardless of anything lol
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OP do you read CardCaptor Sakura?

I haven't but I sometimes watched it when it was on WB
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monty1 said:
RandomChampion said:
monty1 said:
How do you feel about relationships with a big age difference

for example, if a 20 year old male is dating an 11 year old girl (but have not had sex)

and do you think it's more acceptable amongst anime fans than the general pop.


u for real

is the little girl at least allowed to play with a doll such as this


an 11 year old is old enough for a serious relationship


No she isn't. I'm sorry if you walked by a elementary school and wanted to hit that but you'll just have to restrain yourself.
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Big age gaps, like bigger than 5 years apart, aren't bad as long as both people are adults. But even then, there's still exceptions. Like a 40 year old shouldn't be dating a 20 year old in college.. that would be too big of a gap.
Dec 28, 2012 3:51 PM

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Big age gaps aren't bad as long as both people are adults. But even then, there's still exceptions. Like a 40 year old shouldn't be dating a 20 year old in college.. that would be too big of a gap.

What if they love each other? I highly doubt age matters if you're in love.
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monty1 said:
an 11 year old is old enough for a serious relationship
Does she have hair?
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uzu-dragons said:
a 40 year old shouldn't be dating a 20 year old in college.

I don't see the problem. The 40 year-old gets to feel as if they've still got "it" and the 20 year-old gets a desperate partner. Everybody wins.
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I don't condone pedophilia.

But once both partners are of legal age, whatever, it's none of my business.

I still find huge age gaps gross though. But whatever, do what you want to do.
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Its only okay in fiction.





No, scrap that, its more than okay in fiction.
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Treekodar said:
uzu-dragons said:
Big age gaps aren't bad as long as both people are adults. But even then, there's still exceptions. Like a 40 year old shouldn't be dating a 20 year old in college.. that would be too big of a gap.

What if they love each other? I highly doubt age matters if you're in love.

If they're in love then that's good a good thing for them. but I think of a 20 year gap to be a too big of a gap, that's all.
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