| Not an Hikikomori but an almost middle-aged NEET here. Still enjoying this style of life alot and I am happy to be able to continue it as I have all the time to my hobbies and going adventuring into the nature and learning new things. |
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Tropisch said: OP asks a harmless question then two people berate and insult him. Classic MAL. Classic MAL is more like taking offense, to any idea that challenges their worldview, or doesn’t encourage someone to run for mindless escapism. So good on you for fulfilling that. It’s not a healthy life style. I ended up in it for a year or more, so it’s not like I am self righteous poster attacking anyone who has fallen into that state. It’s out of actual concern kay? Anime communities overly accept these anti social behaviors and it's not good. People should be encouraging him to try again, not just waste away. XMGA030 said: No one said anything of the kind lol. Stop being so freaking sensitive. And yeah, if you aren't working how do you survive, is it parents, tax payers, who? Cause in the end, you are depending on basically the good graciousness of society or your family to survive. And if you literally aren't trying to become self dependent, in any form, then yes that is selfish. You are basically still the bird who expects the worm to jump into his mouth. I'm half-expecting you and the hobbit over there to start trash talking anyone who doesn't get married and have kids as being 'selfish', too If you actual work for a living you will have more power over your life, rather than constantly relying on the good graces of the tax payers or your family, and that is psychologically satisfying, to some extent. It doesn't mean life is good however, the vast majority of NEETs are depressed for a reason. Being an overgrown child ain’t fun. XMGA030 said: You shouldn't own animals if you don't have a reliable income. That's irresponsible.get a cat, he won't lecture you about being 'selfish' and lazy |
BilboBaggins365Oct 12, 12:23 PM
powermaiden02 said: me! although i do go out with friends and stuff. im 20 and have also never had a job. Sorry about the quote, I saw you also liked Azumanga Daioh. \ |
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| No, I'm not. There are certainly days or even a week or so where I'll pretty much be locked in doors in the winter when the big snow storms roll in, but I'm not going to lock myself in my room for extended periods of time of my own accord. It's not a healthy lifestyle. Doubly so if you're relying on 3rd parties to get you the money that keeps you afloat. I do get it for those with certain health problems as some others have noted, though. |
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| Nah I'm more of a NEET, even though I have a job of sorts. Hikiko lifestyle looks hard tbh and I couldn't do it as I like going out to shop and for fun, and I can't stand being indoors all the time if I don't have to be, it's not good for me... |
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JaniSIr said: so if you live off of welfare, you have literally everything to thank to society. I don't think a lone male of my race is even eligible for welfare in this country. We're highly prejudiced against, by the same shit-ciety we're always expected to thank and 'give back to'. |
| "jUsT gEt A jOb, BrO!" Many employers outright won't hire someone who gives off NEET/Hikikomori vibes or who has mental conditions of any kind, or if they do then they're treated like garbage and taken advantage of. It's a gray area where it's technically illegal to discriminate against people with disabilities but mental conditions are difficult to prove so they get away with it. And these type of threads are always filled with the same "bootstraps boomer" neurotypicals thinking that the average NEET/Hiki can handle a job dealing with fast-paced traffic without having panic attacks from sensory overload. |
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BilboBaggins365 said: And if you literally aren't trying to become self dependent, in any form, then yes that is selfish. Let's force existence onto someone with our drunken unprotected sex we were having for fun. Curse him with our bad genes, into a world of grinding daily needs and wants and the horrors of the flesh. While still a teenager fling him to the masses to fight for his daily bread, where working just to stay alive is laughably called living,...and mostly because we want the extra bedroom back to store our shit in. Until after a mere 60ish years he dies from some chronic disease probably caused by the stress of all that "living." And if he objects to this raw deal, we call HIM selfish. god I'm so sick of hearing your mindless normie cliché |
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Not an Hikikomori but an almost middle-aged NEET here.
Still enjoying this style of life alot and I am happy to be able to continue it as I have all the time to my hobbies and going adventuring into the nature and learning new things.
