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Jan 18, 2019 10:16 AM
#1
This is my opinion right now, I am here to look for someone to change my mind. Also, sorry if I do something wrong, I am new here. But lately I noticed that a lot of fans of traps seem kinda sexist? They write stuff like "men are better than women at everything, even at being women" or "women are garbage while traps are gods". And I am SURE I saw those comments, I am not coming up with stuff. I can even show you proof... but as I said before, I am new so I don't know if it is allowed to mention other users from this forum. But yeah, what do you think about these stuff? Because to me this is nothing but sexism... Also, I am not saying all trap fans are like that, I am just talking about those who do this kind of stuff. |
Jan 18, 2019 10:31 AM
#2
I'm sure they are since sexism seems fairly popular among the anime fandom in general so I'M sure there's some overlap with trap fans as well. Also with 'new here' do you mean the internet in general? Because you're gonna see a lot more like that. People making outrageous statements, hiding behind cynicism and 'trolling' to say stuff they don't really mean just to stir up shit, or stuff they do mean but don't dare admitting publicly. It's a shitfest. Everyone is showing their true nature on the internet, and that also does include a lot more sexism than you'd see in public these days. But most of all it includes a lot of general assholery and cynicism. Don't take people too seriously on the internet or you'll end up bitter like me :>. |
I probably regret this post by now. |
Jan 18, 2019 10:34 AM
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Jan 18, 2019 10:38 AM
#4
You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. |
_Ako_Jan 19, 2019 3:37 AM
Jan 18, 2019 10:43 AM
#5
_Ako_ said: Wise words from a wise mind. Also nice you have Maki Nishikino on favs hihi. :3You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. |
サディスティックな考え "JUST KILL ME." サディスティックマインド |
Jan 18, 2019 10:44 AM
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L_o_l_i said: _Ako_ said: Wise words from a wise mind. Also nice you have Maki Nishikino on favs hihi. :3You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Ew a Makifag, disgusting.... Can you get off me now? |
Jan 18, 2019 10:52 AM
#7
Nothing wise about your name calling..Learn to take a compliment Mr. Rude. Bye. |
サディスティックな考え "JUST KILL ME." サディスティックマインド |
Jan 18, 2019 10:56 AM
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Jan 18, 2019 10:56 AM
#9
Nemo_Niemand said: Are you having some feminism issues? Ah, yeah? So what would be your reaction if somebody said "women are better than men at everything, even at being men"? I bet you wouldn't like this. _Ako_ said: You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Can you say what I am wrong with? I really have proof of this. Also, I don't use alt accounts. This is the only account I have here. |
Jan 18, 2019 11:00 AM
#10
Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Can you say what I am wrong with? I really have proof of this. Also, I don't use alt accounts. This is the only account I have here. >Joined 2019 >Created a bait thread about traps and sexuality > "I have no idea what's wrong with my opinion" >Proceeds to shitpost > I--I don't use alt acc baka! Pretty much tells your an alt. It's alright, I get it, your main is about to get permaban so you're creating an alt for shitposting... I totally understand you... |
Jan 18, 2019 11:02 AM
#11
Noidea124 said: do itso I don't know if it is allowed to mention other users from this forum. why not I mean what do you have to lose on that account |
gone bai bai |
Jan 18, 2019 11:03 AM
#12
_Ako_ said: Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Can you say what I am wrong with? I really have proof of this. Also, I don't use alt accounts. This is the only account I have here. >Joined 2019 >Created a bait thread about traps and sexuality > "I have no idea what's wrong with my opinion" >Proceeds to shitpost > I--I don't use alt acc baka! Pretty much tells your an alt. It's alright, I get it, your main is about to get permaban so you're creating an alt for shitposting... I totally understand you... Lmao. People like you are giving anime fans even a worse name. This was created for people to change my mind, not to whine here about how mean society is against women and everything. Yeah, a permaban... on what? On my phone number maybe. |
Jan 18, 2019 11:07 AM
#13
Overall, anime is a media with plenty of sexism. I'd guess is some kind of cultural issue in Japan as well, since they're extremely conservative. |
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Jan 18, 2019 11:12 AM
#14
Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Can you say what I am wrong with? I really have proof of this. Also, I don't use alt accounts. This is the only account I have here. >Joined 2019 >Created a bait thread about traps and sexuality > "I have no idea what's wrong with my opinion" >Proceeds to shitpost > I--I don't use alt acc baka! Pretty much tells your an alt. It's alright, I get it, your main is about to get permaban so you're creating an alt for shitposting... I totally understand you... Lmao. People like you are giving anime fans even a worse name. This was created for people to change my mind, not to whine here about how mean society is against women and everything. Yeah, a permaban... on what? On my phone number maybe. >This was created for people to change my mind Oh this meme, smh I got baited by some special snowflake... Goddamnit! |
