Objurgo said: SlothieSloth said: PITNB said: I don't really understand you, you question the dislike for loneliness but then you say feeling lonely is rarely nice.SlothieSloth said: My point is that usually feeling lonely is something people dislike.....? Being alone from time to time is nice, but feeling lonely rarely is.PITNB said: What's your point?Agony said: Being alone and being lonely are actually two different things.I don't get it. Being alone is the best. I think what he is trying to say is there are people who choose to be alone and like that way. And then there are people who are forced to be alone or are alone against their own will, these people will refer to themselves as lonely. ^ Pretty much that |
| I'm an introvert ever since I can remember. I've been so much of a loner before but I'm passed the "I-hate-dealing-with-people, being-alone-is-the-best" stage now. Because honestly, it gets terribly lonely. I used to deal with it by just trying not to think about it, or by watching and playing stuffs or being with my family but now, I just have to surround myself with other people. Some can be really annoying but I've felt that whenever I associate myself with different types of people, I grow as a person. |
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SlothieSloth said: How do you not understand this? Are you even trying?PITNB said: What's your point?Agony said: Being alone and being lonely are actually two different things.I don't get it. Being alone is the best. There is a clear difference in being alone and feeling lonely. |
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Diran-kun said: I do know the difference between alone and lonely, thank you very much. I asked what was his point for pointing that distinction out cause it didn't look like Agony was confused about those two words to me.SlothieSloth said: How do you not understand this? Are you even trying?PITNB said: What's your point?Agony said: Being alone and being lonely are actually two different things.I don't get it. Being alone is the best. There is a clear difference in being alone and feeling lonely. |
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SlothieSloth said: I don't think Agony was. It's the fact that the OP in feeling lonely and wants to do stuff and meet people. Agony replied with "Being alone is the best."Diran-kun said: I do know the difference between alone and lonely, thank you very much. I asked what was his point for pointing that distinction out cause it didn't look like Agony was confused about those two words to me.SlothieSloth said: How do you not understand this? Are you even trying?PITNB said: What's your point?Agony said: Being alone and being lonely are actually two different things.I don't get it. Being alone is the best. There is a clear difference in being alone and feeling lonely. That's why someone replied and said that there's a difference. For example: I love being alone, but I'm not lonely. |
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My_Name_Sucks said: I login to MAL and post in forums. You are now a full fledged member of CD. Wee arh awl ronrey here. |
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Diran-kun said: Again you don't need to explain this, I understand.For example: I love being alone, but I'm not lonely. Diran-kun said: You are right I didn't get why he pointed it out first time cause I didn't bother to read the opening post, I don't even think I read the title. So I guess I wasn't even trying, did you think I was trolling or something though?SlothieSloth said: I don't think Agony was. It's the fact that the OP in feeling lonely and wants to do stuff and meet people. Agony replied with "Being alone is the best."Diran-kun said: I do know the difference between alone and lonely, thank you very much. I asked what was his point for pointing that distinction out cause it didn't look like Agony was confused about those two words to me.SlothieSloth said: How do you not understand this? Are you even trying?PITNB said: What's your point?Agony said: Being alone and being lonely are actually two different things.I don't get it. Being alone is the best. There is a clear difference in being alone and feeling lonely. That's why someone replied and said that there's a difference. |
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Feels said: My_Name_Sucks said: I login to MAL and post in forums. You are now a full fledged member of CD. Wee arh awl ronrey here. LAWL. Your reply fits perfectly with your signature. |
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Xoaz said: We've all had those times of pure loneliness. Nope, not me. I wish I could say being alone doesn't bother me, but there are times where I really just hate it. When I think about it too much, it just give me no motivation to do anything. Isn't that your fault, though? I always think, "There's literally no girl that interests me or would be interested in a guy like me." If you truly think your loneliness can be solved by something as simple as romance then look harder. |
