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Mar 31, 2020 5:42 AM
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Idk if this clarifies as Anime related but anyway, have you noticed this?

I'm guilty of it myself and explain it as liking to see something aesthetically pleasing and not to represent myself as the picture.

What do you think?
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Mar 31, 2020 5:45 AM
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The answer is very simple insecurity, autism and social-anxiety. Also females dont usually tend to have male character profiles, what are you on about.
Mar 31, 2020 5:46 AM
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stingzy said:
The answer is very simple insecurity, autism and social-anxiety. Also females dont usually tend to have male character profiles, what are you on about.


Not true, I've seen many that have bishonens.
Mar 31, 2020 5:46 AM
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I think people mostly want to show their favorite character in their avatar and signature.

p.s. Also, I love staring at my beautiful bishies. So I make sure they are visible in place I will visit the most, which is the forum section :9
Can't stop staring at my beautiful avatar.
Mar 31, 2020 5:49 AM
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Because of their "waifu" - "husbando" thing.
Mar 31, 2020 5:50 AM
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stingzy said:
The answer is very simple insecurity, autism and social-anxiety.


It could also be that they like the picture.

Mar 31, 2020 5:53 AM
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idk. my avatar is an unfunny joke I did in ms paint.
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Mar 31, 2020 6:02 AM
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Because some of our favorite anime characters for most guys are female. The avatar pic that I have right now is a custom made pic made by the Harem&Ecchi club.
Mar 31, 2020 6:03 AM
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I don't know. I'm not part of that horny trend!
Mar 31, 2020 6:09 AM

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I don't think I've noticed any correlation like that. To me, it seems like an equal split between guys having a guy/girl avatar and girls having a girl/guy avatar... if that makes sense.
Mar 31, 2020 6:15 AM

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i have my current avi because it still makes me laugh, and my profile pic is a pretty even 50/50 split between male and female characters

as far as generalizations go, im assuming that people will sometimes put what gets those funny pants feelings on an anonymous platform
"I like young-girl sexual creations, Lolicon is just one hobby of my many hobbies," he says.
I ask what his wife, standing nearby, thinks of his "hobby".
"She probably thinks no problem," he replies. "Because she loves young boys sexually interacting with each other."
Mar 31, 2020 6:18 AM

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they just like that character, mine is made in ms paint
Mar 31, 2020 6:19 AM

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I normal take a higher liking to female character then males.

Mar 31, 2020 6:20 AM
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Because I can count the great male anime characters on one hand and male characters either look like lame bishounens, cringey shounen trash or generic af.
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Mar 31, 2020 6:21 AM

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Rero33 said:
Why do males tend to have female character avatars, while females tend to have male character avatars?



because we really love our favorite Waifus...
Mar 31, 2020 6:25 AM

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i've also been wondering the same thing. i see avatars as a personification of myself but maybe others who does that don't feel the same and just use whatever pics they currently like as their avatar!
Mar 31, 2020 6:26 AM
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never had a female avatar so don't know
Mar 31, 2020 6:28 AM

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Because I can.

No further explanation needed.

Mar 31, 2020 6:31 AM

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Most guys are boring in anime and even if they have a good personality they don't look as good as the girls.


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Mar 31, 2020 6:35 AM

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from my observation everyone has girl avatars except for yaoi enthusiasts
Mar 31, 2020 6:35 AM
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Dudes with bishies on their userpics are misleading because I keep associating them with these hotties. Can't approve of that!

And I have both because I want everyone to know how much do I love RR
Mar 31, 2020 6:38 AM

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My current set goes against the trend, but my previous one (which I kept for around two or three years) was all-boys, for no reason other than "I really like these characters". I think that's mostly it, we just want to showcase our faves.
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Mar 31, 2020 6:40 AM

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My forum gif is a girl and my profile picture is a boy.
Mar 31, 2020 7:05 AM
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Easy, I like to look at one of the hundreds of crazy beautiful guys I like rather than one of the maybe 3 female characters I ever found interesting enough to learn their names <.<

Mar 31, 2020 7:10 AM

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As a male would u rather look at a girl or a guy?
Most people are straight so we prefer nice girls ofcourse. We ain't gay homie..
As for me? I like looking at this dog.
A stupid thread deserves a stupid answer!
Mar 31, 2020 7:36 AM
Mar 31, 2020 7:53 AM

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ysphyr said:
Dudes with bishies on their userpics are misleading because I keep associating them with these hotties. Can't approve of that!


You speak the words of the wise trees
Mar 31, 2020 7:58 AM

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My hedgehog is a confused and it is avatar.
Mar 31, 2020 8:07 AM
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I have Mr Popo because I relate to him but I gotta respect dudes with waifus as their DPs. No harm in showing off what you love.
Mar 31, 2020 8:22 AM

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Guys like guys and girls like guys for the most part. It's the same reason why you're generally expected to play the opposite gender in an RPG.
Mar 31, 2020 8:23 AM

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Is that the truth? I see myself and a lot of other fans (especially fans of battle shounen) with male avatars and generally male favorite characters.
          
Mar 31, 2020 8:23 AM

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Because that it's the stuff they like.

Mar 31, 2020 8:27 AM
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stingzy said:
The answer is very simple insecurity, autism and social-anxiety. Also females dont usually tend to have male character profiles, what are you on about.