Jan 18, 2019 11:17 AM
#15
there will be someone sexist in every group of people. |
AnimeFreak-San said: is this a male gender issure...human issue...mental illness perhaps? |
Jan 18, 2019 11:19 AM
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_Ako_ said: Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Can you say what I am wrong with? I really have proof of this. Also, I don't use alt accounts. This is the only account I have here. >Joined 2019 >Created a bait thread about traps and sexuality > "I have no idea what's wrong with my opinion" >Proceeds to shitpost > I--I don't use alt acc baka! Pretty much tells your an alt. It's alright, I get it, your main is about to get permaban so you're creating an alt for shitposting... I totally understand you... Lmao. People like you are giving anime fans even a worse name. This was created for people to change my mind, not to whine here about how mean society is against women and everything. Yeah, a permaban... on what? On my phone number maybe. >This was created for people to change my mind Oh this meme, smh I got baited by some special snowflake... Goddamnit! _Ako_ said: Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: Noidea124 said: _Ako_ said: You see OP, you're clearly wrong because you have to use an alt to say it. Can you say what I am wrong with? I really have proof of this. Also, I don't use alt accounts. This is the only account I have here. >Joined 2019 >Created a bait thread about traps and sexuality > "I have no idea what's wrong with my opinion" >Proceeds to shitpost > I--I don't use alt acc baka! Pretty much tells your an alt. It's alright, I get it, your main is about to get permaban so you're creating an alt for shitposting... I totally understand you... Lmao. People like you are giving anime fans even a worse name. This was created for people to change my mind, not to whine here about how mean society is against women and everything. Yeah, a permaban... on what? On my phone number maybe. >This was created for people to change my mind Oh this meme, smh I got baited by some special snowflake... Goddamnit! If you have a problem, then leave. What is the point with all this, anyway?... |
Jan 18, 2019 11:30 AM
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Jan 18, 2019 11:35 AM
#18
Hm, I can understand where you're coming from but I don't think I'd go as far as to say its inherently "sexist." I'd say on the majority of the cases that you mention (not necessarily all), it's usually just people joking around, and in my opinion, jokes shouldn't be taken so seriously. Comedy is subjective and therefore if you're offended by what someone says, that's a choice that you make. The main issue I have with throwing around buzzword terms like "sexist" so loosely is that it loses all of its effect after a while, cause after all, if everything is sexist, then nothing is sexist. In my opinion, a guy who beats his wife because he believes she's inferior to him (or vice versa for that matter) is far more worthy of being called sexist than someone who makes a slight joke about how traps are hotter than women. Of course that's hyperbolic, but you get what I mean. Sexism is a pretty serious accusation to make, so I think it's better used on people who genuinely deserve it. Anyways that just my 2 cents, I personally don't really agree that its sexist, but more just cheeky and outrageous, which you're gonna see all over the internet regardless. |
Jan 18, 2019 11:49 AM
#19
Add one anime that have traps in it and I believe you're not an alt account |
Jan 18, 2019 11:51 AM
#20
mhkr said: Add one anime that have traps in it and I believe you're not an alt account I don't get your logic. How would this prove anything? But yeah, believe what you want |
Jan 18, 2019 12:29 PM
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Jan 18, 2019 12:32 PM
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Jan 18, 2019 12:34 PM
#23
I don't think this is an alt. Anyone who used this site before would know better than to reply to ako and expect an actual conversation or even coherent replies at all. |
I probably regret this post by now. |
Jan 18, 2019 12:40 PM
#24
I don't know, I have personally never seen comments like that, and I have interest in traps. So I suspect that you only visited the wrong places. There are obviously going to be some sexist people in anime fandom, just as everywhere, so there are likely some trap fans among them. Either way I wouldn't give it much thought, if there are few opinions like that, regardless of how stupid or backwards they may be. As long as it's not too much. And since I have never encountered them, I think it's not. You could say that it's fine according to normal distribution. It's also possible that some of those are trolls or someone trying to make jokes and failing at it. I'm not sure why correlate this with traps, however. Sexism doesn't have anything to do with them, and I'm sure you can find quite a few people attracted to females that are sexist, as well as some females that are sexist towards men. The less heed these people, from all camps, are given, the better. People get way too easily offended these days. That's one thing that I will never understand. |
MrZawaJan 18, 2019 12:47 PM
Jan 18, 2019 12:44 PM
#25
