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Jan 2, 2013 1:02 PM
#301
biitchstick said: lol but youre not even 20 yet, isnt that kind of a double standard?I refuse to date anyone under 20. |
Immahnoob said: Jizzy, I know you have no idea how to argue for shit, tokiyashiro said: Jizzy as you would call yourself because youre a dick The most butthurt award goes to you And clearly you havent watched that many shows thats why you cant determine if a show is unique or not Or maybe you're just a child who likes common stuffs where hero saves the day and guys gets all the girls. Sad taste you have there kid you came up to me in the first place making you look more like a kid who got slapped without me even knowing it and start crying about it to me |
Jan 2, 2013 1:04 PM
#302
DJIzzyIzzyHitler said: biitchstick said: lol but youre not even 20 yet, isnt that kind of a double standard?I refuse to date anyone under 20. Well my boyfriend is 23 so its been working for me so far lmfao |
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Jan 2, 2013 1:10 PM
#303
Wait, maybe I don't get something. But when they say "age of consent" is it the age when somebody can enter sexual activity with any person of any age, right? Because they have ages of consent low as 12 and in Italy it's 14. |
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Jan 2, 2013 1:45 PM
#304
Immahnoob said: No I don't think it's to have sex with someone of any age. Wait, maybe I don't get something. But when they say "age of consent" is it the age when somebody can enter sexual activity with any person of any age, right? Because they have ages of consent low as 12 and in Italy it's 14. Here it's 16 but someone who's 16 can only have sex with someone over the age of 18 if they are 18 - 21 any older and it's illegal. But when you turn 18 then it's any age. I believe they are trying to blur the line a little, because there are all sorts of situations that people get into and they know that there isn't a set age that people are attracted to and there isn't a set age where people become mature enough to have sex. |
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Jan 3, 2013 4:46 PM
#305
Immahnoob said: Because they have ages of consent low as 12 and in Italy it's 14. 13 afaik, but there are several restrictions that rise this limit to 18 in many cases, so 13-18 is enough a risk zone to keep lawyers bringing the food on their tables (in the city of Rome alone there are the same number of lawyers of the entire France). But, hey, there are 70 years old men staying with 20 years old girls, that it's legal but it nauseate me more than a 16-26 couple (that'll become a reasonable 26-36, 46-56, 66-76 couple if relationship endure). |
Jan 3, 2013 11:08 PM
#306
I can't believe this thread is still around. Mod banned me for spamming but didn't ban practically everyone else that's spamming, including those (you know who you are) who spammed underage models and tried to justify hunting for pedophile relationships with 11 year old members on MAL. Well, at least now we know how this works moving forward... I'd like to date an 11 year old girl... And have sex. 11 year old girls are said to be capable of loving a parent or loving a dog, and love is love, right? |
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Jan 4, 2013 1:57 AM
#307
DJIzzyIzzyHitler said: biitchstick said: lol but youre not even 20 yet, isnt that kind of a double standard?I refuse to date anyone under 20. Well she's right isn't she. Most people under 20 don't have much of a brain. I think the age that a person settles and finds a small answer to it's self searching is around 27-30. The you are good for 10-15 years until you get a mid life crisis. |
Jan 4, 2013 2:01 AM
#308
Monad said: DJIzzyIzzyHitler said: biitchstick said: lol but youre not even 20 yet, isnt that kind of a double standard?I refuse to date anyone under 20. Well she's right isn't she. Most people under 20 don't have much of a brain. I think the age that a person settles and finds a small answer to it's self searching is around 27-30. The you are good for 10-15 years until you get a mid life crisis. Aww, I was indirectly insulted. T_T |
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Jan 4, 2013 2:03 AM
#309
Monad said: DJIzzyIzzyHitler said: biitchstick said: lol but youre not even 20 yet, isnt that kind of a double standard?I refuse to date anyone under 20. Well she's right isn't she. Most people under 20 don't have much of a brain. I think the age that a person settles and finds a small answer to it's self searching is around 27-30. The you are good for 10-15 years until you get a mid life crisis. Stage 1: Under 18=Finding partners for trophy purposes in order to gain popularity among peers. Stage 2: 18-25=Trying to lose virginity. Stage 3: 25+=Finally starting to understand the importance of relationships but realizes you are a jobless university graduate without the capabilities of starting a family. All the women are looking for reliable(rich) partners to settle down with. Exceptions are still in the female version of stage 2 and 3. |
