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Dec 30, 2015 4:25 PM

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Probably for excitement because they think nice guys are boring? or they just think that the bad boy style is hotter than the good guy style?
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Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.


Nah man. There is no such thing as a nice guy. There is only good guy and bad guy. The good guys win and gets the girl;The bad guy loses and in turn invented the term "nice guys" and "bad boys" to spite them.
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Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.

pretty accurate from what I've seen.

and when you're attractive girls like you regardless

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Most teenage girls tend to go for those types, lets not try denying reality on personal experience.
they do? i've never met any bad boy in my all asian school //shrugs//

girls tend to go for the guy who's a bit stupid but are really funny and happy to be around, or at least those are the only guys that get any girlfriends in my school


if i dress prep and clean cut I get attention from asian girls. When I do shag or "bad boy" look I get attention from white girls. I wonder what the reason is



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people have different types. guys go for fucked up girls all the time too.
not sure how to explain it tho. i guess some people just like to complicate their own lives

Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.
or this
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Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes.
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Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.


Alright Fintan, you've earned some points back.

There are some fine "nice guys", but a lot of the unpopular ones who claim they're nice are just jealous they are dull and stuff.
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Ophis said:
Damn this thread made my head hurt. There's a difference between a "bad boy" and abusive douchebag. "Nice guys" or should I say insecure little bitches started seeing them as the same thing. Real "nice guys" are almost extinct. That aside, "bad boys" are really just dominant guys and are honestly more fun people. So people who like to go out and have fun vs some bitter men that are social introverts. Of course everyone has their own preference so this doesn't apply to everyone, but I am talking about the majority. So go figure, which would you rather hang out with or be in a relationship with? I'm willing to bet a larger majority will say the fun person. Some "bad boys" really are those abusive assholes. Of course there are legit nice guys out there. But you can't tell me they're all the same. So people compromise for their preference.

As for the dominance part, again this falls under preference, but most women prefer dominant guys obviously. Just like most men prefer submissive girls. This nice guy vs bad boy thing has been blown out of proportion by assholes and basement dwellers.


The only place I like be dominated by my man is in the bedroom and that's it...
Okay enough of that for now lol
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Because they want those bad boys to act nice only to them.
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BlueKite said:
Because they want those bad boys to act nice only to them.


Only problem is that if they are assholes to everyone else they will eventually be assholes to them.
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KonaKoffee4 said:
BlueKite said:
Because they want those bad boys to act nice only to them.


Only problem is that if they are assholes to everyone else they will eventually be an assholes to them.
And that is how you proceed to the damsel-in-distress route.
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One or multiple of these.

They think they can change them. You cant.
They think they are not that bad. They are.
They think nothing bad will come of it. It often does.
They feel they need the stimulation from the drama caused by them. They don't really. There are better options.
They have low self worth and think they can not do better. Sometimes they can.
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Ophis said:
Damn this thread made my head hurt. There's a difference between a "bad boy" and abusive douchebag. "Nice guys" or should I say insecure little bitches started seeing them as the same thing. Real "nice guys" are almost extinct. That aside, "bad boys" are really just dominant guys and are honestly more fun people. So people who like to go out and have fun vs some bitter men that are social introverts. Of course everyone has their own preference so this doesn't apply to everyone, but I am talking about the majority. So go figure, which would you rather hang out with or be in a relationship with? I'm willing to bet a larger majority will say the fun person. Some "bad boys" really are those abusive assholes. Of course there are legit nice guys out there. But you can't tell me they're all the same. So people compromise for their preference.

As for the dominance part, again this falls under preference, but most women prefer dominant guys obviously. Just like most men prefer submissive girls. This nice guy vs bad boy thing has been blown out of proportion by assholes and basement dwellers.


No, nice guys are not extinct. They just suck at sexually attracting women, so they either turn bitter (and become more unattractive and creepy) or remain invisible.

I'm glad someone's honest about wanting fun in the relationship. I know a lot of people don't get this.
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Girls want a BadBoy To feel safe and protected.
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Spooks said:
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yeah, because things people say in an asian movie must reflect what girls want irl


Most teenage girls tend to go for those types, lets not try denying reality on personal experience.