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SlothieSloth said: I didn't think you were trolling. I just didn't get what you didn't get.Diran-kun said: Again you don't need to explain this, I understand.For example: I love being alone, but I'm not lonely. Diran-kun said: You are right I didn't get why he pointed it out first time cause I didn't bother to read the opening post, I don't even think I read the title. So I guess I wasn't even trying, did you think I was trolling or something though?SlothieSloth said: I don't think Agony was. It's the fact that the OP in feeling lonely and wants to do stuff and meet people. Agony replied with "Being alone is the best."Diran-kun said: I do know the difference between alone and lonely, thank you very much. I asked what was his point for pointing that distinction out cause it didn't look like Agony was confused about those two words to me.SlothieSloth said: How do you not understand this? Are you even trying?PITNB said: What's your point?Agony said: Being alone and being lonely are actually two different things.I don't get it. Being alone is the best. There is a clear difference in being alone and feeling lonely. That's why someone replied and said that there's a difference. |
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| I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. |
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Seikunai said: They all like Anime? I would love a living environment such as that.I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. |
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Hoppy said: I think im gonna buy a dakimakura they look awesome.Get a dakimakura or a pet, both will relieve your loneliness. Also playing the blues helps, so learn how to play an instruments even the harmonica can generate good blues if you learn to play it. |
Diran-kun said: Although one of them is a fangirl of futa. So.. -_-Seikunai said: They all like Anime? I would love a living environment such as that.I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. |
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Seikunai said: Diran-kun said: Although one of them is a fangirl of futa. So.. -_-Seikunai said: They all like Anime? I would love a living environment such as that.I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. May I seriously live with you people? xD I've always wanted to live with an otaku. |
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pauro19 said: As long as you don't mind a 15 year old who probably disagree with everything you say.Seikunai said: Diran-kun said: Although one of them is a fangirl of futa. So.. -_-Seikunai said: They all like Anime? I would love a living environment such as that.I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. May I seriously live with you people? xD I've always wanted to live with an otaku. Oh, a fangirl of futa? I can't really say much with what I like. I don't hate futa. |
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Xoaz said: What do you guys think? You cannot change yourself doing the same things again and again. Try to do something different and you'll be surprised by the results you can achieve just forcing yourself to adapt to new situations. You can choose to change yourself now or be forced to change later by external events. Write a list of goals you want to achieve and try one every day, like trying to talk with a girl you like. Keep a diary writing your experiences, writing about your life will make it clearer what to improve and how. |
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Diran-kun said: 15 year olds are not allowed in the dorm. Wait until you start going to college.pauro19 said: As long as you don't mind a 15 year old who probably disagree with everything you say.Seikunai said: Diran-kun said: Although one of them is a fangirl of futa. So.. -_-Seikunai said: They all like Anime? I would love a living environment such as that.I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. May I seriously live with you people? xD I've always wanted to live with an otaku. Oh, a fangirl of futa? I can't really say much with what I like. I don't hate futa. |
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| I like being alone, therefore I do not get lonely from not having interaction with other living beings. |
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Seikunai said: I've been mistaken for 18+ before. Just you wait.Diran-kun said: 15 year olds are not allowed in the dorm. Wait until you start going to college.pauro19 said: As long as you don't mind a 15 year old who probably disagree with everything you say.Seikunai said: Diran-kun said: Although one of them is a fangirl of futa. So.. -_-Seikunai said: They all like Anime? I would love a living environment such as that.I sleep. As simple as that. It's rare for me to be alone. I have 3 dorm mates. 2 girls and a boy. Thank God that all of them like to watch anime too. Although I hate them for having me to tutor them all the time. May I seriously live with you people? xD I've always wanted to live with an otaku. Oh, a fangirl of futa? I can't really say much with what I like. I don't hate futa. |
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Agony said: I don't get it. Being alone is the best. same here |
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beavis2323 said: Agony said: I don't get it. Being alone is the best. same here well said |
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monster7foot6 said: beavis2323 said: Agony said: I don't get it. Being alone is the best. same here well said yes |
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OP said: How do you deal with that lonely feeling?  Wait 'til it goes away. |
| I find loneliness quite painstakingly constant around me. It only surfaces when I'm deep in thought without a focus, and so I keep to calculations, philosophy, and entertainment. It's simple to overwrite a desire with other time-consuming desires. |