@Noidea124 Have you ever heard of sarcasm? They don't really think "men are better than women at everything, even at being women". It's just a joke. As for liking traps, well it's a fetish. I will never understand the appeal of futa but hey it's fine. Blacklist that genre and you are good to go if that's your concern. @Pullman I am pretty sure this is just a troll thread. Just your usual "sexism in anime" thread. However, I think this line tells everything: > I am here to look for someone to change my mind. Although now I am interested. Why do you think this is not a troll thread or he is not an alt. |
Jan 18, 2019 12:48 PM
#26
1. Traps are gay 2. I think it's more of a joke, like how prople always make jokes like "Women can't play games" "Make me a sandwich" etc. we acknowledge that it's not true and use it as a joke. |
Jan 18, 2019 1:00 PM
#27
sasalx said: @Noidea124 Have you ever heard of sarcasm? They don't really think "men are better than women at everything, even at being women". It's just a joke. As for liking traps, well it's a fetish. I will never understand the appeal of futa but hey it's fine. Blacklist that genre and you are good to go if that's your concern. @Pullman I am pretty sure this is just a troll thread. Just your usual "sexism in anime" thread. However, I think this line tells everything: > I am here to look for someone to change my mind. Although now I am interested. Why do you think this is not a troll thread or he is not an alt. Pretty sure I already said why I don't think it's an alt in regards to him trying to have a normal conversation with ako, every regular knows that won't happen. Only people who encounter him for the first time try that and if this was an alt it wouldn't be the first time on AD. But just in general I like to give people the benefit of the doubt if I'm not sure because I'd rather take 100 trolls seriously than dismiss one serious person as a troll. I just don't like the sarcasm culture of the internet and never being or taking anything seriously because it can be seen as a 'weakness' that gets exploited by trolls and whatnot, so I try to 'boycott' that culture as much as I can. Unless I'm 100% sure someone is trolling (which I usually only am if I know them and it's not my first encounter) I'll assume they're sincere until proven otherwise. I'm not gonna give up my values of taking people seriously and replying to opinions and arguments in earnest because of some abstract 'fear' of being 'humiliated' by falling for a troll. I pity those people who are afraid of being serious and taking people seriously, and I feel like if I let the existence of trolls change how I react to the average post, they win. They win the moment you start having 'they're trolling' as your default assumption for anything that doesn't agree with you or doesn't make sense to you. It all just leads down a path where noone takes anyone seriously unless maybe they agree with them. I'd rather be wrong 99% of the time than go down that path. And it's too depressing to take an open-minded sentence like 'looking for somebody to change my mind' as an automati signal for trolling. That's like saying I should see anyone who isn't a total dick that just wants to use the forums as an echo chamber as a troll. I'm not ready to do that. It'd just generate a negative feedback loop if you start assuming anyone who says reasonable, open-minded stuff like 'I'm willing to listen if someone wants to change my mind about this topic' is trolling and only take people seriously when they're being overconfident assholes about their opinion. That's not a world I want to live in. I still believe there are actually people who want their opinions and perceptions to be challenged like OP is claiming to. I'd like to think I'm one of them and I know I'm not a troll, at least most of the time. So there must be others, right? |
I probably regret this post by now. |
Jan 18, 2019 1:25 PM
#28
@Pullman "they're sincere until proven otherwise" huh. Well, that's a good logic and I respect that however, I stopped visiting AD daily because of troll threads and comments so I am fed up with it. Trust me, I really would appreciate a good discussion on something I like. I love knowing/asking what others think about stuff I like and dislike if they can answer the "why" question. Otherwise, the talk becomes a bit stale however I digress. As for "looking for somebody to change my mind" thing, well again I don't my to talk about how I think about it but to me, a discussion shouldn't be about "changing your opinion". It's not our job to do. You put your arguments (which OP never did) I do the same then the process of changing mind happens automatically. Maybe that's just me however I find the statement very counterproductive. Now for the thread itself, OP starts with typical SJW stuff which is a good sign of trolling while also mentioning so-called proofs times and times again while not actually showing them. He is also not responding to serious comments like yours. It's a bit off for a discussion thread like this in my opinion. In the end, I am not an oracle however I am %90 sure this is a troll thread. Maybe I am wrong however OP's attitude is not helping either. |
Jan 18, 2019 1:39 PM
#29
