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Mar 19, 2014 1:02 AM

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violence is what ties us back to our primitive times. We show it in sport, which I am fine with, I play Rugby myself. But aggravated violence or any kind is stupid, in all meanings of the term.

42itc68 said:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uUHEO4BJEcg

This woman deserves to get hit a few times.


It would have only caused a lawsuit. And if you read the description she didn't getting away with it.

on a side note: I found that beating a car in GTA with a golf club helps with anger. Nothing is destroyed and nobody is hurt.
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Mar 19, 2014 1:47 AM

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yeah there's no need for punching or anything like that. it's 99.9976432% of time avoidable.
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Mar 19, 2014 4:19 AM

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unmemorable_hero said:
I don't think it's good for anyone to hit anyone, but if the person was being abused badly enough to retaliate and/or defend himself...go for it. Nobody deserves to be in pain.


It's said really. I know there are men out there who get dominated my their wives. My mum has never hit my dad but she runs my house with an iron fist.
Mar 19, 2014 7:07 AM

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If a woman slapped me I'd let it slide depending on the situation but if she straight punch me or something I'd knock her ass out.
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Mar 25, 2014 3:55 AM

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Kafka-san said:
It is silly, but it has a very valuable point. The point is that although people say, "it's okay for men to hit men, but it's not okay for men to hit women," that's not what they actually mean—it can't be, since arbitrary labels are not descriptive.
But male/female are descriptive terms, and gender includes a range of characteristics.

My experience is that women are used to the idea that they can be assholes without repercussions, since it's ''off-limits'' for so many guys to hit a woman. Because of this, they seem to be worse at avoiding conflicts (especially when drunk) than men are. When two men are involved, the mere threat of violence is often enough to keep a real fight from taking place.

If you're out on the town getting drunk, or at a party, and a bitch slaps you without good reason, then most of the time all you need to do is give her a light slap to tell her what's up. If she doesn't tolerate this, and gets even more angry, then it's usually the responsibility of any accompanying boyfriend/male friend to calm her down.

A guy can't use physical inadequacy as an excuse. If he's acting the same way, then he should have known better.
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Mar 25, 2014 9:28 AM
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Yes. It's bad for an abusive anyone to hit anyone else. Neither should be physically harming each other regardless of sex unless it's in self defense.
Mar 25, 2014 1:07 PM

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-K1- said:
her eye and teeth for my eye

Interest, bitch.


Interest? That's pretty sadistic. It almost sounds like you just want an excuse to pulverize her if you want to go that far.
Mar 25, 2014 5:57 PM
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Sure. If she thinks shes tough enough to start shit with a man, she should be tough enough to finish it.
Mar 25, 2014 5:58 PM

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Violence is never the answer, no matter how cliche that sounds
Mar 25, 2014 6:09 PM

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LadyRenly said:
-K1- said:
her eye and teeth for my eye

Interest, bitch.


Interest? That's pretty sadistic. It almost sounds like you just want an excuse to pulverize her if you want to go that far.

If only it just sounded like he wanted an excuse. 'her eye and a teeth for my eye' : pretty self-explanatory.
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Mar 25, 2014 10:04 PM

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Don't know. Society portrays that it's bad to hit a women, so it's kind of a double standard if it's the other way around. Either way, if she's abusive, the man should just leave and vice-versa.
Mar 25, 2014 10:12 PM

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Sometimes when a guy calls the police to say his gf/wife is abusive they won't really do anything. And if a couple gets into a fight and someone else calls the cops they'll arrest the man first even if he has scratch marks and the women is completely fine. I can understand why but still double standards, man. Not saying women don't get abused, there are more women getting abused than men out there but still, it goes both ways.

MellowJello said:
The best violence is nonviolence.

Hitting people in general is wrong.

SetsukoHara said:
I think some girls really deserve a beating, like this one:

http://25.media.tumblr.com/d6bbb30f379402c09977c966e5ad17e6/tumblr_mn5rdwTXD41s2pgxzo1_500.gif
hey that's an insult to women
Mar 25, 2014 10:18 PM

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It makes me sick how when a man hits a woman it's horrible and should be condemned. But when it happens the other way around, nobody cares and it just looks like it's fine to be an abusive bitch.


Mar 25, 2014 11:43 PM

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No and I was taught by my mother to keep my hands to myself but if I'm being assaulted to retaliate despite their gender. I seriously hate the idea that a man shouldn't defend himself if he's being attacked by someone who happens to be female. And one of the worst yet most common excuses seems to be, "You can't hit a woman, they're weaker than guys!" If a grown man defended himself against a teenage boy, how many people would complain about it? The sad thing is if you're getting hit by a woman and it's witnessed or reported, chances are it will be ignored. But if you hit her back then good fucking luck.

However, I do think it's necessary to respond with appropriate force. For example if she slaps you, you shouldn't proceed to grab her head and slam it into wall several times like you're in The Raid.
Apr 8, 2014 9:08 AM
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Rather than hitting her, I think restraining her would be a better option. If you have the upper hand, don't abuse it. It'll just make you look pathetic. Even better yet, just take the blows till she calms down. Guilt is a really strong weapon.
Apr 8, 2014 9:16 AM

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shiroyuki143 said:
Rather than hitting her, I think restraining her would be a better option. If you have the upper hand, don't abuse it. It'll just make you look pathetic. Even better yet, just take the blows till she calms down. Guilt is a really strong weapon.


lol. In cases of domestic abuse involving women as the aggressor, it often involves women using weapons to negate their their size/strength discrepancy to men. Hope you enjoy taking blows from a cleaver~
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Apr 8, 2014 9:51 AM

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dankickyou said:
shiroyuki143 said:
Rather than hitting her, I think restraining her would be a better option. If you have the upper hand, don't abuse it. It'll just make you look pathetic. Even better yet, just take the blows till she calms down. Guilt is a really strong weapon.


lol. In cases of domestic abuse involving women as the aggressor, it often involves women using weapons to negate their their size/strength discrepancy to men. Hope you enjoy taking blows from a cleaver~

Who keeps a cleaver in plain view like that? Taking blows from a frying pan or similar still hurts though, so you're an idiot if you let her hit you.




