| ~Inspired by my breakup~ For the normies of MAL, have you ever done the breaking up? How did it feel for you? Was it more of a sad feeling or happy feeling? How did they react afterwards? Do you guys still talk or did you stop talking altogether afterwards? |
NilinDec 5, 2015 10:01 AM
| What do you mean? Like when you break up with them or they break up with you or in general or what. |
| It's an awkward situation to be in. Definitely not fun. |
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| Many times. Bittersweet. I don't know how they felt. |
cause said: What do you mean? Like when you break up with them or they break up with you or in general or what. When you break up with them |
| Yeah I broke up a couple times. Just make it clear. Oh, and it's more convincing if you don't chase your ex around for 6 monthes after breaking up :p. |
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| It lingered for a bit. but eh, i got over it. |
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| It stings initially .My work unknowingly tends to solve a lot of problems because I have to focus on it that much. |
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ARtheBushmaster said: It lingered for a bit. but eh, i got over it. Losing the friend, was what hurt the most |
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| It was awkward and really sad; I really hate making people upset but I wasn't "in love (romantically)" anymore and I didn't want to lie to him. But we still talk daily; he was originally my best friend before and he's still my best friend after. It's been two years since we broke up and we still talk. |
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| I broke off my only real relationship with a girl. We were friends for 2 years, dated for a year. Things were great and all. But things were off and things I don't like talking about happened. I broke up with her on my birthday. It felt terrible for me because I really did love this girl, but in spite of all of that, I couldn't keep going in the relationship. I don't know how they reacted after. At least I didn't know at first. About a year later I get a text message from her. We talked for a bit. She says how she missed me and tried dating people after but it didn't feel the same. I told her I didn't miss her. Even though I did. That I couldn't go back. After that we stopped talking. The last things I said to her were that I hoped she has a great life, and that she should never stop smiling. I truly hope she's found that happiness honestly. |
Interrrrrpetgyu said: Did you break up with Dejwo? My fucking sides |
| Yeah, I did the breaking up before. Usually it was a mutual thing, and we would get in a fight and just realize it wasn't working out. The one where the girl still really liked me and I broke up with her, she kind of knew it was coming but was in denial. I just made it really clear that it was over. No, I don't talk with her anymore and I felt relieved afterwords... you could probably even say happy. She did not take it well. |
Interrrrrpetgyu said: Did you break up with Dejwo? NOOOOO |
| Nah, only ended a relationship twice and both times weren't really my decision. |
| I tend not date that much, due to me being emotionally distant, but when I actually dated someone and I broke up with them...It didn't feel great. It was actually terrible. Still fucked with me till about the summer of 2015. We broke up in 2013. Back to being a distant fellow! WOOHOO! |
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| yeah haha... it was awful. but we're cool now :) |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| I've ended two relationships because I was moving/I was busy with med school. First one went smoothly, second one made me feel guilty. Both times were drama free. I don't talk with either person because I'm not on FB and also there's no reason to. |
| This thread is too soon :( Well, I've only been in a relationship and we recently broke up, it was mutual so yeah...it's something sad, and I spent an entire month feeling like the worst, i couldn't even eat, but time heals little by little and life keeps going, its the better to try stay positive. |
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| i think the hardest part is very ofthen, there's something still there... but you just can't find it, for some reason that's why staying positive is absolutely the solution! |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
Nilin said: ~Inspired by my breakup~ For the normies of MAL, have you ever done the breaking up? How did it feel for you? Was it more of a sad feeling or happy feeling? How did they react afterwards? Do you guys still talk or did you stop talking altogether afterwards? Is it the 20 year old guy you were with when you were 14-15? If so, you should report him to the police and he should go to jail. |
Chiki said: Nilin said: ~Inspired by my breakup~ For the normies of MAL, have you ever done the breaking up? How did it feel for you? Was it more of a sad feeling or happy feeling? How did they react afterwards? Do you guys still talk or did you stop talking altogether afterwards? Is it the 20 year old guy you were with when you were 14-15? If so, you should report him to the police and he should go to jail. No I left him a long time ago. This is a different one. |
