| I was PvPing in WoW once and got so mad that I alt+f4ed, opened some porn and punished my weiner. Fucking noobs in BGs man. |
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| When i am angry i still feel an irrepressible desire to hit something, but once i punched badly an arm chair and hurted myself, that pain lasted for so long... i thought to have fractured a couple of fingers... from that moment on i try to avoid it and to vent myself in a different way. Sport is helpful, try to believe. I even broke a table leg by kicking it, my mom is not happy. Hitting somebody is out of discussion, in the past i used to fight with my brothers and friends (you know, it always started like a game but endend up like that) and one day i injured a guy on his face (which, afterwards, got incredibly swollen). The wound took many time to heal and i felt like an asshole. I don't raise my hand anymore since that day. |
danmari said: I do wonder the proportion that lashes anger out at others instead of harming themselves. Even if the person is mentally irrational there is the basic instinct of survival to overcome as well. This is usually pretty hard to overcome unless one had already (un)intentional thoughts of hurting themselves already. Mopo187 said: -1 said: Sometimes I wonder this myself, never had any real mental issues, so maybe I am just being stupid.Why would i hurt myself over someone else? You must have alot of psychological problem's to cause harm to yourself over someone else. Or are just plain stupid. People who self-injure don't necessarily have an underlying mental condition. Barring attention-seeking emo kids, mentally healthy people do it in times when they're overpowered by intense negative emotion (e. g. anger) as a way to gain some relief of those emotions. This doesn't make them "stupid", if you're angry enough you just can't always make perfectly level-headed decisions, even if there are other, less problematic coping mechanism that might do the same trick (kicking or punching an inanimate object, screaming in a pillow, eating jalapeño peppers, whatever.) And how is hurting someone else any better? It also means you failed to keep your emotions in check. Actually, you could argue it's even worse as it's being completely ignorant to social norms. (FYI, I don't self-harm.) I don't think anybody is saying it's "better" to hurt others, it's just the usual outcome. And usually they are weaker individuals. It only takes some very very basic level of consciousness to pick your targets. Unless the person is angry at THEMSELVES for whatever reason, then obviously it would be more likely. But the topic seem to be about just general anger, maybe got fired by a boss or something. |
TachiiSep 26, 2012 1:08 PM
| I guess i wasn't clear enough. I hate the thought of hurting anything at all, which is probably why I have these thoughts. For example: Someone makes me really angry. I want to punch them in the face, but I would rather hurt myself than hurt another person. But I have enough self-control not do any of it, so it just becomes a thought in my head. If that even makes sense. |
| Not in a million years |
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Shuhan said: Beat your meat not yourself. This should be a slogan. |
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| i cut my wrist everytim my dad beets me |
| tfw no gf tfw i keep getting the banhammer on here tfw Koleare keeps banning me every other day tfw I'm misunderstood by le mod |
| If I ever got that angry, I'd probably hit an object like a wall or a tree. Or just stop and start doing sit-ups. |
magishine said: Yes I have. There was a girl that I really liked and I thought she really liked me (She'd say things like You're so much better looking than your brother or I think it'd be fun to date you) She ended up cheating on her fiance and dating this other guy (should've taken the hint that she was bad news) but I forced the issue and asked her to choose between me and the guy she was with. She chose him. I couldn't take it. I was tired of always being the last pick. I got really depressed and tried to hurt myself a lot. But in the end, a friend gave me some advice that really helped. Pick something about your life and change it. Doesn't matter how small or big it is. Just put everything you've got into changing it. It worked. Now, things are way better than they were back then. I'm happier than I've ever been. Sure I get down every once in a while but for the most part. Life is good. Inspirational. You should be a life coach, lol icamehere said: i cut my wrist everytim my dad beets me You serious? Uh, well, ive slammed my arm against the wall and it left some brusies, if that counts |
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| Getting mad enough to hurt myslef? thats crazy. Getting mad enough and screaming to the heavens and hoping my power level destroys my surroundings is much more rational. Hurting myself would stop me from hurting the person, so no. I just walk away. |
| "In the end the World really doesn't need a Superman. Just a Brave one" |
| Doing harm to yourself doesn`t solve anything. I think is better to chill down and analyze were you went wrong. |
Mopo187 said: Maybe I'm alone here You are. You got problems, dude. Get help. |
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| Yep, I think a majority of us here are like that. Adolescence is a crazy thing. |
| I thought about hurting myself because of sadness or desperation but never because I'm angry, anyway I never did it. |
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| no if am bothered by something i would rather face the problem then hurt myself i dont understand why people hurt themselves but i wish they really wouldn't. |
| I'm not saying I'm gonna change the world, but I guarantee that I will spark the brain that will change the world.. |
| Nope never. |
| Yes, in reality I don't like me. I hurt myself. Morally not physically. Dude,life is not rosy and she will never know. Be active all the time and we will award you with your efforts. ....... or not. |
| "The true value of a man lies not in what he has, but what it is." "Do not be fooled by appearances. Many people do not look as stupid as they really are." "There is a light that minds not to judge by appearances. The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible." By Oscar Wilde |
