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Oct 27, 2015 9:36 PM
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At what point does it become unbearable?
For me it'd be if I fail a planned goal, then I'd just commit suicide and even if I just fail to accomplish a goal I sponataneously set up it hurts so much that my depression gets worse.
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Oct 27, 2015 9:38 PM
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It's okay to fail, just remember to learn from your failures and never repeat them again.

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."
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Oct 27, 2015 9:38 PM
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Well that was bleaker than I was expecting... I'm not fussed, failure is a part of life, everyone fails at one time or another.
Oct 27, 2015 9:39 PM
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If I can't think any way to solve my problems, I would be suicide bombing in Islamic Jihad.
Oct 27, 2015 9:41 PM
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if I fail my life-long goals, I'll probably just jump off a bridge and end it all. if I fail something relatively minor, I guess I'll just drown my sorrows with oatmeal and move on with my life.
Oct 27, 2015 9:42 PM
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Good riddance. If a person would commit suicide because they didn't achieve their goal, then they weren't ever going to achieve anything great to begin with.
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Oct 27, 2015 9:42 PM
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I'm just sticking to the philosophy that failure isn't an option for me.
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Oct 27, 2015 9:43 PM
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Iunno ask the druuuugs thqat.
Oct 27, 2015 9:47 PM
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just dont think much about your failure, learn from it and keep move on. If u cant still keeping get out of your mind, find some distract like playing games or something u like.It would definitely help u.
Oct 27, 2015 9:48 PM

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its the failure that accepts me
Oct 27, 2015 9:49 PM

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Learn from them and try again.
Oct 27, 2015 9:56 PM

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I try to learn from them and if I can't, then I cut myself feel bad about it.
Oct 27, 2015 10:04 PM
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I'm pretty harsh with myself but I have no choice but to move on.
Oct 27, 2015 10:15 PM

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Not that accepting.
And never was.

One time when I was younger I cried cuz I died to Storm Eagle in Mega man X
Oct 27, 2015 10:16 PM

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Eylandos said:
Good riddance. If a person would commit suicide because they didn't achieve their goal, then they weren't ever going to achieve anything great to begin with.
I've accomplished every goal I've ever planned so unfortunately you won't get rid of me yet.
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Oct 27, 2015 10:29 PM

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shotz_ said:
i never fail. can't fail if u don't try.
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Oct 27, 2015 10:29 PM
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shotz_ said:
i never fail. can't fail if u don't try.


every shot you don't take is a miss lebron
Oct 27, 2015 10:30 PM
Oct 28, 2015 3:57 AM
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Depends on what I failed at.
Oct 28, 2015 3:58 AM

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Failing is a part of learning so I couldn't care less provided I haven't failed the same thing multiple times.
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Oct 28, 2015 4:07 AM

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I don't have a goal so I can never go wrong.
Oct 28, 2015 4:24 AM

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i don't take enough risks to fail

Oct 28, 2015 4:25 AM
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Terrible.
Oct 28, 2015 4:55 AM
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I find I'm pretty accepting. I fail, I move on. I find dwelling on failures usually send me into a state where I can't be motivated to do anything.
Oct 28, 2015 5:38 AM

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I'll get myself a drink...or two... and live with it.
Oct 28, 2015 5:57 AM

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I never fail
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@Comic_Sans oh no y arnt ppl dieing i need more ppl dieing rly gud plot avansement jus liek tokyo ghoul if erbudy dies amirite
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Oct 28, 2015 6:02 AM

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Failure and rejection are the main reasons that made me an introvert and not a loquacious type of person.
Oct 28, 2015 6:02 AM

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you will only avoid failure if never do anything but still its very difficult to deal with it and become optimistic again
Oct 28, 2015 6:03 AM
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Learn and move on.
Oct 28, 2015 6:49 AM

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I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with recent failures... Normally I'm alright, just get back up and do my best. Sometimes you get knocked down hard though, and when it's completely your fault it can be hard to stand up only to get knocked down again.
Oct 28, 2015 7:00 AM

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I like to quote Samuel Beckett for this
"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better."

Just wish I knew what it meant
I've been here way too long...
Oct 28, 2015 7:03 AM

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TheConquerer said:
I like to quote Samuel Beckett for this
"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better."

Just wish I knew what it meant
Taking your loss in a more positive manner and learning from your mistakes? I think.
Oct 28, 2015 7:36 AM

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Niddy said:
TheConquerer said:
I like to quote Samuel Beckett for this
"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better."

Just wish I knew what it meant
Taking your loss in a more positive manner and learning from your mistakes? I think.

Thats what I thought but I feel like Beckett meant more to it, it might even be a mocking gesture towards the dream of success that was really big during his time.
I've been here way too long...
Oct 28, 2015 7:38 AM

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I learn a lot from them, but I sometimes just get too hung up on them.
Oct 28, 2015 8:01 AM

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Dawn said:
I learn a lot from them, but I sometimes just get too hung up on them.

Same, it just depends on what I "failed" at. Some failures are a lot worse than others, but it's almost always possible to learn from them.
Oct 28, 2015 8:06 AM

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SnugglyWhuggly said:
Dawn said:
I learn a lot from them, but I sometimes just get too hung up on them.

Same, it just depends on what I "failed" at. Some failures are a lot worse than others, but it's almost always possible to learn from them.
That's the same with me. In some situations I actually get over thing quite easily, but in others it's a bit ridiculous how harshly I take them.
Oct 28, 2015 8:08 AM
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I'm not afraid to fail. Can't always win, but that'll never stop me from making decisions. If I was scared I would never push myself, but I do 'cause I believe in myself and as long as I do my best I'll have no regrets
Oct 28, 2015 8:34 AM
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I do not fail.
Oct 28, 2015 8:51 AM
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Dawn said:
I learn a lot from them, but I sometimes just get too hung up on them.
Oct 28, 2015 8:54 AM
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I have no problem accepting my mistakes / failures at all,
as long as I'm the one who is responsible for consequences.
Oct 28, 2015 8:55 AM

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It's natural to fail at something, thats why i accept it so easily and learn from it.
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Oct 28, 2015 9:13 AM

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Fully non-accepting. If I fail, it means I make a mistake somewhere and I HATE making mistakes. So if I fail, I beat myself up for it a lot, even if it's a small thing. It's actually even worse when it's a small thing - "how could you have been so stupid to make such an idiotically small mistake!?"
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Oct 28, 2015 9:16 AM

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very
but am no think abot it
just learn from insights gained from mistake, and never same of mistake again as much as possible
never blame circumstance when ur have power to change outcome from begining
Oct 28, 2015 9:21 AM

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I don't think I'm very accepting of them, but there's a point where you just have to move on and let it be. I think I'll never truly get over them but life moves on.
Oct 28, 2015 10:48 AM

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Just accept it and move on.
Oct 28, 2015 11:06 AM

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Oct 28, 2015 5:02 PM

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Usually work related failures get at me from the inside. Eventually you have to get over it and move on though.

Not to accepting, I want to be able to do everything right the first time but sometimes that just doesn't happen.
Oct 30, 2015 4:34 AM
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battosai-01 said:
It's okay to fail, just remember to learn from your failures and never repeat them again.


Be more strategic about what you will do to improve yourself Rather than follow the same path that you went down before.
Oct 30, 2015 4:37 AM
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blame your failures on someone else and u will feel better, i learn this from video games :D
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Hello3245 said:
blame your failures on someone else and u will feel better, i learn this from video games :D
Then you'll remain a noob forever if you can't even acknowledge your lackluster performance full of mistakes.
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