As for the question it stands to reason that the stereotyping of society comes into play bad boys on motorcycles sweeping you off your feet and defending you with his great bod is something most women through the ages have been unable to shake secretly yearning for.
Ever since the time of knights in shining armor riding to you on a horse. Do you think younger woman and teenage girls want the nerdy outcast guy because they can see your inner beauty? in general probably not, the younger we are the more we tend to be driven more by our animal sides. Males seek to impress and improve the female responds well to the confident bad boy male who dominates the weaker males around him. Only as we grow older does our taste in what we expect in a partner gets more complicated but that in built desire for the alpha male is still a strong impulse in women as is the males desire for a woman of breeding shape, good hips, bigger breasts ect. Its mainly subconscious but its still there.
True.

Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.
Pessimistic antisocial guys ftw lol. I don't really like "bad guys" they're so bland and predictable with their outgoing personality. Missionary is boring for everyone lol, not just "bad guys". Maybe a "bad guy" would be nice for an ONS but for anything other than that it'd just be too boring.



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Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.
- Not necessarily mean they are pessimistic and anti social. It could just mean they have nothing to offer
- Having interesting personalities doesn't only apply to "bad guys". They could be a soccer player, a musician, or even a class officer. They have something that can draw the opposite sex to them.
- Knowing most men, I bet they don't just restrict themselves to one sex position with all the porn they have been watching.
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I can't speak for wanting a "bad boy," but I can say why a bad girl might be appealing to me at times. There is a certain erotica that comes from someone with a tough as nails (or alternatively, dark and mysterious) appearance and aura about their selves which is almost always accompanied by a strong sense of self confidence that exudes in their posture and how they carry their selves and even in their slurs and word choice.

I'm a submissive in romance, so these traits sort of dig into that and get me a bit excited. When you have hormones on your side, you have a much better chance at getting through to someone in those ways as they cause a physical reaction which effectively shifts your mood and emotions. Most people my age who are looking for something more than a sexual experience (or well, I'd like to think) will know better than to just go off warm feelings though.

Such a persona isn't always a 24/7 thing by such people, and obviously that bit is a bit dependent on someone being attracted to those traits, although it does seem there are more sub women than dom women. But, more importantly, one's social maturity, wisdom, hobbies, and knowledge all play a part as well. Some women do care a lot about money, but I personally just want to make sure that the two of us can be financially secure in general. Money always seemed like a very poor reason to have interest in someone as a significant other, but then again, I do live in the first world.
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I don't believe girls intentionally go after bad boys. They usually just want a confident dude who can make her laugh and is a cool person to be around. I think this is a rumor those "nice guys" make up just to feel better about being awkward and not being able to get girls.
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I have a soft, melty, weird, heart-thumping love for "bad boys". There's something about seeing a modded guy with a cigarette in his mouth. I sound so stupid but I'm not even ashamed.

Unless by 'bad boys' you mean 'complete and utter assholes' then nevermind I don't care for fuckboys lmao
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mara_ said:
Mentality that you can change them like nurturing/bad boys are confident and that's just something that turns girls on/dangerous and exciting.

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I used to fawn over bad boys when I was 12. Thinking sappy shit like: "Oh, my precious dark badass boy, pretending to be cold. If only you would open your heart and let me see the sweetness and love you have inside." lol
I got over it eventually (thank god). But I think maybe its because girls have the idealistic thinking of "I can change him for the better with love!!1 Love conquers all!!"

At least that's what I remember I used to think at that time.

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all girls want a bad boy who is only good for them
lol

but yeah that is a terrible idea...i just want a nice boy who will spend lots of time with me =)

BlueKite said:
Because they want those bad boys to act nice only to them.

All of the above. They hope to change this "bad boy" and be the lucky girl that they show care to.


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Why are "bad boys" abusive? Pretty sure there is a difference between being what's generally considered a "bad boy" and being abusive.
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Why are "bad boys" abusive? Pretty sure there is a difference between being what's generally considered a "bad boy" and being abusive.


A 'bad boy' (Or, let's admit it, a sexy person) would most likely get away with sexual harassment/abuse more because that quality gives him power. An unattractive guy gropes you? Let's jail him. He's just a tool.

A model gropes you? Well, you might have fantasized about him once or twice and people won't support you if you go against the most popular guy around. It's harder.
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Because I think I can change them. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 character limit
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Because those girls are immature and weak. Bad boys are fun in the short run. It's like alcohol, and then the hangover comes.

At least they have ice cream and nutella for medicine......

