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Aug 2, 2020 9:41 AM
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No wars pls....
Please give 3 reasons why they are better 4 hachiman
I really want to know how other shippers can justify their ship.

EDIT: SINCE 80% OF U DONT KNOW HOW TO READ...

1. THIS IS NOT A BEST GIRL THREAD
2. THE QUESTION IS THE GIRL BEST 4 HACHIMAN NOT THE BEST 4 U
HACHIXYUKIAug 13, 2020 4:50 AM
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Aug 2, 2020 10:38 AM
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I don't need to justify my ship for we're sailing on the same boat
Aug 2, 2020 10:40 AM
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With all the 'ka shira's yukino keeps doing every sentence, I'd go for Yui. Yukino just brings her own huge list of issues with her.
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Aug 2, 2020 10:56 AM
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Look, I love both Yukino and Yui, but I prefer Yui more.

Yui's a really cheerful and energetic girl, and gives her all in everything she does. She genuinely cares a lot about others and tries her best to not hurt anyone. I just absolutely love these aspects of her personality. And she's also really beautiful. Not saying that Yukino isn't, but Yui looks more beautiful and cuter to me.
Aug 2, 2020 11:02 AM
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I don't care as much about Hachiman as I care for Yui so the question for me is:

What would be better for Yui? Ending up with hachiman or not?

And my answer would be: Yui ending up with Hachiman but then after some time, breaking up with him after she realizes she deserves someone better.

Edit: well, i regret my last line. Poor Hachiman. They can be together forever.

IrrelevantGuy said:
Look, I love both Yukino and Yui, but I prefer Yui more.

Yui's a really cheerful and energetic girl, and gives her all in everything she does. She genuinely cares a lot about others and tries her best to not hurt anyone. I just absolutely love these aspects of her personality. And she's also really beautiful. Not saying that Yukino isn't, but Yui looks more beautiful and cuter to me.


You are spitting some real facts over here

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Aug 2, 2020 11:30 AM
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i ship none of those.

Komachi best girl


(i m joking :p )
Aug 2, 2020 12:06 PM
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You want three reasons, here you go-

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2- Yui is bad for Hachiman, the cute, bubbly nature, don't take everything for word, as shown in season 3 episodes.

3-
Aug 2, 2020 1:37 PM
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Yui is a much better character than Yukino, but I'm sorry to say that it's not her happy ending. The finale of episode 4 dispelled all doubts, and as much as I love Yui, such are the sad facts.
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Aug 2, 2020 2:44 PM
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Like I said before, this anime need to have more than one ending, it's just fair.
Aug 2, 2020 5:09 PM

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Sorry dude, but Yukino is by far the best girl. Burdened by the expectations of her family, she is unable to carve a path for herself. Despite appearing strong and carrying a cold exterior, she is actually very fragile and lonely. She has more depth than Yui and is the driving factor behind Hachiman’s gradual change. Plus she goes “Nyaa~” and “Shaa~.” Which is very cute!! She is smart and beautiful and honest and probably the only one capable of making Hachiman’s dream job of “stay at home dad” a reality. She is also the only one who can give Hachiman a genuine relationship!

Yes this is a copy pasta. Yukino goddess is the only one for 8man




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Aug 2, 2020 5:27 PM

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Question is irrelevant since 8man has already chosen

Aug 2, 2020 6:15 PM
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Sorry, but im rooting for Iroha :)) :(
Aug 2, 2020 8:10 PM

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Lol I don't even get why people are having "waifu wars" in this anime.

The whole story of Oregairu really revolves about how Hachiman and Yukino change their world views and open themselves to other people by depending on each other. Yui's and other characters are important as well but their just stepping stones for the two imo.


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Aug 3, 2020 12:46 AM
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A_G_N said:
You want three reasons, here you go-

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2- Yui is bad for Hachiman, the cute, bubbly nature, don't take everything for word, as shown in season 3 episodes.

3-


I want something genuine....
Aug 3, 2020 1:00 AM
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krukrooo said:
Lol I don't even get why people are having "waifu wars" in this anime.

The whole story of Oregairu really revolves about how Hachiman and Yukino change their world views and open themselves to other people by depending on each other. Yui's and other characters are important as well but their just stepping stones for the two imo.


Well I agree that oregairu's main themes are growth. More specifically the growth of hachiman and yukino. I made my post bcz some shippers ship yukino x hachiman, yui x hachiman, etc. for petty reasons. Ex. they look so "cute" together or I don't like this character and vice versa.
I want to see if people can actually justify their ship without giving opinions about what they think about the characters. Preferably I want people to answer why would hachiman pick this girl and why. Just like what Comment #9 did
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HACHIXYUKI said:
krukrooo said:
Lol I don't even get why people are having "waifu wars" in this anime.