Still enjoying this style of life alot and I am happy to be able to continue it as I have all the time to my hobbies and going adventuring into the nature and learning new things.
| @Necronomicon keep on enjoying life buddy! can we be friends? we can talk about anime/manga if that's okay~ (°◡°♡) @Little_Sheepling in that case i guess i'm a Neet too, i do love going outside to have some fun time and just enjoys life, i just sent you a friend request!! let's be friend buddy!! ＼＼٩(๑`^´๑)۶／／ |
Ymir_The_VikingOct 12, 11:02 PM
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BilboBaggins365 said:
And if you literally aren't trying to become self dependent, in any form, then yes that is selfish.
And if you literally aren't trying to become self dependent, in any form, then yes that is selfish.
Let's force existence onto someone with our drunken unprotected sex we were having for fun.
Curse him with our bad genes, into a world of grinding daily needs and wants and the horrors of the flesh.
While still a teenager fling him to the masses to fight for his daily bread, where working just to stay alive is laughably called living,...and mostly because we want the extra bedroom back to store our shit in.
Until after a mere 60ish years he dies from some chronic disease probably caused by the stress of all that "living."
And if he objects to this raw deal, we call HIM selfish.
god I'm so sick of hearing your mindless normie cliché
XMGA030 said: It's amazing how you can make whining melodramatic.Let's force existence onto someone with our drunken unprotected sex we were having for fun. Curse him with our bad genes, into a world of grinding daily needs and wants and the horrors of the flesh. While still a teenager fling him to the masses to fight for his daily bread, where working just to stay alive is laughably called living,...and mostly because we want the extra bedroom back to store our shit in. Until after a mere 60ish years he dies from some chronic disease probably caused by the stress of all that "living." XMGA030 said: If you continue to use the resources procured by others yes....lol. Everyone struggles in life, you aren't special. Our ancestors have made something out of the muck of nature, and people to this day, work hard to make society what it is, a society that you shamelessly contribute little to, while benefiting from it. I mean I would feel differently if you just intended to go live like a wild man, instead of living off the labor of others. It may be selfish to bring people into the world, however, it's equally selfish to exploit those who work hard, just so you can live your NEET life. Whatever you feel about existence or procreation (which I care little) this is irrefutable. I also work hard dude, and I also didn't ask to be born, or do you think you are special in that realization? And if he objects to this raw deal, we call HIM selfish. XMGA030 said: And I am tired of hearing, constant moaning about what you don't have. Not everyone in the world is blessed dude lol. I have some privileges (supportive parents sure helped, though I still worked back then), however I also had health issues too, in my younger years. Plenty of people have faced worse than me, and achieved vastly more. Overcoming or even just freaking facing hardship, is better than constantly running away from it. The vast majority of NEETs, are hardly unprivileged either. Most people don't have a choice in the matter, and must work to survive. Citing a lack of privilege when you can only engage in such a lifestyle due to privilege is hypocritical. god I'm so sick of hearing your mindless normie cliché At the end of the day, if you plan on living in this world, getting power over your own resources will benefit you, rather than relying on the good graces of the government or your family, especially in the ongoing developments in the world (I don't expect social security to last in most Western states). Encouraging especially younger people, to engage in behaviors that will only hurt them down the road, is the cruel thing to do. OP is just looking for crabs in the bucket. Like you think calling me a "normie" is some insult? It's just coping dude. Again I don't look down upon those who are struggling to find work, struggling through education/training I get it (I did go through that), however, trying is better than laying down in the mud, and asking others, who are working equally hard to carry you, in addition, to the burdens they already have. Yes that is selfish, cause everyone has trials, however, only you are demanding others to pick you up, while they continue to work equally hard. You at least owe your fellow citizens your effort, in trying to find your place. You can call it cruel, whereas if anything, this is the most empathetic mindset to have. I don't want to put burdens on others, because I care about them. If you don't, that is the cruel and unempathetic mindset at play. I hear a lot of me, and not a lot of we. Your endless moralizations, about how I am wrong to ask another, to help themselves, has no moral basis. |
BilboBaggins365Oct 12, 11:20 PM
| @BilboBaggins365 You know what? I'm not even reading this shit. I happened to see 'selfish' again though. Wow. Hearing from neurotypicals is just like a game NPC repeating the same lines again and again. This world is literally hell. |
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@BilboBaggins365
You know what? I'm not even reading this shit. I happened to see 'selfish' again though. Wow. Hearing from neurotypicals is just like a game NPC repeating the same lines again and again.