Bad boys are a guilty pleasure for some girls, I guess they like the excitement of being with a rebel. Hollywood may also be a factor, they get you thinking that there will always be a happy ending, which isn't always true.

Bad boys are fun to crush on, but not someone i'd want to have a relationship with.

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I used to fawn over bad boys when I was 12. Thinking sappy shit like: "Oh, my precious dark badass boy, pretending to be cold. If only you would open your heart and let me see the sweetness and love you have inside." lol

I choked on my water from how funny this was.

So me when I was younger....ugh.



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Excitement and the best kind of fetish.



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I knew a grill that actively admitted to liking douch bags and assholes. some people like to be dominated. So that can the reason.
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Fintan said:
Most guys claiming they're "nice guys" aren't, they're usually pessimistic and anti social. The girls who like "bad guys" probably like them because they actually have interesting personalities, and make life more interesting. Also maybe their sexlife consists of more then just 3-4min of missionary position.


I'm pessimistic and anti-social, and I swear missionary bores me.

Well, most guys want big-breasted airheads, so I can't really blame girls wo have shit taste in men. I guess the excitement of getting in a car crash because your boyfriend drove you home totally wasted after a party is too strong ;). (<---typical love ritual where I grew up)
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Isn't it obvious? I want some guy with sweet tattoos who occasionally burns me with cigarettes and does bad shit

Bad boys are a turn on

Until they crash and burn that is, which is inevitable

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l. I don't really like "bad guys" they're so bland and predictable with their outgoing personality. Missionary is boring for everyone lol, not just "bad guys". Maybe a "bad guy" would be nice for an ONS but for anything other than that it'd just be too boring.

People akin to the kind of people who browse this forum are, largely speaking, comically predictable and samey. Yea, stupid frat bros are predictable too, but I wouldn't call them bad boys so much as idiots with alcoholism

In my eyes at least, a bad boy is wildly unpredictable

That's part of the attraction



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I knew a grill that actively admitted to liking douch bags and assholes. some people like to be dominated. So that can the reason.


TIL grill are turned on by bad boys. Thank you my friend.
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A bad guy with a shit ton of money, good looks and great future prospects is probably more attractive to women than a nice guy who is a cynical shut in that complains about all day.
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A bad guy with a shit ton of money, good looks and great future prospects is probably more attractive to women than a nice guy who is a cynical shut in that complains about all day.
I feel that having good future prospects isn't an aspect of a bad boy

A bad boy has little or unknown future prospects, they're bad, on the outside of our mainstream society, the manic pixie dream girl who does drugs and doesn't take your shit

That kind of guy isn't going to law school, he's going to deal shit or be a tattoo artist or work on bikes for a living
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Mogu-sama said:
hoopla123 said:
A bad guy with a shit ton of money, good looks and great future prospects is probably more attractive to women than a nice guy who is a cynical shut in that complains about all day.
I feel that having good future prospects isn't an aspect of a bad boy

A bad boy has little or unknown future prospects, they're bad, on the outside of our mainstream society, the manic pixie dream girl who does drugs and doesn't take your shit

That kind of guy isn't going to law school, he's going to deal shit or be a tattoo artist or work on bikes for a living


Isn't the definition of a bad boy used by people these days is a guy that is generally an asshole but has the money, looks and other things?

When people say that women like bad guys, they don't mean they like drug addicts or bums. Unless you are talking about your middle school/high school years lmao.
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Mogu-sama said:
hoopla123 said:
A bad guy with a shit ton of money, good looks and great future prospects is probably more attractive to women than a nice guy who is a cynical shut in that complains about all day.
I feel that having good future prospects isn't an aspect of a bad boy

A bad boy has little or unknown future prospects, they're bad, on the outside of our mainstream society, the manic pixie dream girl who does drugs and doesn't take your shit

That kind of guy isn't going to law school, he's going to deal shit or be a tattoo artist or work on bikes for a living


This does sound like future prospects to me. Sure, it won't get you stinking rich but is that necessarily a bad life?
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Bad boys tend to have a more dominant personality. Sometimes this comes off as being an ass.