BloodRequiemJan 4, 2013 2:08 AM
As a child, I was told that society is a melting pot of talents; knowledge and experience combined to form important alloys that will contribute to mankind. When I got to highschool, however, I thought that it's more like a river in which the water represents our peers while we ourselves are the stones in the river. Constant erosion by mindless majority sheeping has made us lose our unique edge. After I hit the age of 18, I realized that I've been wrong all along. Society is no melting pot. Society is no river. Society is a person, a very skilled rapist, and he has fucked us all. |
Jan 4, 2013 3:26 PM
#310
DJIzzyIzzyHitler said: I'm off turned by them, usually 3 maybe 4 years a difference is the max ill go unless they are both adults which its normal to have upwards to 10 years in age differance, One of the reasons why in gintama i cant get into the kagura and sougo ship everyone seems to love, the age difference is way to jarring [/qote] Basically this ^ But I actually ship Kagura X Sougo. I actually find that I don't mind age differences as long as they aren't too large, in anime and other forms of fiction. |
Jan 4, 2013 11:08 PM
#311
equestrian4life said: DJIzzyIzzyHitler said: I'm off turned by them, usually 3 maybe 4 years a difference is the max ill go unless they are both adults which its normal to have upwards to 10 years in age differance, One of the reasons why in gintama i cant get into the kagura and sougo ship everyone seems to love, the age difference is way to jarring [/qote] Basically this ^ But I actually ship Kagura X Sougo. I actually find that I don't mind age differences as long as they aren't too large, in anime and other forms of fiction. |
Jan 5, 2013 2:37 AM
#312
Most people under 20 don't have much of a brain *sobs* |
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Jan 5, 2013 2:46 AM
#313
I think age difference matters if either of them are not of consenting age. I.E. 18+, or even 16+ as lawful in many states and other countries. I think after they reach age 18, age isn't really a factor. |
Jan 5, 2013 7:28 AM
#314
Wolfesscythe said: I think after they reach age 18, age isn't really a factor. Unless of course you want to reproduce. Which really, is the only objective purpose of life. |
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Jan 5, 2013 8:34 AM
#315
Example given in the OP post is just wrong... How can a 20 year old guy be attracted to a 11 year old girl? Isn't that pedophilia (with or without sex)... ? Anyway, just NO!!! If we were talking about older people maybe 29 and 20 then I'd say it's ok, people are allowed to make choices, but 11 year old girl can't be mature enough in any case to do so. No matter the circumstances she will always be a gullible child deep down. Also be aware that even online it's not ok... I might be in a lot of trouble (something including omegle, phone chat app and picture exchange with a person who said she was 16 but was really 12 (she even looks 16 T.T) ) Luckily that girl lives in London or somewhere in UK and I am far away in one of the shittiest countries, plus I wasn't 18 when pic swap occurred, plus she lied to me, so legally I shouldn't be in any trouble... xD |
Jan 5, 2013 10:28 AM
#316
I think it really depends on the maturity level of the younger person. I'm not talking 11, you're barley hitting puberty then. But really I think once you reach high school or 16+ it's okay, as long as you're mature. When I say that I don't mean like 16 and 30, I'm talking more about 5 year age gaps, give or take. As said by someone else on this thread, once you reach 18 I don't think it matters anymore. |
Jan 5, 2013 1:10 PM
#317
I used to look down on age differences in relationships. My friend started dating an 18 year old when she was 14, and I just couldn't wrap my head around it. They're also still together, which I REALLY can't wrap my head around. But when I was 16-17 I had a really big thing older guys, most likely out of rebellion at something. I think the oldest I went was 26 when I was 16. But I never had sex with any of these guys so I don't think it really matters. So yeah. Now I would prefer about a 6 or 7 year age gap. But 11 and 20? That's creepy. |
Jan 5, 2013 1:19 PM
#318
as long as it's legal and there's consent, i don't see a problem with relationships of any age difference. it shouldn't be anyone's concern other than the ones in the relationship themselves. i don't know the "legal age" outside of where i live but 18 sounds like a pretty good standard to me. |
Jan 5, 2013 4:24 PM
#319