This world is literally hell.
You know what? I'm not even reading this shit. I happened to see 'selfish' again though. Wow. Hearing from neurotypicals is just like a game NPC repeating the same lines again and again.
This world is literally hell.
XMGA030 said: Unlike you, doing the same lol. Keep on repeating the same self victimizing nonsense. The world is uniquely cruel only to you, and that is why you deserve the right to contribute nothing? What because you are autistic we have to work for our pay, however, you can sit on high and condemn people for trying to make something out of their lives and encouraging others to do the same? All I see is I....I....I and you get offended when I throw out the word selfish? It's apt. You only care about your own life, not the burden you put on others, by literally contributing nothing. We can moan about how this world sucks, however, I don't want to make it uniquely hard for anyone else but myself. That is the mindset of empathy rather than selfishness. happened to see 'selfish' again though. Wow. Hearing from neurotypicals is just like a game NPC repeating the same lines again and again. XMGA030 said: Yes the world is literally hell, that is why I get to enjoy Japanese cartoons, literally hell lol. You likely live a life better than 99% of what humanity has ever had to endure. This world is literally hell. Regardless, I feel the same, why bother talking to you crabs, keep pulling down others whatever. The only reason I bothered to make such a post, is I actually do feel empathy to those that feel lost, and are trying to figure out their lives, however, there isn't a point talking to a brick wall, who can't bother to see outside of their own experiance. If you want to weigh yourselves down in that shackling lifestyle feel free. Still regardless, to the OP you shouldn't be content living like a NEET. If you need another month, another six months or even a year, fine; however, you should work to some sort of goal. You need to have some degree of power over your own life, and sadly money is the way you often achieve that. |
BilboBaggins365Yesterday, 1:38 AM
| @BilboBaggins365 you're going to medicalize me now? what a scumbag congratulations on becoming my first ignore you won't be spewing your hateful shit at me ever again |
XMGA030Yesterday, 1:53 AM
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@BilboBaggins365
you're going to medicalize me now? what a scumbag
congratulations on becoming my first ignore
you won't be spewing your hateful shit at me ever again
you're going to medicalize me now? what a scumbag
congratulations on becoming my first ignore
you won't be spewing your hateful shit at me ever again
XMGA030 said: I am scumbag for daring to argue, that you should try to do something, anything to contribute to society, rather than say "woe is me". Wow, the harshness of my argument. I am literally encouraging you to be shot in the streets....literally Hitler....the horror lol. you're going to medicalize me now? what a scumbag XMGA030 said: I am very proud, unironically lol. Anyway thanks for the good laugh. congratulations, you just became my first ignore |
| lol just put money into stocks and bonds be that guy in ghost in the shell sag that was so alone that no one know he was dead |
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart! |
| I'm sure there are some but it's unhealthy and shouldn't be encouraged or even justified. Enjoy your life to the fullest. You may regret it later down the line. |
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powermaiden02 said:
me! although i do go out with friends and stuff. im 20 and have also never had a job.
me! although i do go out with friends and stuff. im 20 and have also never had a job.
