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Sep 10, 2012 4:50 PM
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I know this has probably been posted before, but I'm posting it again. I personally would rather not let my parents know about the yaoi. It's not like they're homophobic or anything, it's just that they would flip out if they saw how, uh, exciting it could get. They already know and accept the fact that I'm an anime freak though ;P
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Sep 10, 2012 5:10 PM
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the only anime/manga my parents know about is pokemon and dragonball z. if they found out the other stuff i watch....
Sep 10, 2012 5:11 PM
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I don't watch/read yaoi anymore (except for Ai no Kusabi which I need to finish some day) and my parents didn't know about it when I did. I wouldn't have wanted them to find out as they're extremely homophobic and it would have resulted in an awkward situation.

My mother knows I watch anime and has never told me anything about it. My father doesn't care enough about what I watch to notice.
Sep 10, 2012 5:15 PM
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I don't watch yaoi. And yes, my parents know I watch anime. They watch it as well. Some people on this forum act like watching anime is taboo or something... SMH.
Sep 10, 2012 5:15 PM
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Not yaoi, but yuri. And no, they don't know. My parents are the type of Christians that will freak out at the site of two men or two girls together, let alone two fictional anime girls. They already think anime is the source of hell already, if they knew that I watched/liked yuri they would flip shit.

So they know I watch anime, but I will hide the fact that I watch homosexual girls forever from them.
Sep 10, 2012 5:21 PM
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I don't read/watch yaoi anymore, and my parents know about but not about the content of some of the shows I watch. Even they did somehow find out, it wouldn't matter. I'm 18 now, they can't do jack shit about it.
Sep 10, 2012 5:24 PM
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Not yaoi, but yuri. And no, they don't know. My parents are the type of Christians that will freak out at the site of two men or two girls together, let alone two fictional anime girls. They already think anime is the source of hell already, if they knew that I watched/liked yuri they would flip shit.

So they know I watch anime, but I will hide the fact that I watch homosexual girls forever from them.

THIS. But it's my mom that's pretty religious. While she watches anime with me, she doesn't like that there are anime about homosexual relationships, and I'd be out on the streets if she found out the kind of manga I read online. My dad is an atheist, but he doesn't understand gay people.

I'll keep this fact out of conversation with anybody. It's just a hassle to explain...

Sep 10, 2012 5:30 PM
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She certainly knows I watch anime and read manga. My room is full of 'de manga!

So I bought my first yaoi a few years back at Otakon, and she demanded to look at it, and luckily, it was incredibly tame, nothing more than kissing really. She doesn't know that I now have some far more graphic yaoi (I still don't have much though). Or that I have Battle Royale manga (maybe she knows that, but not how graphic it is), though I am over 18, so whatevs.
Sep 10, 2012 5:33 PM
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They do not know I watch anime at all. but who knows. Maybe since i type it in my phone's internet, they probably have seen the history or something.
Sep 10, 2012 5:39 PM

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I think my parents gave up trying to figure out what i'm into a long long time ago.
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Sep 10, 2012 5:55 PM

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I dont watch Yaoi...

But yeah my parents dont know i watch anime, i doubt they care
Sep 10, 2012 5:59 PM

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I'm 15 and frankly, my parents don't give a shit.
Why?

It's fucking cartoons. However, if it was porn they probably would care.
I showed my mom naked scenes from a manga and she was just like "kay?"
Sep 10, 2012 6:03 PM

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No, they dont know
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Sep 10, 2012 6:04 PM

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My mother knows I watch anime. I've tried to explain her what i'm into but apparently she can only remember Naruto & Inuyasha.
Sep 10, 2012 6:04 PM

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I was in a bookstore in Japan with my parents and I prayed to God that they didn't see the yaoi manga section. That would have been awkward. They're extremely homophobic... if they knew I watched yaoi they'd probably disown me.
Sep 10, 2012 6:31 PM
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My dad still thinks my two main interests are Pokemon and puppies. My mom has a grasp that I watch strange Japanese cartoons. Out of the people I know, I'm more on the "closet fan" side.
Sep 10, 2012 7:00 PM
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I do not watch yaoi, and my parents do NOT know I watch anime. Nor do I intend to tell them.
Sep 10, 2012 7:04 PM

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Yeah they do, definitely.

I even got my mom to complete Death Note, and watch bits and pieces of Code Geass and Monster. (Though she only watched English Dubbed versions)

My dad always stops to check out the action in Final Fantasy 7: Advent Children when I'm re-watching it too (which is A LOT ^^).

EDIT: Didn't read the topic's title closely (or it was changed), I don't watch YAOI, I was referring to anime. Sigh.
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Sep 10, 2012 7:13 PM

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Yes to both. At least my mom does. My dad knows about anime, but I don't know if he knows about the yaoi or not. I doubt my mom knows that I watch/read hentai though, but I really wouldn't care if she found out, as long as she didn't find out what kind of hentai I like.
Sep 10, 2012 7:20 PM
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My parents know I watch anime. They think it's stupid....though I've been trying to get them involved in it.

