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Aug 27, 2020 11:21 AM
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Everyone has someone they like. Maybe they prefer more quiet person. Longer hair or shorter hair. Bad boy or a good girl. Mommy GF or Bit Tiddy Goth GF.

So what do you look for in a partner? What puts you off?

Personally what I look for in a partner is
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Aug 27, 2020 11:45 AM
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All I'm looking for is a giant boy (>4m tall).
Here's a picture of us together (from my dreams)
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Decent looks, white or Asian, has hatred for others but doesn’t direct it at me, boob size doesn’t matter as long as they’re not too big, not a basic bitch, not politically left wing and/or liberal

I guess that’s it.
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Well I like men who don't talk that much, are general quiet, knows more than one language, must be useful to me and someone I don't get bored of.


just wanna feel wanted by someone other than the police 😫
Aug 27, 2020 12:01 PM
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It used to be 1.60m, blue eyes, blond hair, pale skin, witty and all that other shite. Nowadays I look at this woman and all I think is "Please have my children".


“The most shameless thing in the world is political power that can be inherited regardless of ability or talent!”
Aug 27, 2020 1:51 PM
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For a long time, I was very specific. For example, if she would smoke or be to tall or something like that, I'd loose all interest. But nowadays, I started to be more open, and through this I've gotten a girlfriend who wasn't exactly my dreamgirl but I learned to start liking the things I didn't like before and have gotten a new perspective on things.



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ysphyr said:
All I'm looking for is a giant boy (>4m tall).

yep, they always go for the tall guys

at least you're using metric, thanks
Aug 27, 2020 3:06 PM
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A smart, kind boy with the most luscious lips in the world.
Aug 27, 2020 3:09 PM
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The same things I'm looking for in a friendship, only must be female (preferable...), want to be intimidate with me and willing to keep up with my shit haha.
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I like smart, doesn't talk a lot, decent looking, hard working breadwinner and not shorter than me.
Aug 27, 2020 3:23 PM

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You know what I really want in a girl?...my penis.
Aug 27, 2020 3:23 PM

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My ideal is someone who is interested in similar things to me and has creative hobbies. I'm into crafting and figure collecting, so I really like the idea of being able to do these together with someone. I really like the feeling of collaborating to make something really great together. Adventurous is good too, and extra points if he cooks (I passionately hate cooking).

In terms of appearance, I'm honestly not picky. While I can look at someone and think they are attractive, I frequently find people most attractive after developing feelings for them. If I had to pick, I prefer no facial hair and similar to my height (5'2"). I've dated one short guy before and it was a delightful experience to not have to look up at him and to be able to share clothes. I recommend the experience, especially since short guys don't get enough love.
Aug 27, 2020 3:26 PM
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OP asks for the universal donor type? Hmmmmmm...

OT: Having common sense please... seems more and more like a rarity than ever before. Also not too obstinate, as well as understanding and inquiring would be great. As for looks I'd like taller men (though it'd obv be hard to find smb with 1.90m+ height so I'm ok with same height or kinda shorter) and shorter women. For both genders I dig a dignified and poised appearance & mannerisms, the solemn kind of confident attitude that bespeaks a well-read and experienced nature which is so bewitchingly attractive to me. Dr Hannibal Lecter and Dr Bedelia Du Maurier from Bryan Fuller's 2013 adaptation of Hannibal are spectacular examples in those respects. Great show by the way.

@ysphyr Don't you mean a w i d e b o i ? Surely you've seen it.
Aug 27, 2020 3:29 PM

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You know what I really want in a girl?...another guy's penis.
Aug 27, 2020 3:32 PM

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Bobby2Hands said:
You know what I really want in a girl?...my penis.
Kosmonaut said:
You know what I really want in a girl?...another guy's penis.

Bro, you took my joke and made it into the cuckold version.
I don't know whether to be angry or aroused.
Aug 27, 2020 3:32 PM

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For me, it would be these
Intelligent
Hard-Working
Looks, of course
Open-Minded
Has many of the same interests as me
Cares about their future
Has CLASS
Definitely not a far-right winger
Aug 27, 2020 3:35 PM
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For men - No white dudes unless he's mixed. Must have money, Good looking nothing under 7/10, Tall and that can drive me around because I am lazy. Must workout. Can't be younger than me.

For Girls - Good looking, likes having fun, must like drinking. Out doors person. Feisty but sweet.
Aug 27, 2020 3:36 PM

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I need a thick white woman.

Needs to have pale skin and be around 130-150 pounds. Preferably with blue eyes and brown hair. I have no preference when it comes to height.. there are benefits for both tall and short. She needs to have some dominance in her personality. I need her to be able to put me in my place physically and verbally.