Uh, they definitely do. Spend some time on AoT or Haikyuu Twitter, the Levi stans are rabid.
Mar 31, 2020 8:29 AM

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I used to have Nao from Charlotte as my dp on telegram because I loved her character design and thought she looked super cute. But after a while I thought it was kind of weird like, I don't want people to misunderstand that that's who I think I look like/my mental image of myself i.e. overly, mega adorable?! I overthink and judge myself very harshly haha

but yeah like everyone else has already said, the point of a profile pic is usually to showcase your favourite characters rather than choosing someone like you. I thought it was kind of obvious as well, a larger proportion of people are straight so that's pretty much the answer.
Mar 31, 2020 8:37 AM

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I assume it's based on their likes and preference? I mean its no different from males and females creating characters that are the opposite gender from them.
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Mar 31, 2020 8:47 AM
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stingzy said:
The answer is very simple insecurity, autism and social-anxiety. Also females dont usually tend to have male character profiles, what are you on about.


in what you base? are you a psychiatrist
? Are there studies that demonstrate these points?

if not, stop talking trash that says more about yourself than about others.

Sincerely, a mental health professional.
Mar 31, 2020 8:53 AM

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Thread moved into the correct board.

As for the topic I use female avatars because I find them visually more pleasing. Although this depends, somewhere I use male avatars instead. I suppose more than anything I just want to show off characters I like to others. Gender is then somewhat secondary, though I tend to use female avatars more often. On MAL I'm currently using my two most favorite girls as forum avatar and profile avatar respectively.

I assume most people have similar reasons and besides just liking character for their traits/actions/etc. certain romantic/sexual appeal plays a role as well, which would explain why many people use characters of opposite genders, because that appeal might be what makes a different between two otherwise equally liked characters.







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Mar 31, 2020 8:55 AM

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Because I like females?

I like hot females even better?

Mar 31, 2020 9:00 AM
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ysphyr said:
Dudes with bishies on their userpics are misleading because I keep associating them with these hotties. Can't approve of that!


>Assuming I'm not.

Hmph!

OT: It's not rocket science. Guys find girls cute. Girls find guys cute. Some intellectuals find both to be cute, but the philistine would not understand. They never do...
Mar 31, 2020 9:08 AM
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Auron_ said:
ysphyr said:
Dudes with bishies on their userpics are misleading because I keep associating them with these hotties. Can't approve of that!


>Assuming I'm not.

Hmph!

OT: It's not rocket science. Guys find girls cute. Girls find guys cute. Some intellectuals find both to be cute, but the philistine would not understand. They never do...


Tbh I wrote this having you in mind, lol - as you are the main offender here having the hottest guys on both userpics (especially the profile one, so unbearably hot)
Mar 31, 2020 9:22 AM
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ysphyr said:
Auron_ said:


>Assuming I'm not.

Hmph!

OT: It's not rocket science. Guys find girls cute. Girls find guys cute. Some intellectuals find both to be cute, but the philistine would not understand. They never do...


Tbh I wrote this having you in mind, lol - as you are the main offender here having the hottest guys on both userpics (especially the profile one, so unbearably hot)


Lol tho in my defense, I'm not promoting them as myself, but rather who I'd like to sleep with. Female MALers do it all the time, don't pull a double standard on me now!
Mar 31, 2020 9:27 AM

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Because people like hot people and most users here are straight.
That being said I just make forum sets with characters from shows and games I like, like Kiryu from Yakuza or good old Magnum.
Mar 31, 2020 9:27 AM
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Auron_ said:
ysphyr said:


Tbh I wrote this having you in mind, lol - as you are the main offender here having the hottest guys on both userpics (especially the profile one, so unbearably hot)


Lol tho in my defense, I'm not promoting them as myself, but rather who I'd like to sleep with. Female MALers do it all the time, don't pull a double standard on me now!


Haha, I won't if you tell me who he is (the profile pic cutie)
Mar 31, 2020 9:28 AM

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I've no idea why, but I do know it has no correlation whatsoever with the tall blue-skinned extraterrestrial half-furries.
Mar 31, 2020 9:31 AM

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ppl just wanna show off their favorite characters lol, and usually girls favorite character's are male, while guys faves are female
Mar 31, 2020 9:37 AM

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Very rarely do I have a girl picture, but I'm not gay or anything. I just relate more to the guys than girls in anime I guess.
Mar 31, 2020 9:37 AM
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I don’t really think about it, when I’m looking for a forum avatar/profile picture. All I care is that it should be a character I really like, their gender is irrelevant.
Mar 31, 2020 9:43 AM

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I mean, it really depends on the person. Some change frequently, some go with waifus/husbandos, and some just go with their favourite character.

I've gone with the latter. Tomoya Okazaki has just been a character that has had a good impact in my animu watching hobby. Other than that, I just go with a drawn self-portrait.

"You know you've reached peak quality when a doujin is better than the actual source series." (Eg. To LOVE-Ru)

Just to list a couple of biases.
Likes: A good story, characters, writing, romance, a good plot twist or something that breaks expectations (In a good way), 'backstory' and justice.
Dislikes: Bad romance, too much fanservice, the harem genre, yuri, yaoi, and bad writing.

Mar 31, 2020 9:52 AM

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Because were a bunch of horny weebs . There I said it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Mar 31, 2020 2:06 PM

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I have a hermaphrodite as my avatar because gender is just a social construct.
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