Grubelgrub said: Ok. I''l go with "Smegma is discusting, don't offer it to girls," then ^^ That's kinda better. Then again those with libido already saw your original post lol.   |
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damastah said: Grubelgrub said: Ok. I''l go with "Smegma is discusting, don't offer it to girls," then ^^ That's kinda better. Then again those with libido already saw your original post lol. True. Oh well, what can you do (I'll do it differently next time though XD) |
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| Baby I just want chu back I want chu back I want you back Baby I know its too late Its just too late Its just too late |
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Grubelgrub said: damastah said: That's kinda better. Then again those with libido already saw your original post lol. True. Oh well, what can you do (I'll do it differently next time though XD) Lol yeah just a heads up~ |
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damastah said: Grubelgrub said: True. Oh well, what can you do (I'll do it differently next time though XD) Lol yeah just a heads up~ Thanks dude. I saw it the minute you commented on it. Very unintentional I'm-collecting-stalkers-wording.... |
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| I like being told that I have good taste in anime-manga or that I'm gundam/mecha goddess lol |
| I think that the way you say it is more important than the compliment itself. |
| Nice mustache? |
| I think it depends on the girl. But a compliment of a non-sexual thing you notice about a girl is usually warmly met. |
| "Dakimakura aren't meant for fucking." -Moog, January 2015 When a site's moderators warn you for condemning a troll, you know their moderators need to be changed out. |
Wayponpon said: "I find you very appealing in a non-sexual manner."I think it depends on the girl. But a compliment of a non-sexual thing you notice about a girl is usually warmly met. |
Vargr said: Nice mustache? And a few minutes later you have a stinging red hand mark on your cheek. |
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damastah said: Some girls just can't take a compliment.Vargr said: And a few minutes later you have a stinging red hand mark on your cheek.Nice mustache? |
Drugs said: Yes, brilliant take away from what I said. You have a very bright future ahead of you with that level of thought power.Wayponpon said: "I find you very appealing in a non-sexual manner."I think it depends on the girl. But a compliment of a non-sexual thing you notice about a girl is usually warmly met. Hopefully from the bright lights of a semi-truck heading your way in on-coming traffic. |
| "Dakimakura aren't meant for fucking." -Moog, January 2015 When a site's moderators warn you for condemning a troll, you know their moderators need to be changed out. |
| Tell her that you'd love to eat her over any other girl. |
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Wayponpon said: It sounds like you've got some anger issues to sort through, I'm here if you need to talk about itDrugs said: Yes, brilliant take away from what I said. You have a very bright future ahead of you with that level of thought power."I find you very appealing in a non-sexual manner." Hopefully from the bright lights of a semi-truck heading your way in on-coming traffic. |
| Some of these comments are atrocious. |
Drugs said: I-I just want a hug, Drugs-Senpai. ;-;It sounds like you've got some anger issues to sort through, I'm here if you need to talk about it |
| "Dakimakura aren't meant for fucking." -Moog, January 2015 When a site's moderators warn you for condemning a troll, you know their moderators need to be changed out. |
MidnightLPA said: Some of these comments are atrocious. Yeah, these guys are the worst. I am all wet, actually. |
| You could tell her she's your light or some shit like that. Or you could tell her about how she's the only one you ever want be with and that you want to spend your life trying to make her happy and other shit like that. |
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WingsOfValor said: Why would you be wet? Did you just come from swimming? OMG, did you fall into a lake? D:MidnightLPA said: Some of these comments are atrocious. Yeah, these guys are the worst. I am all wet, actually. |
| "Dakimakura aren't meant for fucking." -Moog, January 2015 When a site's moderators warn you for condemning a troll, you know their moderators need to be changed out. |
Zetrin said: that you masturbate to them |
| Your vagina... is that a hint of Pine-sol I sense? Well done. |
teruu said: You're giving me mixed signals. Should I make an allusion to cannibalism or write her a poem? Both?You could tell her she's your light or some shit like that. Or you could tell her about how she's the only one you ever want be with and that you want to spend your life trying to make her happy and other shit like that. |
teruu said: You could tell her she's your light or some shit like that. Or you could tell her about how she's the only one you ever want be with and that you want to spend your life trying to make her happy and other shit like that. This would scare me, lol. |
| Don't give compliments. If they're sharp enough they ought to be able to discern what I like about them, and overt displays of affection are disgusting for either gender. |