sasalx said: @Pullman "they're sincere until proven otherwise" huh. Well, that's a good logic and I respect that however, I stopped visiting AD daily because of troll threads and comments so I am fed up with it. Trust me, I really would appreciate a good discussion on something I like. I love knowing/asking what others think about stuff I like and dislike if they can answer the "why" question. Otherwise, the talk becomes a bit stale however I digress. As for "looking for somebody to change my mind" thing, well again I don't my to talk about how I think about it but to me, a discussion shouldn't be about "changing your opinion". It's not our job to do. You put your arguments (which OP never did) I do the same then the process of changing mind happens automatically. Maybe that's just me however I find the statement very counterproductive. Now for the thread itself, OP starts with typical SJW stuff which is a good sign of trolling while also mentioning so-called proofs times and times again while not actually showing them. He is also not responding to serious comments like yours. It's a bit off for a discussion thread like this in my opinion. In the end, I am not an oracle however I am %90 sure this is a troll thread. Maybe I am wrong however OP's attitude is not helping either. All right, you all want proof so much so I am posting, if it isn't forbidden to mention posts from this forum then I will post links to them as well. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvaKXgtCWNI&app=desktop The 9th comment or something like that https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUFNl42yIqc&app=desktop This ia a video https://www.reddit.com/r/JoeRogan/comments/a43mpg/comment/ebcgp99 Scroll down https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/Animemes/comments/5sbm85/the_dick_only_makes_it_better/ https://m.imgur.com/gallery/90MZTer |
Jan 18, 2019 1:45 PM
#30
sasalx said: @Pullman "they're sincere until proven otherwise" huh. Well, that's a good logic and I respect that however, I stopped visiting AD daily because of troll threads and comments so I am fed up with it. Trust me, I really would appreciate a good discussion on something I like. I love knowing/asking what others think about stuff I like and dislike if they can answer the "why" question. Otherwise, the talk becomes a bit stale however I digress. As for "looking for somebody to change my mind" thing, well again I don't my to talk about how I think about it but to me, a discussion shouldn't be about "changing your opinion". It's not our job to do. You put your arguments (which OP never did) I do the same then the process of changing mind happens automatically. Maybe that's just me however I find the statement very counterproductive. Now for the thread itself, OP starts with typical SJW stuff which is a good sign of trolling while also mentioning so-called proofs times and times again while not actually showing them. He is also not responding to serious comments like yours. It's a bit off for a discussion thread like this in my opinion. In the end, I am not an oracle however I am %90 sure this is a troll thread. Maybe I am wrong however OP's attitude is not helping either. Well, the next thing is that it doesn't matter whether OP specifically is serious or not as long as some people might realistically think what they claim to think. I'm not writing posts just for OP. I just think it can't hurt to have some serious, reasonable replies in a thread because many people will click on it and read it and why not provide a reasonable reply for them to latch onto if they want? I enjoy writing about and analysing almost any topic anyway, definitely more than I do shitposting and trolling so it's not like it's a sacrifice for me. More like, if I'm gonna write something anyway because I enjoy writing and it's a habit of mine to browse forums and reply to shit, why not just try and be serious about it (most of the time)? Maybe someone will read and appreciate it, maybe not, either way I did my thing. |
I probably regret this post by now. |
Jan 18, 2019 1:55 PM
#31
@Noidea124 Just as I thought. All of those comments are just sarcasm or joke. They are all memes dude. You shouldn't take them seriously. Just for the sake of Pullman, I will say this: Stop taking everything seriously on the internet. Especially if it's in meme format. First one is from a youtube comment which tells something however even without it, you can understand the sarcasm. Second video is a meme. Come on black screen low effort video. He even spells video incorrect. Third is the same as first. Simple sarcasm if you look at the context. Last two are in simple meme templates. One of them comes from a sub called "r/animemes" ffs. @Pullman That's even better if you are aiming for that. Ironically we had this discussion as a result of it. You stated your points as I did mine. Thank you *Tips fedora* |
Jan 18, 2019 2:22 PM
#32
Have you ever heard of trolling or shit posting? |
Jan 18, 2019 2:32 PM
#33
Electik said: tho it’s a joke it does stem from some sexist beliefs and the people who say stuff like that can definitely be or are sexist. though the men saying those kinda of things are normally straight so they’re just incel-ing themselves. it’s the kind of thing where unfortunately you just have to remember their username and try and avoid them in the future I don't think that you saw what girls joke about in tik tok They are literally making sexist jokes about themselves and it goes like: We belong in the kitchen There is only one gender and women are objects Women don't deserve any rights By your logic these girls (14_20)are actually sexist against their own sex and aren't just trolling and shit posting |
Jan 18, 2019 3:09 PM
#34