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| I do nothing, because it doesn't bother me to be alone. But back when it used to bother me, what I did was play a sport. I met most of my friends in the soccer teams. No girls there, though. |
on Linus_ said: OP said: How do you deal with that lonely feeling? Wait 'til it goes away. >Tfw sally and lucy won't star in your harem. |
| I love naruto~kun he's my husbando~~~~ |
Feels said: Linus_ said: OP said: How do you deal with that lonely feeling? Wait 'til it goes away. >Tfw sally and lucy won't star in your harem. >Sally and Lucy >Not Peppermint Patty, Marcie, or Little Red-Haired Girl How does it feel to have shit taste? |
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Negative-Travis said: Feels said: Linus_ said: OP said: How do you deal with that lonely feeling? Wait 'til it goes away. >Tfw sally and lucy won't star in your harem. >Sally and Lucy >Not Peppermint Patty, Marcie, or Little Red-Haired Girl How does it feel to have shit taste? >Katawa shoujo >Liking emi, shizune or rin How can people actually like these? |
| I love naruto~kun he's my husbando~~~~ |
| Internet and Cigarette |
| I listen to some relaxing music, may play some games. |
| The usual in-out procedure that most humans do on a regular basis. And video games. |
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| Over the years of my life,I can admit that i've been infatuated to 3 girls. It is a given fact that all of these girls were the stereotypically sweet, innocent, petite chinky asian girl, they were the ones who liked anime, eating oriental cuisine, loved jpop and kpop music, loved art and designing, loved shopping, Asian pop culture show, dramas, korean celebs, and internet memes. These girls were the type to get really angry at you for playing video games for too long, the ones who enjoyed eating so much to the point that they loved your cooking, and the type of girls who encouraged and motivated you to do your homework. They told you to stay online for "five more minutes" and told you not to sleep yet, and they were always the ones who had cute ideas "kawaii" They were the ones who fantasized and dreamed of kissing under the mistle toe during the holidays, and the ones who dreamt overly thoughtful and adorable proposals, and also tucking in the couch next to a fireplace on a snowy day! I described to you the girls that I've been attached with, I genuinely wanted to date them... But I am truly ashamed of myself that I feel that am not good enough for those 3 girls, which stopped me from making a move on them. This has made me lonely, and i've been trying to deal with this by striving to become a better person... for myself, not for the sake of others. |
Star_BoyJul 29, 2013 1:58 AM
Feels said: Negative-Travis said: Feels said: Linus_ said: OP said: How do you deal with that lonely feeling? Wait 'til it goes away. >Tfw sally and lucy won't star in your harem. >Sally and Lucy >Not Peppermint Patty, Marcie, or Little Red-Haired Girl How does it feel to have shit taste? >Katawa shoujo >Liking emi, shizune or rin How can people actually like these? I don't see why not. I mean, I like Hanako the most, but still. |
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FriedIceCream said: Feels said: >Katawa shoujo >Liking emi, shizune or rin How can people actually like these? I don't see why not. I mean, I like Hanako the most, but still. I was making a cross reference to what he said. Sally and lucy are like hanako and emily and the other 3 he mentioned are pretty close to the other 3 in Peanuts. |
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| Drugs. |
| I probably regret this post by now. |
| I have always been a loner. Even though I have some very old friends at school, I rarely talk to them when I return home. I don't get time to think about it though, with all the school work and study I have to do. |
| Forever lost. |
| Not listening to inane bullshit is the only way. |
| I'm never alone, I got my anime! ;D |
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| It kind of sucks being alone, in the summer my friends are off from UNI so the summer is ok. The other times it is kind of deal with it xD The best thing for me is never get bored otherwise I really feel it :/ |
| I don't have problems being alone. |
| You are still young. You will find someone :) |
| I'm here for you Xoaz. |
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| you learn to get used to it you will always feel lonely unless you do something to change the fact your alone , get a pet or try and socialize more . or youll end up a sad fat loner with a cat like me |
| Sometimes being alone is great, sometimes it sucks big time. I try to deal with it by keeping myself busy listening to music or by watching some anime :D Also don't lose hope so easily, there's always someone for everyone, that's how I see it :) |
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| I watch anime when I feel lonely, nice escape from reality |
| I like to be alone, but when I do get lonely I use something to distract thoughts of loneliness by watching dramas or anime. |
| Definitely looking someone to talk with and will share my feelings. Be it in real life or online, I don't care, I just hate the feeling of loneliness which is by far still tormenting me as of the moment. |
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