Sorry about the quote, I saw you also liked Azumanga Daioh. \
| @VampireLord1024 yeah i love it! silly little show |
| I've been kind of hikki between jobs. Sometimes after getting laid off it'll take me a couple months before I can even really be bothered to try to get another job or go outside much. I'm currently working, although this current project will be coming to a close in December so I'll be laid off again either then or slightly before. |
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| Well, at 24 I also didn't have a job because I was still at university - other than some vacation part-time stuff, but I wouldn't count that. I get that shit happens in life and people end up in different situations. But honestly, don't embrace it. Practical aspects aside (are you going to mooch off your parents? Are they going to support you when you are 60? Never have freedom to spend your own money?), just look at certain responses in this topic: do you want to be a bitter person like that? And work is hard or not fun? Maybe. But it sure is better than having to hunt for your own food and then die miserably when you grew too old or sick to do it. Society is pretty damn awesome in this way, that you can live relatively comfortable life simply by doing something, even if it's not a thing you like, for few hours every day - as opposed to you whole days being all about just surviving. |
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XMGA030 said:
42 permaneet since 15, I've hardly gone outside the last two years
I'm going to die in this room
42 permaneet since 15, I've hardly gone outside the last two years
I'm going to die in this room
Too bad almost no hiki is saved by a Misaki Nakahara in reality.
| @Zarutaku Indeed... <3 my spirit animal! |
| Yimir! I'm not an Hikikomori, but you know you can talk with me about Anime/Manga :P |
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| Been a hiki for about 8-9 years now, and honestly i don't see it changing anytime soon. The outside world scares me too much for me to want to go actively participate in it, plus my sleep schedule is erratic as hell and not suited for a 9-5 job. |
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Been a hiki for about 8-9 years now, and honestly i don't see it changing anytime soon. The outside world scares me too much for me to want to go actively participate in it, plus my sleep schedule is erratic as hell and not suited for a 9-5 job.
| @Laniakea So what, do you actually like living this way? I kinda feel like you don't. What are you so afraid of out there? You don't have to fight that monster, just walk around it instead. Find yourself any silly hobby outside the house, away from people after all if they scare you - at least give it a try. Step by step, you'll get out. |
| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
| I was basically one for a year and it was by far the worst year of my life, I don't get what's so fulfilling about this lifestyle. Also I'm mainly talking about those who CHOOSE to live their life this way and not the people who ended up that way due to unfortunate circumstances. |
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@LoveYourSmile Sure, she's an archetype of savior waifus who fix the male loser protagonist.
| @Zarutaku Not to be "that guy", but Misaki was actually a deconstruction of the "girl who magically comes along to fix me" trope since she only "rescued" Tatsuhiko because of her hidden selfish agenda and has a lot of issues herself. |
Some of you never watched Bakugan Battle Brawlers on TeleToon in 2008 and it shows. |
| not hikikomori per se, but I've made great progress battling my own anthropophobia im liking what @rainyevenings, @ganch & @necronomicon said If you want to get out in the world do so on your own terms and ignore anyones' judgement/criticism/etc. Block out everything that might harm you emotionally, and stand up for yourself. For some, it can take a lot of work to do so but it is also really rewarding to witness the beauty of the world around you first hand. Just do what's good and healthy for you. |
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"jUsT gEt A jOb, BrO!"
Many employers outright won't hire someone who gives off NEET/Hikikomori vibes or who has mental conditions of any kind, or if they do then they're treated like garbage and taken advantage of. It's a gray area where it's technically illegal to discriminate against people with disabilities but mental conditions are difficult to prove so they get away with it.
And these type of threads are always filled with the same "bootstraps boomer" neurotypicals thinking that the average NEET/Hiki can handle a job dealing with fast-paced traffic without having panic attacks from sensory overload.
Many employers outright won't hire someone who gives off NEET/Hikikomori vibes or who has mental conditions of any kind, or if they do then they're treated like garbage and taken advantage of. It's a gray area where it's technically illegal to discriminate against people with disabilities but mental conditions are difficult to prove so they get away with it.
And these type of threads are always filled with the same "bootstraps boomer" neurotypicals thinking that the average NEET/Hiki can handle a job dealing with fast-paced traffic without having panic attacks from sensory overload.
