What do you think about dating a fujoshi?
| I'm sure you know what a fujoshi is. A rotten girl who loves to ship male characters together. So, I was wondering if guys care about that when it comes to dating. Is it a big deal for you guys or not? I know it might be a weird question, but I'm curious. |
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| When I was friends with a fujoshi in high school her yaoi shipping obsession wasn't a bother to me since I was a hardcore wincest shipper at the time so if I dated a girl like that now I dont think it would be a issue either, the greater red flag Id say is if a girl is religious like believing the Bible, Quran or crystal bullshit |
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| if shes also fine with me shipping 10 year old girls with 30 year old guy characters then its all fine wait im not straight shittt |
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| No, why should it be ? Countless guys love lesbian porn or yuri, why should girls not be able to enjoy the same ? (Not exactly as "shipping" but this logic applies just as much here) Not a redflag at all. |
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| If she was attractive and had an otherwise normal personality/we got along well, then sure. But no fujoshi I've ever seen has fit that criteria. |
| Nah, even if I don´t like it I got to respect her tastes. |
| I'm fine with them since I'm not a judgmental prick. |
| I used to be barely ok with them being fujoshi. then, I watched genshiken. yup, red flag. |
| :v |
| Her being a fujoshi shows that she is into men at least. |
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| nope |
| As long as it's not some borderline unhealthy obsession, then no, why would I give a shit about a female being into men? lol |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
| ....you know I don't think I've hardly ever met any fujoshis. several male degens though, yes. |
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| Hmm, I probably wouldn’t want to date a stereotypical fujoshi, but I guess it also depends on who that individual is and how often she’d talk about boys love and yaoi shipping. If she’s obsessed and talks about those topics on a daily basis, then it’s going to be really hard for me to relate to her interests. Her talks about BL and yaoi shipping might go in one ear and out the other for me. If she only talks about those topics several times a week or something, then it’s not exactly a red flag for me. Red flags to me would be more like these particular traits: - being obese and not caring - nagging and complaining daily about non-issues - being below average in terms of looks and physical attractiveness - having really bad breath - not being clean enough - looking through your phone/laptop when you’re away - having major trust issues - lying often |
4esthetics said: This man really just called not being attractive enough a red flag, I'm dying. lmaoHmm, I probably wouldn’t want to date a stereotypical fujoshi, but I guess it also depends on who that individual is and how often she’d talk about boys love and yaoi shipping. If she’s obsessed and talks about those topics on a daily basis, then it’s going to be really hard for me to relate to her interests. Her talks about BL and yaoi shipping might go in one ear and out the other for me. If she only talks about those topics several times a week or something, then it’s not exactly a red flag for me. Red flags to me would be more like these particular traits: - being obese and not caring - nagging and complaining daily about non-issues - being below average in terms of looks and physical attractiveness - having really bad breath - not being clean enough - looking through your phone/laptop when you’re away - having major trust issues - lying often |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
LostSpectre said: This man really just called not being attractive enough a red flag, I'm dying. lmao In terms of dating, yes, although I am completely fine with someone being average in terms of attractiveness as well. There is a threshold for me at the end of the day. |
| It's a plus for me coz is really good to joke about it |
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4esthetics said: Cool story, it's just not a "red flag" by any stretch of the imagination, it's simply a person you don't find that attractive, nothing more. LostSpectre said: This man really just called not being attractive enough a red flag, I'm dying. lmao In terms of dating, yes, although I am completely fine with someone being average in terms of attractiveness as well. There is a threshold for me at the end of the day. |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
LostSpectre said: 4esthetics said: Cool story, it's just not a "red flag" by any stretch of the imagination, it's simply a person you don't find that attractive, nothing more. In terms of dating, yes, although I am completely fine with someone being average in terms of attractiveness as well. There is a threshold for me at the end of the day. I hope I’m not misunderstanding what you’re saying here, but are you saying there’s no such thing as a red flag when it comes to a dating partner’s overall looks and physical appearance? Are red flags exclusively about actions, habits, and personality traits when it comes to dating? |
| i'd rather have a fujoshi that ships FEMALE characters instead |
 I hope no one I know irl sees my secret account~ Anyways, do I look cute in this outfit?~ |
| I'd think either they just like it for entertainment purposes and don't apply it to IRL. Or they'd try to ship me with my friends. |
| My waifu is the most wonderful waifu. Mai Valentine. |
| Why it is a problem? Her tastes don't affect on our relationship in any way. |
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| Not something that I like but it's not the end of the world |
 "Only one with the courage to shoulder the burden of their own fate can be called a hero.." |
4esthetics said: Correct, a red flag is a warning sign of other potential problems, but aside from basic grooming habits, people can't control whether or not they're good looking, so this doesn't speak anything to their personality flaws or issues. LostSpectre said: Cool story, it's just not a "red flag" by any stretch of the imagination, it's simply a person you don't find that attractive, nothing more. I hope I’m not misunderstanding what you’re saying here, but are you saying there’s no such thing as a red flag when it comes to a dating partner’s overall looks and physical appearance? Are red flags exclusively about actions, habits, and personality traits when it comes to dating? |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
Crow_Black said: Being a leftist, i would say is a hell of a lot worse, than being a fujoshi i mean hell if anything leftists are sterotypical fujoshis for fetishizing lgbt people and doing all the weird shit sterotypical fujos are asociated with. The fujos i hang around with hate politics like myself and you can actual have fun with them compared to a leftist. I agree, politics are not very based |
