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Jun 2, 2012 6:05 PM
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I hate to make a thread like this but whenever I saw some threads comparing yaoi to yuri, I just shakes my head. Those people don't realize they already wrong even before any arguments started.

First the compared yaoi to wrong genre to begin with, yuri. While it quite obvious that yaoi is made by and for straight women but yuri in other hand is very different. They are some authored by men, some by women, some marketed towards men and some for teenage girls. Not all yuri mangas and shows are as 'sexy' as most yaoi mangas and shows but there also very shoujo-ish yuri shows like Maria-sama ga Miteru series and Aoi Hana and ones that appeal males better like Maka-Maka(manga) and Strawberry Panic. So far I never saw or heard some yaoi that appeal straight and gay men better than women.

I'm may have slight pro-yuri here as I'm a straight male but I think people should compare yaoi to hentai instead. Hentai is, at least from our understandings is a very pornographic shows featuring hardcore sex scenes, be it straight or lesbian ones. In fact some men avoid yuri because all they want to see is hardcore girl-on-girl actions, not some sappy lesbian love stories.

Yaoi is pretty much women's answer to hentai. Lot's of sex, little to no plot at all and very 'sexy' to them. It is almost every fujioshi's dream to see two or more bishies doing 'sexy' things with each other while you sit there and enjoy their show, much like a man seeing a two or more women doing the same 'sexy' stuff. In other words women are just as guilty when it come to porn, in fact they never hate porn. They only hate men's porn as they can burn your copies of Playboy or any other similar men's magazines but they also kept yaoi mangas in their secret stash. Women are just as hypocritical as men are.

Stop comparing yaoi to yuri, which is unfair to yuri in first place. Compare it to hentai instead because hentai have bigger market and better appeal than yaoi.
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Jun 2, 2012 6:23 PM
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Does it really matter if someone compares those two?
Jun 2, 2012 6:25 PM
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Yaoi is an exploitation right? So does yuri and hentai. I don't think comparing yaoi to hentai is wrong, at least genre-wise.
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Jun 2, 2012 6:56 PM
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NK_500 said:

Stop comparing yaoi to yuri, which is unfair to yuri in first place. Compare it to hentai instead because hentai have bigger market and better appeal than yaoi.


Can't tell if troll, or just idiot.
There is Yuri Hentai, and there is Yaoi Hentai. Hentai is hentai, rather if its girl on girl or guy on guy. Also why does same sex relationship anime have to be hentai?.. So you are all for Girl on girl action and I can get behind that, but guy on guy is going to far? -_-; Sometimes I fear for this community.

I would love to comment on this topic further but I'm afraid I don't have the time to point out all of the obvious mistakes you clearly stated in this.
Jun 2, 2012 7:05 PM
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Oh my, people whine about the smallest things these days.
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Jun 2, 2012 7:43 PM
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Yaoi= boyxboy
Yuri= girlxgirl
Therefore they are comparable. You can say you like one or the other better. They are the opposite of each other therefore are open for comparison.
Both Yaoi and Yuri do not have to include sex, while hentai is usually sex for the sake of having sex.

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Jun 2, 2012 7:51 PM
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This is completely foolish. Yuri and Yaoi can be compared because they are both genres dealing with same sex couples. Yaoi doesn't have anything to do with hentai, the two are not the same genre. A lot of times the two genres are intertwined as a sort of fetish - and I for one personally wish their was more pure, loving, non-hentai yaoi series out there.

To say every yaoi series should be labeled hentai is just plain insulting. Perhaps as a 'straight' person you should stop meddling in shit you don't even comprehend.

Also just so people know, yaoi is not just a genre for females - they're gay and bisexual males who enjoy the genre as well. Whodathunkit?!
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Jun 2, 2012 7:54 PM
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jfc what are you on.
Yaoi is not strictly porn.. Did you do your research? I mean it's true that most of the yaoi animu are trash, but why base it on just that? Why are you seriously leaving out quality manga, BL like Seven Days and Hana nomizo shiru which are stories with beautiful plots that hurt your heart when you read them.. which by the way happen to contain none of the "sexy things" you're talking about..

Even outside of BL, in yaoi manga where there is sex.. hurr like Doushitemo furetakunai, the fanservice is done in a modest way and takes up such a short portion of the book that it is most definitely NOT a central focus. Sex happens in a relationship. It's not always portrayed as meet-and-fuck (and those that are are generally hated by both genders alike), so I really think you shouldn't be so quick to bash yaoi while turning a blind eye to yuri.


