| a guy with a pocket full of assorted cheese that they can mine at any time. we've all been there |
| @TheBrainintheJar I was just trying to make a point by using them as an example. I just wanted to show you that you don't even need to be unique or special at all. Most of the people I know are just like how I described and they can easily get into relationships which is of course because of their personality and other good traits. I don't even know people that are truly unique. Just be yourself and you'll definitely attract people your way. |
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| You need a male model tier face, lean body, hyper NT personality and large social circle at the BARE MINIMUM in 2017. |
| I'm one of those who just need companion. Maybe you need to be funny, clever, passionate about a certain subject (like art, literature, philosophy, or something), and intelligent too since I tend to fall in love to those types but what I need people whom I could relate and talk with since I'm usually kinda quiet. Someone I could feel safe with.... |
| You just have to be handsome and if not go date a chick on your DS it's much easier. |
| - Be emotionally available - Don't be condescending/annoying - Having average or above average looks is a plus. A quite elusive combination |
| all roasties want is chad. Anything less and they are only using you for money or food. |
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| they want alpha males that do literally everything in the relationship, its a fact |
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SatoshiX said: @TheBrainintheJar I was just trying to make a point by using them as an example. I just wanted to show you that you don't even need to be unique or special at all. Most of the people I know are just like how I described and they can easily get into relationships which is of course because of their personality and other good traits. I don't even know people that are truly unique. Just be yourself and you'll definitely attract people your way. The only men who can get into a relationship by being themselves are men whose 'selves' is about constant improvement. You may not know how men experience dating, but it's never that easy for us, it never 'just happens'. What you think 'just happened' is a show we rehearsed and worked on. Otherwise, we're creeps. Maneki-Mew said: TheBrainintheJar said: The type of borderline-misogyny and bitter you see in men is also quite common in women. That's a combination of weak character and bad experience, and men and women don't differ much in their response. I didn't say that there aren't these type of women, but they don't plague me with their attitude or behavior directly, so... It's still annoying and kinda sexist to hear phrases like "all men are assholes" etc.. TheBrainintheJar said: Basic respect means not seeking you out to harass you (see my response to Snuggly's post). I'm not going to beat you up at the show, but I also don't have to let you join my headbang circle. Wow, how KIND of you. XD I don't know, I understand something different at that term. TheBrainintheJar said: If I drastically improve - get a good career, a better social life, more charisma, better looks then yes she might change her mind because now I'm something else and something better. People do change in some aspects. I'm also fine with women thinking some guys are 'not good enough' - these guys should own their shit and improve. When you want to attract that sort of people, your choice. ^^" I would give them both middle fingers tbh. You'll be the same person nonetheless. TheBrainintheJar said: The zeitgeist of a shift in thinking about gender. In older times, males and females had clearer roles. This meant less conflict in the head, and also less room to wiggle. Now we're far more critical of our roles as male/female, and with freedom comes anxiety. The old times may have been easier but I prefer what happens now. That's a typical over the top-argument about the gender. Most people feel confident with the gender they were born with and why do you want cause problems for these people, who aren't? That's unnecessarily political from the right-wing. Just let them be and do? Of course, there were enough conflicts. I think, there were even more and more serious ones like you know, like marriage of convenience, the social hostility for women, who wanted to leave their husband, even if they were violent or something similar. But I "understand", it would be a dream for some men, who don't get a girlfriend or are plain and simple sexist, the thought of: She is forced to be my property forever. XD And some (speak: almost all) people like their freedom to decide what they really want instead of being captured in a "don't ask, don't think, don't develop a will"-society. Even 'til the 70s, the women had to ask for the permission from her husband to work. When you both aren't on good terms or when there is violence, that was a living hell... mostly for the woman. TheBrainintheJar said: All things being equal, it's better to have sex every week without a relationship than be single forever. me said: When you want to attract that sort of people, your choice. ^^" I'm not pretending to be kind. The world doesn't owe you sex, and a community doesn't have to let you in. It's not my problem you have a shitty time in a convention because none of us let you in with our friends. I mean, you can't talk about how women have personal autonomy and at the same time that they're not let into spaces - one thing has to go. There is nothing shallow about liking people for their achievements, for what they do. Do you date bums? I don't think you understand my comment. I didn't say things were better back then, but that they were easier. Freedom is scary. Back then we didn't have much freedom in choosing partners or in gender roles, so things were easier. We just had to comply. Now we don't have much to comply to, because I can't be an aggressive macho asshole who asks out a girl until she caves in. In a world where women have more power, you can't just sit on your ass and see the guys roll in and offer you cars. We're all on our own, have to create our own values in this chaos. It's harder. Hell, I'm sure the old order would make things easier for me and I'd still prefer today. SnugglyWhuggly said: TheBrainintheJar said: I'm not implying that harassment and feeling unwelcome are absolutely