When both are at least 18, it doesn't matter. Just when the age of the older person is closer to the partners parent age than to the partners age it's time to rethink the situation. |
Jan 5, 2013 4:40 PM
#320
greta2 said: The age difference gap is puritanism protectionism. How does the age of a partner affect the younger person? If someone shouldn't be having sex at age X, then that person shouldn't be having sex whether the partner is age X or age X + 40.When both are at least 18, it doesn't matter. Just when the age of the older person is closer to the partners parent age than to the partners age it's time to rethink the situation. |
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Jan 6, 2013 6:08 AM
#321
But it's gross with old people having sex. There should be a law. |
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Jan 6, 2013 6:37 AM
#322
Vinter said: But it's gross with old people having sex. There should be a law. Some people like it... |
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Jan 6, 2013 9:17 AM
#323
Vinter said: What are you doing watching old people have sex?But it's gross with old people having sex. There should be a law. |
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Jan 6, 2013 9:51 AM
#324
katsucats said: greta2 said: The age difference gap is puritanism protectionism. How does the age of a partner affect the younger person? If someone shouldn't be having sex at age X, then that person shouldn't be having sex whether the partner is age X or age X + 40.When both are at least 18, it doesn't matter. Just when the age of the older person is closer to the partners parent age than to the partners age it's time to rethink the situation. Well, yeah, but that's not what I meant. I think they should think about it again if both are allowed to have sex and the partner could be your father/mother. Let's say one is 19 years old, the partner is 36 and the mother/father of the younger one is 45. Sure, they can have sex, but, come on. They'd have a age difference from 17 years! and to the partners mother/father just 9 years! +/- 10 years are fine, but if your partner could be your mother/father it's just strange. Sure, go on, but think it through again. That's my opinion. |
Jan 7, 2013 4:53 AM
#325
I've heard of a 21 year old female married a 30 year old male. Never heard of the one you're thinking of...? |
Jan 8, 2013 6:25 AM
#326
IntroverTurtle said: Immahnoob said: No I don't think it's to have sex with someone of any age. Wait, maybe I don't get something. But when they say "age of consent" is it the age when somebody can enter sexual activity with any person of any age, right? Because they have ages of consent low as 12 and in Italy it's 14. Here it's 16 but someone who's 16 can only have sex with someone over the age of 18 if they are 18 - 21 any older and it's illegal. But when you turn 18 then it's any age. I believe they are trying to blur the line a little, because there are all sorts of situations that people get into and they know that there isn't a set age that people are attracted to and there isn't a set age where people become mature enough to have sex. This still does not explain what age of consent means. You do know that there are some places where the age of consent is 21, right? |
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Jan 8, 2013 7:13 AM
#327
nqthing said: as long as it's legal and there's consent, i don't see a problem with relationships of any age difference. it shouldn't be anyone's concern other than the ones in the relationship themselves. i don't know the "legal age" outside of where i live but 18 sounds like a pretty good standard to me. Age of consent: (Will write some nations so you see better) Gray - No data Orange (USA, Mexico, Australia) - Different in different states. Pink (Iran, Saudi Arabia) - Must be married Light Pink (Tunisia) - 20 Dark Green (Indonesia) - 19 Green (Egypt, Turkey, Peru) - 18 Swamp Green (Ireland) - 17 Dark Blue (Russia, Canada, India) - 16 Lighter Blue (Sweden, Thailand, France) - 15 Cyan (Germany, China, Brazil) - 14 Lighter Cyan (Spain, Japan & Argentine) - 13 Almost white (Angola) - 12 Bolivia - Puberty And for the question in what age.. It really depends on the two persons in love. If they are mature enough, etc. It was 5 years between me and my ex. |
TachiiApr 8, 2013 1:24 PM
Apr 8, 2013 1:16 AM
#328
I don't think it matters as long as you love each other. My grandparents were 26 and 40 when they married each other. |
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Apr 8, 2013 2:05 AM
#329
When I was like 13 I intentionally went after guys in their 20's because I love big age gaps and like the idea of being an older guy's loli. (I still do actually even though I'm an adult now and it can only be pretend. v_v le sigh) I think I was probably somewhat exceptional in that I knew exactly what I was doing and was prepared to accept the consequences if I got raped and I think most little girls who end up in those kinds of relationships are just incredibly stupid and naive and are unaware that the guy is just taking advantage of them. |