Electik said: This can be said about women, because it's based off nothing. If your demeanor is man-hating then i can totally see why this would be a regular occurrence in your life.AlexanderGeorge said: this is about men being sexist to women, which seems like a majority of them.Electik said: tho it’s a joke it does stem from some sexist beliefs and the people who say stuff like that can definitely be or are sexist. though the men saying those kinda of things are normally straight so they’re just incel-ing themselves. it’s the kind of thing where unfortunately you just have to remember their username and try and avoid them in the future I don't think that you saw what girls joke about in tik tok They are literally making sexist jokes about themselves and it goes like: We belong in the kitchen There is only one gender and women are objects Women don't deserve any rights By your logic these girls (14_20)are actually sexist against their own sex and aren't just trolling and shit posting Noidea124 said: I can search the far reaches of the internet and websites to find posts about anything. But i'm sure the point is that you have to do this in the first place, because you started this thread with "some".sasalx said: @Pullman "they're sincere until proven otherwise" huh. Well, that's a good logic and I respect that however, I stopped visiting AD daily because of troll threads and comments so I am fed up with it. Trust me, I really would appreciate a good discussion on something I like. I love knowing/asking what others think about stuff I like and dislike if they can answer the "why" question. Otherwise, the talk becomes a bit stale however I digress. As for "looking for somebody to change my mind" thing, well again I don't my to talk about how I think about it but to me, a discussion shouldn't be about "changing your opinion". It's not our job to do. You put your arguments (which OP never did) I do the same then the process of changing mind happens automatically. Maybe that's just me however I find the statement very counterproductive. Now for the thread itself, OP starts with typical SJW stuff which is a good sign of trolling while also mentioning so-called proofs times and times again while not actually showing them. He is also not responding to serious comments like yours. It's a bit off for a discussion thread like this in my opinion. In the end, I am not an oracle however I am %90 sure this is a troll thread. Maybe I am wrong however OP's attitude is not helping either. All right, you all want proof so much so I am posting, if it isn't forbidden to mention posts from this forum then I will post links to them as well. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvaKXgtCWNI&app=desktop The 9th comment or something like that https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUFNl42yIqc&app=desktop This ia a video https://www.reddit.com/r/JoeRogan/comments/a43mpg/comment/ebcgp99 Scroll down https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/Animemes/comments/5sbm85/the_dick_only_makes_it_better/ https://m.imgur.com/gallery/90MZTer Edit: A word. |
LunilahJan 18, 2019 3:17 PM
Jan 18, 2019 3:13 PM
#35
OP doesn't realize what the difference is between sexism, and jokes. Seriously, that's it. No more need to respond to this dumb topic and give it anymore traction. I swear to god you guys better stop. Regardless of whether OP is trolling with an alt account, or using an alt account because he's scared of the backlash and actually means this, the solution isn't to engage, it's to ignore |
Jan 18, 2019 3:21 PM
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Jan 18, 2019 3:26 PM
#37
There is another reason: They are basically a tsundere, who like a boy looking like a girl, so they can say: "It's not gay as long the dick is cute, baka!" |
Jan 18, 2019 3:39 PM
#38
Gamer and anime community is sexist because it's full of trolls and horny virgins that want to be cool, funny or edgy... some are just insecure people that need to feel better with themselves. This is a pretty dumb topic to bring imo. A lot of women get harassed for the same reasons. C'mon dude, this is 2019, this is pretty old. |
Jan 18, 2019 3:52 PM
#39
Electik said: What you describe is that of hating men because you don't like them, not because they're inherently sexist, which they aren't. Believing sexist behavior has no effect or that their feelings don't matter is the crux of why bigoted people are bigoted, they see themselves as superior. So for you to say you literally don't care, all that does is fight fire with fire and burn the world down. You'll be left behind while people considerate of others will change the world.@Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol |
Jan 18, 2019 4:03 PM
#40
Electik said: And i just described that's the same mentality of the people you describe. It's no wonder people spite you if this is how you treat them, especially when you think so little of your own self and gender that you're being crushed by an invisible system. Already burned at the start? At birth? You're the only person inhibiting you.Lunilah said: Electik said: @Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol i just said my hate has no affect? I’m not superior I’m just tired and hate men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . and it doesn’t matter bc no matter what i do men will still have power over me and there’s nothing i can do about it lmao? my “fire” is a tiny match that means nothing to their blazing hatred. if you wanna get deep my world was already burned at the start. leave me alone. |
Jan 18, 2019 4:11 PM
#41
