Do you think people actually know the difference between having a type and being a disgusting fetishist?

@MissHeed decipher your homie code please for everyone.

that's totally understandable in fact, it looked better in my head and I CAN'T SAY THE TRUE ETHNICITY.

@AmityBlight Does his friends really like La-Tina Burritos or is it just fetish bait, same with Bruce "can't make a good movie" Lee Kids.

I'd argue men fetishize (is that word?) women generally. People view people from different lands as...cool just say that.

@LifeLineByNature Yup that's pretty much it. Btw your name reminds of an old rap group.

@MissHeed Oh, now I'm curious which group. It's completely unrelated, I came up with it because I was a psychiatric nurse before.

@LifelineByNature It was called Naughty By Nature I don't even those still around. Psychiatric nurse sounds like a hard job.

@MissHeed Oh haha, maybe I can edit some album covers as a joke for my icon. :D

It was hard sometimes, but I loved doing it. Only reason I'm not anymore is Japan doesn't recognise my country's nurse qualifications, so now I'm a mental health counsellor but looking into doing a doctorate some day (hopefully soon).

@LifelineByNature That would be epic xD. Only OGs would know the references.

I share a similar field, I'm a school counselor mostly dealing with social development and career guidance for students.

That's so bogus, you did the work it should count everywhere. Good luck on the doctorate.

@MissHeed decipher your homie code please for everyone.

The difference seems to be the contrasting connotation.

@AmityBlight Does his friends really like La-Tina Burritos or is it just fetish bait, same with Bruce "can't make a good movie" Lee Kids.

I'd argue men fetishize (is that word?) women generally. People view people from different lands as...cool just say that.

@LifeLineByNature Yup that's pretty much it. Btw your name reminds of an old rap group.

saying some people like asian girls....is racist? :confused:

@AmityBlight AT LEAST IM CONSIDERED AN HOMIE OF THE GREAT MISSHEED LET'S GO lmao
But does @MissHeed considers me as her homie tho?😔(hope she will say yes or that'll be my second heartbreak after Sergio Ramos leaving Real Madrid.😔)
That's the great question of my existence on this planet.


They will lock my thread instantly bro.

@Zakatsuki_ sure you can be a homie, welcome to the quinceañera. You ain't down with hazard yet.

How remarkably specific OP. Respect.

With how open the idea of "fetishization" is discussed i feel more people now than like 30 years ago understand atleast to some degree.

On the flipside sexual psychology and development is just wack in general. Me being trans but not exactly passing puts me in a weird place since I look like a conventionally attractive feminine male but om the flipside I clearly have a type too that borders on a paraphillia (strong fat guys)

I guess the application of fetishization means more than having a weird fetish itself since I guarantee most people have some sort of sexual weirdness to them. Im not one to cast judgement too quick.

@Nette What?
You were born as a man, then you've become trans but haven't done the surgery that give you a puhpuh?
(no judgement, just asking)

This is about your aunt again somehow isn't it?

Would you feel the need to say something if they have a specific type for white girls, isn't it just that those examples are more racially sensitive? Everyone on the planet is stereotyped to some degree, I don't think "thick latinas" is necessarily a problem on its own, an unrealistic expectation perhaps, but not inherently offensive. Whether it's a type or fetish largely comes down to whether or not it's racist (but actually racist)/dehumanizing, and whether or not you would treat a girl of a different ethnicity (face to face) like an actual person or not.