Apr 8, 2013 2:18 AM
#330
Why not just be friends if there is no sex involved? |
Apr 8, 2013 4:32 AM
#331
Babby-Princess said: When I was like 13 I intentionally went after guys in their 20's because I love big age gaps and like the idea of being an older guy's loli. (I still do actually even though I'm an adult now and it can only be pretend. v_v le sigh) I think I was probably somewhat exceptional in that I knew exactly what I was doing and was prepared to accept the consequences if I got raped and I think most little girls who end up in those kinds of relationships are just incredibly stupid and naive and are unaware that the guy is just taking advantage of them. Have you ever thought of making a career in the porn industry? |
bergilApr 8, 2013 4:39 AM
Apr 8, 2013 9:44 AM
#332
I don't see a problem with this, really. I have some experiences with this, in fact, my first girlfriend was 13 years older than me and I generally prefer older women (no Oedipus complex here though). Of course, couples with a really big age difference are a big weird in the sense that you know your other half will probably die within the next ten years and you haven't even graduated from university yet... |
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Apr 8, 2013 1:21 PM
#333
bergil said: Babby-Princess said: When I was like 13 I intentionally went after guys in their 20's because I love big age gaps and like the idea of being an older guy's loli. (I still do actually even though I'm an adult now and it can only be pretend. v_v le sigh) I think I was probably somewhat exceptional in that I knew exactly what I was doing and was prepared to accept the consequences if I got raped and I think most little girls who end up in those kinds of relationships are just incredibly stupid and naive and are unaware that the guy is just taking advantage of them. Have you ever thought of making a career in the porn industry? My Plan Y (before Plan Z which is "kill self") if I really fuck my life up hardcore is to be a webcam model, it pays pretty well and would probably be more fun than working fast food/retail for the rest of my life lmao |
Apr 8, 2013 1:33 PM
#334
Well here's a boring story. My last relationship was with a woman whom was 6 years older than me. It was fun and calm (Overall wonderful) we couldn't get enough of each other and all of that lovey dovey crap, well in the beginning months that is. But the difference in maturity between us started to become quite noticeable. To put it short, I behaved like an immature/sarcastic fuck that didn't take her or anything seriously and constantly made her cry. Then she willingly ditched me. My opinion on them? If you can make it work, then go for it. |
Apr 8, 2013 1:35 PM
#335
I have an age range: Three years older or three years younger. I'm not into MILFs, and I'm not into children. |
Apr 8, 2013 1:35 PM
#336
Nequam said: Babby-Princess said: bergil said: Babby-Princess said: When I was like 13 I intentionally went after guys in their 20's because I love big age gaps and like the idea of being an older guy's loli. (I still do actually even though I'm an adult now and it can only be pretend. v_v le sigh) I think I was probably somewhat exceptional in that I knew exactly what I was doing and was prepared to accept the consequences if I got raped and I think most little girls who end up in those kinds of relationships are just incredibly stupid and naive and are unaware that the guy is just taking advantage of them. Have you ever thought of making a career in the porn industry? My Plan Y (before Plan Z which is "kill self") if I really fuck my life up hardcore is to be a webcam model, it pays pretty well and would probably be more fun than working fast food/retail for the rest of my life lmao There are women who legitimately have a career in prostitution (they choose it because it's fun and not because of financial circumstances) in the high-end rear of things, they kind of lead a double life and get paid well (>$100/hr). That's escorts, it's a very difficult to get into because there are many many pretty girls out there who are willing to do that sort of thing for money. It's also not something you remain into for very long (younger, pretty girls come in etc). |
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Apr 8, 2013 1:36 PM
#337
The max is 5 years |
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Apr 8, 2013 1:37 PM
#338
-Fuji- said: The max is 5 years |
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Apr 8, 2013 1:39 PM
#339
Lord_Joshua said: -Fuji- said: The max is 5 years Nope, it's already been said in this thread, but age/2+7. |
