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Would you continue to date someone who is seeing other people?
Apr 18, 2022 1:49 AM
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Take a look at this - Group of guys confront a girl they are all dating

Wife catches husband out - https://wshhp.page.link/cppZnoAvcUrb3k346

You already know I broke up with a girl who I found out was dating a dozen other guys. Some of you wouldn’t mind if your partner was on Onlyfans but what if you started to date someone and then you found out or they told you that they are still seeing other people. How would that sit with you?
Apr 18, 2022 1:57 AM
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I just want a bunch of great best friends with sex included as part of it.

We could role play as bf/gf.
Apr 18, 2022 1:57 AM
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If I were to see her casually? Sure. But it's an absolute deal-breaker when it comes to serious relationships.
Take care of yourself

Apr 18, 2022 2:48 AM
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No, my s/o is not allowed to have any contact with other human beings.
Apr 18, 2022 4:47 AM
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No and if anyone actually has to give such a question some thought then I'd question their self-worth.
Apr 18, 2022 5:06 AM
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Sounds like ntr with extra steps, not into that so imma pass


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Apr 18, 2022 5:24 AM
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Nah probably not (assuming they actually are dating them and not poly)
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Apr 18, 2022 7:11 AM
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IpreferEcchi said:
I just want a bunch of great best friends with sex included as part of it.

Same here ;p

C'mon IPE, we're going on a trip to the sixties-seventies and leave these happily-married-with-no-desire-or-fun wannabes behind ;)



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Love is friendship carried to the point of enthusiasm.
Apr 18, 2022 7:14 AM
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No lol. Isn't that just cheating?

Can't stay with people like that.
Apr 18, 2022 7:17 AM

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Mirai said:
No, my s/o is not allowed to have any contact with other human beings.

You’re really into that whole 50 shades thing. Chastity aswell for your partner, I guess?
Apr 18, 2022 7:21 AM

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hell no. im quite a possessive person. if my partner was dating someone else at the same time id be pretty mad

"Many people die with their music still in them. Too often it is because
they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out."

Apr 18, 2022 11:18 AM

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Lol what? Of course not, what kind of ridicules question is that?
Apr 18, 2022 11:22 AM
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seeing other people like..going out with them? Lol....Nope. You can't. if you want them you can have them but I won't have you.
if they are someone who is into polygamy, I am sorry but I don't know how I would work my way around that. We can be friends. Lol.
Apr 18, 2022 5:06 PM

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thought about it a lot
i'm not really the jealous type but i really enjoy privacy
more people = less privacy, i guess

so, no

Apr 18, 2022 6:06 PM
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If I am dating them I am expecting exclusivity.
Apr 19, 2022 1:04 AM

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nope. i'm chill asf to date, you can chill with your friends and i don't believe in going fbi searching through people's phones and shit. but i lay down the law from the get go, if i catch you slipping and you are fucking around on me it's done. i don't do that cheating back or taking back or working through it shit.

Apr 19, 2022 1:07 AM
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Only if she lets me watch. These phone calls are lame as they always put the phone somewhere where I can't hear anything.
Apr 19, 2022 4:12 AM

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GenshinRosaria said:
Mirai said:
No, my s/o is not allowed to have any contact with other human beings.

You’re really into that whole 50 shades thing. Chastity aswell for your partner, I guess?


Not really, their love life before me isn't relevant.
Apr 19, 2022 11:13 AM

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Mirai said:
GenshinRosaria said:

You’re really into that whole 50 shades thing. Chastity aswell for your partner, I guess?


Not really, their love life before me isn't relevant.

Then why the no contact rule? Was it just a joke?
Apr 19, 2022 11:32 AM

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I'm all about monogamy. If it's like the first time you have gone out on a date with them and they happen to have gone out on a date with someone else recently, that's fine. But if we mutually agree to see each other again and get into a relationship, then I would want that person to not date other people.
Apr 19, 2022 6:41 PM

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I like to be the center of attention when it comes to close relationships like that so no
Apr 19, 2022 8:27 PM

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That depends on the definition of "dating," since apparently that has multiple meanings for different people these days.

If we're talking about a more casual approach: Then it's just hangin' out with people that you like. "Dating" someone can just be in the literal sense of specifying a specific day and time to spend time with someone in ways that don't have to be romantic. Friends with benefits and fuck buddies cont as "casual" for me since I don't make a big deal out of two (or more) people who just like having sex with each other.

But if we're talking about dating in a traditional sense, specifically: seeing someone with the intention of pursuing a romantic relationship: Then that's where my monogamy kicks in. The woman that I'd be dating in this case would hypothetically be my girlfriend (assuming that feelings are mutual), and any other women that I'd hang out with would just be friends of whom my interactions with would be strictly platonic.

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