The whole story of Oregairu really revolves about how Hachiman and Yukino change their world views and open themselves to other people by depending on each other. Yui's and other characters are important as well but their just stepping stones for the two imo.


I want to see if people can actually justify their ship without giving opinions about what they think about the characters. Preferably I want people to answer why would hachiman pick this girl and why. Just like what Comment #9 did


ahh ok sorry for that I didn't understand it at first. And yeah for me its Yukino, why? Because she will give him the "genuine" thing. She is an honest person and yeah Hachiman doesn't really like cute girls(thats fake), if you know what I mean.


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Aug 3, 2020 6:44 AM
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Easily Yukino because she's the only one who Hachiman can depend on and vice versa , and thy are alike in many ways. Don't know why anime cuts off their moments but Hachiman was always attracted to Yukino and both literally sacrificed themselves for Yui's happiness later in the series
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[quote=A_G_N message=60390609]
HACHIXYUKI said:
A_G_N said:
You want three reasons, here you go-

1-


2- Yui is bad for Hachiman, the cute, bubbly nature, don't take everything for word, as shown in season 3 episodes.

3-


HACHIXYUKI said:
A_G_N said:
You want three reasons, here you go-

1-


2- Yui is bad for Hachiman, the cute, bubbly nature, don't take everything for word, as shown in season 3 episodes.

3-


Exactly.Yes, exactly, people say certain characters are better for him, but infact its their own

Ikr most shippers ship Hachiman x yukino or Hachiman x Yui, etc. bcz they like Yukino's or Yui's character better LOL
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spectrojan said:
With all the 'ka shira's yukino keeps doing every sentence, I'd go for Yui. Yukino just brings her own huge list of issues with her.


This is not about who u prefer... Its about the girl best 4 hachiman...
I want something genuine....
Aug 3, 2020 7:02 AM
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IrrelevantGuy said:
Look, I love both Yukino and Yui, but I prefer Yui more.

Yui's a really cheerful and energetic girl, and gives her all in everything she does. She genuinely cares a lot about others and tries her best to not hurt anyone. I just absolutely love these aspects of her personality. And she's also really beautiful. Not saying that Yukino isn't, but Yui looks more beautiful and cuter to me.


This is not about who you prefer... Its about the girl best 4 hachiman

Brytan said:
Yui is a much better character than Yukino, but I'm sorry to say that it's not her happy ending. The finale of episode 4 dispelled all doubts, and as much as I love Yui, such are the sad facts.


This is not about who you prefer... Its about the girl best 4 hachiman


This is not a best girl thread... OK??? Its about the girl who is BEST SUITED to be with hachiman.

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MrZawaAug 17, 2020 4:10 AM
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HACHIXYUKI said:
IrrelevantGuy said:
Look, I love both Yukino and Yui, but I prefer Yui more.

Yui's a really cheerful and energetic girl, and gives her all in everything she does. She genuinely cares a lot about others and tries her best to not hurt anyone. I just absolutely love these aspects of her personality. And she's also really beautiful. Not saying that Yukino isn't, but Yui looks more beautiful and cuter to me.


This is not about who you prefer... Its about the girl best 4 hachiman

I didn't say that Yukino isn't suitable for Hachiman. Rather, I believe Yukino and Hachiman together have the best compatibility even though some of their personality traits are vastly different.
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HACHIXYUKI said:
IrrelevantGuy said:
Look, I love both Yukino and Yui, but I prefer Yui more.

Yui's a really cheerful and energetic girl, and gives her all in everything she does. She genuinely cares a lot about others and tries her best to not hurt anyone. I just absolutely love these aspects of her personality. And she's also really beautiful. Not saying that Yukino isn't, but Yui looks more beautiful and cuter to me.


This is not about who you prefer... Its about the girl best 4 hachiman


Bro are you to trying to say my opinion doesn't matter, how dare you
This anime shit is addictive
Aug 3, 2020 7:12 AM
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spectrojan said:
HACHIXYUKI said:


This is not about who you prefer... Its about the girl best 4 hachiman


Bro are you to trying to say my opinion doesn't matter, how dare you


bro this isn't a best girl thread.....
I want something genuine....
Aug 4, 2020 8:37 AM

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While Yui and Hachiman are polar opposites and would probably put themselves out of their comfort zones at first, but if they are willing to change, they can learn a lot from each other. Yui can help Hachiman become a normie again, while Hachiman can help Yui to speak out her mind often. Yui is also extremely kind and tries her best when it comes to Hachiman. Though her best wasn't good enough. Yui provides the emotion and Hachiman provides the logic.

Yukino and Hachiman's chemistry is great though it feels circle-jerk-ey at times. It's a possibility that their growth as people would stagnate and they'd be just two loners stuck in a world that doesn't understand them. Not to mention, Yukino has the ability to be really nasty when she's angry. But at least he gets to live on his house husband dreams by becoming an ultra leech lol.

