why do i fall in love with every girl who is at least a little bit nice or a little bit cute or both...
| Sounds like it's possibly a self-esteem / confidence issue. You can fix that by working on the issues you dislike about yourself. |
| i don't think you are in love with someone just because they are kind to you. that's just infatuation imo you are good to go to like people who are nice to you, and you should be nice to them back. but the problem lies where if you are alone too much, you may expect the girls to love you back just because you are nice to them. don't hold them below or above you, love should be equal. don't be like those guys that want to do horrible things to someone just because she rejected you you should appreciate friends more. true friends are there for a life time, and it's a step of knowing your limits and how to appreciate people, but also having a decent stability in life |
| Youre desperate and clingy and dont know any better. If girls are actually nice to you you cant be that ugly. If you were really ugly they would avoid you like you were a homeless person and she is waiting for the light to turn green. You dont know how cruel the world actually is |
| ...Okay, Drake. @ThePantsuGuru: Could you say that a little bit louder? I'm not sure that the people in the back can hear you. |
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NexivSelecaf said: ...Okay, Drake. @ThePantsuGuru: Could you say that a little bit louder? I'm not sure that the people in the back can hear you. Lmao tiny font is too hard to read on mobile |
| Depending on the odds of what girls think of you, it would most likely be the case that they don't want to form a romantic relationship with you. I've experienced rejection multiple times and my advice to you is to just be a bit pessimistic. I'm a bit of a pessimist when it comes to love and whatnot, so I always think of the worst results of a scenario like confession. Even if a girl or you become friends, it might be best to put yourself in the position of remaining friends and not form romantic feelings unless a girl pushes forward very obvious hints that she likes you; being friendly and nice doesn't really count as flirting. |
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| Loneliness, plain and simple. Will probably go away when you get into a relationship, or if you find something better than, disgusting, vile, three dimensional women. |
| Scarcity mentality. Plain and simple. |
| Because you are thirsty as fuck my dude. A dude suffering from dehydration is well documented via tropes to experience bouts of increasing mental degradation via hallucinations or mirages. You must adapt as the camel did and make an evolutionary change buy purchasing a sex bot waifu. |
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| this happens to me as well, im a girl though anyone (girl or boy- im bi) shows me a little bit of kindness, complementing me or laughing at my joke and I am instantly attracted to them, just for being a normal, kind person. thinking about a long term relationship like you described I guess that im so used to feeling unattractive to other people and myself when people show the slightest signs of liking me I am instantly flattered, even if it isnt like flirting, a smile could be enough to make me feel validated and attracted to them TwT I might need a therapist lol or Is this normal?? |
| It's natural to fall for the cute nice girls. But like the others said, keep the "family bit" away. Most young girls out there are not looking to get into a serious commitment like that. Give it some time. Be friends, hang out, go on dates occasionally. Have fun without the strings attach. Let it flow naturally but responsibly as well. |
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| You're really lonely my guy. I can see where you're coming from though. I can kinda relate to you. |
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ThePantsuGuru said: You dont know how cruel the world actually is  I swear, you bunch of dark sasukes are so great to make fun of XD Please, don't change guys. Also, to answer the topic : You've never been with a woman, so what you feel is just desire, not love. After you have sex with one you'll realize you actually don't care that much for her, most of the time. You can pretend and lie to yourself, but that usually doesn't last long. So yeah, get laid and you'll stop "falling in love" with every person you meet, and when love actually hits you it will be a different kind of feeling, trust me. |
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| you're either on puberty or have little to no experience with women I don't blame you though. I've dated a girl for 6 years and I still have those thoughts and urges sometimes I don't actually attempt to put my dick inside them though |
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| sounds like puberty in a nutshell to be fair lmao, should get over it when your brain stops being a hormonal mess |
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