Apr 8, 2013 1:41 PM
#340
If he/she is old enough to be your parent then that's a no-go. |
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Apr 13, 2013 11:46 PM
#341
Apr 13, 2013 11:56 PM
#342
Nicole said: It's incredibly easy to escort, since all you need is a phone number and a good attitude. Hell, even streetwalkers can charge >$100/hr.That's escorts, it's a very difficult to get into because there are many many pretty girls out there who are willing to do that sort of thing for money. It's also not something you remain into for very long (younger, pretty girls come in etc). Nequam said: Why isn't this linear? |
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Apr 14, 2013 12:01 AM
#343
BECAUSE 21 year oldbeing bffs with a 12 year old doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing yeeaah |
Apr 14, 2013 12:03 AM
#344
My first boyfriend was six years older than me - I was 17, he was 23. I'd actually like to point out that in Australia, that isn't considered wrong or weird. Sixteen is the legal age for sex in some states, seventeen in others. I can also relate to Babby-Princess... I've always liked older guys and enjoyed playing the "loli" persona back in the day. I knew what I was doing. I'm too old to be a loli now, though. :( |
Apr 14, 2013 12:05 AM
#345
Ellamenopea said: am now debating whether to move to australia or notMy first boyfriend was six years older than me - I was 17, he was 23. I'd actually like to point out that in Australia, that isn't considered wrong or weird. Sixteen is the legal age for sex in some states, seventeen in others. I can also relate to Babby-Princess... I've always liked older guys and enjoyed playing the "loli" persona back in the day. I knew what I was doing. I'm too old to be a loli now, though. :( HMMM |
Apr 14, 2013 12:11 AM
#346
Cigarette said: am now debating whether to move to australia or not HMMM May as well, as long as you stick to girls 16/17+ I'm fairly sure the law is something like, if the minor is 16/17+ (depending on which state), their lover can be up to five years older than them without consequence. That being said, not many people would call the police because their daughter had a boyfriend a few years than them. It's just not seen as a big deal. I guess we're just more laid back here. I'm not sure. |
Apr 14, 2013 12:14 AM
#347
Ellamenopea said: Yeah my state's law is something similar to that, but it also has something saying the person over 18 cannot be in a position above the younger person. As in a teacher, coach, or boss.Cigarette said: am now debating whether to move to australia or not HMMM May as well, as long as you stick to girls 16/17+ I'm fairly sure the law is something like, if the minor is 16/17+ (depending on which state), their lover can be up to five years older than them without consequence. That being said, not many people would call the police because their daughter had a boyfriend six years older than them. I guess we're just more laid back here. I'm not sure. |
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Apr 14, 2013 12:14 AM
#348
Ellamenopea said: lover~Cigarette said: am now debating whether to move to australia or not HMMM May as well, as long as you stick to girls 16/17+ I'm fairly sure the law is something like, if the minor is 16/17+ (depending on which state), their lover can be up to five years older than them without consequence. That being said, not many people would call the police because their daughter had a boyfriend a few years than them. It's just not seen as a big deal. I guess we're just more laid back here. I'm not sure. aw that word makes me feel so fluffy inside. |
Apr 14, 2013 12:16 AM
#349
IntroverTurtle said: Yeah my state's law is something similar to that, but it also has something saying the person over 18 cannot be in a position above the younger person. As in a teacher, coach, or boss. Yeah, that's another thing. The only time anyone makes a huge deal about a 16 year old having sex with someone in their 20s is if it's a teacher, boss, etc. |
Apr 14, 2013 12:19 AM
#350
Ellamenopea said: Yeah they usually see that as taking advantage of someone, having something over them that makes them unable to reject like their grades or job. Even getting something in return or privileges like working less hours or not having to work the night shift while you sleep with your boss could be considered rape( I forget exactly how though).IntroverTurtle said: Yeah my state's law is something similar to that, but it also has something saying the person over 18 cannot be in a position above the younger person. As in a teacher, coach, or boss. Yeah, that's another thing. The only time anyone makes a huge deal about a 16 year old having sex with someone in their 20s is if it's a teacher, boss, etc. |
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