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they're masochists. or it seems more exciting?
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Honestly, I really don't know why. I can't object with what you're saying, because I've seen alot of girls like that. I don't understand them, and probably never will. Specially teenage girls who admire bad boys either so they could tame them or something, or for the thrill and excitement of it. I really don't know, I kind of find it childish and immature. They don't interest me.
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Cuz we have all the weed. And we know how to party

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Honestly, I really don't know why. I can't object with what you're saying, because I've seen alot of girls like that. I don't understand them, and probably never will. Specially teenage girls who admire bad boys either so they could tame them or something, or for the thrill and excitement of it. I really don't know, I kind of find it childish and immature. They don't interest me.


Bad boys don't mean what you think. They get what they want, aren't afraid to say what is on their mind, flirt with you aggressively, are social, don't like to be disrespected and don't like to be on a leash.

You can be successful and be a bad boy. Women go for these types because of their confidence and because they aren't shy to say what they want, not just because of their badass looks.
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Bad boys don't mean what you think. They get what they want, aren't afraid to say what is on their mind, flirt with you aggressively, are social, don't like to be disrespected and don't like to be on a leash.

You can be successful and be a bad boy. Women go for these types because of their confidence and because they aren't shy to say what they want, not just because of their badass looks.
I don't disagree with your meaning there, I know that. What you listed is perfectly normal, no one likes regardless of being a bad boy to be disrespected. No one likes being on a leash, but not downright reckless. People can say their minds without being a bad boy. Is confidence only found in bad boys? I don't think so.
And I know they can be successful at the same time. Really doesn't change things here. His personality is still the same. I just don't like aggressiveness. Anyways, if these qualities are redeemed attractive why it's called bad? No reason?
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"Bad boy" is really vague. From my experience, women don't want a "bad boy", they just want someone who has a life outside of their girlfriend.

Too many guys are desperate for women's attention, willing to essentially become their servant to please them. Women don't want a slave, they want someone who has goals and dreams, interests and desires outside of their relationship. If your girl goes out, you should have something to do as well. Not be waiting by the front door wagging your tail waiting for them to come back. Clingy "nice guys" are really unattractive, aspiring "bad boys" are attractive.

Just my thoughts, hopefully I explained it well.
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Probably because they want to rave about their totally cool ass bf.
Or they're simply a bunch of masochists, who knows.







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Children that were raised in an abusive household are more likely to be in abusive relationships themselves. Feedback loop occurs. If your dad is a drunk you may search for a drunk as a boyfriend.

They may see such relationships as normal.
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I think the idea of 'straightening them out' or being a catalyst to change these guys appeal to them in some way? Something to that effect.

Personally, there's something really attractive about mysterious guys in black leather jackets perched on motorcycles- but if their riding skills reflect their bedroom skills, then it'd be a no-go. Too fast to enjoy the ride and all that. But I digress.


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I think the idea of 'straightening them out' or being a catalyst to change these guys appeal to them in some way? Something to that effect.

Personally, there's something really attractive about mysterious guys in black leather jackets perched on motorcycles- but if their riding skills reflect their bedroom skills, then it'd be a no-go. Too fast to enjoy the ride and all that. But I digress.


What's so mysterious about cliched masculinity?
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i would want to know this too

That sounds so steretypic though , i feel sorry for the girls that have that type of taste to be honest.

In my case , anybody who comes with a dumbass attitude can get slapped for all i care.
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I would assume it would be for reasons similar to why some guys aim for getting a "bad girl."
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I would assume it would be for reasons similar to why some guys aim for getting a "bad girl."


From what i know about sterotypes , that scenario isn't popular at all.

Most guys , being stereotypic here , seem to prefer the dumb pretty girl type .

Others , again stereotypes , prefer the typical lady , American wife that barely rise her voice.

a bad girl amount us now , is what society would call a ''slut'' or mostly , a ''bitch''
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It's 50-50 for me to like a bad boy, as a girl myself. Depending on their personality and why they are the way they are, I could end up liking them or just find them to be jerks.

I think the appeal, though, is because most girls like to romanticize the idea of helping a bad boy change for the better - or have that bad boy protect and defend them. (Which, to be honest? I'd try to help anyone for the better if I care about them, bad boy or not.)

What I do not stand for, though, is romanticizing abuse. That's just sick. I don't care of the guy's sexy or a bad boy or if he has the sun shining out of his ass - if he's abusing the girl and it gets romanticized I'm outta here.







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TheBrainintheJar said:

What's so mysterious about cliched masculinity?

hoping for a James Dean or Marlon Brando-esque happy end.

tbh I'm just really into powerful things between my legs. like a Harley.


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