TripleSRank said:Actar said:
Yes, responding to comments like
seems to be a great use of one's time. We could ask questions like "Why you you think so?", but the majority won't even come back to the forum to read our responses.
You're cherry picking. The majority of negative comments gave reasons for why they thought the show was bad.
Edit: I have free time, so I figured I'd read through the thread in detail to make my point absolutely clear. Of the posts in this thread up until this point (including MateusGott's "lovely" post on the next page) that included a good amount of criticism or negativity:
>31 posts gave reasons for the criticism/negativity toward the show or aspect they didn't like.
>Of the 31 posts that gave reasons, only 2 actually bashed the show.
>19 posts gave no reasons or were vague about the reasons for the criticism/negativity.
>Of the 19 posts, only 5 were outright bashing, of which the post you quoted is one.
This means 38% of the criticism/negativity in this thread had no foundation, and 10% of the negativity was foundationless bashing/crap.
But wait! There's more!
The fans mostly started complaining about the negativity on page 8, which is when I started responding to them. What were the stats at that point, I wonder?
>15 posts gave reasons for the criticism/negativity toward the show or aspect they didn't like.
>Of the 15 posts that gave reasons, no posts actually bashed the show.
>7 posts gave no reasons or were vague about the reasons for the criticism/negativity.
>Of the 7 posts, only 1 was outright bashing.
This means that at the time the fans started whining, 31.8% (less than a third!) of the criticism/negativity in this thread had no foundation, and 4.5% of the negativity was foundationless bashing/crap.
So please, don't pretend the post you quoted is actually indicative of the overall quality of critical responses in this thread.
Actar said:
Okay, the thing is, depending on the anime, judging it based on the quality of the "story" in the traditional sense of a narrative is unfair in and of itself. This is because there are anime genres like Slice of Life, Comedy, Ecchi, etc... that, more often than not, do not contain traditional narratives and should be judged based on other aspects like quality of humor, fanservice and so on. Sure, everyone is entitled to their own opinions on what they find 'good' and 'bad' (be sure to state your criteria), but that way is not the ONLY way. People tend to forget that. Looking away from anime for a second, would one consider the Mr. Bean comedy series to be good? It sure doesn't have a complex plot of deep characterization, but it is funny as hell. Is that good, quality entertainment? I'd say yes. And so would millions of people worldwide. The acting and comedic timing is great and so is the writing. Yes, some might find it completely and utterly boring and insipid, but that's again just another opinion and not the fault of the work itself. I just want people to be aware of that.
You're contradicting your own message here. If everyone is entitled to their opinion of what they find good and bad, then you have no right to call someone out for expressing their opinion that something is bad just because you don't agree with the way they judge anime. To do so is hypocritical. You're acting like the people who are expressing negativity are trying to force you to change your opinion or leave, when the opposite is what is actually happening here.
Saying "it's just your opinion" changes absolutely nothing. If those who express a negative opinion are factually wrong, then so are those who express a positive one. After all, it's not the show's fault you enjoyed it, by your logic.
Actar said:
Communication isn't only about one's message, but how it's interpreted by the receiving party as well. (
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naleynXS7yo)
Even if it doesn't or shouldn't make others feel insulted, the reality of the situation is that people do take things personally due to their emotional attachment to the show. An example thought process is: "Person X says that Show A is bad. I enjoy Show A, therefore I have bad taste". I commend you on having the ability to remove yourself from the situation, and not everyone is like that. I tend to err on the side of caution when I make statements that can potentially incite the rage of others.
Read the italicized portion again. If they're feeling insulted by association, that's their own fault. Being insecure about their own taste is their own fault. You expect everyone to stay mute for a few people that can't handle contradictory opinions?
"Opinions are like armpits. Everyone has them, and they always stink."
So in essence you either have to refrain from discussion or get used to the stench. It might sound harsh, but discussion by nature requires opinions, and people who need to be babied for a sense of security are going to be hard pressed to have any kind of dialogue with others.
We're not at a social gathering, where politeness is most important. We're at a forum, where actual discussion and dialogue is meant to take place.