| I'm seeing this as a more common thing with guys, and no obviously I don't do this nor do I think about doing this, it's just a funny/creepy thing i've noticed. So basically, you aren't interested in being their gf in the future or anything, just "friends" but you have an urge to try and befriend every girl just for the sake of hanging out with a group of girls to go to events and stuff. Plus they are one of those guys that refuse to partake in anything you or anyone else is planning unless female/females are involved. And during the event, they will socialize with the female in question the most. Could also be for status, and just being around attractive people is a pleasant feeling. Kind of like having your own "harem" where you pretend you don't care about getting into a relationship with any of those people surrounding you but you're actually in denial. (maybe?) I don't really know the thought process behind this so i'm just speculating. Or maybe it's the illusion of availability? Like you can choose to ask out any one of your friends at any given point with a high success rate? lol sorry for putting it like that, but I didn't know how else to put it. creepy or no? |
Star_BoyMay 17, 2015 4:43 PM
Tsuyuu said: I'm seeing this as a more common thing with my guys Your guys? |
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| Not creepy, I guess it's a normal thing. Last time I was sitting on a bench I saw a guy walking with 5 girls holding his arms. I mean like ^$^ |
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KamSung said: Not creepy, I guess it's a normal thing. Last time I was sitting on a bench I saw a guy walking with 5 girls holding his arms. I mean like ^$^ It's creepy when you objectify them and you're only hanging out with them cuz they're "cute" and they're "girls". There should be better reasons for your friendship, and actually treating them like human beings, not ornaments, lol |
Tsuyuu said: KamSung said: Not creepy, I guess it's a normal thing. Last time I was sitting on a bench I saw a guy walking with 5 girls holding his arms. I mean like ^$^ It's creepy when you objectify them and you're only hanging out with them cuz they're "cute" and they're "girls". There should be better reasons for your friendship, and actually treating them like human beings, not ornaments, lol It's weird how when some people meet someone of the opposite sex, their first thought is "how can I get them to bed?". If you don't see them as people you can be friends with, you're missing out on half the human race. |
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| How would you know they are only doing it for that reason? Did they tell you that? :o |
| I did that during highschool and college, it's actually kind of fun. |
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WingsOfValor said: How would you know they are only doing it for that reason? Did they tell you that? :o It's not possible to know what other people are thinking, but I'm pretty sure from the people I've met and the posts online that some people only see the opposite sex as an opportunity to get laid. |
| Shoot first, think never. |
Hoppy said: I did that during highschool and college, it's actually kind of fun. lol you must have been like the "gay guy" |
| This is pretty common, and not weird at all. |
lolatusenpai said: This guy This girl |
| My name is Terrence always is Terrence and will always be Terrence Current Accounts: ThePinhead3333, |
| Yes it is possible that normal guy, is always hanging out with multiple girls around him and looking, at them only as close friends. But often guys like that turn out too be closet homos. |
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Exowave said: Yes it is possible that normal guy, is always hanging out with multiple girls around him and looking, at them only as close friends. But often guys like that turn out too be closet homos. Is that true or bad if a lot of girls okay like that meaning guys into girl things? |
| My name is Terrence always is Terrence and will always be Terrence Current Accounts: ThePinhead3333, |
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| I connect on a personal level with girls better. Its personality first really, just happens so many girls in general are cute. The majority id have no serious consideration of sleeping with or dating. |
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ThePinhead3333 said: Exowave said: Yes it is possible that normal guy, is always hanging out with multiple girls around him and looking, at them only as close friends. But often guys like that turn out too be closet homos. Is that true or bad if a lot of girls okay like that meaning guys into girl things? Not sure what you are meaning ? Do you mean is it normal for girls too let guy getting that close to them without secretly wanting his D. Depends on a girl imo some are really friendly and open too everyone little naive too, some are just calculative . There is also the case when guy is just simply enjoying more in female company and their stories as oposite too classic male hangovers but again straight guys like that are rare. Most of the guys i know are usualy more awkward with womans not because they are simple minded fools or cant control urges, but because they try too much not too screw up and then it looks even worse. |
ExowaveMay 17, 2015 10:32 AM
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Stalker-tan said: Some people just get along with girls more than they do with guys. Same goes for the opposite. I don't befriend girls to get into their pants, I do it because I feel more comfortable talking with them. If I happen to find love interest on the way? Well, that's just another benefit. not bad man |
| Nah, you and the rest of this thread is in denial too, OP. 99% of guys think this way. It's natural and not exactly creepy. Females have always been the more discriminatory sex (because they evolved in such a way that they have to be), and so having their approval has always been more of a status symbol. For a guy, having a harem is an indication that you specifically are desirable, more so than the other guys around you. Girls generally don't have this same relentlessly competitive streak, where they try to amass as many companions of the opposite sex as possible; as you know, that gets them labeled a "slut" and seen in an undesirable light. It's a justified double standard, though. |
Solipsistic said: Nah, you and the rest of this thread is in denial too, OP. 99% of guys think this way. It's natural and not exactly creepy. Females have always been the more discriminatory sex (because they evolved in such a way that they have to be), and so having their approval has always been more of a status symbol. For a guy, having a harem is an indication that you specifically are desirable, more so than the other guys around you. Girls generally don't have this same relentlessly competitive streak, where they try to amass as many companions of the opposite sex as possible; as you know, that gets them labeled a "slut" and seen in an undesirable light. It's a justified double standard, though. maybe i just so happen to be the 1% that doesn't think that way. |
Solipsistic said: ?It's a justified double standard, though. |