coromandel said: teruu said: You could tell her she's your light or some shit like that. Or you could tell her about how she's the only one you ever want be with and that you want to spend your life trying to make her happy and other shit like that. This would scare me, lol. That does sound like something he'd say while tightening the rope around your wrists in the back of his panel van. |
coromandel said: teruu said: You could tell her she's your light or some shit like that. Or you could tell her about how she's the only one you ever want be with and that you want to spend your life trying to make her happy and other shit like that. This would scare me, lol. That's MAL for you. :3 |
| Heaven is missing an angel. Lets fix that right now. |
Lilith- said: This sounds like wonderful advice for the socially awkwardDon't give compliments. If they're sharp enough they ought to be able to discern what I like about them, and overt displays of affection are disgusting for either gender. "You should be able to know what I like about you, I'm not going to fucking tell you." If your compliments are "overt displays of affection" you're probably overdoing it |
Drugs said: Lilith- said: This sounds like wonderful advice for the socially awkwardDon't give compliments. If they're sharp enough they ought to be able to discern what I like about them, and overt displays of affection are disgusting for either gender. "You should be able to know what I like about you, I'm not going to fucking tell you." If your compliments are "overt displays of affection" you're probably overdoing it Lol, okay, that was a bad way of wording it. But still, I like to think that compliments are rarely a necessary device. At least for me they don't come naturally, and I find that it's more meaningful when someone can at least partially discern how I feel about them by how I act, rather than what I say. A compliment of any degree feels like ego inflation to me. |
| "I gotta say that is a nice dress you got there." Always complement something other than her body or face and make sure you look at her in the eyes. |
Lilith- said: Okay, since I assume you're primarily talking about compliments between romantic partners, my question to you is why are you so against inflating the ego a little bit of somebody you care about? I don't understand how telling your partner that they look nice today is going to do anything other than make them feel better. Is that really a bad thing?Drugs said: Lol, okay, that was a bad way of wording it. But still, I like to think that compliments are rarely a necessary device. At least for me they don't come naturally, and I find that it's more meaningful when someone can at least partially discern how I feel about them by how I act. A compliment of any degree feels like ego inflation to me.This sounds like wonderful advice for the socially awkward "You should be able to know what I like about you, I'm not going to fucking tell you." If your compliments are "overt displays of affection" you're probably overdoing it I can sort of understand what you're saying, but I don't think of compliments as necessary as much as they are supplementary. The idea of making somebody feel better is appealing to me, I don't do it because it's required of me. Also, I know that I personally enjoy hearing people tell me how they feel. It's not that I can't tell, but it feels nice to hear it. |
| idk, saying something about their eyes or smile would probably work |
| Me personally, I can't be complimented. I see it as an attempt to get in my good books and I tune it out. And half the time I'll try to argue back, by trying to disprove your compliment. I guess there is no "best" compliment as everyone is different, and some are just batshit crazy like myself |
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Grubelgrub said: Olveparty said: Offer her your smegma that you've been saving just for her. Girls love to feel special. Disclaimer; might fail miserably if you're circumcised. Oh... oh, god *gagging noises* Thanks for endorsing my suggestion. |
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LadyRenly said: That's certainly the best way to make sure I never compliment you againAnd half the time I'll try to argue back, by trying to disprove your compliment. |
Drugs said: LadyRenly said: That's certainly the best way to make sure I never compliment you againAnd half the time I'll try to argue back, by trying to disprove your compliment. Then we'd get along famously. People know I don't like it, yet they do it anyway. Some friends they are. |
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LadyRenly said: Drugs said: That's certainly the best way to make sure I never compliment you again Then we'd get along famously. People know I don't like it, yet they do it anyway. Some friends they are. They probably just like to tease you. :P |
Ojouu-sama said: Everything’s fine as long as you don’t sound creepy. She's lying, they love creepy shit. Just go for it. You can fix almost anything later as long as its not overtly sexual. |
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LadyRenly said: I don't want to push, but it sounds more like insecurity than anything else. Maybe you're having trouble rationalizing that people might actually like you and not expect anything in return.Drugs said: Then we'd get along famously. People know I don't like it, yet they do it anyway. Some friends they are.That's certainly the best way to make sure I never compliment you again I'd respect your wishes, of course, but it still makes me a little sad that it actually bothers you. I used to find receiving compliments embarrassing - I would blush uncontrollably and not know what to say, but I am much better about it. Obviously every person is different and I am not trying to marginalize your own experiences |
