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Oct 8, 4:12 PM
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I saw a gang of gypsy kids try to rob a young guy on a bus today. They tried to start with me before him but I sent them to fuck off. So they started with this guy who seemed like easy picking, maybe 16 or 17 years old. There were like five other people in the bus and (as always in my experience) no one did anything. So they started kicking him and I didnt do anything either. He was all right in the end, he managed to get out of the bus and they didnt chase him. I thought about it later and gave myself a lot of excuses for not taking action i.e "I just moved here" "I dont even speak their language" "am I supposed to punch a kid or what"

but I am starting to think thats a cope, what to you think I should have done? Or rather, have you ever helped a stranger like this? I honestly think I acted like a pussy. I cant talk about this with ppl close to me so I guess this is the place.

Maybe the one good thing that guy who got kicked around will learn is to not wear glasses in public as a young guy. Gypsies taught me to wear lenses too but in my case they werent kids.
Oct 8, 4:21 PM
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there's nothing you can do without other people who look like you siding with the vibrants and throwing you into prison for years
Oct 8, 4:31 PM
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Absolutely, you should've opposed them, get stabbed in the throat, and die on the spot immediately, like a man.

Best thing you can do is call/report to the authorities or try to scare them off from a distance (since they were teens or young adults, it might have worked, but it could be risky if you are dealing with more hardened criminal types).
Oct 8, 4:34 PM
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Maybe next time carry one of these; they'll understand to piss off :D


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Oct 8, 4:39 PM
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XMGA030 said:
there's nothing you can do without other people who look like you siding with the vibrants and throwing you into prison for years
I have no idea if thats how it works in the west or if thats only what satancrusader1488 on tweeter thinks but in this part of the world, the police arent exactly famous for preferential treatment of minorities.
Oct 8, 4:41 PM
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Absolutely, you should've opposed them, get stabbed in the throat, and die on the spot immediately, like a man.

Best thing you can do is call/report to the authorities or try to scare them off from a distance (since they were teens or young adults, it might have worked, but it could be risky if you are dealing with more hardened criminal types).
@149597871 they were kids as in kids, very early teens at best, thats sort of why I have a dilemma about not doing anything. I would never get into a fight with multiple people past 14. Well I never try to get into fights in the first place. I think you're right though, it just feels wrong
Oct 8, 4:42 PM
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I appreciate the honesty. If you're the kind of guy who could put up a fight, then action would be warranted. If your natural instinct is to cower, I don't think anyone would fault you for hanging back.

I would raise my voice and try to intimidate them. Usually, a few people chime in after that.
Oct 8, 4:44 PM
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I would have recorded a video and showed it the police afterwards.
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Oct 8, 5:19 PM
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Don't worry, you're not less of a man if you're not out there acting like a one-man army vigilante and beating up a bunch of criminals (but you still aren't living up to your username much). I don't know exactly how I would have reacted. I never witnessed that kinda thing, but I certainly would never get physical. The most I could ever do is maybe pepper-spray them.
Oct 8, 5:53 PM

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fleurbleue said:
I don't know exactly how I would have reacted. I never witnessed that kinda thing, but I certainly would never get physical.
Today's world problem: people's indifference.

He mentioned that there were 5 other people there. I wonder if they would have continued just sitting there on their asses after if he had confronted those idiots and they had started the fight.
Oct 8, 6:06 PM
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fleurbleue said:
I don't know exactly how I would have reacted. I never witnessed that kinda thing, but I certainly would never get physical.
Today's world problem: people's indifference.

He mentioned that there were 5 other people there. I wonder if they would have continued just sitting there on their asses after if he had confronted those idiots and they had started the fight.
@Exhumatika Not wanting to get physical with people who could easily beat me up isn't exactly indifference, it's called self-preservation. I'm pretty sure a lot more people would intervene if there were no risk to themselves.
Oct 8, 7:01 PM

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I would assess the situation first:

1. You said they left you when you threatened them and they looked for an easier target. So it means that they can be intimidated and reasoned with.

2. Are they armed? If they left you when they got intimidated, there's a chance that they're not. Or if they are- there should be news about them killing people if they resist.

3. Are they a protected class? If you touch them would you get in trouble? Theres a reason they're doing those thing since they probably can get away with it

With that in mind.
- If they are 100% unarmaed, and not a protected class. = I would get physical.
- If they are 100% unarmed and a protected class. = I would intimidate.
- If there's a big chance they're unarmed. = I would intimidate, but back off when they show a weapon.
- If they are armed = I will just keep quiet.

Are you a pussy? Well if they were unarmed and you didnt do anything, then yes you're a pussy. They already got intimidated by you anyway.

But if you thought that they were armed and put your safety first then there's nothing wrong with that.
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Oct 8, 7:04 PM

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I don't know who "satan crusader" is. That is how it really works.

In this part of the world it's a crime to resist getting enriched.
Oct 8, 8:59 PM
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You were pussy, and you know that - that's why you reflect on it later. If you knew you were a man, you wouldn't come back to it later in your thoughts, haha.