Finally a decent post, even better it is an honest post from a female manga fan. In case you're wondering, I'm not really into yuri either. Yes I like yuri better(because I'm a straight male, can tolerate boobs and vaginas) but that's not the reason I made this thread. The only thing I really dislike about BL/Yaoi is the guys are too damn emotional for their own good. Yes they are heart-breaking for most female readers but for most men like myself, that's not how real men behave. Same goes for yuri as well. They often very friendly to each other but real world is not like that. Most women hate other women than men unless they are feminazis or such.

About heart-breaking part, no thanks. I don't find men crying to each other as appealing. I rather see a brother who gave up his life in order to save his sister. That's many time more heart-breaking than any BL out there.
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Eh, let people watch what they want, I say. Of course you can compare yaoi and yuri, yes, girls like porn too, yes, not all yaoi is hentai, same with yuri. That's really it right there.

Hm, this makes me want to check out some more yuri manga. Think I'll go do that.

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Jun 2, 2012 8:06 PM

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NK_500 said:

The only thing I really dislike about BL/Yaoi is the guys are too damn emotional for their own good. Yes they are heart-breaking for most female readers but for most men like myself, that's not how real men behave.


LOL

I'm glad you seem to know how gay males behave when they are with someone they care about, or are even in a relationship with. Sorry to burst your ignorant little bubble, but a majority of gay guys really are very in touch with their feelings and like to show that when with their partner.

And I have it on good authority many secure straight guys are the same way when they are in love and past puberty.

Pretty sure now that you are just a naive kid. And basically you criticize yaoi for being too sexual, then you criticize the characters for being too emotional. What the hell do you really want out of an anime that is about same sex characters, couples, and relationships?
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Jun 2, 2012 8:15 PM

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Yeah, stop comparing!
I'd rather have some hermaphrodites.
Jun 2, 2012 8:31 PM

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LayedBack said:

To say every yaoi series should be labeled hentai is just plain insulting. Perhaps as a 'straight' person you should stop meddling in shit you don't even comprehend.

Also just so people know, yaoi is not just a genre for females - they're gay and bisexual males who enjoy the genre as well. Whodathunkit?!
Jun 2, 2012 8:33 PM

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NK_500 said:
Pinkachus said:
jfc what are you on.
Yaoi is not strictly porn.. Did you do your research? I mean it's true that most of the yaoi animu are trash, but why base it on just that? Why are you seriously leaving out quality manga, BL like Seven Days and Hana nomizo shiru which are stories with beautiful plots that hurt your heart when you read them.. which by the way happen to contain none of the "sexy things" you're talking about..

Even outside of BL, in yaoi manga where there is sex.. hurr like Doushitemo furetakunai, the fanservice is done in a modest way and takes up such a short portion of the book that it is most definitely NOT a central focus. Sex happens in a relationship. It's not always portrayed as meet-and-fuck (and those that are are generally hated by both genders alike), so I really think you shouldn't be so quick to bash yaoi while turning a blind eye to yuri.


Finally a decent post, even better it is an honest post from a female manga fan. In case you're wondering, I'm not really into yuri either. Yes I like yuri better(because I'm a straight male, can tolerate boobs and vaginas) but that's not the reason I made this thread. The only thing I really dislike about BL/Yaoi is the guys are too damn emotional for their own good. Yes they are heart-breaking for most female readers but for most men like myself, that's not how real men behave. Same goes for yuri as well. They often very friendly to each other but real world is not like that. Most women hate other women than men unless they are feminazis or such.

I find it finny that you can deem other replies as 'decent' or indecent' when your own post barely has any validity to itself.


NK_500 said:

Stop comparing yaoi to yuri, which is unfair to yuri in first place. Compare it to hentai instead because hentai have bigger market and better appeal than yaoi.


Jun 2, 2012 9:07 PM

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FastWheels said:
Does it really matter if someone compares those two?


This..

It's a forum, people can compare and contrast things as much as they want, as it is subject for discussion and opinion. Genre's are made this way.
Jun 2, 2012 9:31 PM
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I would take the time to point out how wrong the OP is here, but it has been done quite thoroughly already. Gw everyone, tbh.
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Jun 2, 2012 10:24 PM
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Yeah, stop comparing!
I'd rather have some hermaphrodites.


LOL. I saw an episode of an anime about hermaphroditic demon-fighters once. Funniest shit ever.

To the OP ... It's already been said: not all yaoi has sex, and not all yaoi that does have sex has gratuitous sex. Hentai = anime of a gratuitous sexual nature. Therefore, yaoi =! hentai.