In terms of a man I need a big hunky chiseled grizzly bear. One that will hold me close while we are under the covers.. so I can relax myself by rubbing his chest. His cock needs to be circumcised and look presentable. Hispanic or white males will do.. they also need to be wearing a strong scene at all times.. none of that weak Axe shit.. So essentially the man needs to be like the user --Alex--
Aug 27, 2020 3:37 PM
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I thought I wanted someone who don't talk that much, and lives simple in a sense that they don't have much going on but still a person worth being with, and so I dated one and found out that we're not match at all.

Then I dated someone who's a total extrovert, brutally honest, shallow pastime like spending hard-earned money on alcohol and expensive sneakers. It didn't work out, too.

Realized that I get along well with someone older than me, and so I dated this guy who's 11 years older than me. It turns out he has an excess baggage, has a secret, but it was something I should have seen coming. I dated someone within my age range but I never truly enjoyed my time with them.

That's a brief summary of how my dating life went. Obviously, I have long given up in seeking this so-called partner. I just wanna spend the rest of my life finding my place that's not in the arms of any men.
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There are several factors I consider when looking for a long-term partner.

Physically, the only thing I really ask for is to have pretty teeth/smile. That can really get a fella's heart going like, ドキドキ.

Other than that, I'm attracted to women who exhibit kindness/sweet, consideration, humour, intelligence, emotional maturity, and have values and interests similar to mine
Aug 27, 2020 3:39 PM

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Bobby2Hands said:
Bobby2Hands said:
You know what I really want in a girl?...my penis.
Kosmonaut said:
You know what I really want in a girl?...another guy's penis.

Bro, you took my joke and made it into the cuckold version.
I don't know whether to be angry or aroused.
It depends. Who is the ugly bastard? You? Myself? The girl? Or the dog laying by the bed?
Aug 27, 2020 3:54 PM
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AmityBlight said:
For men - No white dudes unless he's mixed. Must have money, Good looking nothing under 7/10, Tall and that can drive me around because I am lazy. Must workout. Can't be younger than me.

For Girls - Good looking, likes having fun, must like drinking. Out doors person. Feisty but sweet.


Location checks out.

don't really wanna get into an argument I just wanted to say that lel
Aug 27, 2020 4:00 PM
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Auron_ said:
AmityBlight said:
For men - No white dudes unless he's mixed. Must have money, Good looking nothing under 7/10, Tall and that can drive me around because I am lazy. Must workout. Can't be younger than me.

For Girls - Good looking, likes having fun, must like drinking. Out doors person. Feisty but sweet.


Location checks out.

don't really wanna get into an argument I just wanted to say that lel


Just yellow fever! lol it's like a drug
Aug 27, 2020 4:15 PM

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Regardless of gender, I need cute and feminine.

I can put up with baggage, and a lot of other stuff, but not going to be seen dead with these modern-day gorillas.
idk about you but the closer a girl gets to looking like ronald mcdonald, the more aroused i become. CAV

where can we cast our eyes to @PoruMairu who thinks of himself a member of the true church. Helion.
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For me, there are only two things I really look for in a man I plan to spend the rest of my life with. One, he has to have patience. Coming out of a relationship where I definitely felt like he couldn’t connect with me because I didn’t do the deed with him, I will not tolerate someone who tries to coax me into something without my consent.

Two, I want a man who’s willing to force me out of my comfort zone when I need it most. I am an overly timid and insecure person irl, and it’s just something that might make my life much brighter. It’s definitely not something I need, I’d just appreciate the extra push. I hope to give my future husband something equally valuable in return, too.

These are two pretty loaded things I want from my partner, but that’s just how I am, lol.
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A cisgender female that is accepting of my hobbies and interests, can meet my standards for being trustworthy, and I also need a chatterbox.

No offense to trans people, but when I reach into a cookie jar, I don't expect a pickle. Friends? Sure. Lovers? No thinks.

Aug 27, 2020 5:48 PM
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I just want to be with someone who is a good person at heart, has similar interests as me, and despite being flawed, I can get along with.

Xickonaut said:
has hatred for others but doesn’t direct it at me


Why...would you want to be with someone who has hatred for others? Also, why does one's partner need to be the same political alignment as them? It's not like people on the opposite political spectrum, liberal or conservative, have insane beliefs.

Starchaser said:

Other than that, I'm attracted to women who exhibit kindness/sweet, consideration, humour, intelligence, emotional maturity, and have values and interests similar to mine


I can respect that, and that's also what I'd look for.

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I thought I wanted someone who don't talk that much, and lives simple in a sense that they don't have much going on but still a person worth being with, and so I dated one and found out that we're not match at all.

Then I dated someone who's a total extrovert, brutally honest, shallow pastime like spending hard-earned money on alcohol and expensive sneakers. It didn't work out, too.

