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Nov 11, 2008 11:49 PM
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if you a guy do you want children?

and if your a woman do you want children?

i'm interested a little more in the female aspect of this since its their bodies and all.

what are your reasons for not wanting them or wanting them?

im conflicted myself, since im a man i dont really have a choice in if i want children or not and since i dont have a long term partner i dont really have the option to discuss it in depth.

on the one hand, i would like to raise a family but only if the condition were right, which means location and education are the most important factors as well as a secure home for them to live in.

on the other hand, the youth of today seem to have lost the ideals of family i grew up with and i dont really know if i want my children growing up in a world as corrupt as this and thats not even taking into account the absolute inequality and vicious nature of life itself. so a large part of me thinks that having children would be a bad idea.
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Nov 11, 2008 11:57 PM
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Don't know my self but change the world if you like it.

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Nov 11, 2008 11:58 PM
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fuck no

i hate them
Nov 11, 2008 11:59 PM
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I need to create dozens of little Vagabonds in order to ensure the continuation of my family name.

Seriously though, I couldn't even fathom the thought of a kid right now. Hit me up in ten years.

That said, if I had an unexpected kid tomorrow, I wouldn't try to abort or adopt him/her away. Kids are really awesome now that I think of it...
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i think part of me want to recreate that family i once had when i was a child, but if i try to recreate it it will most likely fail.

just another reason to not have children really, which, ironically makes me want to have them.
Nov 12, 2008 12:03 AM
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I don't want a kid now. I'm only 22 years old....I kinda want to set myself together before I think about having kids. When I'm 32 or 33 years old....sure.
Nov 12, 2008 12:13 AM
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My husband and I use contraceptives, but if a kid happens we'll be okay with it :D we both like kids. The timing would be bad, but if it happens, it happens.

Ideally, I would like to be better off before I try to bring a child into my situation. But they would have good parents and a loving family :D

...My mother is also convinced that every time I throw up/get sick, I must be pregnant >__< she wants the grandbabies.
Nov 12, 2008 12:23 AM
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In about 15 years, I'd be willing to go for it since raising a kid would be nice.

If I could choose though, a girl would be perfect.
Nov 12, 2008 12:25 AM
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No, I don't want kids.

Although I find them to be cute at times (until they turn about 12 or 13...), after debating it over I honestly don't think I could handle the pressures of raising a kid, ever.

I think I'm just a bit too absorbed in my own habits and interests to take on the responsibility of being a parent, I know I couldn't devote my full time to their care. It doesn't seem like the kind of life I would want to live anyway, and I wouldn't want to ruin their life by not thinking it over thoroughly.

I like kids enough to probably make a good aunt though, have them over on an occassional afternoon and take them to the park or something every other week, but I think that's as much as I can handle, haha. Until they turn 13 that is... Then I'm moving cross-country so I won't turn into the fallback when their parents have to send them away to keep from killing them. :|
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Too early to be thinking about children. But who knows what the future holds?
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Nov 12, 2008 12:42 AM

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I could really go either way but I think that I'd rather have children than never knowing what it's like to have kids.


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Nov 12, 2008 1:30 AM

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I have a kid myself... But the mother left me for some other guys... and no the "s" is not a typing mistake :P

Anyways i only see my kid 3-4 days out of 14... I would have to say... be sure about your relationship because it hurts when it brakes and you have a kid... ;_;

besides that... I'm 26... my kid is 2... am not planning on having any other... Unless i get a REALLY convincing g/f :P
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I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

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Nov 12, 2008 1:33 AM

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Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14
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Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14


What, do I have to say 10-15 or 10-20?

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Nov 12, 2008 1:36 AM
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Not interested right now, but eventually.
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10-14 sounds weird 0_0
Nov 12, 2008 1:37 AM
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As for my answer.....

No probably not, but there maybe be a possibility in the future

Kids for the most part annoy the hell out of me
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Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14


What, do I have to say 10-15 or 10-20?

Yes.


Agreed.

Also, babies are ugly so yeah, no babies for me.
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wtfyourface said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14


What, do I have to say 10-15 or 10-20?

Yes.


Agreed.

Also, babies are ugly so yeah, no babies for me.


