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Nov 15, 10:47 PM

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Recently I had to leave the house a few times and everywhere I kept seeing young couples my age, the fact some young guys like me get to have a gf yet I'm a shut-in loser who can't talk to women has made me truly distressed to an existential extent, I've been through such maddening days because of this I think I'm going to lose my mind and do something stupid and irrational.
So what's the best way I can forget about my incel envy and go on be a shut-in loser with no worries like I was previously. Please just gimme advice on how I stay a loser and forgetting my sudden realization of my situation that has made me distressed.
@LenRea Firstly you can stop labeling yourself as an Incel. Negative self-image becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. By wanting a girlfriend you're ignoring what you need for yourself. You can't love another person if you don't have some respect for yourself first. After that it will come naturally. I also suggest stop being a "shut-in loser" and get a social hobby. You're only distressed because your mind wants something it can't have because of a situation you have created for yourself: "shut-in loser" - just quit being one.
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@lucjan What can someone like me, who used to be a social recluse, have any use for socialization boosting drug like Kratom? I wouldn't magically know social clues, or any of that shi-
@nanajp It lowers your inhibition and makes it easier to talk with new people.

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Doing Christmas shopping soon, I have a friend that reads a lot of horror genre novels (this isn't really my genre) - any suggestions for a few books to gift them? I'd imagine they have read all the most famous titles.
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Doing Christmas shopping soon, I have a friend that reads a lot of horror genre novels (this isn't really my genre) - any suggestions for a few books to gift them? I'd imagine they have read all the most famous titles.
@Sad How about translated horror books from other countries? Different countries have different things, which they consider scary, different writing style.
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@Sad How about translated horror books from other countries? Different countries have different things, which they consider scary, different writing style.
@Forain Sounds good to me. What do you have in mind? I have to mention btw, they don't read manga/graphic novels/comics.
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@Forain Sounds good to me. What do you have in mind? I have to mention btw, they don't read manga/graphic novels/comics.
@Sad It's hard for me to give a concrete example, because I don't know which books are good and were translated in your language. But just typing in google, results are: https://www.google.com/search?q=most+scariest+books
List has names of authors, from which you can surmise which ones are foreign.
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@Forain Sounds good to me. What do you have in mind? I have to mention btw, they don't read manga/graphic novels/comics.
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was about to recommend a book from Glukhovsky but it isnt translated. What sort of horror do they read? I cant help with normal stuff, I could maybe give a recommendation for some fantasy/horror fusion

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