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Tsuyuu said: Solipsistic said: Nah, you and the rest of this thread is in denial too, OP. 99% of guys think this way. It's natural and not exactly creepy. Females have always been the more discriminatory sex (because they evolved in such a way that they have to be), and so having their approval has always been more of a status symbol. For a guy, having a harem is an indication that you specifically are desirable, more so than the other guys around you. Girls generally don't have this same relentlessly competitive streak, where they try to amass as many companions of the opposite sex as possible; as you know, that gets them labeled a "slut" and seen in an undesirable light. It's a justified double standard, though. maybe i just so happen to be the 1% that doesn't think that way. You're just contradicting yourself, Tsuyuu. |
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| I don't quite understand. Straight guys can't be friends without wanting sex or a relationship with them? |
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MaiTai said: I don't quite understand. Straight guys can't be friends without wanting sex or a relationship with them? Yeah, that seems to be too unimaginable for most of MAL's users. |
Plate said: You are just thinking with a perverted mind and assuming so as well. It sickens me how you people think that everyone just wants to get into a relationship, wait for an 'opportunity' and shit. Clearly you would be one like that yourself. |
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WingsOfValor said: MaiTai said: I don't quite understand. Straight guys can't be friends without wanting sex or a relationship with them? Yeah, that seems to be too unimaginable for most of MAL's users. That's just sad then. I mean, I am not surprised but yeah. That's a really out-dated way of thinking. Rarusu_ said: Girls are the best wingmans We really are though. |
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MaiTai said: I don't quite understand. Straight guys can't be friends without wanting sex or a relationship with them? That's not the point of the thread. it's more about wanting to hang out with cute girls instead of guys, because cute girls are well, cute. also, I want something like this. |
| I have more friends that are girls than friends that are guys and usually hang out with more girls than guys... just think most guys are immature and retarded at my age, not awkward or weird at all. |
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| It's not creepy, it's friendly. |
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| Well, I guess some guys get along with girls better than they do with guys. Okay, the only guy I know who pretty much ONLY had female friends was gay, but yea. I'm female and get along with guys better than I do with girls, so almost all of my friends are dudes. I don't want to get in their pants, it's just that we share more interests. If a guy wants to befriend many attractive girls for the sake of being "friends" with girls, basically as a status symbol, I wouldn't deem him trustworthy/boyfriend material. Soz. |
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AnimeFreak-San said: MaiTai said: I don't quite understand. Straight guys can't be friends without wanting sex or a relationship with them? That's not the point of the thread. it's more about wanting to hang out with cute girls instead of guys, because cute girls are well, cute. also, I want something like this. I don't find it any less odd though. Maybe it's because I don't go around attempting to accumulate guy friends over girl friends (let's be honest, that's a bit of a double standard but that's another conversation all together)...or rather I don't try to pick a specific "type" period. Seems awfully shallow, even for "just friends." |
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YorKeY said: Most people do it for status ViolettSky said: If a guy wants to befriend many attractive girls for the sake of being "friends" with girls, basically as a status symbol, I wouldn't deem him trustworthy/boyfriend material. Soz. I don't want status. I just want to be around cute girls. |
YorKeY said: AnimeFreak-San said: That's not the point of the thread. it's more about wanting to hang out with cute girls instead of guys, because cute girls are well, cute. Most people do it for status, but i guess i do it cause having a pretty face to talk to all the time, go to movies with, go to six flags with, go to the beach with, go paint balling with, talk about your problems with, be bored around the house on a boring saturday with, doesn't sound half bad. Girl or guy, people just like attractive people, there's no arguing that, that's just the way our brains are wired, something pleasant about it. that's exactly what's happening dude. |
| Maybe they're gay... |
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MechaKiryu said: Maybe they're gay... wouldn't it be more gay to choose not to hang around a group of girls? |
Tsuyuu said: some people like to have friends you knowI'm seeing this as a more common thing with guys, and no obviously I don't do this nor do I think about doing this, it's just a funny/creepy thing i've noticed. So basically, you aren't interested in being their gf in the future or anything, just "friends" but you have an urge to try and befriend every girl just for the sake of hanging out with a group of girls to go to events and stuff. Plus they are one of those guys that refuse to partake in anything you or anyone else is planning unless female/females are involved. And during the event, they will socialize with the female in question the most. Could also be for status, and just being around attractive people is a pleasant feeling. Kind of like having your own "harem" where you pretend you don't care about getting into a relationship with any of those people surrounding you but you're actually in denial. (maybe?) I don't really know the thought process behind this so i'm just speculating. Or maybe it's the illusion of availability? Like you can choose to ask out any one of your friends at any given point with a high success rate? lol sorry for putting it like that, but I didn't know how else to put it. creepy or no? |
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Tsuyuu said: I treat most women like vaginas that need a bit of pandering before I can delve in, fist first.KamSung said: Not creepy, I guess it's a normal thing. Last time I was sitting on a bench I saw a guy walking with 5 girls holding his arms. I mean like ^$^ It's creepy when you objectify them and you're only hanging out with them cuz they're "cute" and they're "girls". There should be better reasons for your friendship, and actually treating them like human beings, not ornaments, lol |
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AnimeFreak-San said: I wasn't thinking when I made this post okay?MechaKiryu said: Maybe they're gay... wouldn't it be more gay to choose not to hang around a group of girls? |
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Nicoreos said: Do the International girls at your college turn you on? Awww how cute, OP. wtf no they dont? |
| I, for one, am just glad the thread title didn't feel the need to specify and say "little girls". |
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MoeAllNighters said: I don't hang out with girls. Girls hang out with me. how? |
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