Would you let your gf/bf have an Onlyfans?

Yeah, I'd let my hypothetical girlfriend use any site she wants, because I'm not an insecure possessive incel. Like imagine if you feel like you need to control someone else to be a man. Shudders. I pity the girl that falls for your abuse.

@katsucats
Uhh, if a guy breaks up with a woman because of a severe moral disagreement, that shows that he doesn't have a toxic codependency on her, and he realizes he can find more compatible women. That makes him the OPPOSITE of an incel. I know words are difficult to people who get their whole worldview from tiktok, but words mean things.

It's a man's right to terminate a relationship with somebody he's incompatible with in terms of values. Nobody's "rights" are being infringed on in a breakup. It's one person making a decision based on another person's decision. Right now, you're effectively trying to tell people what to do by telling them who they can and cannot break up with.

You realize all relationships involve boundaries, right? You don't go on a crack and hooker bender and crash your car into a tree, and then call your wife "insecure and possessive" when she divorces you over it. Every single relationship has expectations and agreements.
I'm guessing you realize that but you're pretending not to, so that you can get away with calling the boundaries you don't like "mEn TeLLiNg OtHeRs WhAt To dO."

And there are plenty of women who would refuse to date a male "sex worker," but you had nothing to say about that, because you realize you can manipulate men by making any issue of values or compatibility about "manhood" or masculinity. On the other hand, you either realize you can't manipulate women by calling them insecure incels, or you just don't want to, and think women should be able to have boundaries that men can't have.
Either way, you ONLY cast aspersion onto the preferences of men. You had absolutely nothing critical to say about women who would break up with a male sex worker. Hmmm. I don't wanna jump to conclusions, but it's almost like you're a complete hypocrite.

Anyway, stay terminally online. Over 80% of people would refuse to date an online prostitute, and that's a fact. You are severely out of touch if you think that's debatable

While I have not confirmed it with him yet, I realized that my SO, who initially told me that he is working as a freelancer in a customer service niche, could be working as an Only Fans chatter. Obviously, he didn't lie but he omitted a very important detail either. I only saw his screen for a split-second, but I saw the logo and a bikini photo of a woman. Upon further research, I found that this type of work is trending, at least in our country, with over 25,000 members on a Facebook group, and pays way more than what entry level fast-food employees typically enter. Basically, they pretend as the models themselves and the chatters convince the clients to purchase their contents. It doesn't sit well with me, but I need time to think about what to do with this information. After all, it is a practical way to earn. The fact that he withheld this information to me even after I opened up the topic once is slightly concerning.

What do you mean "pretend as the models themselves"? Do you mean there is a model who has content and as a representative he poses as the model? Kind of borders on being a scam almost but not quite however if he just takes random images he scrapes off some profile of someone not in connection with the model then it really is a scam at that point.

@traed That's right, they have authorization to chat on behalf of the model. The models/agency are outsourcing selling content, as well as engaging and maintaining relationship with fans.

Most definitely no.

I don't really care if people consider it "controlling" or "you're the jealous type". I find it disrespectful and it completely obliterates a boundary for me. I also do find it funny though how people claim to respect boundaries and how you should, but the second you say "I don't want a partner who does sex work", it's sexist or "incel" like. A complete double standard.

I don't care if they have done sex work or the like before we started dating, but after we are in a committed relationship, it needs to end immediately. I don't want my partner entertaining strangers on the Internet. For me, it's immediately grounds to end the relationship.

I think things like this are the reason so many people are single and not dating or having sex as much as generations of previous. People have now instant gratification from stuff like OF and dating apps. It's frankly ruined dating for a lot of people.

Most definitely no.

I don't really care if people consider it "controlling" or "you're the jealous type". I find it disrespectful and it completely obliterates a boundary for me. I also do find it funny though how people claim to respect boundaries and how you should, but the second you say "I don't want a partner who does sex work", it's sexist or "incel" like. A complete double standard.

I don't care if they have done sex work or the like before we started dating, but after we are in a committed relationship, it needs to end immediately. I don't want my partner entertaining strangers on the Internet. For me, it's immediately grounds to end the relationship.

I think things like this are the reason so many people are single and not dating or having sex as much as generations of previous. People have now instant gratification from stuff like OF and dating apps. It's frankly ruined dating for a lot of people.