Lost_Viking said: "jUsT gEt A jOb, BrO!" Many employers outright won't hire someone who gives off NEET/Hikikomori vibes or who has mental conditions of any kind, or if they do then they're treated like garbage and taken advantage of. It's a gray area where it's technically illegal to discriminate against people with disabilities but mental conditions are difficult to prove so they get away with it. And these type of threads are always filled with the same "bootstraps boomer" neurotypicals thinking that the average NEET/Hiki can handle a job dealing with fast-paced traffic without having panic attacks from sensory overload. you're quick to mock the "neurotypicals" for the overly repeated drivel of "just get a job", whilst simultaneously spewing the usual rhetoric of self-defeatism & nihilism as some sort of retort. yeah the job market is rough. both in regards to finding a job but also keeping it. but that doesn't mean people should give up. i get that life is unfair, but how is it anymore fair for those who bear the burden of taking care of and providing for those who have given up? what happens if they give up too? as i said in my previous post, people need to save themselves. not be looked after. i say this as someone who had to do it for himself 5-6 years ago. start slow. start small. but start, nevertheless. |
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Lost_Viking said:
"jUsT gEt A jOb, BrO!"
Many employers outright won't hire someone who gives off NEET/Hikikomori vibes or who has mental conditions of any kind, or if they do then they're treated like garbage and taken advantage of. It's a gray area where it's technically illegal to discriminate against people with disabilities but mental conditions are difficult to prove so they get away with it.
And these type of threads are always filled with the same "bootstraps boomer" neurotypicals thinking that the average NEET/Hiki can handle a job dealing with fast-paced traffic without having panic attacks from sensory overload.
"jUsT gEt A jOb, BrO!"
Many employers outright won't hire someone who gives off NEET/Hikikomori vibes or who has mental conditions of any kind, or if they do then they're treated like garbage and taken advantage of. It's a gray area where it's technically illegal to discriminate against people with disabilities but mental conditions are difficult to prove so they get away with it.
And these type of threads are always filled with the same "bootstraps boomer" neurotypicals thinking that the average NEET/Hiki can handle a job dealing with fast-paced traffic without having panic attacks from sensory overload.
you're quick to mock the "neurotypicals" for the overly repeated drivel of "just get a job", whilst simultaneously spewing the usual rhetoric of self-defeatism & nihilism as some sort of retort. yeah the job market is rough. both in regards to finding a job but also keeping it. but that doesn't mean people should give up. i get that life is unfair, but how is it anymore fair for those who bear the burden of taking care of and providing for those who have given up? what happens if they give up too?
as i said in my previous post, people need to save themselves. not be looked after. i say this as someone who had to do it for himself 5-6 years ago. start slow. start small. but start, nevertheless.
| @GANCH It doesn't seem like you've actually read a single word I said. People with mental conditions of any kind are openly discriminated against by the job market, and when they try to point this out their told to "pull themselves up by their bootstraps". It's not a matter of "giving up", the system is rigged against them from the start. That is part of why welfare/disability benefits exist, to give people who cannot work a normal job or a job at all a way to survive. But there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" and that those with mental conditions are faking or exaggerating it. It's not that easy, most people are denied until they speak with a licensed therapist to help them get their foot in the door, at least in the US. It's not their fault that they get panic attacks from the things a normal job entails, so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally? Though I do agree that people who live with parents should pull their weight as far as keeping the house clean and cooking meals (and of course using what income they do get to help pay bills) goes. |
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| Same, I'm 26 and also have no job. IDK, I thought it would be like highschool or college where it happened "automatically", and I don't know how to use LinkedIn. |
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@GANCH It doesn't seem like you've actually read a single word I said.
People with mental conditions of any kind are openly discriminated against by the job market, and when they try to point this out their told to "pull themselves up by their bootstraps". It's not a matter of "giving up", the system is rigged against them from the start.
That is part of why welfare/disability benefits exist, to give people who cannot work a normal job or a job at all a way to survive. But there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" and that those with mental conditions are faking or exaggerating it. It's not that easy, most people are denied until they speak with a licensed therapist to help them get their foot in the door, at least in the US. It's not their fault that they get panic attacks from the things a normal job entails, so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally?