Did you make an account just to post this bullshit? Listen, if you watched anime for a few years, and had been part of the community, you may have noticed that anime fandom has an ambiguous sense of morality. The anime world is a place where we throw common sense, rules and social norms to the trash can, and enjoy the freedom that we otherwise would not have... We may lewd lolis, despite not being sexually attracted to children (YUCK!), we may enjoy incest despise not wanting to fuck our little sisters (YUCK!), we may enjoy gore despise disliking violence, we may like traps despite having no interest in trans and not being gay... and so on. We can like all those, despise most of them being immoral and... disturbing... because we don't take most of them in serious... is your problem if you take it too much in serious. ''They write stuff like "men are better than women at everything, even at being women" or "women are garbage while traps are gods". And I am SURE I saw those comments,'' - they talk about 2D drawings... those characters are not real! You need to have a very low self-esteem if you are offended by drawings... |
Jan 18, 2019 4:15 PM
#42
Electik said: It's easy to shift blame onto other people when you aren't born into an easy way of life or don't want to work hard to prove people wrong, it's fun feeling special so you can be adverse about something, feeling a part of a movement. I don't know you personally to understand where your hatred comes from, i could make a few guesses, either way the problem is how you view the world now. You'll never succeed in an environment you make up to be oppressive, you're in Australia not the middle east, i think you seriously lack life experience and have taken your most impressionable years in a complete wrong direction and it's been pulling you down ever since. You've taken on problems that aren't your own.Lunilah said: Electik said: Lunilah said: Electik said: What you describe is that of hating men because you don't like them, not because they're inherently sexist, which they aren't. Believing sexist behavior has no effect or that their feelings don't matter is the crux of why bigoted people are bigoted, they see themselves as superior. So for you to say you literally don't care, all that does is fight fire with fire and burn the world down.@Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol i just said my hate has no affect? I’m not superior I’m just tired and hate men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . and it doesn’t matter bc no matter what i do men will still have power over me and there’s nothing i can do about it lmao? my “fire” is a tiny match that means nothing to their blazing hatred. if you wanna get deep my world was already burned at the start. leave me alone. fuck off i don’t need to like my oppressors who call me slurs for walking down the street and don’t see me as equal. sexism is systematic so yeah at the start, and it’s not invisible either i see it everyday. don’t blame me for shit i have to deal with everyday. |
Jan 18, 2019 4:19 PM
#43
Electik said: fuck off i don’t need to like my oppressors who call me slurs for walking down the street and don’t see me as equal. sexism is systematic so yeah at the start, and it’s not invisible either i see it everyday. don’t blame me for shit i have to deal with everyday. That's not oppression... nor sexism. Men, in general, are not sexist. You have no idea how much effort and thought men are putting, to be liked and have a good relationship with women. We waste over half of our energy and lifespan for that purpose. If we saw women as inferior, there would not be that much work. We even created a system that highly disadvantages us, just for women to be happy... that's how much we care about you. |
Jan 18, 2019 4:20 PM
#44
Electik said: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ come on now, don't use the shrug with paranoid misandry the shrug is too cool for that, it just has a good time i'd even dare to classify the shrug as "groovy" |
Jan 18, 2019 4:59 PM
#45
Electik said: Lunilah said: Electik said: Lunilah said: Electik said: What you describe is that of hating men because you don't like them, not because they're inherently sexist, which they aren't. Believing sexist behavior has no effect or that their feelings don't matter is the crux of why bigoted people are bigoted, they see themselves as superior. So for you to say you literally don't care, all that does is fight fire with fire and burn the world down.@Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol i just said my hate has no affect? I’m not superior I’m just tired and hate men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . and it doesn’t matter bc no matter what i do men will still have power over me and there’s nothing i can do about it lmao? my “fire” is a tiny match that means nothing to their blazing hatred. if you wanna get deep my world was already burned at the start. leave me alone. fuck off i don’t need to like my oppressors who call me slurs for walking down the street and don’t see me as equal. sexism is systematic so yeah at the start, and it’s not invisible either i see it everyday. don’t blame me for shit i have to deal with everyday. OK I'm not really going to argue with you You are a man hater so this is not going to be a real mature fair arguing But you do know how privileged you are by just being born in a western liberal country, right? You are talking like a woman from Saudi arabia or Afghanistan There is literally nothing preventing you from doing anything you want You live in a free western country in 2019 By talking about oppression you are just insulting women who are actually going through oppression Manspreding, cat calling, mean comments on the internet are not oppression Being stoned to death because you don't want to wear hijab is oppression. |