Didnt you used to be one O.o
Nov 12, 2008 1:46 AM
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Yeah, what are you trying to get at?
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Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14


What, do I have to say 10-15 or 10-20?

Yes.


Shut up >.>.

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I don't want a kid now. I'm only 22 years old....I kinda want to set myself together before I think about having kids. When I'm 32 or 33 years old....sure.


Exactly my thought. Except I'm 25 year old. When I'm in my mid 30's I think I will be ready for a kid. I think...baby girl would be nice.
Nov 12, 2008 1:48 AM

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wtfyourface said:
Yeah, what are you trying to get at?


well are you ugly now, if not then it changes with time, thats all.
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wtfyourface said:
Yeah, what are you trying to get at?


well are you ugly now, if not then it changes with time, thats all.

I am the ugliest MAL'er of us all, on the inside that is.

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Shut up >.>.

Weak man, weak. Could have been more effective if you had used a gif.
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Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14


What, do I have to say 10-15 or 10-20?

Yes.


Shut up >.>.

Don't fucking talk back to the Emperor, Ryan, or I'll tell your mother you've been misbehaving on the internet.
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Nov 12, 2008 1:52 AM
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You're going to be a great father one day, Neverender.
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Don't even joke like that, please.
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Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
Neverender said:
Baby_Naruto said:
I'm not interested in having kids at the moment, ask me again in 10-14 years.

what's with the 14


What, do I have to say 10-15 or 10-20?

Yes.


Shut up >.>.

Don't fucking talk back to the Emperor, Ryan, or I'll tell your mother you've been misbehaving on the internet.


Call me Baby_Naruto.

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There you go talking back to me again. This isn't working, Ryan. You know what happens when it's not working.
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Ugly_Naruto, really.
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I'm not talking to you anymore. Here anyways.


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First you talk back to me and then you decide to ignore me? Good heavens, what a nasty child.
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I'm sensing this thread will be in spam area...soon
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I have sex organs, and they've built me with the emotional need to have kids and care for them. As opposed to winning the "Darwin awards". It's a function of my species.
Speaking of which, I want to be a sperm donor for this reason alone. I'm gonna perpetuate these genes like they're telling me to.

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I have sex organs, and they've built me with the emotional need to have kids and care for them. As opposed to winning the "Darwin awards". It's a function of my species.
Speaking of which, I want to be a sperm donor for this reason alone. I'm gonna perpetuate these genes like they're telling me to.
Emotional need for kids? I have sex organs too but i still think kids are annoying and i'm probably not going to have them
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I could never be that responsible even in 10 years, I admire those that are willingly creating life though, in a way.
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I could never be that responsible even in 10 years, I admire those that are willingly creating life though, in a way.

Then its your duty to donate sperm and get paid for it xD
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Rpgwiz99 said:
Unkind said:
I could never be that responsible even in 10 years, I admire those that are willingly creating life though, in a way.

Then its your duty to donate sperm and get paid for it xD


That sounds like fun.. really.. :) lol.

But i have donated a ton of plasma, can't be any worse than that. ("Ouch that's not my vein, OUCH THAT'S NOT IT EITHER, AHH! "I'm sorry sir here's a cookie and some orange juice, please try again next time") Fucking plasma-nurses. =/
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Unkind said:
Rpgwiz99 said:
Unkind said:
I could never be that responsible even in 10 years, I admire those that are willingly creating life though, in a way.

Then its your duty to donate sperm and get paid for it xD


That sounds like fun.. really.. :) lol.

But i have donated a ton of plasma, can't be any worse than that. ("Ouch that's not my vein, OUCH THAT'S NOT IT EITHER, AHH! "I'm sorry sir here's a cookie and some orange juice, please try again next time") Fucking plasma-nurses. =/


lol, did you even get paid, AND did they let you watch a porno in the process?
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I'm definitely getting kids. But as most fellas in this thread, I'm not interested in having kids right now <.<

It would be kinda bothersome for a 18 y/o student to provide for a family xD


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Rpgwiz99 said:
Unkind said:
Rpgwiz99 said:
Unkind said:
I could never be that responsible even in 10 years, I admire those that are willingly creating life though, in a way.

Then its your duty to donate sperm and get paid for it xD


That sounds like fun.. really.. :) lol.