Yui is a safe bet, while Yukino is a wild card for the adventurous.

Personally I prefer Yui, but Hachiman wants something genuine, so only Yukino can do that.
Aug 5, 2020 11:28 PM
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I really like both but i feel like Yui is better suited for Hachi the tears in her eyes shows how much she likes him but from the start of this anime it feels like yui will loose and Yukino will be the one who gets together with Hachi ..hope this not happen
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I really like both but i feel like Yui is better suited for Hachi the tears in her eyes shows how much she likes him but from the start of this anime it feels like yui will loose and Yukino will be the one who gets together with Hachi ..hope this not happen
i would feel sad for whoever ends up Hachi. He is the main male character in a harem anime you know he is going to have 1 to maybe two side chicks, lets be honest here.
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OnePieceSUCKS said:
roshanzzz said:
I really like both but i feel like Yui is better suited for Hachi the tears in her eyes shows how much she likes him but from the start of this anime it feels like yui will loose and Yukino will be the one who gets together with Hachi ..hope this not happen
i would feel sad for whoever ends up Hachi. He is the main male character in a harem anime you know he is going to have 1 to maybe two side chicks, lets be honest here.

ya u may be right but i really hope yui will end up with him and this anime is not really a harem anime,its not some isekai,magical,demon anime its like the real live we live in so harem is out of question
Aug 13, 2020 2:25 AM

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Iroha because:
1. She's more seductive
2. Blonde
3. More stylish and thinner
Aug 13, 2020 3:57 AM

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Yui is my personal fav but I feel that Hachiman and Yukino have much stronger chemistry together.
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Yukino
Because Yukinoshita is not afraid to cause conflict when she thinks Hikigaya is wrong, she is not afraid to take huge risks unlike Yuigahama whose only purpose is to get the boy any way she can other than completely betraying Yukinoshita, because Yukinoshita herself also has curated and developed opinions, because she is the only one who causes Hikigaya to act when it counts, because she is the only one Hikigaya cannot fathom not being acquainted with, because unlike Haruno she has an optimistic side to her, because Hikigaya's admiration of her causes him to intentionally block his own escape routes and crumble his own walls.

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Yukino
Because Yukinoshita is not afraid to cause conflict when she thinks Hikigaya is wrong, she is not afraid to take huge risks unlike Yuigahama whose only purpose is to get the boy any way she can other than completely betraying Yukinoshita, because Yukinoshita herself also has curated and developed opinions, because she is the only one who causes Hikigaya to act when it counts, because she is the only one Hikigaya cannot fathom not being acquainted with, because unlike Haruno she has an optimistic side to her, because Hikigaya's admiration of her causes him to intentionally block his own escape routes and crumble his own walls.


Finally someone who knows how to fcking read.... 80% of the comments here just give their opinion about why they like the characters lmao THIS IS NOT A BEST GIRL THREAD... Ty 4 understanding the question I was seriously starting to doubt if my wording of the question was wrong.
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Aug 15, 2020 5:16 AM

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Just add Hachiman x Iroha in options too which is atleast better than shipping Yui with Hachiman. Yui just takes advantage to Hachiman's nature again and again and clinges to her despite knowing that Hachiman won't choose her and then cries literally every episode. People mentioning Yui torture aren't seeing Hachiman, Iroha and Yukino suffering too. Moreover Yui is increasing her problems over and over
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ClanSh-V6 said:
Just add Hachiman x Iroha in options too which is atleast better than shipping Yui with Hachiman. Yui just takes advantage to Hachiman's nature again and again and clinges to her despite knowing that Hachiman won't choose her and then cries literally every episode. People mentioning Yui torture aren't seeing Hachiman, Iroha and Yukino suffering too. Moreover Yui is increasing her problems over and over

Check my "justify ur ship" poll
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NakolHira said:
Yukino
Because Yukinoshita is not afraid to cause conflict when she thinks Hikigaya is wrong, she is not afraid to take huge risks unlike Yuigahama whose only purpose is to get the boy any way she can other than completely betraying Yukinoshita, because Yukinoshita herself also has curated and developed opinions, because she is the only one who causes Hikigaya to act when it counts, because she is the only one Hikigaya cannot fathom not being acquainted with, because unlike Haruno she has an optimistic side to her, because Hikigaya's admiration of her causes him to intentionally block his own escape routes and crumble his own walls.


