Forest-kun said: Get new friends. that exactly what i will do |
 |
| then, just ignore them... |
JJandWine said: How can they ignore you if you don't say shit? This. It's not ignoring you if you just sit back and don't talk. You're the one putting yourself out of the conversation. |
 |
| It's hard to do, but slap them, then ignore the shit out of them. |
| Friends wouldn't ignore you. They're not friends. |
 |
| Usually I just punch them in the shoulder or randomly go in the conversation and randomly say something. |
| Signature removed. Please follow the signature rules, as defined in the Site & Forum Guidelines. |
| You've got to talk more. I'm sure if you feel this way, they do too. |
| I'm the one ignoring them! Well its actually because I'm not their friend anymore, plus they were never really "friends". I finally noticed that and moved on. I'll answer your question. What you need to do is, "do you want them to stop ignoring you?" If so, then do something about it. Which is, confront them! x3 You could take whatever action you want I guess, friendly or aggressively if you want. Its your choice on what you want to do, you take control of yourself but the only problem is, remember: you can't control them/their reply |
waalex11Oct 24, 2011 5:01 PM
| People have been saying they aint your real friends if they ignore you, but they aren't there to push you along socially, you have to do the talking by yourself. If you share nothing in common with your friends, then you have a problem, and that's when you should start wondering about whether you should be friends. If you are really concerned, then listen into their conversations, find out they talk about, then do something that'll give you something to put into the conversations; They talk a lot about a sport? Go watch some matches of said sport and put in some input when they discuss it. Television show they like? Watch it. Ideally you wouldn't have to do this, but I don't really know what else you can do, apart from just talk more, even if it's about random stuff. I've never had the problem consistently enough to warrant me worrying about it, so I can't be too helpful... |
| I used to be exactly the same before I realised that I didn't really have a lot in common with my friends, I'd always be the one doing the calling or the first to message. I then quit my band, didn't bother speaking to any of them and started hanging around with other people who I knew enjoyed my company, and vice-versa. Took a while to realise that the person I'm going to get along with the most is an otaku. Now he's one of my best mates. |
| Talk with them.....duh? |
 |
agnethafan said: I was treated badly by my friends. They never stuck up for me and they made excuses why they couldn't call me "Oh, too dare to call a mobile phone". They would easily ditch me for someone else. Nor were they compassionate to me. I decided I didn't want to be around them anymore, so one of them turned into bullies, bullying me and taunting me everywhere I went at school. Even getting into my Mum's personal life, which was a NO-GO ZONE. Mum went to this girl's house and she DENIED She even said a thing. She even was so angry I didn't want to be friends with her anymore, she told my crushes I liked them. One right next to him and me in class and the other he just sat and laughed at me with his friend while I walked past him during break once. The other friend I had I just got sick of her not being a friend back, she used me and lied to me. She instantly went back to hang out with this ex-friend who bullied me and they started hanging out and being happy. Eventually the bullying friend moved away (phew), but there was awkwardness as the other girl followed me onto High School and you could totally sense tention whenever we caught each others eye. One time I was talking to another girl and she happened to be near by alone, she suddenly took off. I think she might've felt jealous or something. I ended up leaving that high school early, not just because of her, but because of the intense bullying I got from teachers and students there. None of the teachers cared or wanted to help. But that's another story. Thanks for sharing. This means a lot to me. |
| I've never really been ignored by my friends, at least when I actually had friends. Usually, I was the one shutting people out, quite unfairly. Too damn stubborn to let anyone try to help, even though they wouldn't understand my problems anyways. Either way, it led to a rather lonely life. I've embraced that fact though. Anyways, my advice to the poster, if you're being ignored by people you consider friends because you're not making an attempt to engage them in conversation, I mean, what can I say, be a bit more active. I know how it is to be "the quiet type". I'm quiet and typically very shy myself, but if a pretty, intelligent girl sits down to talk with me I don't let my personality get in the way of that. If anything, I take full control and do my best to be sure the my more positive traits overtake the less desirable ones. If they're ignoring you for seemingly no reason, talk with them. Try to understand why, and if they can't be truthful with you or give you a reasonable answer, find better friends. |
Pero said: Come one, that was legitimate concern, one that I guess, could not be easy to ask to people you know. No need to be sarcastic about it. Yes, I can't understand people being sarcastic when someone has a legitimate concern about their high school social life. It's like TOTALLY so out of line. This is a regular occurence and we should talk it out and help each other. I sure want MAL to listen to me weep when I get ignored by someone. I mean, that's what this site is here for, right? Be nice to people! |
| Punch them and scream "hello?". ^^ |
Tell the victims to kill eachother. |
| I've had my little circle of close friends for over 15 years. If they're ignoring me, that means they're fucking busy and have their own shit going on right now, and I'll just wait til they're done - and they'll do the same for me. Though they'd never brush me off if it were something important. In other words, they're ignoring me because they have to, not because they want to, so it's never cause for concern. |
| If they ignore you then their not really good friends. Find some better ones and enjoy your time without them with anime. |
| "Everyone dies nya" |
| A better question in my case is "What do you do when your friends actually respond to you?" I'm usually just on my phone browsing the internet or sending messages to people I know online, since I can talk to them better anyway. |
| Leave, find new and better friends, who cares? Assuming you don't want to change friends then I would just be more outspoken. Not as hard as one would think. |
 |
| Play video games. That's a simple solution imo. |
| When I'm Ignored, I try get their attention :D idk if it works or fails but its fun anyways :D |
| Signature removed. Please follow the signature rules, as defined in the Site & Forum Guidelines. |
| atm im being semi-ignored, cause she's mad at me. I think she asleep atm but usually i just let it rest if someone's mad at me and doesnt wanna talk i go play some games/listen to music try to calm myself and not get back in the argument. (ppls only ignore me if i fight with em usually >.<) |
| Signature removed. Please follow the signature rules, as defined in the Site & Forum Guidelines. |
| Few bridge dwellers in thread. Uhh, tend to just stop saying what I was about to say unless they ask again. It pisses me off whenever I ignore someone purposefully because they're going to say something annoying/useless, but they keep tapping me about it. Isn't it obvious when someone is ignoring you on purpose? |
| You're the same as me. It often happen to me. I usually hang in there but sometime probably I will walk away and do something else. |
More topics from this board
» How often do you see the user above in the forums? ( 1 2 3 4 5 ... Last Page )lucasmrNd - Aug 20, 2021 |
6500 |
by ToastWithNutella
»»
17 seconds ago |
|
» Rate how good you can do the thing aboveIpreferEcchi - Yesterday |
47 |
by Starfallash
»»
18 seconds ago |
|
» Find an anime from above user's anime list that has the same score as you ( 1 2 3 4 5 ... Last Page )reu_2d - Apr 20, 2021 |
4468 |
by Akuya
»»
2 minutes ago |
|
» Truth Or A Lie? v3 ( 1 2 3 4 5 ... Last Page )Koito91 - Sep 9, 2023 |
2399 |
by Luchipher-Zen
»»
2 minutes ago |
|
» The above user wasted all of their money. What did they spend it on? ( 1 2 3 4 )SnipeStrike - Mar 21 |
185 |
by SnipeStrike
»»
3 minutes ago |