Personally I prefer girls taller than me. Like the tomboyish basketball girl whose kinda insecure about her height and thinks no guys could possibly like her. Lovely Complex is really what made me like it. Short girls are nice too though.
I don't care honestly, all ladies can be nice. From my experience, it's more important if they have anything but appearance, otherwise it gets boring so quickly. I'm looking for fun and adventures, not for a doll.
Slightly shorter than me, my ex was very short, too short and now I ain't going for that. I would feel uncomfortable for a girl taller than me but that isn't that common to find such tall girls so I ain't of such big risk for that.
ive never dated a guy taller than me, but im not that short to begin with. I feel like most girls like taller guys, so id imagine most guys like shorter girls
ive never dated a guy taller than me, but im not that short to begin with. I feel like most girls like taller guys, so id imagine most guys like shorter girls
From my experience, it seems that while there are a number of men who prefer shorter girls (perhaps due to a latent fear of being emasculated), it seems far more common for men to display a love for if not outright fetishize taller women, than it is for women to like guys shorter than them or be outright apathetic to height, at least within my age cohort.
There are explanations for this, culture influencing what we find attractive, height averages across sexes (Women 5'10 or above already at the 95th percentile whereas 5'10 for men is the 55th percentile)
OT: I go with the flow baby. I wish I dated a woman taller than me (I am 5'10, so I am fairly average height) but finding a tall woman is already extremely difficult. Alas, I will likely never be with someone who is tall and fits my basic preferences in a woman.
From my experience, it seems that while there are a number of men who prefer shorter girls (perhaps due to a latent fear of being emasculated), it seems far more common for men to display a love for if not outright fetishize taller women, than it is for women to like guys shorter than them or be outright apathetic to height, at least within my age cohort.
There are explanations for this, culture influencing what we find attractive, height averages across sexes (Women 5'10 or above already at the 95th percentile whereas 5'10 for men is the 55th percentile)
OT: I go with the flow baby. I wish I dated a woman taller than me (I am 5'10, so I am fairly average height) but finding a tall woman is already extremely difficult. Alas, I will likely never be with someone who is tall and fits my basic preferences in a woman.
5'10 is pretty tall, i'd say thats above average from my perspective. Finding a woman taller than that does sound pretty difficult tho
_MiyukiSone said: 5'10 is pretty tall, i'd say thats above average from my perspective. Finding a woman taller than that does sound pretty difficult tho
5'10 is taller than average, but only above only 60% of the male population, so men at that height are relatively normal. 5'11 and 6 feet is surprisingly the cutoff for men as they are in top 25% and top 15% of men by height, at least within the states. To be honest, I do not have trouble finding dates because of my looks, but the preference for especially tall men do exist, and seemingly to a greater extent than it does for men (Though it could be explained that we men are openly very horny creatures.)
Theory about why preferences exist to an extent.
I think, and this applies to both men and women, especially those in their 20s, in the United States, that one of the driving factors behind our preferences is a result of our environment and our culture. We view our romantic partners as representative of ourselves, and thus they functionally become status symbols. We care about how those around us see us, and who we choose as our partners can influence that perception.
Thus the development of certain desirable traits that society deemed most desirable. Men are conditioned to want women who look a certain way, and women are conditioned to want men who look a certain way. Women may tend to want taller men, significantly taller than the average. Men may tend towards larger breasts and longer hair. This applies to non-physical traits as well.
We don't simply want, but want more than someone else. More beautiful wives, more handsome husbands. We are taught to view each other like used cars, honestly. Most of this get sorted out at people in their early 20s figure out what they truly want in a lover if they want one at all.
Nowhere is this more evident than in racial dating preferences, but I will not get into that. People are not necessarily beholden to these standards, but it does influence them as well as partially form the basis for traditional gender roles.
Though yeah, the amount of women even above 5'10 are minimal to less than 1 out of every 20 women to 1 out of every 50 women, at least given census bureau data from 2007.
_MiyukiSone said: 5'10 is pretty tall, i'd say thats above average from my perspective. Finding a woman taller than that does sound pretty difficult tho
5'10 is taller than average, but only above only 60% of the male population, so men at that height are relatively normal. 5'11 and 6 feet is surprisingly the cutoff for men as they are in top 25% and top 15% of men by height, at least within the states. To be honest, I do not have trouble finding dates because of my looks, but the preference for especially tall men do exist, and seemingly to a greater extent than it does for men (Though it could be explained that we men are openly very horny creatures.)
Theory about why preferences exist to an extent.
I think, and this applies to both men and women, especially those in their 20s, in the United States, that one of the driving factors behind our preferences is a result of our environment and our culture. We view our romantic partners as representative of ourselves, and thus they functionally become status symbols. We care about how those around us see us, and who we choose as our partners can influence that perception.
Thus the development of certain desirable traits that society deemed most desirable. Men are conditioned to want women who look a certain way, and women are conditioned to want men who look a certain way. Women may tend to want taller men, significantly taller than the average. Men may tend towards larger breasts and longer hair. This applies to non-physical traits as well.
We don't simply want, but want more than someone else. More beautiful wives, more handsome husbands. We are taught to view each other like used cars, honestly. Most of this get sorted out at people in their early 20s figure out what they truly want in a lover if they want one at all.
Nowhere is this more evident than in racial dating preferences, but I will not get into that. People are not necessarily beholden to these standards, but it does influence them as well as partially form the basis for traditional gender roles.
Though yeah, the amount of women even above 5'10 are minimal to less than 1 out of every 20 women to 1 out of every 50 women, at least given census bureau data from 2007.
@PeripheralVision I'm 6'10" so my odds of finding a taller girl is almost 0 :*(
What if I stack a shorter girl on top of another short girl???