Before flexing your fingers on your keyboard, check whether you actually have a clue about the topic on which you're expressing an opinion.
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Jun 2, 2012 10:32 PM

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People compare incomparable things all the time. Just ignore it.
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OP, please point out any yuri themes in Ano Hana because I really don't remember catching any while watching the series and I'm really curious to know where you saw that, because this is the first time I've heard anything of the sort.
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He might have confused Ano Hana with Aoi Hana.
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^Ah, ok. I thought that maybe he meant A-Channel, but you're probably right.
Jun 2, 2012 11:22 PM

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Well since both are useless genres of anime that only appeal to pedophiles and horny old men, comparing the two would be a waste of time.
Jun 2, 2012 11:43 PM

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Not all yaoi is porn. Like not all yuri isn't porn.
There is also yaoi targeted for men.
Bur saying yaoi is all porn isn't true.
I mean there are great title's like Zankoku na Kami ga Shihai Suru. It has a great story! some yaoi do have great story's!
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NK_500 said:

The only thing I really dislike about BL/Yaoi is the guys are too damn emotional for their own good. Yes they are heart-breaking for most female readers but for most men like myself, that's not how real men behave.


That's right! You're not a real man if you're emotional! Emotions are for women.
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"The terms yaoi and shōnen-ai are sometimes used by western fans to differentiate between the contents of the genre. In this case, yaoi is used to describe titles that contain largely sex scenes and other sexually explicit themes and shōnen-ai is used to describe titles that focus more on romance and do not include explicit sexual content, although they may include implicit sexual content."
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Alfonse said:
Well since both are useless genres of anime that only appeal to pedophiles and horny old men, comparing the two would be a waste of time.


This is another situation where I would like to point out the idiocy, but simply lack the energy to do it justice..
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GuZ said:
"The terms yaoi and shōnen-ai are sometimes used by western fans to differentiate between the contents of the genre. In this case, yaoi is used to describe titles that contain largely sex scenes and other sexually explicit themes and shōnen-ai is used to describe titles that focus more on romance and do not include explicit sexual content, although they may include implicit sexual content."


Yeah, but the lines are still very blurred between the two. There are plenty of anime on here marked as yaoi that are more than sex scenes and sexual themes so that definition doesn't really hold much weight here.
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GuZ said:
"The terms yaoi and shōnen-ai are sometimes used by western fans to differentiate between the contents of the genre. In this case, yaoi is used to describe titles that contain largely sex scenes and other sexually explicit themes and shōnen-ai is used to describe titles that focus more on romance and do not include explicit sexual content, although they may include implicit sexual content."


Wikipedia ALSO said:
Yaoi (やおい?)[nb 1] also known as Boys' Love, is a Japanese popular term for female-oriented fictional media that focus on homoerotic or homoromantic male relationships, usually created by female authors.


Look, ma, I can quote from Wikipedia, too!
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They're both classified as homosexuality.

They're comparable

Christ, I might just stick with the games/tech board until AD stops exploding for a bit
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hazerddex said:
holy shit this is from 2012?!!! that's 3 years ago


I think they just want to bring back the topic about bananas and scissors.
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hazerddex said:
holy shit this is from 2012?!!! that's 3 years ago


I think they just want to bring back the topic about bananas and scissors.

Is this supposed to be a pun?
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how about traps
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VitaminCaim said:
They're both classified as homosexuality.

They're comparable

Christ, I might just stick with the games/tech board until AD stops exploding for a bit


yea... but they're made for 2 different groups of people... two different fan-bases. And appeal to different tastes.

It makes complete sense that people would like one and not the other
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mayukachan said:
-Oreki-Houtarou- said:


I think they just want to bring back the topic about bananas and scissors.

Is this supposed to be a pun?
you dont get y scissors works for yuri?
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Killaclown said:
mayukachan said:

Is this supposed to be a pun?
you dont get y scissors works for yuri?


then you have never seen the south park episode when mr. garrison becomes a lesbian.
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Stupid Fucking thread
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VitaminCaim said:
They're both classified as homosexuality.

They're comparable

Christ, I might just stick with the games/tech board until AD stops exploding for a bit


yea... but they're made for 2 different groups of people... two different fan-bases. And appeal to different tastes.

It makes complete sense that people would like one and not the other
Still comparable since they're both related to homosexuality. To outright say they're not comparable is ludicrous
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Stupid Fucking thread
Get used to it, it will never stop.
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VitaminCaim said:
silversongwriter said:


yea... but they're made for 2 different groups of people... two different fan-bases. And appeal to different tastes.

It makes complete sense that people would like one and not the other
Still comparable since they're both related to homosexuality. To outright say they're not comparable is ludicrous


unless your a fan of both, then they're not comparable.

As a horny straight guy, I can't look at a yaoi and feel the same way about it as I do yuri. So for me to compare them, it'd be pretty unfair

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