But you were not wrong for being pussy, you were wrong for being unconfident pussy.

Would you win? And what would be the consequences? Before you have the answers, you shouldn't engage in fight. Once you get them, you just act accordingly and you don't reflect.

The good chance is that you would lose (because pussies lose fights), and maybe get problems with law (because they are teens), and maybe even get royal pain in the ass with the mob later (as they will pick on you every time they see you again). So take it easy, you did it right.

But if you are confident that you can intervene and still get away with it... why not?

As for me, I intervene usually because I value solidarity, fun, and don't stress over scars and cops. Not gonna lie, didn't happen for a while - the places I stick to are boringly safe/chill.

Happened last summer in Verona. There is this street pizza stand in the city center, and a group of four ragazzi were acting totally out of line - throwing boxes with leftovers at people and even kicking a poor dude on their way out. I couldn't just stand by, so I gave them a proper lesson. Overall, it turned out to be fun - the stall owner gave me some free pizza, and the poor dude told me about some cool squat party in a fort up on a hill. I never would have found it on my own, haha.

PS: Welcome back!
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Oct 8, 10:32 PM

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I think it's understandable to look after oneself in a situation like that. Personal safety is a top priority for most people including myself.

But as for what I would do in a situation like that, I don't think I would immediately know what to do if I were to see a group of gypsy kids all kicking a young guy in an attempt to rob him. I may have to try and see if they have weapons on them or not before acting. If I was pressured to act fast though, I guess I would just alternatively pick up one of the gypsy kids from behind and then use his body as a weapon to slam onto his friends.
Oct 8, 11:11 PM
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I think I'm more shocked at the fact that you saw a group of gypsy kids at all in the first place.
Oct 9, 8:55 AM
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since i'm not the one getting kicked, and i see no gain from helping him, i think i'd most likely be indifferent and act like a bitch. i guess if i feel like helping him, i'd probably get more people involed. women can film and men can join beating those kids if things were to escalate. never a good idea to deal with them kids alone. they can be like a pack of nasty goblins, reckless enough to do some awful shit but shrewd enough to know how lenient the law can be cus they are minors
Oct 9, 9:00 AM

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No idea, I don't live in Eastern Europe. However, a 16 year old is old enough to get punched if you ask me. Not that I am advising you to intervene, but they are not "kids".
"Have we not eaten while another starved? Will you punish us for that? Will you reward us for the virtue of starving while others ate? No man earns punishment, no man earns reward. Free your mind of the idea of deserving, the idea of earning, and you will begin to be able to think.”
Oct 9, 9:02 AM

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Yes, you are. Every civilized psychopath carries around a jar of acid to defend his fellow man from gypsies.

Oct 9, 10:35 AM

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Typical gypsies.

I grew up with them, so its a familiar story to me.

Honestly, its a difficult situation.

I probably wouldnt interfere either.
They really can beat you or even kill you.
And also irl im a weakling, so maybe in a similar situation i would be in this guy's place lol.

Unfortunately, in this terrible reality everybody is for himself.

But in comments here was good advice about record them on camera and showing video to the police. Although i dont think its will help.
Or maybe you should have record it and posted it online, blurring the face of the guy who was attacked?
Honestly i dont know.

Btw is situations like that often happen in your country?
I have seen a lot of videos of attacks in Europe and US.
I wonder if things are really that bad there, or maybe it just seems that way.
Oct 9, 10:38 AM

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Yes, you are. Every civilized psychopath carries around a jar of acid to defend his fellow man from gypsies.

@Soverign Its all fun and games until you get sent to jail for killing someone.

Usually people who behave like these gypsies are scum of society who dont care what happens to them, they are criminals and junkies anyway.
But if someone fights back and overdoes it, this person will be sent to jail and life will be ruined.

I really hate that fact.
Oct 9, 10:45 AM

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@Soverign Its all fun and games until you get sent to jail for killing someone.

Usually people who behave like these gypsies are scum of society who dont care what happens to them, they are criminals and junkies anyway.
But if someone fights back and overdoes it, this person will be sent to jail and life will be ruined.

I really hate that fact.
@x_scolopendra_x

Remember, it's only a crime if you get caught.... >:3
Oct 11, 9:50 AM
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Commit_Crime said:
I saw a gang of gypsy kids try to rob a young guy on a bus today. They tried to start with me before him but I sent them to fuck off. So they started with this guy who seemed like easy picking, maybe 16 or 17 years old. There were like five other people in the bus and (as always in my experience) no one did anything. So they started kicking him and I didnt do anything either. He was all right in the end, he managed to get out of the bus and they didnt chase him. I thought about it later and gave myself a lot of excuses for not taking action i.e "I just moved here" "I dont even speak their language" "am I supposed to punch a kid or what"

but I am starting to think thats a cope, what to you think I should have done? Or rather, have you ever helped a stranger like this? I honestly think I acted like a pussy. I cant talk about this with ppl close to me so I guess this is the place.

Maybe the one good thing that guy who got kicked around will learn is to not wear glasses in public as a young guy. Gypsies taught me to wear lenses too but in my case they werent kids.

