| Didn't your parents ever teach you the more D's the better? Salad said: Straight up kek broOP, infatuation from text? It seems you aren't in the right frame of mind, and neither does this sound like this will become a reciprocated relationship, otherwise I'd hope for the 0.69% chance of you guys getting together, more so, it seems more like an obsession. Don't take it the wrong way, but you seem quite desperate for a relationship and that may have led you to such deluded feelings. But if you want to chase, go ahead, just don't go the point where you land yourself behind bars. Good luck! |
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Salad said: hoopla123 said: Online dating in general is a joke imo. You haven't even interacted or met in real life... I mean it works for some people but I just find that shit ridiculous. If you were a true 2D fag, you'd accept OP's 2D relationship. >_< -- OP, infatuation from text? It seems you aren't in the right frame of mind, and neither does this sound like this will become a reciprocated relationship, otherwise I'd hope for the 0.69% chance of you guys getting together, more so, it seems more like an obsession. Don't take it the wrong way, but you seem quite desperate for a relationship and that may have led you to such deluded feelings. But if you want to chase, go ahead, just don't go the point where you land yourself behind bars. Good luck! As for my general opinion on online dating. It's something that can work out occasionally, but it's not something that's very efficient of your time. I wouldn't dislike anyone because of it, it just doesn't seem like something that would be able to be maintained in the long run. OP is a filthy 3D being. I would never betray my waifu harem for anyone else, let alone some 3D peasant. |
| unless your living in the same country and your legal adults with stable incomes online dating isnt gonna go anywhere your both gonna be split up for years not being able to meet and I personally cant do that cause it just gets pointless after a while its a waste of time |
| Love is a strong word that gets thrown around too much. With that being said my personal belief is that you can't truly love someone until you've been with/around them for a while in order to see who they really are. We all put on our better versions when we are trying to either impress someone or something like that but how can you love someone you don't even really know. What if that person is a huge slob and you're a neat freak? Wouldn't know unless you've lived with them. What if their a racist? Wouldn't know because how often does that come up in conversations. See what I mean? What I say might sound ridiculous but I don't think it's love. I think it is just a REALLY strong like and trust me, we've all been there. |
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| what's the point, you can't even touch their butt |
| yo, if you really want to meet up with someone, don't go on a dating site just go on craigslit lmao like a lot of those are fake but believe it or not some are real... people really get laid on craigslist! |
| I CELEBRATE myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. |
| Man up and see if the a relationship is possible. |
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| Confess, find out if she can respond to your feelings travel to where she lives (assuming she lives far away from your location), stay together, live happy. That is my advice. |
Seiya0890 said: But its still disgusting from my point of view, and from the word's point of view, therefore its disgusting. Wise words. |
| Become her friend before saying you're "in love with her". It really might be just a crush, and afterwords in a real relationship that will become meaningless. If you first are just good friends, you can learn a lot about the person you "fell in love with" whether it be good or bad things. ^it also raises your chances of being accepted, no person in the right mind is gonna accept a stranger they met online who says they "love them". Instead of risking going through severe drama, you should actually learn who the person is on the inside. Same goes for real life relationships. Lots of shit can happen by dating someone you barely know. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Also, the person you "fell in love with" could be a catfish or a creepy pedophile behind a screen. Not saying all people online are like this, but it's a big possibility with online dating. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Not like I have much of a love-life... Kill me now. |
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Dusk said: Didn't your parents ever teach you the more D's the better? Salad said: Straight up kek broOP, infatuation from text? It seems you aren't in the right frame of mind, and neither does this sound like this will become a reciprocated relationship, otherwise I'd hope for the 0.69% chance of you guys getting together, more so, it seems more like an obsession. Don't take it the wrong way, but you seem quite desperate for a relationship and that may have led you to such deluded feelings. But if you want to chase, go ahead, just don't go the point where you land yourself behind bars. Good luck! I was trying to get a serious message to you, man. It was rude of you to respond to me like that. If you continue to bully me, i might have no choice but to report you. Have a good day! c: hoopla123 said: OP is a filthy 3D being. I would never betray my waifu harem for anyone else, let alone some 3D peasant. pls |
Salad said: Lmao, don't worry bro I just find it a little funny. No offense.I was trying to get a serious message to you, man. It was rude of you to respond to me like that. If you continue to bully me, i might have no choice but to report you. Have a good day! c: |
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| "she" "online" "MAL" The problems point themselves out yes? |
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| Is it me OP? Its me right? Right? Its me riiigghhtt???  But i should let you know, im a guy. And online dating is a horrible idea because |
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| Are your standards that low to settle on an out of country girl you met on the internet? Don't ruin a friendship with so little of a possibility of longterm relationship success. |
| Oh look an old "I'm bored out of my ass let's do something fun thread" I made |
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| This is so far out of my zone I don't have an opinion. I know dating sites are incredibly hostile. Men go there to harass girls and girls go there just so they could reject guys in witty ways. Maybe something will work, but it's not worth the time. |
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deadaccount___ said: You didn't really need to bump it but it's better than making a new thread I guess.Oh look an old "I'm bored out of my ass let's do something fun thread" I made My stance remains adamant. Unless you're super invested into it, likely nothing will happen from such. Better to break up early than regret it later. |
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| I'm not against online dating, but it's not something I'd willingly try again. Granted, I did know how it'd eventually play out - you know, just standing by while waiting for girls to message me and all - but I still lean towards preferring actual physical interaction when it comes to dating. |