| Go to AA meetings. You'll feel much better. |
| ... I really snapped pretty badly once and used nails to rip some skin. |
"A half moon, it has a dark half and a bright half, just like me…", Yuno Gasai |
| Anger management. |
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| I'm a black belt in kenpo, tae kwan do, and jiu-jutsu, and an MMA fighter and I also play football and baseball. Mainly when I get wicked pissed, I usually end up taking it out on inanimate objects (walls, poles, punching bags, my baseball bats, etc) It usually does the trick. |
| No. Hurting yourself is a bad way to be angry. If anything, hurt the thing that pissed you off. |
| As a child, I was told that society is a melting pot of talents; knowledge and experience combined to form important alloys that will contribute to mankind. When I got to highschool, however, I thought that it's more like a river in which the water represents our peers while we ourselves are the stones in the river. Constant erosion by mindless majority sheeping has made us lose our unique edge. After I hit the age of 18, I realized that I've been wrong all along. Society is no melting pot. Society is no river. Society is a person, a very skilled rapist, and he has fucked us all. |
BloodRequiem said: No. Hurting yourself is a bad way to be angry. If anything, hurt the thing that pissed you off. If that "thing" is another human? Myself, I don't want drag others to my anger. I just hurt myself and leave everyone else alone. |
"A half moon, it has a dark half and a bright half, just like me…", Yuno Gasai |
Mopo187 said: I sometimes get this feeling when someone annoys me or just pisses me off really bad. And it gets so bad that I have a strong urge to grab a knife and just kill myself right in front of them, of course I'm sane enough to never go through with it, but it just pops up in my mind. lol what? I've never wanted to do that or know anyone else that did. Now hurting other people that's a different story. |
| I use to, but I haven't been angry enough in ages. Once I got angry enough that I punched glass without thinking, I didn't feel any pain but when I looked at my clothes I saw lots of blood on them then realised my arm was bleeding around 5 minutes later. |
| Never really went further then punching my wall 3 or 4 times, never been so angry that i actually wanted to kill myself |
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| It has happened to me. Not to the extent of wanting to kill myself, but when i'm really mad I sometimes punch myself, and not for other people, it happens when I do something really idiotic. Also, I don't think is that much normal to want to kill yourself for anger. |
| I'd sometimes bang my head on a wall if I get angry enough. |
Gaichi said: That's how I feel. I haven't hurt myself yet though, it just pops up in my head. It's a stupid way to cope with anger, I know, but most people don't make smart decisions when they're angry.BloodRequiem said: No. Hurting yourself is a bad way to be angry. If anything, hurt the thing that pissed you off. If that "thing" is another human? Myself, I don't want drag others to my anger. I just hurt myself and leave everyone else alone. |
Deziah said: Mopo187 said: Maybe I'm alone here You are. You got problems, dude. Get help. I doubt he's alone. |
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Mopo187 said: Maybe I'm alone here, but has anyone been so annoyed or pissed that you wanted to hurt yourself? I'm not talking becoming an emo that cuts themselves out of sadness, but hurting yourself just out of rage. I sometimes get this feeling when someone annoys me or just pisses me off really bad. And it gets so bad that I have a strong urge to grab a knife and just kill myself right in front of them, of course I'm sane enough to never go through with it, but it just pops up in my mind. I'm not looking for any sympathy, just want to know if anyone else has ever felt this way. If not, how do you cope with your anger? yes and no... First I want to take a knife and kill the one that pissed me off xD But since I can't do that I hit the wall xD |
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| Nah,I always want to punch someone else or inanimate thing <.< |
| No, hurting myself would just be painful, and in my experience, pain leads to more anger. I cope with my anger by brooding over ways in which I can brutally kill/torture the people who make me angry. Those thoughts never amount to anything of course, but it is a nice way to let some steam loose in my head. |
كنت تهدر وقتك عن طريق ترجمة هذه. mattbenz99 said: Christians and Satanists are technically the same thing |
Goryo said: pain leads to more anger. Oh how right you are :D Every time I got angry and kicked something just to let some steam loose I got even more angry, and not to mention words I say then :D |
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| Well if someone was annoying me or pissing me off in anyway i wouldnt have the urge to hurt myself but i would have the urge of hurting the person |
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| I did it again... I heard voices inside my head and started lost myself again... And rest of story you know already :P |
"A half moon, it has a dark half and a bright half, just like me…", Yuno Gasai |
| Call. of. Duty. Everytime i get Overpissed like so angry id kill i usually scream and bite myself cause its hopeless when im playing it hahahah but thats only when i get soooo pissed like all i see is red and i wanna kill everything. Oh and this only happens when i play call of duty. |
| I usually punch the wall to release my anger and hopes i didn't put a hole there. But hitting your self when your angry that could end up really bad when you cant control your self, better the wall than me i'll say |
trunghuynh90Sep 30, 2012 9:14 PM
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| lol when I bump my toes on a chair, table or corner of a wall. Darn that hurts |
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| There are times when I was so angry at myself that I wanted to hit my head several times against the wall. |
| I never tried to hurt myself while angry. My other relieve is that I do not tend to hurt anyone else either, while being angry. |
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