| Now ik most ppl say no everywhere else ,but MAL seems like an interesting place to ask this since so much ppl here talk about never having a gf or a kiss b4 |
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| It's a bit of a scary prospect, but I do have some faith that my parents would pick someone of quality, so I can't say that I would be entirely opposed (just not for the time being). |
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| Arranged marriage is kinda hot, but ultimately, it depends on the girl. |
| Oh, yes, I'd so be looking forward to living my life with a person I barely have any real chemistry with unless one of us is groomed since birth to just act as a servant to the other! Getting into a relationship is actually not that hard, peeps. You don't need your mama to do it for you; getting into a relationship with somebody you care about is what's hard and this isn't the solution. |
  𝚃𝚘 𝚖𝚢 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚍𝚢 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚜𝚊𝚗𝚝𝚊, 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚍𝚒𝚍 𝚊 𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚝 𝚓𝚘𝚋, 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚔 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚟𝚎𝚛𝚢 𝚖𝚞𝚌𝚑 |
| Arranged Marriage has the same level of Divorce as Normal Marriage. |
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart!  |
| Depends of my parents since they know taste, as long as not narcissist I'm okay (if is pervert and funny I also take it) |
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| At this point as long as she's rich and doesn't force me to do shit I don't even care if she's older lol |
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| Why not? If she can cook and clean maybe one day we will have feelings for eachother after staying together |
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| "Would you be ok with having an arranged marriage?" Hmm, probably. It depends on the woman. |
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| Why do people here assume it is the other sex they will be forced to be married to? |
Mao said: If you have to shit, shit! If you have to fart, fart! |
| Only if she likes me, otherwise divorce chance is too high. |
DesuMaiden said: Nobody resembles me physically because I don't even physically exist. |
| Arranged marriages are done by the parents and I would not trust mine seeing they don't even really know me and they are both twice divorced themselves. I can make a relationship from less than ideal conditions but I really don't want to settle for someone I don't love more than anyone else, but I'm giving up hope at this point. |
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| If it's to rich older dominant woman,then yes I'm okay. |
| I'm afraid I'm not mentally fit to marry anyone, especially not in this shithole country with millions of abusive narcissistic women. Can I just have sex with a prostitute for cheap and with my parents permission instead? |
LenRea said: I'm afraid I'm not mentally fit to marry anyone, especially not in this shithole country with millions of abusive narcissistic women. Can I just have sex with a prostitute for cheap and with my parents permission instead? Why are Iranian women abusive and narcissistic? |
DesuMaiden said: Nobody resembles me physically because I don't even physically exist. |
Reply to Zarutaku
LenRea said:
I'm afraid I'm not mentally fit to marry anyone, especially not in this shithole country with millions of abusive narcissistic women. Can I just have sex with a prostitute for cheap and with my parents permission instead?
I'm afraid I'm not mentally fit to marry anyone, especially not in this shithole country with millions of abusive narcissistic women. Can I just have sex with a prostitute for cheap and with my parents permission instead?
Why are Iranian women abusive and narcissistic?
| @Zarutaku Reincarnate in iran for your next life, afterwards take a good look at every women around you. You'd understand. |
| In the past, I've known examples in my own circle where arranged marriages turned out to be workable. However, I believe that in the vast majority of cases, both persons end up suffering in some way because of the relationship. Personally, I don't think I could stay mentally stable in such a forced situation. At the same time, I wouldn't want any woman to face such circumstances, especially after knowing someone who was pressured into marriage by their parents (it ended in divorce). So for me, this is absolutely unacceptable. |
Reply to LenRea
@Zarutaku Reincarnate in iran for your next life, afterwards take a good look at every women around you. You'd understand.
| @LenRea Because they're frustrated by their abusive and narcissistic government? |
DesuMaiden said: Nobody resembles me physically because I don't even physically exist. |
| Definitely not, I would never accept that. |
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Reply to Absurdo_N
Definitely not, I would never accept that.
| @Absurdo_N even if I'd arrange you a marriage with an alien??? |
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Reply to vasipi4946
Arranged Marriage has the same level of Divorce as Normal Marriage.
vasipi4946 said: Arranged Marriage has the same level of Divorce as Normal Marriage. This is not actually true globally speaking, but the reason it is not true is obviously because arranged marriages tend to occur in cultures where divorce is frowned upon, no-fault divorces are likely not even a thing, or it is a thing but unidirectionally (men can divorce no justifications presented, women have to show some sort of transgression) OT: This is going to be a question where men and women answer very differently, which I note as interesting. Does that mean men are less picky, or less caring about love, or more likely to see relationships as transactional? Who's to say? Me? I would think that I would at least meet the person. Can't really ascertain anything else, but it would be low likelihood. |
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| No, I don't like the idea of it. I once met a person my mom wanted me to meet and it was a complete disaster. I wasn't attracted to him at all... So that showed me that my perception of someone I would like to date and my mom's are very different. So yeah, I'd prefer selecting my own potential partner myself |
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Reply to Commit_Crime
@Absurdo_N
even if I'd arrange you a marriage with an alien???
even if I'd arrange you a marriage with an alien???
| @Commit_Crime Yes, I want to choose my alien. |
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Reply to Zarutaku
@LenRea Because they're frustrated by their abusive and narcissistic government?
| @Zarutaku I have a feeling they were frustrated at everything even before the 1979 revolution. It's not like the men are much better, lol, I mean look at me. Basically internalize the fact that persians are subhumans and have been subhumans for a while now. That's the best way I can describe it for you. |
Reply to LenRea
@Zarutaku I have a feeling they were frustrated at everything even before the 1979 revolution. It's not like the men are much better, lol, I mean look at me.
Basically internalize the fact that persians are subhumans and have been subhumans for a while now. That's the best way I can describe it for you.
Basically internalize the fact that persians are subhumans and have been subhumans for a while now. That's the best way I can describe it for you.
| @LenRea I assumed they're pretty based after watching A Separation (2011) but it seems it's not as authentic as I thought. |
DesuMaiden said: Nobody resembles me physically because I don't even physically exist. |
Reply to Zarutaku
@LenRea I assumed they're pretty based after watching A Separation (2011) but it seems it's not as authentic as I thought.
| @Zarutaku That one probably supports a particular narrative in order to win an academy award, all movies are in general absolutely pretentious and stupid unless it's a marvel movie where I can look at people on steroids wearing red tights, which is something to look at, at least. |
| You would probably need to be pretty desperate to be in a relationship to be okay with it. But I guess it can be useful to match up together all the uglies. |
| Depends. If the girl is hot then why not. |
If you enjoyed the time you wasted, then its not a waste of time.  |
| I'd rather not. There's a higher chance of things going wrong than otherwise. |
Reply to vasipi4946
Arranged Marriage has the same level of Divorce as Normal Marriage.
| @vasipi4946 see arrange marriage is common in mostly countries like mine. And here most people would rather suffer for rest of their life because divorce is a shameful thing to do. Even my parents would've gotten divorced years ago (maybe before my birth) if it wasn't such an issue. |
| I'll just say that I have absolutely no faith in my social skills. |
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