| That escalated quickly. Online relationships seem rushed |
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Martin said: I didn't bump shit fam. Ad bot did. ;)deadaccount___ said: You didn't really need to bump it but it's better than making a new thread I guess.Oh look an old "I'm bored out of my ass let's do something fun thread" I made My stance remains adamant. Unless you're super invested into it, likely nothing will happen from such. Better to break up early than regret it later. |
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| No it never works. I have seen people do it and it never worked out. But even though I knew it didn't I tried to get on one and I got burned hard. I cried a lot. |
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| Why dont you folllow your heart? I have gone through almost the the same kind of things but it doesnt turned out good but at least i had wonderful memories for 3 years of online dating. I cant say it is good either cuz we dont know what the other party do there.. especially since they live in another country. But i think the best weapon you have is trust (but that also can be your biggest threat) If you think that its not working anymore just end it.. it will hurt, ofc. but in the end you will experience the same irl |
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| Use to think of online dating as a great way of rapists and murderers picking victims but I suppose it can be useful way of finding someone who you have common interests with compared with people who want you to change or people who you have no chance of a worthwhile relationship with, |
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deadaccount___ said: Martin said: I didn't bump shit fam. Ad bot did. ;)You didn't really need to bump it but it's better than making a new thread I guess. My stance remains adamant. Unless you're super invested into it, likely nothing will happen from such. Better to break up early than regret it later. So how did it go with your online crush? Did you two have cyber sex yet? |
SaturdayKrush said: There was never an online crush. :xdeadaccount___ said: I didn't bump shit fam. Ad bot did. ;) So how did it go with your online crush? Did you two have cyber sex yet? I was just really bored you see |
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SaturdayKrush said: Oh that reminds me. You really can't compare cyber sex to real life sex at all. Another reason why online dating is bad especially when not living near each other.So how did it go with your online crush? Did you two have cyber sex yet? |
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| Well first let me tell you something young man, you need to learn the difference between real love and infatuation. You met her yesterday so what is that....love at first text? |
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| I'm fine with online dating, but I don't think I'd do it. At least not yet since I think the success rates are rather low. |
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Doj said: You are all kinds of confused that I don't even know where to start, lolWell first let me tell you something young man, you need to learn the difference between real love and infatuation. You met her yesterday so what is that....love at first text? |
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deadaccount___ said: Doj said: You are all kinds of confused that I don't even know where to start, lolWell first let me tell you something young man, you need to learn the difference between real love and infatuation. You met her yesterday so what is that....love at first text? Wait I didnt realize the date on this thread. You see, this is why i dont post here anymore tbh |
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| I've had a few experiences. One was mutual, but just wouldn't have worked logistically.. She lived on the other side of the world, and we eventually grew apart. Two others were unrequited; nothing came of them. All happened a long time ago, on forums such as this one.. I try to keep my distance and not get so attached any more. It may sound like it, but I'm not actually bitter. Such things will affect anyone, though, and I am more guarded now. On the other hand, two of my sisters have had great success with online dating sites. One just got married, and the other may as well be, they've been together for so long. It can work. |
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| I personally have never online dated, but i had a friend who had. She was 16 at the time, and dating a 24 year old. Already fucking creepy on its own. Guy is literally just taking advantage of her. Keeps asking for naked pics, money and goods to be sent from Texas to Oregon.. I tried to steer her out of that situation but she wouldn't have it and will not talk to me anymore. Its all just fucked. Bottom line, what I'm trying to say is that they may seem nice from the start, but they can really turn into a fucked up individual. I think it would be better to meet potential partners in person.. |
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| I think it is okay 16 and 24 years old. But I think it is weird that guys ask her for money, goods and naked pics. I mean pics ... that is normal. But should not the guy be the one to send her money and goods? Stupid ... if she really does send him money and goods. Pretty obvious that he is mainly interested in that. If he only asked for the pics ... would not be that bad. If you are in a relationship you often are interested in the others body (and have sex ... but if they are far away you might be okay with seeing pics only). As male - if you are using dating apps or websites that offer premiium services ... you need to be careful. Site owners might use fake accounts to bait you into buying their premium stuff. Just found this for some site/app popular in Germany (pretty new the news - the raid only from a few days ago and there were accusations already last year and now they are still investigating): http://www.thelocal.de/20160608/police-arrest-founders-of-popular-berlin-dating-app-lovoo http://www.thelocal.de/20150918/dating-app-tricks-users-with-fake-profiles (But then again if you are careful it should not be a problem. Still fun to see that those guys of that company got pwned.) |
| I'm not really in anywhere between "agreeing" or "against", for me I don't see the reason why should I be. |
Awwww and here I was being so sure I knew who it was #stalkingskills #zero #poin... Oh dammit, wait this isn't IG LOL |
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| I know this thread is over a year old, but eh... Online dating probably takes a lot of dedication and patience, I wouldn't know myself. It's better to find someone you know online from a forum or some kind of community than online dating. Online dating and dating apps are a waste of time if you're not a 10/10 Chad. |
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| lol good bump I forgot a few of the things said in here. Anyway, my stance is the same I guess. Probably a bit more negative towards any kind of dating now though. |
| I think that dating itself is a superficial, an overused rainbow candy word with no depth to it. |
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