Jan 18, 2019 5:21 PM
#46
Electik said: AlexanderGeorge said: Electik said: Lunilah said: Electik said: And i just described that's the same mentality of the people you describe. It's no wonder people spite you if this is how you treat them, especially when you think so little of your own self and gender that you're being crushed by an invisible system. Already burned at the start? At birth? You're the only person inhibiting you.Lunilah said: Electik said: What you describe is that of hating men because you don't like them, not because they're inherently sexist, which they aren't. Believing sexist behavior has no effect or that their feelings don't matter is the crux of why bigoted people are bigoted, they see themselves as superior. So for you to say you literally don't care, all that does is fight fire with fire and burn the world down.@Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol i just said my hate has no affect? I’m not superior I’m just tired and hate men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . and it doesn’t matter bc no matter what i do men will still have power over me and there’s nothing i can do about it lmao? my “fire” is a tiny match that means nothing to their blazing hatred. if you wanna get deep my world was already burned at the start. leave me alone. fuck off i don’t need to like my oppressors who call me slurs for walking down the street and don’t see me as equal. sexism is systematic so yeah at the start, and it’s not invisible either i see it everyday. don’t blame me for shit i have to deal with everyday. OK I'm not really going to argue with you You are a man hater so this is not going to be a real mature fair arguing But you do know how privileged you are by just being born in a western liberal country, right? You are talking like a woman from Saudi arabia or Afghanistan There is literally nothing preventing you from doing anything you want You live in a free western country in 2019 By talking about oppression you are just insulting women who are actually going through oppression Manspreding, cat calling, mean comments on the internet are not oppression Being stoned to death because you don't want to wear hijab is oppression. I’m a lesbian. just because my experiences aren’t as terrible as others doesn’t mean my struggles aren’t valid. What struggles can a 21 year old woman go through in a western country and be deemed as oppression ? |
Jan 18, 2019 5:24 PM
#47
Electik said: I’m a lesbian. just because my experiences aren’t as terrible as others doesn’t mean my struggles aren’t valid. ...it could also be said that the way you're going about it displays the emotional maturity of a fishcake, by wantonly and haphazardly going on an open-man hating spree and then trying to justify a generally rotten and discriminatory view on other people through some weird oppression/non-oppression narrative. If you'll let me be so blunt, at least. That's...not a very good threshold to cross. It kind of sort of undermines the entire concept of fighting against perceived discrimination and hatred by essentially lowering yourself to the level of whatever it is that you're standing against. You're letting yourself be no better than what you hate, and that doesn't exactly make your position sympathetic, no matter how much you proclaim the problems that you face in this thread. Are you sure this is really how you want to go about these things you consider to be a problem? Because I'm pretty sure there's a better way to deal with these things than this. |
Jan 18, 2019 5:43 PM
#48
Electik said: I'm not so sensitive of a person to give people special treatment like sympathy and alternative advice to make them feel special. Regardless of what's happened in your life no matter how horrific it is, everyone goes through life and struggles no matter the gender/race or where you live it's never easy but the answer is always the same, the road of self-progress is something we all walk on and all get stuck in at times. So stop living your life like it has no time limit, the way you're going you'll leave nothing but a cycle of pain and stagnation behind, unable to have strove for your ideal self with no legacy left behind, a pointless existence, a statistic in a computer, and an example of how not to be.AlexanderGeorge said: Electik said: Lunilah said: Electik said: And i just described that's the same mentality of the people you describe. It's no wonder people spite you if this is how you treat them, especially when you think so little of your own self and gender that you're being crushed by an invisible system. Already burned at the start? At birth? You're the only person inhibiting you.Lunilah said: Electik said: What you describe is that of hating men because you don't like them, not because they're inherently sexist, which they aren't. Believing sexist behavior has no effect or that their feelings don't matter is the crux of why bigoted people are bigoted, they see themselves as superior. So for you to say you literally don't care, all that does is fight fire with fire and burn the world down.@Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol i just said my hate has no affect? I’m not superior I’m just tired and hate men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . and it doesn’t matter bc no matter what i do men will still have power over me and there’s nothing i can do about it lmao? my “fire” is a tiny match that means nothing to their blazing hatred. if you wanna get deep my world was already burned at the start. leave me alone. fuck off i don’t need to like my oppressors who call me slurs for walking down the street and don’t see me as equal. sexism is systematic so yeah at the start, and it’s not invisible either i see it everyday. don’t blame me for shit i have to deal with everyday. OK I'm not really going to argue with you You are a man hater so this is not going to be a real mature fair arguing But you do know how privileged you are by just being born in a western liberal country, right? You are talking like a woman from Saudi arabia or Afghanistan There is literally nothing preventing you from doing anything you want You live in a free western country in 2019 By talking about oppression you are just insulting women who are actually going through oppression Manspreding, cat calling, mean comments on the internet are not oppression Being stoned to death because you don't want to wear hijab is oppression. I’m a lesbian. just because my experiences aren’t as terrible as others doesn’t mean my struggles aren’t valid. Imagine living in the western world where you can strive and be anything you want, but the only thing that stops you is yourself. There are people elsewhere in the world where no matter how much they strive they either get nowhere, abused, or die simply because of how they were born. Those people who have real ambitions that are born in or live in places like that are who have my genuine sympathy, not the likes of you. You're the one crippling yourself. |
Jan 18, 2019 5:49 PM
#49
photophobic said: there will be someone sexist in every group of people. This ^ I swear I'm not following you Photophobic..... <3 |
Jan 18, 2019 5:55 PM
#50
Electik said: Fine. Keep on hating half of existence for no reason then.Lunilah said: Electik said: AlexanderGeorge said: Electik said: Lunilah said: Electik said: And i just described that's the same mentality of the people you describe. It's no wonder people spite you if this is how you treat them, especially when you think so little of your own self and gender that you're being crushed by an invisible system. Already burned at the start? At birth? You're the only person inhibiting you.Lunilah said: Electik said: What you describe is that of hating men because you don't like them, not because they're inherently sexist, which they aren't. Believing sexist behavior has no effect or that their feelings don't matter is the crux of why bigoted people are bigoted, they see themselves as superior. So for you to say you literally don't care, all that does is fight fire with fire and burn the world down.@Lunilah i hate men bc of their sexism. my man-hating might hurt their feelings but has literally no affect in their lives unlike sexism that women receive from men. women being sexist to men has no affect, they will not miss out on a job, they will not get a lower wage, they will NOT be affected whatsoever apart from their feelings being hurt. so i literally don’t care lol i just said my hate has no affect? I’m not superior I’m just tired and hate men ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . and it doesn’t matter bc no matter what i do men will still have power over me and there’s nothing i can do about it lmao? my “fire” is a tiny match that means nothing to their blazing hatred. if you wanna get deep my world was already burned at the start. leave me alone. fuck off i don’t need to like my oppressors who call me slurs for walking down the street and don’t see me as equal. sexism is systematic so yeah at the start, and it’s not invisible either i see it everyday. don’t blame me for shit i have to deal with everyday. OK I'm not really going to argue with you You are a man hater so this is not going to be a real mature fair arguing But you do know how privileged you are by just being born in a western liberal country, right? You are talking like a woman from Saudi arabia or Afghanistan There is literally nothing preventing you from doing anything you want You live in a free western country in 2019 By talking about oppression you are just insulting women who are actually going through oppression Manspreding, cat calling, mean comments on the internet are not oppression Being stoned to death because you don't want to wear hijab is oppression. I’m a lesbian. just because my experiences aren’t as terrible as others doesn’t mean my struggles aren’t valid. Imagine living in the western world where you can strive and be anything you want, but the only thing that stops you is yourself. There are people elsewhere in the world where no matter how much they strive they either get nowhere, abused, or die simply because of how they were born. Those people who have real ambitions that are born in or live in places like that are who have my genuine sympathy, not the likes of you. You're the one crippling yourself. can you stop with this lmao? how i present on the internet is different to irl. you don’t know my life or what I’m doing so can you stop saying “ur crippling ur self :((((((“ you don’t know me so shut up about my life 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 |
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