Shit...
I will Answer you as I French...
Are you otoko or you are a nice pretty chan...
If you are a girl, no problem you can step in and HELP a hyman beeing
i fight 1 vs 4 or 5 opponents...
But IF, IF you are OTOKO...
Shit are you prepared to death? Have you ever thougt
what will happn to you IF you die,
are you going to heaven or to hell...
So if you are a man with balls and you step in to stop a fight
the age of opponents doesn matter, each of them can have knife
or blades, or whats more better guns...
So they can stab you to death or shoot you just bcourse of misfire,
or misunderstanding, or moreover it was a family issue
the person thay attacked had harrased their sister and thay diseded
take avanntage by speeling that bastards blood...
Shit happens my fellow otaku, let that good people kill that poor person,
make a video recordind, and in police station sentence them to death...
We are otakus, we watch anime amd hentai,
If you help that poor man, and afther go ith him in police station,
the ones that almost kill him, will come to police and say showing
his finger at you - He is a PEDOFILE he watches anime, and lolicon hentai...
and even that poor beaten up man will not help you,
and more over will also accuse you in PEDOFILIA and say that you stole his money...
Long story Short - Do NOt Engadge...
Oct 11, 10:05 AM

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You were pussy, and you know that - that's why you reflect on it later. If you knew you were a man, you wouldn't come back to it later in your thoughts, haha.

But you were not wrong for being pussy, you were wrong for being unconfident pussy.

Would you win? And what would be the consequences? Before you have the answers, you shouldn't engage in fight. Once you get them, you just act accordingly and you don't reflect.

The good chance is that you would lose (because pussies lose fights), and maybe get problems with law (because they are teens), and maybe even get royal pain in the ass with the mob later (as they will pick on you every time they see you again). So take it easy, you did it right.

But if you are confident that you can intervene and still get away with it... why not?

As for me, I intervene usually because I value solidarity, fun, and don't stress over scars and cops. Not gonna lie, didn't happen for a while - the places I stick to are boringly safe/chill.

Happened last summer in Verona. There is this street pizza stand in the city center, and a group of four ragazzi were acting totally out of line - throwing boxes with leftovers at people and even kicking a poor dude on their way out. I couldn't just stand by, so I gave them a proper lesson. Overall, it turned out to be fun - the stall owner gave me some free pizza, and the poor dude told me about some cool squat party in a fort up on a hill. I never would have found it on my own, haha.

PS: Welcome back!
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The good chance is that you would lose (because pussies lose fights)


I don't believe you have ever been in real fights or lived in a violent area. 2 on 1 fights almost always fuck the single person up. Being brave or even experienced has nothing to do with winning irl fights, most of the time. Why????

BECAUSE THEY HIT YOU IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD!

Or neck, ears, grab you, etc. And it sucks, being hit this way can stun you in a variety of ways in addition to just being hit normally as Mike Tyson said. It's very hard to win without numbers irl. It's not anime or Yakuza. Worst, fights are almost never 1 on 1 irl - people who start trouble will outnumber from the get-go or jump in anyhow when they're friend is losing. This is a big problem in American prisons since even an experienced fighter whos in very good shape will get creamed by 2-3 inexperienced fools who just take advantage of their back turned.

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I intervene usually


Sure you do, Batman.
Oct 11, 12:26 PM
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Based on @-Shinzo wo sasageyou

Are you a pussy? Well if they were unarmed and you didnt do anything, then yes you're a pussy. They already got intimidated by you anyway. Yeah you are

I remember during midnight when I was uni student my friend called me to help his accident from there I see he just male alone but his car got hit by op so when I arrived I asked a lot of them to explain me what actually happened among them from there I get conclusion since they want not to pay off from its damage and from there I told like u should behave as well u are otherwise u would get problem later then thats why they want to accept its offering and discord can be accomplished without unnecessary thing

Btw always remember first rule as adult world dont do first confrontation from physical thing anyone who started it can be killed by victim and safe from law as self defense act instead


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@Shishio-kun

First, you are poorly informed if you think every physical conflict with a bunch of idiots end up in a full-blown deadly fight.

Next, you are delusional thinking mentioning Tyson adds weight to your stance. Do you think he would let some gypsies rob people in his presence or what?

Third, you are naive if you think standing your ground and protecting people around makes you some mythical "batman" - it makes you Human. It doesn't matter if they rob someone else instead of you - next time it will be you if you cultivate that passive bystander's cowardice in yourself.

And, finally, you are wasteful trying to pick on me (not the first time). Because I simply can't remember any entertaining post of you in my lifetime on this site, thus I don't care what you say. Wanna chat? Change your attitude.

And please, don't ever spam me with your spongebob and dragonball crap. You only need one brain cell to realize that this makes me barf. Want to be the first one on my ignore list? Fine, no problem - I don't lose anything from it, you understand?
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Commit_Crime said:
There were like five other people in the bus and (as always in my experience) no one did anything.
helping someone who wouldn't help you is retarded.

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