| Glad to know im not the oldest loser around here. |
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Andomarn said: geniobastardo said: HAHAHAHA! Lemme burst that bubble...oh no.. No, go live in your delusions. The delusion that being able to touch and meet someone you love is better than being in a relationship with someone you'll never meet or touch? Sure, I'll keep living in that "delusion". many LDR couples meet |
-Songbird said: Working_Designs said: I'm 32 and nice is in my vocabularyI'm 27, and "Nice" isn't in my vocabulary. If you were 32, we'd share more Anime than just one title. Nice try. |
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-Songbird said: Working_Designs said: If you were 27 we'd share less than one title.If you were 32, we'd share more Anime than just one title. Nice try. I don't think so bub Lol, this doesn't make any sense. You haven't even watched Bubblegum Crisis. It's impossible for a 32 year old Anime fan to have not seen Bubblegum Crisis. |
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-Songbird said: Working_Designs said: Lol this makes perfect senseLol, this doesn't make any sense. You haven't even watched Bubblegum Crisis. It's impossible for a 32 year old Anime fan to have not seen Bubblegum Crisis. you've watched one anime I have. This is common for 27 and older So you admit that you are in fact, younger than me. Glad we finally cleared this up. |
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Andomarn said: adrenturous said: many LDR couples meet And more don't. Should that instantly make it an illegitimate way of finding love? I don't understand, what made you the arbiter of how other people should date? |
 "I got two bad hands and still built this house of cards Just an average Jack up in the Club who thinks he found a Heart But I don’t go to clubs and don’t believe in love Or holding hearts in grips unless this fist is into which it’s bleeding from" |
-Songbird said: Working_Designs said: So you admit that you are in fact older than me.So you admit that you are in fact, younger than me. Glad we finally cleared this up. Glad we didn't really clear this up Lol. Anyway, you really should watch Bubblegum Crisis sometime. It's a great Anime. Also, Nozomi Witches is also a great OVA, and the character designs are done by Adachi Mitsuru, the same guy who created "Touch." |
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| Watching what is assumed to be two grown men fight over who's older. I can't think of anything more childish. |
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Andomarn said: aha said: Should that instantly make it an illegitimate way of finding love? I don't understand, what made you the arbiter of how other people should date? No? Where did I ever write that it's illegitimate? This thread was about people's individual thoughts on online dating, so I shared mine. Never did I say that people shouldn't do it. I only said that I thought it was ridiculous and wouldn't do it myself. Why the fuck are people arguing with each other then? I don't get it myself. |
"I got two bad hands and still built this house of cards Just an average Jack up in the Club who thinks he found a Heart But I don’t go to clubs and don’t believe in love Or holding hearts in grips unless this fist is into which it’s bleeding from" |
-Songbird said: Working_Designs said: Alright I'll plan it but right now I'm too busy being self consciousAlso, Nozomi Witches is also a great OVA, and the character designs are done by Adachi Mitsuru, the same guy who created "Touch." Fair enough. |
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| [/quote] "idk I feel like people are ganging up on me just because I shared my opinion standard MAL"[/quote] they're sharing their opinions on your opinion- we're all v opinionated also idk how to quote right sos |
adrenturous said: they're sharing their opinions on your opinion- Is that even necessary though? |
"I got two bad hands and still built this house of cards Just an average Jack up in the Club who thinks he found a Heart But I don’t go to clubs and don’t believe in love Or holding hearts in grips unless this fist is into which it’s bleeding from" |
| Online dating relationships never work out. |
aha said: adrenturous said: they're sharing their opinions on your opinion- Is that even necessary though? to start discussions or w/e, ye pretty necessary |
senpaiiiiiiiiiii said: Online dating relationships never work out. never say never |
-Songbird said: bush did 9/11 this guy gets it. jet fuel cannot melt steel beams |
-Songbird said: bush did 9/11 BUSH MADE MONEY ON THE IRAQ WAR |
| I don't have a problem with it. |
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| It can work. But be careful. Online meeting is really just like normal human interaction. You walk into a bar to meet strangers and to hang out with people you know. Same thing with the interaction online. You know nothing about these people. Except for what they tell you. The only real distinct difference that they can't hide what they look like in person (well they could but that usually doesn't happen in reality). And even that can really be solved through things like video chat. So it doesn't really matter too much anymore. Here's the problem with online dating. The problem that breaks it more then the anonymity. It's the distance. Even slight distance. People will tell you when they are away from someone they love, it's hard. And these people could only be away from them for like a week in proximity distanced relationships. With an online relationship, you're away from them. You can see them in the screen. You can laugh with them. You can do all these things with them. Except hold them. And human beings aren't built for that. We really aren't. And that puts so much strain on people. And many people crack under that strain. If you decide to take a relationship to a certain level, one of you will have to make a sacrifice. One of you will have to give up your normal area of living to move to the other person. Average relationships don't have this problem because if you meet at a local place, you're generally both in the area. One of you will have to give up your normal life, comfort, lifestyle to commit. And that's the burden of it. |
