i'm not jumping on the reigen hype train either.
i don't take issue with his livelihood. clients come to him with normal problems they blame on supernatural causes; he solves their issues and ensures they leave satisfied. he is also likely undercharging for his services, given his serious massage/spa skills and the terrible clients he attracts.
he's a ridiculously well-drawn character in every sense of that phrase. attractive, extremely complex, and consistently written. i admire his immense talent for persuasion and his confidence; he's a good role model in this regard. he does actually give mob good life advice, even if it's for self-serving reasons. reigen's also more familiar with the kid's emotional landscape than his parents are. he discourages mob from fighting against people out to kill him at the end of the season, which i found refreshing. the man knows mob's destructive capabilities already cause him a world of pain. why add to his suffering? reigen gets it. that is love right there.
otherwise, reigen is terrible AND he takes way too long to fully redeem himself. people like to say his mocking mob in the second season was 'out of character' but his lack of respect for mob is obvious for most of the series. he even claims credit for mob's exorcism work. the threadbare ramen made me sad.
from the first episode, the way he interacts with mob rubs me in ALL the wrong ways. he's pulling pages straight out of the narcissist's manual:
- they try to convince you that you need them to function in some way. while reigen understood that mob was troubled, he lost no time in encouraging the child's dependency on him while capitalizing on his talents. his 'you need me to help you control your powers' spiel is self-serving bullshit at its finest, and not unlike suzuki's treatment of serizawa...
- they isolate you from other sources of support. reigen's habit of summoning him on short notice prevents him from developing a social life for quite a while. while part of mob's social isolation is self-imposed, this makes it worse.
- they insult you repeatedly or imply that you lack skill in things you're good at. luckily mob is strong-willed enough not to take reigen's BS seriously.
- they don't respect your time or your boundaries. reigen repeatedly calls mob in to work on short notice despite being asked not to over and over. in the second season he gets even more unreasonable about this: i love how he eats up mob's entire fucking weekend and cuts into his sleep before school the next morning dealing with shitty clients i wouldn't have entertained the first time they approached.
- they steal from you, or attempt to. there are TOO MANY people in this fandom who justify him paying this kid in pocket change for his work. this is straight-up theft. also, need i mention that he's actually using illegal child labor here? mob has been working for him since he was 10? 11? what kid that young knows to negotiate for fair pay?
his redeeming qualities are given more focus after s1e1. this humanizes him, but apparently obscures the toxic aspects of their relationship for a lot of people who watch this show. for me, he's like the parent who shops away their child's college fund, or a boss who creates an awesome work environment otherwise but can't pay full-time staff on a regular basis.
mob is willing to tolerate all that dirt for the priceless morels in it. he's a precious boy, but too patient with people. i'm glad characters point this out to him. |