| I'm a 22 year old 3/10 and never had a girlfriend How does it feel to take a walk in the park embracing each others hands ? How does it feel like to wake up with your arm beneath your lover's hair while you can smell her perfume ? How does it feel like to be face to face with your soul mate in a restaurant, or enjoying a movie together ? How does it feel like to be able to talk to someone about your problems and to have someone that can give you a hug whenever you are sad ? How does it feel like to love and have somebody who loves you ? I'm starting to become desperate and I'm crying even now while writing this Nobody will ever cry over my deathbed once I leave this world |
| I mean 3/10 means you gotta have some kinda deformation imo or are crippled. Anyway dont worry were all single here, so you can escape reality and join the festival. |
| I've been here way too long... |
| Don't worry OP, we're all like you here (Except the ones who like to brag being with someone, but they're a minority we should ignore) We can all cry together |
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| Stressful, it can be great, warm, and sweet if you find the right person but the odds are against you. |
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| Awesome! Well, never had one, either, but we're really really close. Until she started to ignore me. Feels like shit. Worse than shit imo. It's okay OP. No need to be feel desperate. I'm as happy now as when I was close with her. Also, gimme your name and date of death. I'll cry for you. |
| are you can't be serious..... ............. |
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| I actually did that first thing although we are not official. at first I thought that holding hands would be too soon, but I really wanted to hold her hand, so I went for it, and she accepted mine. <3 felt really nice and soft. |
| It's the best, really. Actually, I never really seeked love, to be honest, whenever I seriously thought about this kind of thing, it seemed tiresome and not worth it. But love found us, @Lyree and me, and really, it's just the best. When you're in love every little thing done together makes you happy, even something like holding hands feels so good. I love my GF. |
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| Not that special. Trust me. I mean yeah, I haven't slept (as in literally fallen asleep) with someone yet and I definitely haven't met my 'soul mate' either but according to my personal experience, it hasn't ever been that special really. In fact it kinda becomes a pain in the ass towards the end.. |
| Well its like having a guy friend but a girl instead Id wager. |
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| I'm sorry that this is weighing on you so much. There are many people who don't meet someone who is right for them until later in life. Don't worry about looks, either. You say 3/10, but most people think they are uglier than they are. Besides, if someone isn't willing to be with you because of your level of attractiveness, they are not worth your time. There are a lot of people out there that think they need to be with a 10, but what really matters is the kind of person you are. Be good to people, make good choices for yourself, make a solid attempt to be well-rounded and interesting, and there will be someone out there for you. There are a lot of people out there that find people attractive based on their personality (often called pansexual, but I don't think I'm a true pansexual, anyways). In other words, the more they love the kind of person you are, the more attractive you are to them. Don't worry about looks. If it's a weight issue, it's important to feel comfortable in your own skin. Either learn to accept yourself or make a change. Eat healthier and work out. Make changes slowly so it's not so easy to give up. The last thing I'll say is that you should consider talking to someone about this, like a therapist. I was nervous to do therapy for my own depression, but it turned out not to be a big deal at all. It's very helpful and will help you gain more self-confidence. The major thing here is not to get you a girlfriend, but to be comfortable being by yourself. It's totally great to want a girlfriend, but it's most important to find fulfillment on your own, especially since not everyone meets their soulmate. Keep your chin up, dude! Everything will work out! :D |
| Dating someone seriously, never been. There are a lot of false/stupid people in the world, so it may be normal, ppl gotta open their heart... always judging apparence or something. But besides that, it's kinda cool and weird lol |
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| Today they say you're crazy, tomorrow they will say you're a genious. |
| How does it feel to take a walk in the park embracing each others hands ? I have never done this. How does it feel like to wake up with your arm beneath your lover's hair while you can smell her perfume ? Hot, arm is dead, she don't smell bad but she don't smell that good. Though my first girlfriend smelled the best. It was the shampoo though. Also, none of them wore perfume. How does it feel like to be face to face with your soul mate in a restaurant, or enjoying a movie together ? Like having dinner with friends or family. How does it feel like to be able to talk to someone about your problems and to have someone that can give you a hug whenever you are sad ? I don't need to talk about my problems usually. The hugs are extremely good at reducing stress. Having a partner produces a lot of stress too though so it kind of cancels out. How does it feel like to love and have somebody who loves you ? A very reassuring feeling. Though, I've yet to trust any of my girlfriends as much as my best friends or family. |
| I never had one but I don't think it is that special , i think having a girlfriend feels normal I guess idk really |
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| reading this thread is giving me the sads |
| I never had a girlfriend until I was 24. Now I have the lovely otaku girlfriend i never dreamed i would have, and we've been hapy for almost 3 years. So don't give up even though it might take some time. As for how it feels, honestly don't think that things like holding hands in a park or sleeping together are as "magical" as it seems watching romance movies or anime. Sure it's all sweet moments, but to me what matters the most in a relationship is having someone to share the moments of joy or sadness. |
| if you enjoy listening to problems you care nothing about, being wrapped in drama 24-7, getting bitched at for looking at other bitches & being expected to go places & do shit you don't want to. then you'll love it. then theirs the whole: meet my parents thing which i personally despise as well. |