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| I am a Magi fan, I know how they think, in the end it's just some fetish and I respect that I saw too many Sin x Jaffar fanart to even care anymore And yes, I would date one, I see no issues |
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4esthetics said: I hope I’m not misunderstanding what you’re saying here, but are you saying there’s no such thing as a red flag when it comes to a dating partner’s overall looks and physical appearance? Are red flags exclusively about actions, habits, and personality traits when it comes to dating? the term red flag here means it is something to be viewed as a warning sign of a potentially dangerous, shitty, or manipulative person. someone being viewed as 'ugly' is in no way shape or form a red flag lol |
| Half the anime loving girls I know are fujoshi. I don't see any problems in this, although maybe I just come across the most pleasant and smart fujoshi. |
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| it depends how this sort of degeneracy is incorporated with the rest of her character. if within good measure and with a sense of humor along this might be considered not too horrible. but moderation and humor are somewhat rare traits among people, especially wemen |
| Am I a good person? No. But do I try to be better every single day? Also no |
Crow_Black said: Leftists do what now? Idk which letists you talk to because most of the ones I know just think of them as average peopleBeing a leftist, i would say is a hell of a lot worse, than being a fujoshi i mean hell if anything leftists are sterotypical fujoshis for fetishizing lgbt people and doing all the weird shit sterotypical fujos are asociated with. The fujos i hang around with hate politics like myself and you can actual have fun with them compared to a leftist. |
 My biggest regret: Reading all 200+ chapters of Kanojo, Okarishimasu |
TinaTunaTina said: its just a small joke lol, no need to take seriouslyKyline said: I think you misunderstood what fujoshi means loli'd rather have a fujoshi that ships FEMALE characters instead |
I hope no one I know irl sees my secret account~ Anyways, do I look cute in this outfit?~ |
| Yes, sort of. Like, imagine you see her talking to other guys and you butt in and instead of her telling you not to worry, she asks you guys to start fencing |
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| I would understand if this question was directed at gay/bi men, but straight men? |
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bucciaratiest said: I would understand if this question was directed at gay/bi men, but straight men? Agree, what they have to do with fujoshi. |
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| @bucciaratiest @Memore Since apparently neither of you can read... "Poll: What do you think about dating a fujoshi" |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
LostSpectre said: @bucciaratiest @Memore Since apparently neither of you can read... "Poll: What do you think about dating a fujoshi" I can read, thanks for worrying. It also connects with dating. |
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Memore said: LostSpectre said: @bucciaratiest @Memore Since apparently neither of you can read... "Poll: What do you think about dating a fujoshi" I can read, thanks for worrying. It also connects with dating. Yeah, the point still stands. Bi men exist. |
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| Yes, is it. I don't want that a potential girlfriend mine has strong fetish to ship me and my best friend. |
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IgorPsc91 said: Yes, is it. I don't want that a potential girlfriend mine has strong fetish to ship me and my best friend. I'm into getting lewd with male friends while a fujoshi spectates. |
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IpreferEcchi said: IgorPsc91 said: Yes, is it. I don't want that a potential girlfriend mine has strong fetish to ship me and my best friend. I'm into getting lewd with male friends while a fujoshi spectates. Well, each one with your fantasies lol |
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| You could not have missed the point any fucking harder if you tried. The question asks whether it's a red flag if a girl is a fujoshi, in the context of dating her, and you can't seem to comprehend why this question is only directed to straight men, despite the fact that bi/gay men are literally attracted to other men, which makes a significant difference compared to straight men who are not in fact attracted to men, and that's not even counting that gay men aren't attracted to women, and wouldn't date them! You wanted to make this into some bullshit issue about sexuality or whatever, and completely missed the logic/context of the question. |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
| The amount of people thinking they'd get shipped if they dated a fujoshi is kinda hilarious... You guys do realize your girlfriend would love you and would be dating you for a reason, right? So she sure as hell wouldn't want to see you with someone else, regardless of that person's gender. |
SleepySera said: All you can reasonably say is that she doesn't want to literally be cheated on, everything else is completely open to interpretation, and depends on the individual's personal tastes.The amount of people thinking they'd get shipped if they dated a fujoshi is kinda hilarious... You guys do realize your girlfriend would love you and would be dating you for a reason, right? So she sure as hell wouldn't want to see you with someone else, regardless of that person's gender. |
| If you reply back to me and I never respond, I lost interest and don't care. Sorry about that. |
| I don't think I'd care unless they were constantly shoving their shipping habits down my throat. People can like whatever they want, just don't try to force me to like it. |
Yes, you are right. I am also bi. They can also like BL genre. LostSpectre said: You could not have missed the point any fucking harder if you tried. The question asks whether it's a red flag if a girl is a fujoshi, in the context of dating her, and you can't seem to comprehend why this question is only directed to straight men, despite the fact that bi/gay men are literally attracted to other men, which makes a significant difference compared to straight men who are not in fact attracted to men, and that's not even counting that gay men aren't attracted to women, and wouldn't date them! You wanted to make this into some bullshit issue about sexuality or whatever, and completely missed the logic/context of the question. No, I perfectly understand the question, you are wrong. |
MemoreOct 4, 2022 11:10 PM
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