Realized that I get along well with someone older than me, and so I dated this guy who's 11 years older than me. It turns out he has an excess baggage, has a secret, but it was something I should have seen coming. I dated someone within my age range but I never truly enjoyed my time with them.

That's a brief summary of how my dating life went. Obviously, I have long given up in seeking this so-called partner. I just wanna spend the rest of my life finding my place that's not in the arms of any men.


Dang. That sounds tough. I'm guessing there were other factors that led to things not working out. But if you look hard enough, I'm sure you can find a compatible partner. But if you don't want to, that's fine, I'm not gonna tell you what to do.
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AbsurdTurk said:
I just want to be with someone who is a good person at heart, has similar interests as me, and despite being flawed, I can get along with.

Xickonaut said:
has hatred for others but doesn’t direct it at me


Why...would you want to be with someone who has hatred for others? Also, why does one's partner need to be the same political alignment as them? It's not like people on the opposite political spectrum, liberal or conservative, have insane beliefs.


Not necessarily hatred for others, but a general disdain for the average person. It would give us something to bond over. Yeah I know people on the opposite political spectrum don’t have insane beliefs, and I’m a centrist myself, but I often find left wingers to be more annoying than right wingers. I’d prefer someone else who’s just a centrist like me or a right winger.
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Xickonaut said:
AbsurdTurk said:
I just want to be with someone who is a good person at heart, has similar interests as me, and despite being flawed, I can get along with.



Why...would you want to be with someone who has hatred for others? Also, why does one's partner need to be the same political alignment as them? It's not like people on the opposite political spectrum, liberal or conservative, have insane beliefs.


Not necessarily hatred for others, but a general disdain for the average person. It would give us something to bond over. Yeah I know people on the opposite political spectrum don’t have insane beliefs, and I’m a centrist myself, but I often find left wingers to be more annoying than right wingers. I’d prefer someone else who’s just a centrist like me or a right winger.


Why...would you have a disdain for the average human being? You're an average human being too; none of us here are special.
If you find left wingers more annoying than right wingers...is it because you've gone to Youtube, typed in, "Crazy SJWs/liberals" and actively have searched crazy comments from left wingers? I'm sorry, but both sides are problematic; but if you go out of your way to confirm your bias that one side is worse than the other...than yeah; it'll look like one side is worse than the other.
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AbsurdTurk said:
Xickonaut said:


Not necessarily hatred for others, but a general disdain for the average person. It would give us something to bond over. Yeah I know people on the opposite political spectrum don’t have insane beliefs, and I’m a centrist myself, but I often find left wingers to be more annoying than right wingers. I’d prefer someone else who’s just a centrist like me or a right winger.


Why...would you have a disdain for the average human being? You're an average human being too; none of us here are special.
If you find left wingers more annoying than right wingers...is it because you've gone to Youtube, typed in, "Crazy SJWs/liberals" and actively have searched crazy comments from left wingers? I'm sorry, but both sides are problematic; but if you go out of your way to confirm your bias that one side is worse than the other...than yeah; it'll look like one side is worse than the other.

There are people who just stand out in some way and can offer way more than the average person. The average person is shallow, dull, boring. I guess I just dislike people who aren’t interesting to talk to and be around.

At least when right wingers say crazy things they don’t go to pathetic extremes to virtue signal like left wingers. I’d prefer someone with questionable morals over someone who thinks they’re such nice people when they aren’t.
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Xickonaut said:

There are people who just stand out in some way and can offer way more than the average person. The average person is shallow, dull, boring. I guess I just dislike people who aren’t interesting to talk to and be around.


So...what makes you different than the average person?
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AbsurdTurk said:
Xickonaut said:

There are people who just stand out in some way and can offer way more than the average person. The average person is shallow, dull, boring. I guess I just dislike people who aren’t interesting to talk to and be around.


So...what makes you different than the average person?


Well, I watch anime and I’m a Chaotic Neutral so that’s pretty interesting. That’s not much, but I don’t really consider myself a super interesting person. I don’t think very highly of myself.
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She needs to have a lot of features and be put together well.

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Xickonaut said:
AbsurdTurk said:


So...what makes you different than the average person?


Well, I watch anime and I’m a Chaotic Neutral so that’s pretty interesting. That’s not much, but I don’t really consider myself a super interesting person. I don’t think very highly of myself.


How does watching anime put you above a higher plane than the average person? How are you Chaotic Neutral? You're an actual person; not a video game character.
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Can't be overweight, tattoos are a big no no, can't be a slut and can't be a feminist.

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Swingingbison said:
Can't be overweight, tattoos are a big no no, and can't be a feminist.