separate. Rather, I'm saying that someone can feel unwelcome not only by harassment, but rather behavior that indirectly signals 'we don't want you here' - people ignoring you and being overall less nice to you. They won't seek you out to harass you. Good to see you're into calling age into the discussion. You're still just pointing out the obvious and not even replying to anything... I do have to wonder on your age based on your opinions you've posted throughout this thread, and your inconsistency and unwillingness to discuss things "like an adult", for lack of any better way of putting it. You didn't mention how old you are, but I'm going to assume you're still a teenager? In which case, I can understand your points of view more easily during that period of your life. Also dude, pretty sure you're included in @Modslayer's post about us having a good ol' internet brawl, not sure why you're acting like a third party. You've been picking fights with several people in this thread if you care to read back through it... How quickly you went off-topic with hopes of using my age against me, as if it will prove anything. I met fantastic people across all ages, so nah. |
TheBrainintheJarSep 25, 2017 9:55 AM
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| I'm speaking from a personal pov probably but... as far as I've noticed, girls look for honesty and loyalty in a partner mostly. someone you can trust, someone who is able to be sincere with their feelings and has no need to lie or hide the truth. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: Oh right, another thing girls generally don't want in a guy is a NEET weeb. Remember guys, girls dun like weeb guys, even weeb girls dun like weeb guys. [yt]4Ev_BGL9a9M[/yt HARSH! SO HARSH! 10 weaboos stalked 10 chicks @ 10:10 PM  |
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Maneki-Mew said: Did... did she break the disk? That's awful. ;__; What's wrong with her? You don't break an anime disk. That's... I don't have words for this. RIP. #Anime_Disks_Lives_Matter I'm so fukin horny to fuk that chick |
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Maneki-Mew said: Yes, why would do this for a YT rant? (O-ho, I could remove the white color from your lewd, hidden sentences, my dear. ;D) Impressive. No one in my life-time has ever noticed my "invisible-text jutsu". That means you must be "The Chosen One". |
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| Its been scientifically proven that they want the mustache. |
Genord92 said: Or pick up some whales instead, feel ashamed about first screwed up sex and use your newly gained experience to wonder your real passion) I'm still trying to figure out what I would be ashamed of. What exactly did the service offer you? :3  |
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Chikipichi said: I'm thinking bout starting to work out cause I'm kind of scrawny, so for the few girls in MAL what else do you want from a guy. I would recommend improving your conversational skills as well. |
| Simple. They want an introverted 19 year old film student who wastes his time on an anime forum. They don't? Well, shit... Jokes aside, it depends. Not everyone's the same after all. |
Take care of yourself |
| @scruffs nah b I'm smooth asf talking to women convinced a girl to let me see the whole tiddy once. |
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| All girls want the exact same things from a guy -Talent -Personality -Security -Manliness -Alpha/Dominant behavior -Maturity -Kindness -Generosity -Having broad shoulders,Dorsals and thick glutes -responsibility -Good sense of humor -Being tall if you have less than 4 of the above listed characteristics you either pretty much suck as a human being and won't ever get any pussy or you are simply a children .... unless you settle for desperate girls who are either depressed, crazy or fat/obese |
Kairos_EriesSep 26, 2017 3:26 PM
| it's actually weird that a question about girls are mostly being answered by the guys. I don't know, girls are so complicated. The only thing I'm certain is that I don't have any of them. edit: just asked my best friend (no, not girlfriend) and she said "attention". |
RaidenSakuraSep 26, 2017 10:47 PM
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| @scruffs understandable I need to complete 1000 anime about dating. *somehow ends up having incest sex. Oof mission failed we'll get em next time. |
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| @TheBrainintheJar I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm the type of person that always likes to improve oneself before even trying to attempt a relationship. I know that a couple of girls actually fell for me but I always thought that I wasn't good enough for anyone yet. And I don't agree with the statement "What you think 'just happened' is a show we rehearsed and worked on. Otherwise, we're creeps.", most people don't think like that! I understand that it's not that easy for us guys but you should never think like that. You need to always think positively otherwise you might be thought of as a creep or crybaby. |
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| I don't particularly know what women want from men, but I don't think there's any magic bullet. Different women will want different things from their partners. So I guess I don't really know exactly what women want from men, all I know is that I want someone who can keep up with me when I'm quoting classic movies like the Princess Bride, I'll even take guys at this point. Applications are open. |
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| I just want someone to chill with and accept me. But at the same time, both of us could improve on each other for the better. ¯\_(γ)_/¯ |
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SatoshiX said: @TheBrainintheJar I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm the type of person that always likes to improve oneself before even trying to attempt a relationship. I know that a couple of girls actually fell for me but I always thought that I wasn't good enough for anyone yet. And I don't agree with the statement "What you think 'just happened' is a show we rehearsed and worked on. Otherwise, we're creeps.", most people don't think like that! I understand that it's not that easy for us guys but you should never think like that. You need to always think positively otherwise you might be thought of as a creep or crybaby. I will think like this because it never just happened to any guy I know. They had to put a lot of effort into self-development before they were allowed to talk to women. Women have standards. Welcome to the world. It's okay and they're allowed to have them. Scorpi0n said: I just want someone to chill with and accept me. But at the same time, both of us could improve on each other for the better. ¯\_(γ)_/¯ Relationships are not for chilling. They are a constant, albeit rewarding struggle. |
