| I have some friends which I talk 2 occasionally. I'm not completely lonely, but I'm alone most of the time. I don't rly mind it though. I like being alone. |
| I'm alone specifically. Not lonely. But I do feel my life is miserable. |
| Hmm... how would one define Lonely? not having any friends? a Partner? or is very sociable but can't open up truly to anyone? i have a couple friends, and people at work i can have a laugh with when i'm there, so i can be sociable a lil bit even though i rather prefer just chilling doin my own thing, even in silence, but sure i do feel lonely and alone as i don't have a partner/GF, which in turn makes you feel like shit and chained to the ground or wall, and just when you feel like you've made progress and your life might actually turn around and some good fuckin luck for a change, an even bigger chain wraps around you and pins you harder to the ground/wall than before... even worse when on top of feeling alone, you aren't happy with where you are in life at the age you are [my case 25] where you live, job, relationship status... not where i imagine at least, 5 years ago thats for sure i swear i'm fuckin cursed or something |
| No, not really. If anything, I feel a bit crowded. I need more me time. |
BRAINDEADPARTY said: I don't miss anyone. As for loneliness, I am not lonely, I am alone. Perfect answer. If you don't know the difference between loneliness and solitude then you're the problem. |
xfinityretaile1 said: Solitude is pleasant, and I wonder why people treat it as an enemy and something unwanted.BRAINDEADPARTY said: I don't miss anyone. As for loneliness, I am not lonely, I am alone. Perfect answer. If you don't know the difference between loneliness and solitude then you're the problem. |
  WORK IN PROGRESS ~The frog leapt forth to my lilypad memory.~ I was indoctrinated by an inamorata rabbit, Adenomata affronted. It was the verecund, dismissed creatures That I jubilated in most. This rabbit I would nurture, At the aiguille of esse, The anneal of noblesse. ❤️ Birdie ❤️ |
| sometimes, ngl. the worst feeling is being surrounded by people and still having that feeling of loneliness. the lack of connection makes it seem like you’re living a different reality than them all i haven’t been feeling like this nearly as often thankfully, which i suppose can be attributed to my improvement in expressing myself in a way people can actually understand. in other words, making those connections with people isn’t as difficult as it once was and i’m able to form meaningful bonds with people. it’s a comforting feeling to have close buds |
| I am just a MALien boi, nobody loves me Spare of my life from this monstrosity uwu Oh, babie... can't do this to me, babe Just gotta get out, just gotta get right outta here ~ |
  "Self respect is the greatest gift we can give to our self" |
| "What would you tell the person, you miss the most, right now?" I'm sorry...I should have trusted you...I wish I could take it all back. |
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| Not anymore thank god lol I miss my friends from Iraq. |
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| Yeah I am, even more so when you realize the person that made you not feel lonely is starting to drift from you. |
  Ascended Taste I only came back to this site for the forum sets and to promote my RYM list... Anilist ftw still :dab: |
| For the past two months, yup. The biggest reason is I decided to go ditch my friends and went full hermit and go to the mountains (in this case the internet). And oh boy what a stupid mistake that was. Not only did I lose friends but also I also lost the opportunity to grow and fix my social life. |
| Yes I do feel lonely most of the time and neither I like it nor am I used to it. |
| Lonely to me is more or less freedom from the tiring marching of destiny, it is like a motel, stopping to pump your gas, rest, etc. I do have friends and I can feel their support, yet they can't always be there for me, and it's times like those that made me felt even more lonely than usual. But lonely is good, I don't necessarily feel like it could have a huge negative impact on me, but for anyone else, it's definitely life-changing if you had it for 8 years straight. tl;dr so yeah im lonely and i live off on memes xd boiiiii |
| Depends how you lived. In my case even if i would be alone i wouldn't care at all. |
| "A settlement needs your help, let me mark it on your pipboy" My response to even caring. Or it can be "Patrolling the Mojave Wasteland makes you wish for a nuclear winter." Both very useful responses. Also ik, these are stolen from fallout, so what? |
| Yeah right there is no way a doujin about vomit exists. Good song https://soundcloud.com/yeungkakit33/op4-hekireki-last-alliance Tsumino account is BigMaraIppo Another Good Song Listen to テスト by mukami #np on #SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/mukami/77a Ashita no Joe and Megalo box are disappointing anime. My reviews:https://myanimelist.net/profile/Botan-Chan45/reviews Best Naruto Op: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByCNZxOBVWM&list=RDByCNZxOBVWM&index=1 discord name: Chitoge Kirisaki#9564 https://discord.gg/nGKu6zx my discord server for plebs |
| We are all alone If u think ur friends are real ur delusional |
  ur opinion = shit |
| I really think nothing. I remember when I was younger, I felt sad when someone I knew disappeared or died. However, I think I never missed them, and it's something I do today. That's not being insensitive, it's just that it does not help me much. |
   You and the rose are connected. Know the weight of your own life |
| very You caught me lol subscribe to pewdiepie fellas |
| youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0 73 6f 6d 65 74 68 69 6e 67 73 20 6f 64 64 20 61 62 6f 75 74 20 6d 79 20 70 72 6f 66 69 6c 65 0d 0a |
| not really but i do feel really sad sometimes |
| I’ve had a close knit group of friends throughout each stage of my school life, but soon my best friend is moving far away and school (college now) is ending. As someone who hasn’t ever pursued a romantic relationship, I’m pretty sure I’ll end up very lonely. My best friend often was a gateway into me making these friends since it’s easier for me to socialize with her there. I have two really great sisters that I love but they’re both about ten years older than me, so there’s a bit of a disconnect there too. Anyway, I’m not used to being alone like a lot of the people here seem to be- and it scares me a bit for when it finally comes. |
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Omelettecat said: I’ve had a close knit group of friends throughout each stage of my school life, but soon my best friend is moving far away and school (college now) is ending. As someone who hasn’t ever pursued a romantic relationship, I’m pretty sure I’ll end up very lonely. My best friend often was a gateway into me making these friends since it’s easier for me to socialize with her there. I have two really great sisters that I love but they’re both about ten years older than me, so there’s a bit of a disconnect there too. Anyway, I’m not used to being alone like a lot of the people here seem to be- and it scares me a bit for when it finally comes. I can relate precisely to this so this is probably going to sound scary to you. Here's an insight into the good, the bad and the ugly that can come out of that. Of course though, my main focus is on the good here, or rather how you can turn the bad into the good. I used to have a close group of friends through school and college, but after college we all went our separate ways. Then I wasn't really able to retain much friendships in the 3 years I moved away for university nor in the two years that I went to work afterwards at a job far away from home, as I didn't have those close friends anymore as the vehicle to drive my social interactions. I have an older brother, but he lives in another town and works a lot, so it's hard to be with him in person and I usually keep in touch online with him, and I've also never been in a relationship. For a while all those friendships that I built in school and college suddenly vanishing from my life affected my mental health quite a bit and stuff with that got pretty serious in the year before last with my physical health taking a hit too. I fucked up university because I couldn't focus on the subject and I ended up losing interest in it too, and then the job I was in afterwards was mentally draining which made things a lot worse. But then I started talking to people about my problems (my mother, internet friends etc) and they helped me out and gave me advice. I also got a new job in the last year which let me interact with my colleagues more on a personal level as well as in general (because the old job was shit for that which certainly didn't help) and was also closer to home so I've been able to talk to my mother more. These kinds of things have helped me out a bit and it would be a lie to say I'm "no longer lonely" because there's still a lot left to be desired. I still need to build closer friendships with people in my workplace and stuff like that since I still need to get out with them more, but I welcome the fact that I have at least some interactions whether it be at home with my mother, or at work, where in those moments in time I don't feel entirely alone. So you shouldn't fear the future as stuff like forming relations among work colleagues is something you can work toward that can blossom into new friendships, and even though your sisters are older than you, you should certainly keep in touch with them and hang around with them. You should always cherish the people close to you on a familial level, even if there are differences in stuff like age etc. It may not be perfect (though really, what am I kidding, nothing is perfect) but it's stuff like that distracts you from becoming lost in negative thought about the perception of feeling alone. I would say however that if you find yourself in a position where I was in for the first 5 years after college, where things didn't work out for me at uni and then I had a job which didn't really let me socialise with colleagues or people close to home (since it was far away from home and I had to travel long to get there), you should make it a priority to get out of there fast. Always put your wellbeing first before anything else, because really, those were the mistakes I made when things didn't go particularly well at university. I should've dropped out of uni and found something else to do instead of digging myself a deeper hole, but I didn't. Then I hanged around in that shitty job for far too long afterwards. But now I've learned the hard way about what I should do if I end up in the same position again. Changing lifestyle can be daunting, but it can definitely help you get out of the rough spots when you find yourself in them. Lastly, if you're able to you should work towards the things that you love. If your job is also a hobby you're gonna make some super relatable and awesome friends when you get there, then you're gonna be loving life. But I guess that's up to what your hobby is and how you can achieve it, which you'll know best. I haven't done that yet myself, but I'm hoping it's something I can work towards in the near future because I know it'll be the best thing ever if I do. |
sent1nhellJan 2, 2019 4:13 AM
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