But i have donated a ton of plasma, can't be any worse than that. ("Ouch that's not my vein, OUCH THAT'S NOT IT EITHER, AHH! "I'm sorry sir here's a cookie and some orange juice, please try again next time") Fucking plasma-nurses. =/


lol, did you even get paid, AND did they let you watch a porno in the process?


Ya, 20 dollars per donation 2x a week, 2nd time every week you got 30. But it was pretty painful loll. Donations lasted an HOUR!! But I avoided work for quite a while with this :D. Work = devil.

But there was no porn! I had to read shitty woman magazines too, that place was pretty brutal to be in thinking back, just sitting there while the machine siphons my life energy. All the while i'm wondering if it's going to mess up and instantly kill me like the warning label said it could. I think if they had lap dances or something the whole process might go faster and I doubt anyone would be noticing the pain ^-^.
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Azamat said:
I'm definitely getting kids. But as most fellas in this thread, I'm not interested in having kids right now <.<

It would be kinda bothersome for a 18 y/o student to provide for a family xD
Hell yea I'm gonna live my life, maybe when I'm like in my 50's i'll have a kid
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Yeah...kids that aren't from sperm donation or given away to adoption, they cost monies.
And I don't have monies. Nor do I feel ready yet for that full time job. As much as I'm looking forward to it, not quite yet.

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Unkind said:
Rpgwiz99 said:
Unkind said:
Rpgwiz99 said:
Unkind said:
I could never be that responsible even in 10 years, I admire those that are willingly creating life though, in a way.

Then its your duty to donate sperm and get paid for it xD


That sounds like fun.. really.. :) lol.

But i have donated a ton of plasma, can't be any worse than that. ("Ouch that's not my vein, OUCH THAT'S NOT IT EITHER, AHH! "I'm sorry sir here's a cookie and some orange juice, please try again next time") Fucking plasma-nurses. =/


lol, did you even get paid, AND did they let you watch a porno in the process?


Ya, 20 dollars per donation 2x a week, 2nd time every week you got 30. But it was pretty painful loll. Donations lasted an HOUR!! But I avoided work for quite a while with this :D. Work = devil.

But there was no porn! I had to read shitty woman magazines too, that place was pretty brutal to be in thinking back, just sitting there while the machine siphons my life energy. All the while i'm wondering if it's going to mess up and instantly kill me like the warning label said it could. I think if they had lap dances or something the whole process might go faster and I doubt anyone would be noticing the pain ^-^.
Those cheap bastards need to put some porno in there, but then again your lapdance idea works just as well
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DarkBusterCloud said:
Azamat said:
I'm definitely getting kids. But as most fellas in this thread, I'm not interested in having kids right now <.<

It would be kinda bothersome for a 18 y/o student to provide for a family xD
Hell yea I'm gonna live my life, maybe when I'm like in my 50's i'll have a kid


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Rpgwiz99 said:
DarkBusterCloud said:
Azamat said:
I'm definitely getting kids. But as most fellas in this thread, I'm not interested in having kids right now <.<

It would be kinda bothersome for a 18 y/o student to provide for a family xD
Hell yea I'm gonna live my life, maybe when I'm like in my 50's i'll have a kid


or 73
Good idea that way I'll have a descendant and I'll probably die shortly after, so i won't have to put up with their whining! =)
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DarkBusterCloud said:
Rpgwiz99 said:
DarkBusterCloud said:
Azamat said:
I'm definitely getting kids. But as most fellas in this thread, I'm not interested in having kids right now <.<

It would be kinda bothersome for a 18 y/o student to provide for a family xD
Hell yea I'm gonna live my life, maybe when I'm like in my 50's i'll have a kid


or 73
Good idea that way I'll have a descendant and I'll probably die shortly after, so i won't have to put up with their whining! =)


You catch on quick.
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I'm planning on having 400 babies, but first I'll need to find 400 wives for efficiency.
You know what would be awesome, if you got a woman of every race pregnant, so you could have children of all races.
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Flibbertigibbet said:
I'm planning on having 400 babies, but first I'll need to find 400 wives for efficiency.
You know what would be awesome, if you got a woman of every race pregnant, so you could have children of all races.


And then they could all mate and have incest baby's and you could have an army of mentally retarted and deformed children to take over the world with.
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