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Maneki-Mew said: SatoshiX said: @TheBrainintheJar I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm the type of person that always likes to improve oneself before even trying to attempt a relationship. I know that a couple of girls actually fell for me but I always thought that I wasn't good enough for anyone yet. And I don't agree with the statement "What you think 'just happened' is a show we rehearsed and worked on. Otherwise, we're creeps.", most people don't think like that! I understand that it's not that easy for us guys but you should never think like that. You need to always think positively otherwise you might be thought of as a creep or crybaby. But she actually fell for you. Doesn't that fact prove that she thought you were "good enough"? ^^" TheBrainintheJar said: I will think like this because it never just happened to any guy I know. They had to put a lot of effort into self-development before they were allowed to talk to women. Women have standards. Welcome to the world. It's okay and they're allowed to have them. But mostly personality-wise, huh? Tho I don't think that you are able to rotate 180 degrees. Not truely. "Allowed to talk" is very vague. I don't know the specific reasons why women didn't like them. Again, "I don't like this person / don't like this person in a romantic way" isn't the same thing as some fix standards of an ideal. ^^" TheBrainintheJar said: Relationships are not for chilling. They are a constant, albeit rewarding struggle. Small edit: with a person you love, not anyone, who is willing to. XD How do you develop a personality? What is it? The easiest way to become interesting is to do interesting things. What you do in life is integral to how people, especially women perceive you. Just being nice isn't enough - everyone always says that. Being in a band, making art, doing big business - now that is interesting. |
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TheBrainintheJar said: SatoshiX said: @TheBrainintheJar I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm the type of person that always likes to improve oneself before even trying to attempt a relationship. I know that a couple of girls actually fell for me but I always thought that I wasn't good enough for anyone yet. And I don't agree with the statement "What you think 'just happened' is a show we rehearsed and worked on. Otherwise, we're creeps.", most people don't think like that! I understand that it's not that easy for us guys but you should never think like that. You need to always think positively otherwise you might be thought of as a creep or crybaby. I will think like this because it never just happened to any guy I know. They had to put a lot of effort into self-development before they were allowed to talk to women. Women have standards. Welcome to the world. It's okay and they're allowed to have them. Well.. I guess you should expand your inner circle since I know a lot of guys who aren't like that. Self-development is a good habit and how much is "a lot"? Yeah, of course they have standards! Everyone in this world have them including you! Maneki-Mew said: SatoshiX said: @TheBrainintheJar I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm the type of person that always likes to improve oneself before even trying to attempt a relationship. I know that a couple of girls actually fell for me but I always thought that I wasn't good enough for anyone yet. And I don't agree with the statement "What you think 'just happened' is a show we rehearsed and worked on. Otherwise, we're creeps.", most people don't think like that! I understand that it's not that easy for us guys but you should never think like that. You need to always think positively otherwise you might be thought of as a creep or crybaby. But she actually fell for you. Doesn't that fact prove that she thought you were "good enough"? ^^" Yeah, that's definitely true, but I guess I still thought I wasn't good enough. I was also too focused on other things and I couldn't take that last push to start a relationship with her. Back then I wasn't too confident, but that's all different now! :) |
SatoshiXSep 30, 2017 1:31 AM
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| women only want money and 8/10+ looks in a guy fuck women |
 penis lol |
Basically this, your house, your car, and your kids. They don't care at all. |
| Ah, you guys make me glad that people like you won't continue to pollute the gene pool |
 I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
ThrashMatto said: Ah, you guys make me glad that people like you won't continue to pollute the gene pool ok retard continue being a bluepiller and see what happens retard |
penis lol |
desperation said: ThrashMatto said: Ah, you guys make me glad that people like you won't continue to pollute the gene pool ok retard continue being a bluepiller and see what happens retard Oh man, you called me a "bluepiller", whatever shall I do. Oh wait, that's right, im not the one who got triggered here. I honestly don't blame women for not liking whiny overgrown manchilden, the desperation and bitterness just wafts off like some repellent. If they keep outing themselves as being the autistic beta cucks they are, then the future of humanity is safe. Did mommy never love you? :'( |
ThrashMattoSep 30, 2017 12:04 PM
I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| The level of bitterness in this thread is over 9000. |
Natasha said: The level of bitterness in this thread is over 9000. What's more surprising is it's still alive and kicking. |
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| a girl probably wants the guy to spend time and effort on taking care of her buy her food, cloths, and spend time playing, shopping, watching movies, having sex with her etc anything realistic at least |
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