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Dec 9, 2013 4:10 PM

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Majikkusesu said:
The girl I'm dating now is a quadsexual. I know she only likes me for my thighs and Thanksgiving was a bit weird (she hogged all the dark meat), but I'm okay with it.
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Dec 9, 2013 5:57 PM

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Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.
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moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
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Dec 9, 2013 6:18 PM
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LightBearer3 said:
i dont think bisexual means, that you are sexually atracted to both sexes.


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i can wear girl clothes if i want, im not gay.


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Dec 9, 2013 7:01 PM

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Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
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bisexual people date both genders, not other bisexuals.

the person is trying to say that they have dated guys who are bisexual and look at other guys and not her ok
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Dec 9, 2013 7:01 PM

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I'm bisexual.

I don't care if my partner is.
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Dec 9, 2013 8:30 PM

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Slayermaster said:
I'm bisexual.

I don't care if my partner is.


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Dec 9, 2013 9:41 PM

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fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"
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And the best part is that no one can prove it wrong
The best part is that you somehow actually exist.
Dec 9, 2013 9:58 PM

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gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?
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Kirko said:
gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?

OHH! SHIT.
Dec 10, 2013 12:21 AM

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Kirko said:
gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?
Are you an idiot or a retard?
Makomonogatari said:
lupadim said:
And the best part is that no one can prove it wrong
The best part is that you somehow actually exist.
Dec 10, 2013 12:28 AM
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gstaad said:
Kirko said:
gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys. Why? Because they're with a female and it should be obvious where their current interests lie (or something like that). As someone who get jealous, this just doesn't fly with me.

I would have no problem with bisexuals as long as they act just as loyal as any other person, but that hasn't been the case in my experience.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?
Are you an idiot or a retard?

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Dec 10, 2013 12:33 AM

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I wouldn't mind it if I could benefit from it. If not... well then I just have to suck it up and continue life with her as a bi.
Dec 10, 2013 5:33 AM

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Kirko said:
gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?


*facedesk* ghuhuhu...
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Dec 10, 2013 5:45 AM

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Considering I am one myself... No, I would not mind.
Dec 10, 2013 7:31 AM

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I don't care, but if my significant other cheated on me for a guy then I guess I'll feel a bit insecure about myself. Like: Was I so bad that they had to go date another gender? and stupid shit like that. I over think things too much
Dec 10, 2013 8:06 AM

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Doesn't really make a difference to me unless he cheated on me.
Dec 10, 2013 2:38 PM

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No, because trustworthiness is independent of sexuality.
Dec 11, 2013 9:41 AM

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Spoken from experience I would care, but it really depends on how they act on it.

I have no problem if they find people of the opposite sex attractive, in fact that just gives you something else to talk about, but if they really consider you to be their "significant other" I find it natural to be bothered when they neglect saying the same things to you or suggest an open-relationship with others.

I guess that's getting into another subject, but my one year girlfriend broke up with me recently because she wasn't sure which sex she liked more and I suppose that's how I relate.
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Dec 11, 2013 12:49 PM

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Of course I wouldn't care/mind. People who care for reasons like 'more competition' or what not need to take their insecurities somewhere else.

The only thing I'd care about is if they're seriously interested in girls or not. Finding out a girl is actually only interested in experimenting and you were just there and good looking enough isn't very pleasant
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Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes.
Dec 11, 2013 1:41 PM

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I love how some people seem to interpret bisexuality as being innately promiscuous, or they simply home in on the same-sex attraction aspect as if bisexuals are actually homosexuals. Promiscuous homosexuals, let's not forget the promiscuous part. I have a work colleague who simply can not comprehend how I can be bisexual and also favour monogamy.

My partner does not care that I am bisexual, and I see no reason why I should care if he was as well.
Dec 11, 2013 1:47 PM

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Don't care, there is no plausible reason to care just because she/he is bisexual.
Dec 11, 2013 7:22 PM

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Nope would not bother the least of bit.
Dec 11, 2013 8:42 PM

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Nah, I wouldn't mind.
Dec 14, 2013 2:40 PM

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iNaruX said:
Kirko said:
gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?


*facedesk* ghuhuhu...


I'm seriously laughing. What the hell happened here. xD

I am bisexual female. I have dated straight guys, bisexual guys, and lesbian girls. I have not dated bisexual girls, which is why I can't speak from experience about them.
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moaru said:
iNaruX said:
Kirko said:
gstaad said:
fapstud6969 said:
Shiratori99 said:
moaru said:
Being completely honest here, yes, I would mind. I have only dated bisexual guys (and lesbian girls, so I can't speak for bi girls) and all of them have thought that it's okay to ogle at guys.


Doesn't that mean you're bisexual yourself? oO
no
"I've dated bisexual guys and lesbian girls"

Are you a girlboy or a boygirl?