AnimeFanJoe123 said: A one way ticket to a kidnapping. + the chance of finding someone that you like, and who also is a good match and isn't some psychopathic pedo bunnyraper AND lives in the same country is almost zero -,- . |
| I think its weird, like i can see how you can like someone by talking to them all the time online but like thats the extent of it. You can't have a real relationship without ever being together physically, like theirs just a limit point you can get to in a relationship with purely online contact. Nothing against anyone with an online relationship, but don't tell people you have a gf but you've never met them before. If anything just say they're your friend or that your talking to a girl(or guy) online, it makes it sound way less pathetic? (idk if thats the right terminology) than saying you have a gf/bf. Its also another story if you legitimately plan/are making plans to meet and keep meeting on a regular. |
jimbobyoo said: I think its weird, like i can see how you can like someone by talking to them all the time online but like thats the extent of it. You can't have a real relationship without ever being together physically, like theirs just a limit point you can get to in a relationship with purely online contact. Nothing against anyone with an online relationship, but don't tell people you have a gf but you've never met them before. If anything just say they're your friend or that your talking to a girl(or guy) online, it makes it sound way less pathetic? (idk if thats the right terminology) than saying you have a gf/bf. Its also another story if you legitimately plan/are making plans to meet and keep meeting on a regular. Most people intend on doing the last point. Meeting. But the reality hits them because the effort to do that is a lot more then a typical relationship. |
UniQBlade said: Normal people don't exist on the internet, hence why online dating services are so unpopularAnimeFanJoe123 said: A one way ticket to a kidnapping. + the chance of finding someone that you like, and who also is a good match and isn't some psychopathic pedo bunnyraper AND lives in the same country is almost zero -,- . |
| I have met a few people online some where complete weirdos, but my current partner I met him online we now live together and very happy in love. I think it works for some and others not so much. |
| I knew someone once who was in an online relationship with a guy. She was ''dating'' him for around 3 months online and then went to meet him. They broke up after meeting in person once. People are rarely themselves online compared to how they are in real life. Theres a ton of things you can't pick up on online. |
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| I met my current GF on POF.com. The one before that as well. If it wasn't for online dating I'd most likely still be a virgin so I'm all for it :) |
| It sucks, but hey more power to ya if you got it to work out. |
| It is good if you are a woman. It is bad if you are a guy who doesn't look like a male model or white. |
| I think it's fine. Just be safe. |
  music is life... |
Spooks_McBones said: I knew someone once who was in an online relationship with a guy. She was ''dating'' him for around 3 months online and then went to meet him. They broke up after meeting in person once. People are rarely themselves online compared to how they are in real life. Theres a ton of things you can't pick up on online. But that really can apply to meeting in person too. People can lie or change in any situation. Only to be found out later. It applicable to both. |
Olveparty said: Watching what is assumed to be two grown men fight over who's older. I can't think of anything more childish. I don't know about you, but I found that hilarious |
| Not sure but "whatever floats your boat". |
| I don't think that there is anything wrong with meeting someone who is local and you can see regularly (at least a couple of times per week) online. As for dating someone strictly on the internet, or someone you can only see in person once a month or less, I think that it's desperate and a waste of time. The odds of a relationship like that lasting are slim to nothing. |
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Waifu_Strangler said: What about those of us who don't have another way? We're fucked, my friend. Even if we were to fake our way to an actual date, it'd only be prolonging the inevitable rejection. It's better to just not play the game. |
| I'm dead. Don't come looking for me. |
| An inevitable social phenomenon at this day and age. People are negative about it because it's a relatively new way of forming relationships. |
incisorr said: i love it when people start acting like some neutral almighty unbiased godly judge and they even believe their own shit, suddenly its not their thoughts and opinions anymore but the righteous justice god way, they are unbiased, non-subjective, they just are! To be honest, everyone is like this quite often, me included, but i don't forget myself and i still post a lot of personal shit which is what forums are made for , if they didn't want us to have our own style and posts it would be an article instead a forum thread. |
| Both are good but with online dating you are usually more lonely since everyone is usually far away. |
| no idea, never tried doesnt sound too bad, but im not interested |
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