My Dad doesn't believe a show like Breaking Bad can be matched with something like Monster or Fate/Zero. A great story is a great story, no matter if it's animated,written, live-action etc.
Sep 10, 2012 7:24 PM

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I don't watch Yaoi. My mom knows I watch anime though. She's not that happy about it. :(

...She doesn't like how addicted I am. hah
Sep 10, 2012 7:29 PM

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Anime - Yes
Yaoi - Oh gosh NO!

Parents would burn my laptop if they found out. :(
Sep 10, 2012 8:32 PM

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Last night my mum walked into the room where I was watching Cowboy Bebop.
Mum: "Is that cartoon character reading a Playboy!?!"
Me: "Yah"
Mum: "Huh"
Sep 10, 2012 8:37 PM

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My parents know I watch anime.
My mother doesn't care what I do with my time, and my dad tells me when he sees anime in the video store for cheap.
I don't watch Yaoi--not a fan.
Sep 10, 2012 8:37 PM

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Don't watch yaoi, but I do watch yuri and other things. My parents know I watch anime, but if they found out I watch yuri, and other strange things, they'd probably accept the fact that their son is a weirdo. Well maybe they'd think I need help for being a loli lover.
Sep 10, 2012 8:42 PM

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my mom knows about anime, but not about yaoi. won't ever let her know.
my dad is oblivious to everything.
Sep 10, 2012 8:45 PM

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Why does the OP seem to be under the impression that everyone watches yaoi?

And my family has been aware of my general choice of entertainment for as long as I've kept at it. Six years and counting.

Edit: And now I'm going to go out on a limb here.

Why, why, why do people keep asking questions concerning an outsider's perspective on the anime fandom? Must I look for uninformed approval?
Sep 10, 2012 8:48 PM

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Akito_Kinomoto said:
Why does the OP seem to be under the impression that everyone watches yaoi?

Wait, there are people out there who don't watch yaoi? When the hell did this happen?
Sep 10, 2012 8:50 PM

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Don't watch yaoi. Also my parents don't give a flying fuck about what I watch. Though my dad did laugh once cuz the character on screen was a still frame with a moving mouth that just opens and closes not matching the words that come out. Found it funny.
Sep 10, 2012 9:43 PM

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She knows I watch anime but not Yaoi or Yuri.

She would most likely think I'm a lesbian if she knew about the Yuri.
Sep 10, 2012 9:46 PM

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My mum wanted me to show her an anime because she was interested in seeing one of my hobbies, I showed her Boku no Pico.
Sep 10, 2012 9:46 PM

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They are aware i watch "anime" but the most they know of it, is pokemon. which brings on a new level of immaturity of me in their eyes. i really dont want them to see what real anime is like, because i feel they wouldn't let me watch it. Not saying its bad, but my parents are weird.
Sep 10, 2012 9:50 PM

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I don't think there's any reason for myself or others to talk to my parents about any kind of erotic stuff I watch.
As for anime in general, yeah they know. They call it "cartoons" though.
My dad doesn't disapprove of my anime-watching hobby but he doesn't care for it either. My mom has liked what I've shown her though, which are Samurai Champloo and Ookiku Furikabutte.
Sep 10, 2012 10:01 PM

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Akito_Kinomoto said:
Why does the OP seem to be under the impression that everyone watches yaoi?

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Sep 10, 2012 10:04 PM

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The_Butcher said:
My parents know I watch anime. They think it's stupid....though I've been trying to get them involved in it.

My Dad doesn't believe a show like Breaking Bad can be matched with something like Monster or Fate/Zero. A great story is a great story, no matter if it's animated,written, live-action etc.


Heh, monster, compared to breaking bad. This is a joke, because monster is far better.
Sep 10, 2012 10:08 PM

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Akito_Kinomoto said:
Why does the OP seem to be under the impression that everyone watches yaoi?


S/He should've started the other way around.
Sep 10, 2012 10:14 PM

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meepsheep said:
I don't watch Yaoi. My mom knows I watch anime though. She's not that happy about it. :(

...She doesn't like how addicted I am. hah
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Anime - Yes
Yaoi - Oh gosh NO!

Parents would burn my laptop if they found out. :(

Both of these pretty much :P
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Sep 10, 2012 10:38 PM
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They know I watch anime.
They don't know how much time I spend on it.
They know I have a stash of anime porn
They don't know I'm a lolicon
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No I don't watch YAOI but YURI
and if they find me watching either, They'll probably tear me from limb to limb
Sep 13, 2012 12:55 AM

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MY parents know I watch anime but they don't know I watch yaoi. If they knew, It will be the end of my world. =))))
Sep 13, 2012 1:07 AM

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They thought it was a phase back in my day, but I still think they know I watch it, but as a hobby or something like that
Sep 13, 2012 1:10 AM

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Strayfe said:
The_Butcher said:
My parents know I watch anime. They think it's stupid....though I've been trying to get them involved in it.