*facedesk* ghuhuhu...


I'm seriously laughing. What the hell happened here. xD

I am bisexual female. I have dated straight guys, bisexual guys, and lesbian girls. I have not dated bisexual girls, which is why I can't speak from experience about them.


Well, isn't it a bit conceited to be prejudiced about other bisexuals then? After all you wouldn't want to be treated the same way, do you?
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Dec 14, 2013 2:56 PM

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I wouldn't care if they fooled around with other men or women as long as they were careful about it. I don't need to have a person all to myself.

Dec 14, 2013 3:07 PM

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Ezekiel said:
I wouldn't care if they fooled around with other men or women as long as they were careful about it. I don't need to have a person all to myself.


How generous.
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Dec 14, 2013 7:41 PM

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Shiratori99 said:
Well, isn't it a bit conceited to be prejudiced about other bisexuals then? After all you wouldn't want to be treated the same way, do you?


As I said in my original post, as long as they're loyal, I have no problem with dating bisexuals. The bisexual men I've dated seemed to think it's okay to comment on other guys about how hot they are or how they'd do that guy, etc. (one even kissed another guy and said it doesn't count) just because they're dating me at the time, a female. This made me hesitant to date another bisexual.

I understand that the people I dated aren't an accurate representation of all bisexuals. It just made me more cautious and I feel safer with straight guys or lesbian girls. That doesn't mean I wouldn't date another bisexual ever again, but I would think twice. It's just like eating a meal you really like but getting sick from it. You might be a bit nervous to start eating it again, but that doesn't mean you never will.
Dec 15, 2013 5:08 AM

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Not in the least.
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i wouldn't mind but i would feel like they have more of a chance of leaving me because theres more people that he could like than me
Dec 21, 2013 8:30 PM

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Dec 21, 2013 8:41 PM

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No...........
Dec 21, 2013 9:27 PM

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Shiratori99 said:
Ezekiel said:
I wouldn't care if they fooled around with other men or women as long as they were careful about it. I don't need to have a person all to myself.


How generous.
It's not generosity. I just feel the alternative is too possessive and repressive for no good reason.
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Jan 23, 2014 11:33 PM

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IntroverTurtle said:
As long as she doesn't cheat on me, it doesn't matter.

This is what I think exactly. It doesn't matter to me as long as they love me. After we not together, they can do whatever.
Jan 24, 2014 12:32 AM

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Red_Keys said:
"I'd be fine with dating a black person, just as long as they're not a violent criminal."
Well, that goes without saying.
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lupadim said:
And the best part is that no one can prove it wrong
The best part is that you somehow actually exist.
Jan 24, 2014 6:36 AM

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I'm bisexual myself and I wouldn't mind as long as they're faithful
Jan 24, 2014 6:42 AM
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Most guys would LOVE the idea.
Jan 24, 2014 6:44 AM

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QueenOfHeroes said:
I'm bisexual myself and I wouldn't mind as long as they're faithful
gstaad said:
Red_Keys said:
"I'd be fine with dating a black person, just as long as they're not a violent criminal."
Well, that goes without saying.
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I'd mind. Where I live bisexual women tend to be trendy, oversexed (not in a good way) types with issues. My SO's straight, and if I got another one, I'd limit it to very traditional women--I don't have the patience to be "enlightened and liberal" anymore.

gstaad said:
I think most of the "arguments" of the people who said they would mind could be summarised as "I'm really insecure".

Beats having an "argument" that can be summed up as "I have the right to police people's preferences because I spend a lot of time on tumblr"
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Red_Keys said:
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Her being bisexual might increase the odds of her cheating on me
How does this even begin to make sense?


If he wants to cheat, he'll do being hetero or bi. It's just a trust and self-confidence matter.

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Jan 24, 2014 8:28 AM

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I'd mind a lot. I'd rather break up with my significant other. Why? Just because I don't want bisexual partner that's all.
Jan 24, 2014 8:48 AM

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yeah she might get aids from some dick, dropped.
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I wouldn't really mind; It would actually make me feel a little bit more special, because he would have had a lot people that he could choose from and yet still chooses me. Plus it would also be a little fun, I think.
Jan 24, 2014 9:22 AM

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if they like gross boys, that's on them.
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As long as she doesn't cheat on me, I don't really see a reason why it should bother me.
Jan 24, 2014 10:17 AM
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Seriously, what's with the third option?
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Most guys would LOVE the idea.


Yep, who doesn't love girl on girl action? Better yet some threesome action.

Somehow I imagine it to be less offensive if a significant other would cheat on me with someone from the same gender as themselves instead of the opposite gender (unless we're both the same gender from the get-go, then it'd be interesting either way).
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if i am the only one that they are loving then i am totally fine with it.
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It'd be pretty fun if she accepted a threesome.
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