What's up with virgins justifying their virginity?

Immahnoob said:
Social pressure.

muph said:
And if someone takes pride in being a virgin, so what?

muph said:
And if someone takes pride in being a virgin, so what?

caperock said:
What's with these threads?
Each time I click on Casual Discussion section there's at least one thread talking abut virginity.

y123y said:
Its because in today's world, chicks are sooooooooooo difficult to get. You gotta show them a resume and a portfolio of your life before they even say hello to you.

katsucats said:
But here's the thing. This thread makes no mention of a virginity and superiority correlation. But rather it's about an irrational adverse attitude that some people hold about certain issues that plague their consciousness. And I think his question sort of typifies this. It's in the tone, when someone writes 'superior' in scare-quotes as if mocking a contingent that doesn't even exist here.

Minagatachi said:
I know this has been said to death, but I'll say it again; confidence and an interesting personality is all you need. More attractive girls tend to be more picky (what do you expect, they probably get so much guys hitting on them), so if you're not having luck with them just lower your standards a bit.

Minagatachi said:
I know this has been said to death, but I'll say it again; confidence and an interesting personality is all you need. More attractive girls tend to be more picky (what do you expect, they probably get so much guys hitting on them), so if you're not having luck with them just lower your standards a bit.

Immahnoob said:
And wait a second, what if someone doesn't have an "interesting personality"?

j0x said:


or if you just want to satisfy your lust then fuck a prostitute, thats what i did

iSheep said:


Doesn't always work that way. People I know argue that I've lowered my standards with the girl I'm talking to now (well, I'm not so sure if we're even talking anymore....), but what really sucks is the fact that I really like her, but I don't know what she's thinking. Lowering your standards doesn't always work in your favor. At least not in my experience.

guyklc said:
Actually, OP, it's because of people like you that I defend my virginity. You see, if people in society stopped assuming people like who are still virgins are all insecure losers deep down inside, maybe I wouldn't be so defensive about my virginity. Hell, I thought virginity is no big deal for a large part of my life, but people like you who insist on thinking there is something "wrong" with me for being a virgin that I feel like I must resort to defending myself.

I am 24, and I am still a kissless virgin. I will make no attempt to change this. No, I will not become another Elliot Rodgers and start shooting people because of this. Deal with it. I'm not a pathetic person who is insecure of his own sexuality.

Minagatachi said:
I may be misinterpreting something so feel free to correct me, but from my understanding he has nothing against you being a virgin, nor does he have a problem with you defending it. The only thing he has a problem against is people who, in his words, put the fact that they're a virgin on a pedestal. Being a virgin is fine, bragging about it is not (it's equally as bad as bragging about not being a virgin).

guyklc said:


And why is bragging about being a virgin so bad? In a society where men are literally shunned as losers for remaining virgins, I think the fact that a virgin guy in his mid-twenties who has not lost his sanity from constant bullying from others is something to be proud of. Why should we cave in to social pressure on losing our virginity? If it doesn't hurt you in any way, what's wrong with bragging?

Kitska said:
Virginity is a social construct created by religion and culture. There's no such thing as "virginity" in nature. There's no reason in being ashamed of never having sex, and there's also no shame in having a lot of sex either.

GuusWayne said:
Yeah I'm a virgin but I never felt entitled and I don't blame anyone for my own shortcomings. It's hard tho, few years back I got an asswhooping from dudes for being a virgin, it made me start to hate women for it but I realized shortly afterwards it's no ones fault but my own, I decided I'll just have to live with but that's the easy part the hard is when despite all that there is so much stimuli that keeps reminding you of the shit.

ReaperCreeper said:
Someone beat you up for being a virgin?

GuusWayne said:
A group of dudes, I was dumb back then and had bad company. It started with being ridiculed and laughed at, then it escalated to physical contact the more I reacted the stronger they would come at me, for them it was fun bullying and shit, got surrounded, insulted, slapped around from the back and shit and when I got mad and charged a guy they all jumped at me. It happened little by little, I got home that night and after sleeping reflected on why it happened, I chose to blame what I believed to be the root cause which was women or lack thereof.

Minagatachi said:
They sound like pieces of shit.

GuusWayne said:
I wasn't too shaken up by it, where I lived if you're not atleast mentally tough you're gonna get eaten alive.

Minagatachi said:
Where was that?

katsucats said:
]So what's your purpose in posting in a thread, ignoring it, and instead make assumptions based on what you perceive every other thread to be but this one? lol

katsucats said:
Like, I get if you want to be chaste until marriage or something. There is no pressure to have sex right now. But when you try to justify the decision by throwing a bunch of blind darts at the "problem", trying to convince yourself and other people that your decision was the "right" one for society and yourself, that you don't really "need" sex despite that you're talking about it all day, that sounds really insecure and pathetic, dude... Trust me, we can spot that shit from a mile away.

GuusWayne said:
Lived in Detroit.
Btw I've been trolling you all. Had none of that shit happen to me.

GuusWayne said:

Btw I've been trolling you all.

Minagatachi said:
Quick, this is getting off-topic. Someone start an argument before mods lock the thread.

xRatatosk said:


my nan can beat ur nan in a rumble m8.

Minagatachi said:
Quick, this is getting off-topic. Someone start an argument before mods lock the thread.

Minagatachi said:
Quick, this is getting off-topic. Someone start an argument before mods lock the thread.

Minagatachi said:
oi my nan will fkn reck urs

Ryukatsuka said:

Here's the bait.

Virgins feel 'alienated' in today's society were losing one's virginity early is akin to wearing a badge of manhood. Thus there attempts to justify their position, albeit in a pathetic manner sometimes.

Refute.

PornSymphony said:
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