Very true. What you should be looking for in a person is not someone that will shower you with how amazing you are or sprinkle roses in your path. Pretty much anyone will eventually get tired of that since we know how deeply flawed we are, and in the case of Hikigaya even more so.
So someone that is not afraid to point out your faults and still be able to like you knowing all of that is pretty much the best possible match.
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For me, hachiman better with yukino. Because, as an introvert, having gf like yui sometimes consumed a lot of energy and kinda tiring
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For me, Yukino fits Hachiman better.
1. Obviously they love each other.
2. Yukino went through the same thing and Hachiman can actually understand her motivations.
3. Yui can manage without him. Yukino, on the other hand, has so many problems of his own that someone with a helper complex like Hachiman can really let off steam.

All he ever wanted is to be needed. In a relationship with Yui he would always be the weaker wheel. That can't end well.
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It's obviously ice queen Yukino , after S2 last scene I understood how selfish and manipulative yui was on the other hand , in recent episode for sake of her friend yui , Yukino sacrificed her own feelings for hikki and told hikki to grant her wish ,also from starting hikki was always intoxicated by Yukino's beauty and also hikki feels comfortable with yukino whereas when he is with yui he always thinks about Yukino. Yukino is honest and hikki and yuki truly understand each other
Also hikki hated cute , nice girl (fake)
Yui only acts selfish and greedy but people are always delusioned by her cuteness . So the real genuine Choice for hikki would be Yukino.
Also in my opinion she is real beauty.
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Kirito765 said:
It's obviously ice queen Yukino , after S2 last scene I understood how selfish and manipulative yui was on the other hand , in recent episode for sake of her friend yui , Yukino sacrificed her own feelings for hikki and told hikki to grant her wish ,also from starting hikki was always intoxicated by Yukino's beauty and also hikki feels comfortable with yukino whereas when he is with yui he always thinks about Yukino. Yukino is honest and hikki and yuki truly understand each other
Also hikki hated cute , nice girl (fake)
Yui only acts selfish and greedy but people are always delusioned by her cuteness . So the real genuine Choice for hikki would be Yukino.
Also in my opinion she is real beauty.

Same openion mine also
Sep 4, 2020 9:12 AM
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Iroha for the win.
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this question is literally should be in every single harem romance lmao,like 1 guy loved by many girls but no one,not even reader or author care about the guy feeling,its all about the "waifu wars" lol.

though ofc the answer is clearly yukino,its really about yukino and hachiman to begin with in terms of romance.
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Iroha for the win.
Iroha #1, she clobbers the other two.
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Either Iroha else Saki for me.

Yukino is a doormat people use, which has been branded as a "smart " device by whatever company.
is actively trying to change hachiman instaid of a normal development overtime when people get comfortable and get out of their shell. shes also a little to bound to her view of 'self' to notice anything else.

Yui is makes me think shes trying to include a loner into the "active daily lives of people" club inadvertently like Yukino trying to force change, she would still be my choice over yukino though.

Saki because shes the only actually dependable and independent one of the series, she has good looks and is definitely wife material as shown repeatedly in the series.

Iroha because she both shows yet hides her personality yet is more open without truly hiding, she comes across as a smart person to me without jabbering lines normal people wouldn't use in daily speech.
her manipulations are also more in the harmless fun category rather then malicious and she is fun/active instaid of the whiny/active, which yui is.

again, i'd say either iroha or saki, with both he is comfortable around the other and can speak his mind, can tease and have fun.
its a nice dynamic which i can see blossom into love.

all based on anime-only

p.s.
repost from other thread as that devolved into sandbox kiddy hour.
Sep 7, 2020 8:49 AM
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yukino of course
1. Yukino is the first one that has some common value with Hachiman. Without Yukino, he will just an unsociable student with some strange values only understand by himself. Is Yukino that gives him the hope and motivation to prove the value of themselves
2. Yukino is the only one Hachiman desires to understand, and also she is the one try most hard to understand Hachiman and express herself to Hachiman.
In the story, either the novel or the anime version, it's always the contradiction between Hiki and Yukino makes them miserable. They feel miserable because they want to understand each other and want to be understood. The more miserable they feel, the more deep their relationship is.
Our impression of Yukino change great from season 1 to season 3, not because Yukino is a weak girl pretend to be strong - she does well in many thing, just because Hachiman begin to understand a real Yukino and Yukino began to show her real mind to Hachiman.
Maybe they will never completely understand each other, but they have already been the soulmate.
3.Anyway, in the novel, Yukino is always so beautiful in Hachiman's view. just like the Studio always draw Yui so beautiful. It's simply bias,with no reason~
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Yui by far
fuck yukino

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It Iroha of course.
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EDIT: This Post contains Spoilers - Do Not open the spoiler tags if you haven't seen the whole show!

Yukino was from season 1 the only option.

I have only seen the anime, so I can't say anything about the original light novel, but the anime basically makes it pretty clear form episode 1 on that Yukino will be the "winner" in the end.



No other character ever gets anywhere close to this.

In short: none of them (Yui, Saki, Iroha) fit the "something genuine" that Hachiman is looking for.
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