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May 10, 2015 10:01 PM
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What would you do if your parents paid to bring your parents side of the family to your SIBLINGS wedding and dish out $30,000 because the venue was expensive.

And then when it's time for your wedding, you decided to go to a cheaper venue and it only costs your parents $20,000 to bring your parents side of the family to the wedding?
May 10, 2015 10:03 PM
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I fail to see the problem.
May 10, 2015 10:04 PM
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worldeditor11 said:
I fail to see the problem.


do i tell them that it's 10k cheaper or do i keep quiet about it and keep the cash
May 10, 2015 10:07 PM
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You seem to have very strange morals and ethics from what I've seen you post.

Taking money, even if given freely, under false pretense is theft. Worse, you're planning to steal from your own family.

You can propose other uses for the money, but because something costs less doesn't mean anyone owes you the equal value.
May 10, 2015 10:15 PM
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Don't get married man

It's all downhill after that
May 10, 2015 10:17 PM
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Ah i see the problem , you thinking to tell em or not , well choose wise decision ~
TELL EM ! xD
May 10, 2015 10:23 PM
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Tsuyuu said:
do i tell them that it's 10k cheaper or do i keep quiet about it and keep the cash


Neither. Cancel the wedding, I wouldn't get married in the first place and even if I did then I wouldn't have a wedding. If either of those options though then I'd tell them, I don't care about it enough.

May 10, 2015 11:04 PM
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I don't think I'd really care it's not aboutthe money
May 10, 2015 11:26 PM
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You and your family should be an unit. If you need 10 grand, it would be ideal if you could just ask your parents for it. I'm sorry if you cannot trust your parents to help you. If you really need the cash, then steal it, but lying and taking the money would be theft.
May 10, 2015 11:29 PM

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Tsuyuu said:
worldeditor11 said:
I fail to see the problem.


do i tell them that it's 10k cheaper or do i keep quiet about it and keep the cash
spend it on the wedding.

...but let them know first
May 10, 2015 11:30 PM

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depends who I'm getting married to tbh

if I'm getting married to channing tatum then nothing really matters because we will be so in love
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)dont hate me cause you aint me( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
May 11, 2015 12:10 AM

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hotstud6969 said:
depends who I'm getting married to tbh

if I'm getting married to channing tatum then nothing really matters because we will be so in love


what about the guy from divergent theo james
May 11, 2015 12:11 AM
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are you in like an arranged marriage op
May 11, 2015 12:13 AM

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Nicoreos said:
are you in like an arranged marriage op
lol
its a disaster
Twitter and it's consequences had been a disaster for the human race
May 11, 2015 12:14 AM

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Remv_quevav said:
Nicoreos said:
are you in like an arranged marriage op
lol
its a disaster


wait do filipino families arrange marriages?

and no i'm not even getting married
May 11, 2015 12:15 AM
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Tsuyuu said:
Remv_quevav said:
lol
its a disaster


wait do filipino families arrange marriages?

and no i'm not even getting married


im not filipino
May 11, 2015 12:16 AM

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Nicoreos said:
Tsuyuu said:


wait do filipino families arrange marriages?

and no i'm not even getting married


im not filipino


oh talking to the guy behind u
May 11, 2015 12:26 AM

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Tsuyuu said:
hotstud6969 said:
depends who I'm getting married to tbh

if I'm getting married to channing tatum then nothing really matters because we will be so in love


what about the guy from divergent theo james
i didn't watch it
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)dont hate me cause you aint me( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
May 11, 2015 12:58 AM

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JOAOAA said:
I don't think I'd really care it's not aboutthe money
All credit goes to Sacred.
May 11, 2015 1:36 AM

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I would take the money and would get the cheapest possible wedding then i would spend all the money on unnesesary things i would probably never use .
May 11, 2015 1:56 AM

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Oxalias said:
Exowave said:
I would take the money and would get the cheapest possible wedding then i would spend all the money on unnesesary things i would probably never use .
Exactly what I would do, great minds think alike


Agreed. :)
May 11, 2015 3:15 AM
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Tell them the truth. If your parents are fair and see you are telling the truth they could just gift you the money as a wedding gift or tell you that the $10,000 extra is for any additional wedding costs.

Personally I would never cheat or deceive my parents out of their money, especially if they were the type to be fair enough to Spend the same amount on you as your sibling.
May 11, 2015 3:18 AM

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Tsuyuu said:
do i tell them that it's 10k cheaper or do i keep quiet about it and keep the cash

Tell them. They're already paying so much, it would be awful to keep it...
May 11, 2015 6:34 AM

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I would say to both sides they are fucking insane and have too much money.
May 11, 2015 12:09 PM

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FireEmblemIke24 said:
JOAOAA said:
I don't think I'd really care it's not aboutthe money
May 11, 2015 5:14 PM
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If you can live with the guilt of stealing 10k from your own family then keep it. Otherwise return it. If your family members/relatives etc. found out, it may cause some trouble and is likely to effect their trust in you greatly, of course unless your family is filthy rich and see no value in money haha.
Personally though, I'd return it.
May 11, 2015 5:31 PM

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Just don't have ceremony and shit. Just go get the papers signed that you're married, and we're all good. Maybe buy a ring, but don't do anything else. Problem solved.

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