My Dad doesn't believe a show like Breaking Bad can be matched with something like Monster or Fate/Zero. A great story is a great story, no matter if it's animated,written, live-action etc.


Heh, monster, compared to breaking bad. This is a joke, because monster is far better.


I actually heard Breaking Bad was amazing. Haven't watched either that or Monster yet though. I SHALL WATCH THEM BOTH!

Anime they know but generally don't care to a degree... Err Yaoi.. I don't watch.
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Sep 13, 2012 1:22 AM

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Strayfe said:
Heh, monster, compared to breaking bad. This is a joke, because monster is far better.


I agree. The only good thing about that show is the funny DEA cop. Just another edgy comedy. But hey, it is all about the hype and watching what is in right now. If anything that sort of mindset is even stronger among live-action fans than in anime subcommunities. They forget most shows within a year or two. Sopranos? What's that?

Anyway, I don't really watch yaoi, nor have I lived with my parents for a while now. However, if I go for a longer visit, I might watch some anime or read manga from my laptop. I think they feel the same as I do about their watching habits, which translated to not giving a fuck. I think my mother has some sort of vague idea about it, but my father is clueless and thinks I'm just playing games all the time no matter what I'm doing.
Sep 13, 2012 4:12 AM
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Strayfe said:


Heh, monster, compared to breaking bad. This is a joke, because monster is far better.
Wrong. Breaking Bad & Monster(Grouped with Gintama & some others too) are 2 of the best few things in fictional history that is 10/10.

They're nearly equal in epicness.

Another debate for another time though.
Sep 13, 2012 4:19 AM

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They know I watch anime but they don't really care. I don't like yaoi at all, but I like yuri and they don't know that. But it's not like I'm hiding it. If they asked me, I would tell.
Sep 13, 2012 4:40 AM

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The_Butcher said:
My parents know I watch anime. They think it's stupid....though I've been trying to get them involved in it.

My Dad doesn't believe a show like Breaking Bad can be matched with something like Monster or Fate/Zero. A great story is a great story, no matter if it's animated,written, live-action etc.


My dad questioned why I'm watching anime, and I just said "Well, you watch dramas all the time, same thing". He got just a little defensive :D

I don't know who would want their parents to know about watching yaoi or yuri, which I'm assuming is of the pornographic kind? I've heard that strawberry panic isn't porn but it yuri focused, so I'm guessing the OP might mean non-porno?
Sep 13, 2012 4:45 AM

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TheLostProphet said:
I don't know who would want their parents to know about watching yaoi or yuri, which I'm assuming is of the pornographic kind? I've heard that strawberry panic isn't porn but it yuri focused, so I'm guessing the OP might mean non-porno?


Well, I've never gone out of the way to tell my mom, but she's come across some of it before and she doesn't care. She's cool about that kind of stuff though. She found my Ar tonelico calendar full of half-naked chicks and the first thing she asked was, "So... do they do it together or something?"

My dad would probably care, but it's not like he can do anything about it since I'm an adult and I'm not living with him.
Sep 13, 2012 5:02 AM

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mecharobot said:
Strayfe said:
Heh, monster, compared to breaking bad. This is a joke, because monster is far better.


I agree. The only good thing about that show is the funny DEA cop. Just another edgy comedy. But hey, it is all about the hype and watching what is in right now. If anything that sort of mindset is even stronger among live-action fans than in anime subcommunities. They forget most shows within a year or two. Sopranos? What's that?


Bu-but the writing is superb and the characters are interesting and well written ;_;...

Also, most live-action fans don't "forget" those shows. It has more to do with the fact that such shows have already ended and people generally prefer to discuss things that are currently airing. It doesn't mean they forgot about it or don't care about it; They simply don't wanna discuss something they have already discussed to death.

As for the original question, my parents really don't mind it for the most part. My mom thinks its strange and my dad is indifferent, but they're alright with it.

I don't watch yaoi, but if I did and my parents found out....well, I don't believe they would like that too much, heh.
Sep 29, 2012 7:26 PM

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Well, they know I watch anime. I would never let them find out that I watch yaoi, they are somewhat homophobic but they would also consider it as "porn". Sure, my parents are forgiving about some things, but gay relationships are a no to them. I myself would really love for them to know that I like that sort of stuff, simply because I am blunt and weird about subjects, but in fear of what would happen I don't tell them.
Sep 29, 2012 8:49 PM

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yeah, they know i watch anime.

Sep 29, 2012 8:59 PM

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Anime= Yes.

Yaoi= HAHAHAHA.
PFF.
NO.
NEVER.

My dad almost freaked when he saw the cover of an R.L. Stein book i was reading when i was in elementary school, even in middle school, that looked somewhat provocative. My mom might just think it's amusing that i read/watch such stuff, but my dad.....oh, my dad. He won't do anything, but just knowing he knows would be the most awkward thing ever.
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