| My Ex moved to China. So pretty sad, we broke up due to circumstance,. not because we have any problems. We still talk. Felt like shit for a straight month then just sucked it up and continued life. Im still not as happy as I once was but I function normally. |
| Nah, I am always the one getting dumped. But there was only really one time I was pretty devastated about it, the other times things just weren't working out anymore and it was honestly the best decision for both sides. |
| i was the one breaking up in most of my relationships. usually feels pretty bad but at the same time i only break up once i really know i can't go on so idk. that makes it feel less bad Clebardman said: i have an ex who could really learn from youOh, and it's more convincing if you don't chase your ex around for 6 monthes after breaking up :p. |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| Yes I have. I felt like shit. No, because it was a long term relationship going south and I basically lied to her to help her move on even though at that point we were not dating. 7 years down the drain. GeeGee |
| I've never really been in a relationship before, so I have yet to find out how it feels. |
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Martin said: I've never really been in a relationship before, so I have yet to find out how it feels. but i imagine that it feels like somone crushes your heart while ripping out your soul and all hope. you just want to cry until everything withers away....drowning in loneliness i often think about it |
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| Implying that users on MAL can get a relationship. |
| > Implying MAL people have lovelifes |
| Twitter and it's consequences had been a disaster for the human race |
shotz_ said: so.. go to a different restaurant?it just really sucks when your ex works at a restaurant or store you'd otherwise go to. like if u went somewhere to eat and got your ex as a server the awkward level would be over 9000. |
| Ya'll niggas wanna see some pathetic shit? Check this out, this is what it was like for me. |
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Tachii said: but what if it's your favourite restaurant?shotz_ said: so.. go to a different restaurant?it just really sucks when your ex works at a restaurant or store you'd otherwise go to. like if u went somewhere to eat and got your ex as a server the awkward level would be over 9000. this kinda shit is exactly why i don't mix my love life with my actual life |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| I dated the same girl trice. The first time we broke up was because I didn't want to hold her down, cliche as it is. Second time after we worked it out was because I was moving and she couldn't. Until she did and we got together again. And the last time was life removed her. If you catch my drift. |
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| I don't like talking to girls after iv'e broken up with them or they've broken up with me. It makes me uncomfortable. Better to just move on and not think about how you feel about something that's in the past bro. Obviously it's easier said than done though. |
| Havent really talked to any of the girls that I broke up with. Though some are in a few of my friend groups I ussualy end up unconsciously avoiding them most of the time. Can be awkward at times, but I know a few people who are on really good terms with their ex's. |
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JinxMe said: Yup. Some take it way too hard and try contacting you after the break up D: might even evolve to stalking. But the worst kind are those who ask for their gifts back... Yeah It happens >.< How about going redneck and throwing all the stuff you've bought them over the 6 years you were with them in your front yard? Happened to this guy... Lmao. Though, I found it quite amusing it still hit home. |
| Naw I was dumped every time. I kinda just said, "okay I understand" and just left them alone. |
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Andy_Man said: I dated the same girl trice. The first time we broke up was because I didn't want to hold her down, cliche as it is. Second time after we worked it out was because I was moving and she couldn't. Until she did and we got together again. And the last time was life removed her. If you catch my drift. ;_; |
| breaking up with someone is awful =( |
| Last year I broke up with my ex... There were several differences between us and I felt that I didn't love him as much as he loved me. At first it was a really hard time for me and I think that the same was for him. With time I realized that it was for the best Recently he started to send me text messages but that's it...we don't talk in person that much. |
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| Breaking up with someone is hard, but I think being broken up with is harder. It's best when it's mutual, that doesn't mean it's easy, but at least nobody is lingering |
| Relationships? Is that an anime? It sounds quite interesting but I can't seem to find it. |
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Rat said: Yes. Relief. Idk. Some cried some felt relief too. Well with two Ex's I still occasionally have sex but usually it drops to a "Hey how's it doing? Oh nice. Well see you". Is that true??? That is so weird :O i mean having sex with ur ex.... Personally i would never do that with an ex |
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