Drugs said: Lilith- said: Okay, since I assume you're primarily talking about compliments between romantic partners, my question to you is why are you so against inflating the ego a little bit of somebody you care about? I don't understand how telling your partner that they look nice today is going to do anything other than make them feel better. Is that really a bad thing?Lol, okay, that was a bad way of wording it. But still, I like to think that compliments are rarely a necessary device. At least for me they don't come naturally, and I find that it's more meaningful when someone can at least partially discern how I feel about them by how I act. A compliment of any degree feels like ego inflation to me. I can sort of understand what you're saying, but I don't think of compliments as necessary as much as they are supplementary. The idea of making somebody feel better is appealing to me, I don't do it because it's required of me. Also, I know that I personally enjoy hearing people tell me how they feel. It's not that I can't tell, but it feels nice to hear it. For me it's a concern that stems from the same feelings I get when I lie. Even though I *could* easily give a sincere compliment, I don't like the idea of someone I care about finding emotional value in something that's relatively insignificant. And that goes for myself as well. Plus when I have to consciously realize that a compliment would make them happy, it feels like some sort of artificial meta-decision. I'm saying it because I want to make them happy, not because I actually want to express my feeling by itself. It's such a strange thought process. And yes, I know this makes me sound very secure and capable of having a normal relationship. But this isn't actually how I act in practice. It's how I'd *like* to act, but I end up succumbing to compliments, as well as giving them, easily. If everyone felt how I do it wouldn't be such an issue, but I'm too considerate of others, despite what I've said. |
Lilith-May 12, 2015 11:29 AM
Lilith- said: Most of what we find emotional value from is insignificant in that regard - it's a string of insignificants that makes something significant. Your affection for the person is significant, but you express it in a manner that fits the situation. I do understand what you're saying here, but you should focus on the intent more than the act itself. I would never say trying to make you feel better was insignificant, even if my comment doesn't transcend time and space to bring you that happinessFor me it's a concern that stems from the same feelings I get when I lie. Even though I *could* easily give a sincere compliment, I don't like the idea of someone I care about finding emotional value in something that's relatively insignificant. And that goes for myself as well. |
Drugs said: Lilith- said: Most of what we find emotional value from is insignificant in that regard - it's a string of insignificants that makes something significant. Your affection for the person is significant, but you express it in a manner that fits the situation. I do understand what you're saying here, but you should focus on the intent more than the act itself. I would never say trying to make you feel better was insignificant, even if my comment doesn't transcend time and space to bring you that happinessFor me it's a concern that stems from the same feelings I get when I lie. Even though I *could* easily give a sincere compliment, I don't like the idea of someone I care about finding emotional value in something that's relatively insignificant. And that goes for myself as well. Hmm, I understand what you mean; perhaps you're right. Maybe my attitude would only work in a world of übermensch where everyone can read my mind. But on the other hand, I still like the idea of allowing your happiness to be independent of outside influences. I remember around the time when I was 14 or so, I used to receive many compliments (not romantic ones for the most part, mind you) and they made me feel great, but eventually I became dependent on them and when they became less frequent I got a little sad. I'm used to that now, and I think I'm much better off for being able to be mostly indifferent toward them. Marcus Broelius is where I got this idea from. "Anything in any way beautiful derives its beauty from itself and asks nothing beyond itself. Praise is no part of it, for nothing is made worse or better by praise." I think it would be really cool if people could live by this. /pretentiousphilosophicalquotesonaninternetforum |
| wait till she complements me then* i'll decide what to complement her back on |
MkayMay 12, 2015 12:02 PM
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| Daaym girl! Boner-kun appreciates your breasts! |
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| Best sex I ever had. Get out. |
Theodoricos said: "You have a really nice personality." "Um... you don't know me" LOL |
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| Anything that makes me feel like I'm da very best that no one ever was. |
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