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how did you imagine and want your first gf/bf to be like when you were younger?

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Apr 24, 2018 9:15 PM
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and how were they actually like?

bear with my adolescent delusions, but i thought she'd be a little taller than me, im 5'8 so 5'9 would've been ideal.
green eyes and slightly curly hair and british with a bristol accent.

instead i had a chicana girl that didn't last long at all.
she was great though and really spurred on my self-confidence and helped it even into my worst depression phases.
YomiyukiApr 24, 2018 9:20 PM

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



Apr 24, 2018 9:42 PM
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When I was young, I wanted someone good looking, with a good body and a good personality.
Apr 24, 2018 10:16 PM
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All I wanted was to be normal and have a nice girlfriend with a banging body, a good personality and a charming smile... that didn't last long as I got more in touch with my sexual orientation though haha.
Apr 24, 2018 10:18 PM
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Of course what I imagined was my neighbour or my friend from school lol ...
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Apr 25, 2018 3:50 AM
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I honestly didn't spend too much time thinking about the future when I was young, so I didn't really have an ideal girlfriend in mind, now that Im older I do, but its incredibly unlikely such a person exists.
Apr 25, 2018 4:07 AM
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I didn't imagine one because I didn't want one.
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I was indoctrinated by an inamorata rabbit,
Adenomata affronted.
It was the verecund, dismissed creatures
That I jubilated in most.
This rabbit I would nurture,
At the aiguille of esse,
The anneal of noblesse.
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Apr 25, 2018 6:21 AM
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I didn't really think about that kinda stuff when I was younger. Probably not the black women, geeky women and traps that normally show interest in me.
Apr 25, 2018 6:54 AM
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I don't think that I ever thought much about it as a kid. Even later when I really really wanted a girlfriend, I never really thought about what she would ideally look like, or what her personality would be. Just someone I find pretty and someone I'd get along with.
*lampoons inwardly*
Apr 25, 2018 6:58 AM
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Cute

Silent type

Beautiful

Shy type

Only talks to me T_T lol
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Apr 25, 2018 7:21 AM

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I wanted my gf to be Megan Fox. Turns out it was impossible
Apr 25, 2018 9:44 AM
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how did you imagine and want your first gf/bf to be like when you were younger?


I honestly don't know. Someone from, like, my favorite book series and/or movie(s), I guess? ><

and how were they actually like?


I can't remember. It's been too long.
Apr 25, 2018 9:50 AM
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I definitely did not expect her to be almost 10 years older than me. The body and personality also don't match with my preferences. But oh well... she's a good girl, got some nice memories even though it only lasted for a few months.
Apr 25, 2018 8:24 PM

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_Malachite said:
All I wanted was to be normal and have a nice girlfriend with a banging body, a good personality and a charming smile... that didn't last long as I got more in touch with my sexual orientation though haha.
what did you mean by this?
Rabt said:
I wanted my gf to be Megan Fox. Turns out it was impossible
never really got the megan fox obsession to be quite honest.

Oh maybe, maybe it's the clothes we wear
The tasteless bracelets and the dye in our hair
Or maybe, maybe it's our nowhere towns or our nothing places
But we're trash, you and me
We're the litter on the breeze
We're the lovers on the streets
Just trash, me and you
It's in everything we do
It's in everything we do



Apr 25, 2018 8:26 PM

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simple...
tall,dark and handsome lmao
hi,i like you.
Apr 25, 2018 8:36 PM
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I guess I imagined them to be a functional human being, in contrast to the drugged up pathological liar of 14 year old that my first girlfriend was (I was 14 with my own issues as well - perfect fit :>). Luckily that didn't last very long. I got my act together and started dating a functioning human being later on.
Apr 26, 2018 12:49 AM

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Yomiyuki said:
_Malachite said:
All I wanted was to be normal and have a nice girlfriend with a banging body, a good personality and a charming smile... that didn't last long as I got more in touch with my sexual orientation though haha.
what did you mean by this?


Well, when I was younger I used to have a bunch of crushes on other boys- I hated it, I used to think I was a freak. All I wanted was to have a nice girlfriend and be a normal guy like everyone else. It was only years later that I finally accepted myself and my sexuality.

Sorry if the first message was a bit confusing and out of place, English is not my first language and I'm not that experiences in it... my apologies.
Apr 26, 2018 1:20 AM
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usually tall and dark haired
none of that stupid blonde crap (why do people have fetishes for blondes again? redhead to brunettes or darker hair are clearly more attractive), I had a lot of blonde dolls... but I was definitely more into dark hair overall
Apr 26, 2018 1:20 AM

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I guess I preferred a bishojo. Someone to do those innocent love stories with tbh.

In reality I got someone that was completely different from my personality - that is to say it didn't last long.

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Apr 26, 2018 11:46 AM

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I wanted a tall, dark haired emo esk girl with kick ass taste in music.

instead my first girlfriend ( that mattered atleast ) was this short blonde popular girl who liked pop music.
I think fate just hated me honestly


Calm me and let me taste the salt you breathed while you were underneath
I am the one who haunts your dreams of mountains sunk below the sea
I spoke the words but never gave a thought to what they all could mean


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Apr 26, 2018 5:10 PM
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I imagine it will go something like this.

Still waiting...



Apr 29, 2018 7:09 AM

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omg i always wanted them to be like the aussie surfer dude types like messy blonde hair



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Apr 29, 2018 7:36 AM

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Well dunno never really had the urge to really have a boyfriend nor any ideal types. Mostly preferred to be alone as relationships seemed troublesome to me.
Apr 29, 2018 8:56 AM

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first gf was a bitchy bitch going through puberty... never date hot popular chicks in highschool cause if you do ever break up, they gonna spread rumours about you and tell everyone to stay the fuck out of your way lol
Apr 29, 2018 8:59 AM
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Well, I had a "gf" as a child lol, so probably I imagined that we would remain together.


Apr 29, 2018 12:04 PM

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Rabt said:
I wanted my gf to be Megan Fox.

Same fam. Saw the first Transformers film when I was 9 and she promptly became my first celebrity crush lel. I've had a thing for brunettes ever since.
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May 3, 2018 3:35 AM

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I used to have an anime boyfriend when I was young, fantasizing them even I know they aren't real but wishfully hoping that they're real. Then in my adolescent, I have an imaginary boyfriend which prince-looking ahahaha . When I have already a crush in school, I imagined them to fall in love with me and made my harem hahaha.

Serious time, my real first boyfriend is handsome. Sadly it didn't work out because I have a bitch snake friend stole it to me.
May 3, 2018 3:52 AM
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I always wanted a girlfriend who was pretty
May 3, 2018 6:18 AM

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Taller than me, maybe slightly older than me, someone into computers/IT, dark hair and brown eyes.

I have to say I got lucky with something for once in my life lol.

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