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Apr 8, 2014 9:58 AM

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I have been on the receiving end of many female hits. A lot of my friendgirls haul off and hit me as hard as they can because they don't think it hurts me. In truth it usually doesn't but sometimes it does.

I've asked them to stop but they just ignore it. I've thought about giving them a little nudge to show what it feels like but can't man up enough. It just feels wrong. Now if there were weapons involved that would probably be a different story but still.
text27 said:
yes if you read the whole thing...robots will only kill the people you put in-front of them so yeah.

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u were that homie in the thong werent u
Apr 8, 2014 10:02 AM

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It's kind of sad the way you blame yourself for not "manning up" when your friends are obviously the ones in the wrong, especially when you've told them to stop already.
Apr 8, 2014 10:29 AM

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I'm not really one for violence in the first place, probably because I'm a weak little bitch who'd lose against anyone in a fight. Do I think it's bad when a man hits an abusive woman? If she has a history of being abusive and violent, and the man is trying to defend himself, then no. I don't think violence is a good thing in the first place, but I'm not opposed to it if you're engaged in a physical fight with another person, and I don't care whether that person is a man or a woman.
Apr 8, 2014 10:58 AM

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Red_Keys said:
It's kind of sad the way you blame yourself for not "manning up" when your friends are obviously the ones in the wrong, especially when you've told them to stop already.


here's some tissue, wipe yo self off
Apr 8, 2014 11:02 AM

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Zarbel said:
Red_Keys said:
It's kind of sad the way you blame yourself for not "manning up" when your friends are obviously the ones in the wrong, especially when you've told them to stop already.


here's some tissue, wipe yo self off
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Apr 8, 2014 11:18 AM

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Damaein said:
I have been on the receiving end of many female hits. A lot of my friendgirls haul off and hit me as hard as they can because they don't think it hurts me. In truth it usually doesn't but sometimes it does.

I've asked them to stop but they just ignore it. I've thought about giving them a little nudge to show what it feels like but can't man up enough. It just feels wrong. Now if there were weapons involved that would probably be a different story but still.


Why dont you dodge their strikes or catch them before it hits you. That should instill some fear into them.

No man or woman with the intent to strike you is going to stop if you merely whine "stop it". If you show them that they are powerless in the situation, and that the reality of the situation is that you could more than neutralize them if u wanted to, then theyll think twice.
Apr 8, 2014 11:34 AM

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It's kind of hard. Example:

Talking. Emoting. Talking. Punched in the arm from behind.

Talking. Eating. Talking. Kicked in the shin under the table.

WTFFFFFFF

I am a 3rd degree black belt. That is why they think they are allowed to hit me. I could level them. I am pretty sure they are well aware. They have seen me break concrete with my hands. I'm kind of a teddy in real life though. Excitable but really easy going.

Being hit by men hurts more sure. I am not being sexist. Simply sharing my personal experience of many years of taking hits. That fact doesn't negate that a woman can also cause pain.
text27 said:
yes if you read the whole thing...robots will only kill the people you put in-front of them so yeah.

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u were that homie in the thong werent u
Apr 8, 2014 11:45 AM

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Damaein said:
It's kind of hard. Example:

Talking. Emoting. Talking. Punched in the arm from behind.

Talking. Eating. Talking. Kicked in the shin under the table.

WTFFFFFFF

I am a 3rd degree black belt. That is why they think they are allowed to hit me. I could level them. I am pretty sure they are well aware. They have seen me break concrete with my hands. I'm kind of a teddy in real life though. Excitable but really easy going.

Being hit by men hurts more sure. I am not being sexist. Simply sharing my personal experience of many years of taking hits. That fact doesn't negate that a woman can also cause pain.


Kicking shin under table....damn that's whack what is that 3 rd grade? Anyway just tell them seriously to stop then I guess
Apr 8, 2014 11:48 AM

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Damaein said:
It's kind of hard. Example:

Talking. Emoting. Talking. Punched in the arm from behind.

Talking. Eating. Talking. Kicked in the shin under the table.

WTFFFFFFF

I am a 3rd degree black belt. That is why they think they are allowed to hit me. I could level them. I am pretty sure they are well aware. They have seen me break concrete with my hands. I'm kind of a teddy in real life though. Excitable but really easy going.

Being hit by men hurts more sure. I am not being sexist. Simply sharing my personal experience of many years of taking hits. That fact doesn't negate that a woman can also cause pain.


Put your foot down m8.

Or drive your knee into their solar plexus and ask them how they like it while they puke out their lunch.

Your choice, m8!
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Apr 8, 2014 11:50 AM

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Red_Keys said:
Zarbel said:
Red_Keys said:
It's kind of sad the way you blame yourself for not "manning up" when your friends are obviously the ones in the wrong, especially when you've told them to stop already.


here's some tissue, wipe yo self off
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Apr 8, 2014 11:51 AM

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I'll just be like WOMAN!!!
text27 said:
yes if you read the whole thing...robots will only kill the people you put in-front of them so yeah.

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u were that homie in the thong werent u
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