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Mar 5, 2016 10:31 PM
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Would you be comfortable, with a male babysitter or preschool to elementary age school teacher, being responsible for your kid all day? or would you prefer a female in that position? Just curious because I know there is a stigma of males who takes those positions. I remember an anime even pointed that out! and I predict that mal will be ok with this, but I could be wrong.
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Mar 5, 2016 10:32 PM
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Yes, you have to be stupid to think that all man are rapist and/or pedophiles.
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Mar 5, 2016 10:36 PM
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I'd prefer an old man with alzheimer.
Mar 5, 2016 10:39 PM
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Obviously all men are rapists so no.
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Mar 5, 2016 10:48 PM
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It depends on the man. If the man has children of his own and he doesn't abuse them then I'd be completely fine with it. If the man has a weak mustache and a white van with "Free Candy" poorly spray-painted on it then I wouldn't be okay with it.
Mar 5, 2016 10:52 PM
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There were plenty of male teachers in my elementary school, if I ever had a kid I wouldn't be opposed to a guy being it's caretaker just because he's a guy. Naturally you should be aware of the risks any stranger, no matter their gender, poses to your child. Just individuals on an individual basis.
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Mar 5, 2016 11:00 PM
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If a babysitter were to ever rape my child I would assume a vagina would be less destructive than a penis, based on the sole fact that a vagina cannot be used to forcefully rupture and bruise a child's orifices. Though the actual chance of my child getting raped would be way too low for me to actually consider this when choosing a babysitter.
Mar 5, 2016 11:01 PM
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I'd rather nobody, even females, takes care of my children unless I trust them already.
Mar 5, 2016 11:01 PM
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I'd probably want someone I knew taking care of my kids, female or male.
Mar 5, 2016 11:03 PM
Mar 5, 2016 11:06 PM

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If you're not okay with a man taking care of your kid simply because he's a man, then you shouldn't let anyone take care of your kid period and just do it your damn self.
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Mar 5, 2016 11:26 PM

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I only want gay and feminine men taking care of my kids
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Mar 5, 2016 11:42 PM

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I'd show them an anime which contained lolis and judge their reaction to that first.
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Mar 5, 2016 11:55 PM

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I would never let one of those sexist, cis scum pedophile rapists anywhere near my children, ugh

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Mar 5, 2016 11:59 PM

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I'm not a sexist so I don't care. It's all about who is more qualified for the job.
Mar 6, 2016 5:19 AM

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i wouldn't give a shit what their gender is as long as they're doing a decent job and my kid likes them
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Mar 6, 2016 5:28 AM

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I care about qualifications, and for childcare, I won't find those qualifications in their pants.
Mar 6, 2016 6:18 AM

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Anyone in here who would let a male near their kids is a bad parent and probably doesn't truly love their kids

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Mar 6, 2016 6:24 AM

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implying women can not be pedophiles as well.
Mar 6, 2016 6:27 AM

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Duskie said:
Anyone in here who would let a male near their kids is a bad parent and probably doesn't truly love their kids


so if your children went to the hospital, you wouldn't let them be treated by male doctors or nurses?

are you for real?



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Mar 6, 2016 6:27 AM

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The past few major child abuse rings were run from daycares by women. So when it comes to gender best to trust in the individual than make assumptions and also never send your kid to daycare.
Mar 6, 2016 6:29 AM

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Xykko said:
Duskie said:
Anyone in here who would let a male near their kids is a bad parent and probably doesn't truly love their kids


so if your children went to the hospital, you wouldn't let them be treated by male doctors or nurses?

are you for real?
Not a chance in hell, are you for real? If you hand over your kid to a man you're basically just handing him over to a life of emotional rape trauma. Are you a pedo sympathiser? You might as well just throw your limp child at a stone wall, holy shit.

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Mar 6, 2016 6:35 AM

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Duskie said:
Xykko said:


so if your children went to the hospital, you wouldn't let them be treated by male doctors or nurses?

are you for real?
Not a chance in hell, are you for real? If you hand over your kid to a man you're basically just handing him over to a life of emotional rape trauma. Are you a pedo sympathiser? You might as well just throw your limp child at a stone wall, holy shit.



for a second i thought you were talking fer realzies



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Mar 6, 2016 6:42 AM

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Mar 6, 2016 6:43 AM

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Xykko said:
Duskie said:
Not a chance in hell, are you for real? If you hand over your kid to a man you're basically just handing him over to a life of emotional rape trauma. Are you a pedo sympathiser? You might as well just throw your limp child at a stone wall, holy shit.

for a second i thought you were talking fer realzies
It doesn't get more real than child rape, bro.

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Mar 6, 2016 9:50 AM

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If I ever have kids, I wouldn't care if the person taking care of them was a winged moon rock with a cat tail, what matters is if I can trust them or not.
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Mar 6, 2016 9:54 AM

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I'm not having kids but if I did I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as I trusted them. A women could do inappropriate things to.
Mar 6, 2016 9:58 AM

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Anyone trustworthy will do really, doesn't matter if its a man or a woman.
Mar 6, 2016 10:17 AM

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It's not the gender that bothers me, it's the trust.

I don't want some stranger taking care of my child.
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Mar 6, 2016 10:31 AM

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ItsMaz said:
I'd show them an anime which contained lolis and judge their reaction to that first.


LMAO bruh, no chill...

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implying women can not be pedophiles as well.


I know right? Pedophilia doesn't have a gender.
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Mar 6, 2016 11:14 AM

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Yesh I would.
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Mar 6, 2016 2:12 PM

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I don't see how a male would be any different than a female.
Mar 6, 2016 4:29 PM

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Yes. A guy is just as capable of being dangerous as a woman. Take a look at the woman carrying the severed head of a baby she was supposed to care for. Look at the women who are sex offenders. It's stupid to assume only men are dangers to kids.
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Mar 6, 2016 6:42 PM

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Call me sexist but if I had to hire a babysitter I would make sure it wasn't a dude. They tend not to be as careful with handling kids and such and women.

But in this day and age I would not want to hire a babysitter at all. There are so many stories on the news of children being abused by their babysitters and such. If I was going to have kids, I'd go all out and be a full-time, stay at home mother who would look after my child's needs myself.
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