Though I do agree that people who live with parents should pull their weight as far as keeping the house clean and cooking meals (and of course using what income they do get to help pay bills) goes.
People with mental conditions of any kind are openly discriminated against by the job market, and when they try to point this out their told to "pull themselves up by their bootstraps". It's not a matter of "giving up", the system is rigged against them from the start.
That is part of why welfare/disability benefits exist, to give people who cannot work a normal job or a job at all a way to survive. But there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" and that those with mental conditions are faking or exaggerating it. It's not that easy, most people are denied until they speak with a licensed therapist to help them get their foot in the door, at least in the US. It's not their fault that they get panic attacks from the things a normal job entails, so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally?
Though I do agree that people who live with parents should pull their weight as far as keeping the house clean and cooking meals (and of course using what income they do get to help pay bills) goes.
Lost_Viking said: there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" That's probably because there are quite a few people who intentionally exploit welfare systems, despite being capable of employment, the problem is that proving it is usually too difficult. |
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@GANCH It doesn't seem like you've actually read a single word I said.
People with mental conditions of any kind are openly discriminated against by the job market, and when they try to point this out their told to "pull themselves up by their bootstraps". It's not a matter of "giving up", the system is rigged against them from the start.
That is part of why welfare/disability benefits exist, to give people who cannot work a normal job or a job at all a way to survive. But there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" and that those with mental conditions are faking or exaggerating it. It's not that easy, most people are denied until they speak with a licensed therapist to help them get their foot in the door, at least in the US. It's not their fault that they get panic attacks from the things a normal job entails, so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally?
Though I do agree that people who live with parents should pull their weight as far as keeping the house clean and cooking meals (and of course using what income they do get to help pay bills) goes.
People with mental conditions of any kind are openly discriminated against by the job market, and when they try to point this out their told to "pull themselves up by their bootstraps". It's not a matter of "giving up", the system is rigged against them from the start.
That is part of why welfare/disability benefits exist, to give people who cannot work a normal job or a job at all a way to survive. But there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" and that those with mental conditions are faking or exaggerating it. It's not that easy, most people are denied until they speak with a licensed therapist to help them get their foot in the door, at least in the US. It's not their fault that they get panic attacks from the things a normal job entails, so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally?
Though I do agree that people who live with parents should pull their weight as far as keeping the house clean and cooking meals (and of course using what income they do get to help pay bills) goes.
Lost_Viking said: Kay, what about those that are functionally healthy, and just refuse to work? That is part of why welfare/disability benefits exist, to give people who cannot work a normal job or a job at all a way to survive. But there's a growing subset of people who believe that people on welfare are just "lazy" or "taking advantage of the system" and that those with mental conditions are faking or exaggerating it. Lost_Viking said: One of my field instructors, when I was interning, noticed I probably have an anxiety disorder. I mean IDK if that is true or not, I didn't bother ponying up the money to go to a psychologist regardless. Anyway, I have had a panic attack before one of my exams, so at the very least I can empathize with those that have nervous conditions. Still, I worked hard, and pushed through it. I got my degree, I have some form of work using it, and before that I held a part time job for awhile, through school. It's not their fault that they get panic attacks from the things a normal job entails, so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally? I am not going to say every possible person out there, can work a normal job. I am not going to say the job market isn't rough (it was hard for me to find part time work again, during my one year of NEETdom, after leaving my previous job), and that many people, due to no fault of their own, are unable, currently, to find work. Still, it's different if you literally aren't even trying. It's less about laziness and more about learned self helplessness/defeatism, That is the issue, rather than being simply unemployed. Lost_Viking said: Unconditional love doesn't exist. I wouldn't expect my parents to love me, if I, out of choice just mooched off them. so why should they be seen as a burden by the family who are supposed to love them unconditionally? Lost_Viking said: Some people don't do that either. Though I do agree that people who live with parents should pull their weight as far as keeping the house clean and cooking meals (and of course using what income they do get to help pay bills) goes. |
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@Zarutaku Not to be "that guy", but Misaki was actually a deconstruction of the "girl who magically comes along to fix me" trope since she only "rescued" Tatsuhiko because of her hidden selfish agenda and has a lot of issues herself.