Luckily all 3 of those things typically come in 1 easily avoided package, so if you spot one you already know the rest are tagging along.
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TallonKarrde23 said:
Swingingbison said:
Can't be overweight, tattoos are a big no no, and can't be a feminist.



Luckily all 3 of those things typically come in 1 easily avoided package, so if you spot one you already know the rest are tagging along.

Now that I think about it.... you're not wrong.
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Someone like me in many ways, but different enough to bring many new things to each other. Someone who meets eye to eye with me, has my level of emotional regulation. I just kinda know who that person is by instinct alone.
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AbsurdTurk said:
Xickonaut said:


Well, I watch anime and I’m a Chaotic Neutral so that’s pretty interesting. That’s not much, but I don’t really consider myself a super interesting person. I don’t think very highly of myself.


How does watching anime put you above a higher plane than the average person? How are you Chaotic Neutral? You're an actual person; not a video game character.

In my opinion, people who watch anime are more interesting than someone who just watches Netflix or something. I’m not saying people who watch anime are above others, I’m just saying it’s a trait that appeals to me. The D&D alignment chart applies to people as well as fictional characters. It’s my favorite personality quiz.
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Xickonaut said:
AbsurdTurk said:


How does watching anime put you above a higher plane than the average person? How are you Chaotic Neutral? You're an actual person; not a video game character.

In my opinion, people who watch anime are more interesting than someone who just watches Netflix or something. I’m not saying people who watch anime are above others, I’m just saying it’s a trait that appeals to me. The D&D alignment chart applies to people as well as fictional characters. It’s my favorite personality quiz.

Well, that sounds pretty boring. Nothing more boring than your typical right winger. In the end they are just some edgy boys, who think their immorality makes them special and interesting.

TallonKarrde23 said:
Swingingbison said:
Can't be overweight, tattoos are a big no no, and can't be a feminist.



Luckily all 3 of those things typically come in 1 easily avoided package, so if you spot one you already know the rest are tagging along.

Another reason to get a tattoo. Those guys will avoid you by themselves haha
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Xickonaut said:

In my opinion, people who watch anime are more interesting than someone who just watches Netflix or something. I’m not saying people who watch anime are above others, I’m just saying it’s a trait that appeals to me. The D&D alignment chart applies to people as well as fictional characters. It’s my favorite personality quiz.

Well, that sounds pretty boring. Nothing more boring than your typical right winger. In the end they are just some edgy boys, who think their immorality makes them special and interesting.

TallonKarrde23 said:


Luckily all 3 of those things typically come in 1 easily avoided package, so if you spot one you already know the rest are tagging along.

Another reason to get a tattoo. Those guys will avoid you by themselves haha


Well I just happen to like people who are edgy, all the friends I had in school were at least somewhat edgy, so that’s probably why I prefer right wingers.
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Someone highly intelligent with whom I can endlessly learn and discuss. An Alpha would be a nice change, I want to feel intimidated
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A wholesome girl, pretty face and tight body. Should be intelligent. Should have hobbies. Can’t be too annoying or demanding. Can’t be unrealistic. Must be good with money. Must be independent. Would prefer if she shares my background or can understand me. I am attracted to women of all races and a few different body types so many women could fit the bill.
Mustn’t be a road girl. Mustn’t be a loose girl. Mustn’t speak street slang. Mustn’t be a smoker. Mustn’t be into the nightlife out clubbing all the time. Mustn’t have a bunch of bad male and female friends around her. Mustn’t be too into social media. Must be willing to work through problems and have goals for the longterm. Should be trying to find ways to protect the relationship and not give up at the first sign of trouble.
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Loyalty, love, and honesty I guess. Cause we wanna be happy together in the long term and not jumping into a roller coaster full of emotional breakdown
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Someone who can constantly expand and challenge my world view, convictions, and self not by conflict, that's what a good friend is for - but by nurture, someone who helps me purge the worst aspects of myself and helps raise the most positive. Have hobbies, be independent, passionate - and above all else know when to make me shut the hell up, because my mouth gets in trouble a lot and it'd be nice to have someone who can limit that....
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Not a feminist, not overweight, respect traditional social and gender norms, is feminine, doesn't have a dick, has above average looks.

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I'm just looking for warmth and kindness, and love of course. I wanna be happy not horny
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1. An Asian.
2. Must be above 170cm.
3. Not skinny.
4. Not an extrovert (I dislike people who talk too much).
5. A muscular dude.
6. Must be richer than me or else I'll dominate his broke ass.
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1. An Asian.
2. Must be above 170cm.
3. Not skinny.
4. Not an extrovert (I dislike people who talk too much).
5. A muscular dude.
6. Must be richer than me or else I'll dominate his broke ass.


And what would you give guy like that in return, except a headache?
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