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| Soft, smooth, warm...maybe kinda salty? P.S. You don't need a girlfriend in order to do any of what you posted. |
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| It's extremely overrated, dude. All it ends up doing in the end is hurting. |
 Was it the shyness in my soul that made me lonely just like you? No one noticed I was there, when I walked into the room. -Freddie Mercury |
Damn man, what wrong I've done to you, stop cutting the onions... T.T |
| It feels like I'm living my yuri life, at last How does it feel to take a walk in the park embracing each others hands ? How does it feel like to wake up with your arm beneath your lover's hair while you can smell her perfume ? How does it feel like to be face to face with your soul mate in a restaurant, or enjoying a movie together ? How does it feel like to be able to talk to someone about your problems and to have someone that can give you a hug whenever you are sad ? How does it feel like to love and have somebody who loves you ? -Parks are boring, hot and full of children. Pass -Do you want her to smell your pits? That's gross bruh -The overwhelming strictness of society on LGBT couples to the point that it's a depressing attempt to even believe the outside world will be accepting -I have a good momma too, that's two shoulders to cry on -At this point in a relationship it becomes more of a calmness rather then a adrenaline rush, but gg Semi-serious answers posted here by yours truly |
| one very easy to answer answer it feels like anime duh |
| Goodness, you make it sound like a girlfriend is a perfect soulmate. They're not. |
| Well relationships are basically stress simulators. To solve your problem OP just find a fuckbuddy or a prostitute OP. Easy to find, especially for ugly people. Just don't expect your name to ever be brought up in their conversations. You don't need a relationship you're probably a little lonely. |
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| Have you ever felt the sensation of your wallet disappearing? There's your answer. On a real note, find a good girlfriend, one whose company you actually enjoy. If you think about them and think about putting up with them instead, that relationship probably was never meant to last anyways. |
| Just need to find out how to quote this every time so I can dodge the stupid 30-character limit. |
| U won't dare to be 24 hours standby driver |
 la critique de l'intention pure |
| Not everyone you date is your soulmate. On another note at least you don't have to worry about commitment for now. |
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Sherlupin said: Nobody will ever cry over my deathbed once I leave this world if you kill yourself right now, your parents will on a more serious note (tho the above is also 100% factual) @ everyone being like 'being alone is great' - guys get real, 99.9% of normally developed human beings would want to date someone if they haven't done so by the age of 22. i'm mostly assuming op isn't serious anyway, but this kinda response comes up every time someone makes a thread like this and i'm amazed every time |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| Y'know it torally depends on the girl, they all differ so experiences will always be different. |
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Imaishi said: It's the best, really. Actually, I never really seeked love, to be honest, whenever I seriously thought about this kind of thing, it seemed tiresome and not worth it. But love found us, @Lyree and me, and really, it's just the best. When you're in love every little thing done together makes you happy, even something like holding hands feels so good. I love my GF. This is pretty much how it is for me. Almost word for word, really. |
Sherlupin said: I'm a 22 year old 3/10 and never had a girlfriend How does it feel to take a walk in the park embracing each others hands ? How does it feel like to wake up with your arm beneath your lover's hair while you can smell her perfume ? How does it feel like to be face to face with your soul mate in a restaurant, or enjoying a movie together ? How does it feel like to be able to talk to someone about your problems and to have someone that can give you a hug whenever you are sad ? How does it feel like to love and have somebody who loves you ? I'm starting to become desperate and I'm crying even now while writing this Nobody will ever cry over my deathbed once I leave this world i'll make you life simple. google TheRedPill its a subreddit thread. |
 Syrup- Trust me when I give you this profound answer: It's shit. |
| Like being with someone who gives bad hand jobs |
| Eat Me |
| Ever had an empty wallet before? Yeah, like that. |
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| Don't worry, OP. I was like you when I was 22. Now I'm 23 and haven't changed a bit. |
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| I'm 20 years old and never had one, I don't care to as I love being single and having free time. |
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| I'm going to say it feels alot like it does with any relationship when you're busy, time consuming. But hey, it usually comes with benefits ;) lol |
| "In the end the World really doesn't need a Superman. Just a Brave one" |
Nyarlathothep said: Don't worry OP, we're all like you here (Except the ones who like to brag being with someone, but they're a minority we should ignore) We can all cry together  ............................................. is that suppose to be red from pokemon but as a chick? |
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| To all desperate guys out there: A girlfriend won't fix your problems in life. She'll make you smile, love, cry, whatever, until you break up, and you end up being more depressed when you ever saw! Fix your lives, enjoy it, join a sports club, read a good book, just make something of yourself... If you are finally happy without a girlfriend, you won't struggle to get one. Honestly, nothing is more unattractive than a desperate guy. Nobody wants to be together with a social wreck, prioritize your life first, then you can take care for a second one. If you rely on someone you'll never become happy, a healthy relationship is two people, living their own life, together... By the way, don't lower your own value only because you don't look "good". That is a really subjective opinion and if you don't accept your appearance, you won't become self confident which is actually way more attractive, than a shy guy who is looking "good". Just my 2 cents... #sokawaiixd |
| For a while, it shuts down your brain and lets you just enjoy life. You know that whatever band things happen, the girlfriend/boyfriend is a port in a storm. It's someone to laugh with, philosophize with and just do something together. It's a deep level of connection. I miss it. |
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