| @ryan77999 Everyone has their own issues, not sure how that makes her a deconstruction, it actually makes her more authentic. |
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| Pretty sure there are. But I ain't one. Been permanently employed for over two years and I've never been a hikikomori in my life. I need to do something |
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@LoveYourSmile
who cares about females man
@Zarutaku
I object to this loaded word 'saved'. Becoming a miserable wageslave with no time for yourself and all the stresses of adult life is more like being damned than saved. As for that shit, I've got an anime girl with much better guidance...
@Ymir_The_Viking
Trust me, that's going to change in a few years.
who cares about females man
@Zarutaku
I object to this loaded word 'saved'. Becoming a miserable wageslave with no time for yourself and all the stresses of adult life is more like being damned than saved. As for that shit, I've got an anime girl with much better guidance...
@Ymir_The_Viking
i guess the difference between me and other neets is that i'm actually happy
Trust me, that's going to change in a few years.
XMGA030 said: sounds like cope to meBecoming a miserable wageslave with no time for yourself and all the stresses of adult life is more like being damned than saved Having a job doesn't mean no time dummy. Just some of your time is allocated to producing something. And that can and will benefit the worker. Getting paid means you have financial independence and can get things you want and even do long time investments. You could even buy a home if one is employed and saves enough and doesn't buy a uselessly expensive place. Like I did Wageslave is what happens when you get a job that pays like shit and is misery and that ain't all jobs. But it's a lot of entry level stuff these days and that's the problem with a capitalistic "free market" economy but I'm not gonna praddle on about that rn |
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| holy shit this thread is a fun read Imma try to summarize all this shit throwing cause I'm bored and at work rn being hikikomori is not good for a person mental health wise so at the very least don't be a shut-in getting a job is not the simplest shit especially if someone is disabled in any sense, but it doesn't mean it's impossible some people can't do jobs and should be cared for by others but most hikikomori are not like that or had a chance to not become so unhealthy to need benefits I wish good things for almost everyone in this thread JUST A REMINDER I am ADHD but have a job and my partner has ADHD and autism but still has a job. Probably having some other problems that make his overall energy levels low. But we do the hobs cause it gives us something to do, to improve on and money. And we still have several hobbies cause a job isn't and shouldn't be someone's whole life but ye there's hope for people is all I wanna say |
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Nysse said: Having a job doesn't mean no time dummy. Just some of your time is allocated to producing something. Just some of your time, heh... Getting paid means you have financial independence and can get things you want and even do long time investments. You could even buy a home if one is employed and saves enough Shouldn't you be getting ready for your morning commute instead of fantasizing? We all know what the reality is. So does basically every wageslave. |
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Nysse said:
Having a job doesn't mean no time dummy. Just some of your time is allocated to producing something.
Having a job doesn't mean no time dummy. Just some of your time is allocated to producing something.
Just some of your time, heh...
Getting paid means you have financial independence and can get things you want and even do long time investments. You could even buy a home if one is employed and saves enough
Shouldn't you be getting ready for your morning commute instead of fantasizing? We all know what the reality is. So does basically every wageslave.
| @XMGA030 cool meme bro except it's also a fantasy And I ain't fantasizing unlike you. I go to work from my nice house and come back home to my loving family. Extra bonus that we're fucking gay Not sorry for living a happy life. I do hope you won't have an unhappy one forever as that's how it sounds like according to your posts and ehat you write yourself Oh and I'm european so it's already the afternoon and my commute is by bicycle and train sooooo it's fast |
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Thanks for the laugh ... I cried 😂 |
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Nysse said: Good for you. The people you're replying to are mostly Americans so they don't have the same labor law/anti-discrimination protections that you do.Oh and I'm european I'm not wasting my time with the other replies. Like @XMGA030 I've blocked them and I'm going to hide this thread and move on from it. |
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