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Mar 18, 2018 4:14 PM

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Just commit to a 2d waifu or husbando, and there's no threat of cheating. I see no long term problems with this.

For real though I hate it. It feels like the greatest betrayal you can imagine other than your best friend's suddenly stabbing you Caesar style. I was cheated on in highschool and found out because my girlfriend had used condoms in her desk trash bin, he left them there and I guess she forgot.

At the time I was devastated, angry, and began to spiral into a bout of depression. Nothing else has felt as bad as that in my life. The only thing worse is when I think about people I knew who died that I know I will never get to see again.

I've been in only a few minor relationships since then, and am ultimately single as of now. After a year or so it's been nice focusing on just myself and I think I'll stay this way for a while.

If it wasn't obvious I hate cheaters. If you wanna fuck around don't commit to me or act like you want to. I'd rather you break up at that point and we go our separate ways then you string me along like an idiot.
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Mar 19, 2018 6:20 AM

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FreakyTy said:


For real though I hate it. It feels like the greatest betrayal you can imagine other than your best friend's suddenly stabbing you Caesar style. I was cheated on in highschool and found out because my girlfriend had used condoms in her desk trash bin, he left them there and I guess she forgot.

At the time I was devastated, angry, and began to spiral into a bout of depression. Nothing else has felt as bad as that in my life. The only thing worse is when I think about people I knew who died that I know I will never get to see again.

I've been in only a few minor relationships since then, and am ultimately single as of now. After a year or so it's been nice focusing on just myself and I think I'll stay this way for a while.


Whoa just reading your post made me feel sick and my experience wasn't even close to being cheated on. I hope you find your way to get into relationship again and if you do, tell me how did you do iit. :p
Mar 20, 2018 6:42 PM

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Being cheated on is betrayal .( ̵˃﹏˂̵ )
Being lonely in your relationship or any other reason isn't valid for cheating. If you're unhappy with your relationship, discuss it with your partner or break up, simple!
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Mar 20, 2018 8:58 PM

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i dont know this thread exist.

what do you think about people who cheat on others?
pretty dumb behavior that needs to be locked away. but in the end, human is pretty selfish and ignorant and there’s no denying that. i’m even still pretty close with the man who my ex cheated with.

Have you ever being cheated on?
yes i have. almost all of my friend told me, even my ex friend also told me that my ex is cheated on me. i just found out back when i was attending extra class for university entrance exam, and my friends show me the photo, pretty damn salty about that photo till now, it’s my ex and my friend in bed together, i dont want to say the rest though.

How did you feel about it? What did you do?
i feel conflicted, because the one who told me is my ex’s friend, and if i expose her, i practiaclly sold my friend for a petty shit like this. well because of that i through some of the most agonizing mental breakdown for like 2-3 month before i realize how much a pussy i was. i just realized i made a lot of people worried of me because of my condition, especially my mother, and i just realize how selfish i am as a human being and start taking drastic change, it’s easier that way than pushing my selfsh desire.

Have you ever cheated on someone?
i would say yes and no, because i only get closer to my friend because of my problem, but my ex probably would think that i cheating so i would go by that.
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Mar 20, 2018 11:34 PM

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zhrtjyhztnjgfhb said:
I think being cheated on is awesome. All men secretly wish to be cuckolded whether they admit it or not.


I was going to comment the same thing dude.

Everyone needs to accept cuckold in their lifes.
I'm proud of being a cuck.
Mar 21, 2018 1:14 AM

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well, for me, i always try to look on the bright side. being cheated on means that you still have many thing to fix about yourself. my last relationship ended with SO cheated on me just because i was not available, because i prioritize my career than our relationship. it gave me a clue about what things i should improve myself next. of course it was hard for me to accept but i think it's better to let people choose their own way than try to bind them on an unfavorable relationship.
Mar 21, 2018 1:42 AM

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I do not get the idea of cheating. If you want to find other partners due to being poly, talk to your partner and see if they agree. Don't try to take risks, and stay loyal to a person you would want to spend your whole life with, without it feeling like a waste.
"Stand up and walk. Keep moving forward. You've got two good legs. So get up and use them. You're strong enough to make your own path."
Mar 21, 2018 8:33 AM
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I got cheated on, she sent videos of her fucking another guy to me.

All around me are familiar faces
Worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for their daily races
Going nowhere, going nowhere
Their tears are filling up their glasses
No expression, no expression
Hide my head, I want to drown my sorrow
No tomorrow, no tomorrow
And I find it kinda funny, I find it kinda sad
The dreams in which I'm dying are the best I've ever had
I find it hard to tell you, I find it hard to take
When people run in circles it's a very very
Mad world, mad world
Children waiting for the day, they feel good
Happy birthday, happy birthday
Made to feel the way that every child should
Sit and listen, sit and listen
Went to school and I was very nervous
No one knew me, no one knew me
Hello teacher, tell me what's my lesson
Look right through me, look right through me
And I find it kinda funny, I find it kinda sad
The dreams in which I'm dying are the best I've ever had
I find it hard to tell you, I find it hard to take
When people run in circles it's a very very
Mad world, mad world
Enlarge your world
Mad world
Mar 21, 2018 8:37 AM

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Probably be in-between sad and angry, but most likely would feel disappointed.

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Mar 21, 2018 9:49 AM
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Since our lifespan is finite, I stand on the opinion that time should be consumed wisely. My understanding is that as an Individual I do have no absolute control on the actions of other fellow human beings. A relationship is not a scientific universal law, it is a social contract made possible by the mutual understanding and agreement between two(some cases more) parties.

Ii would like to point out that, regardless of us holding no absolute influence over the other party, we arguably do hold such control over our own conscious behavior and decisions. Therefore if my partner would cheat on me, betraying my trust and breaking our mutual promises, I would conclude that this relationship no longer has a valid reason to play a part in my life. It would only have a negative impact, resulting in a wasteful usage of time.
(May vary in some cases.For example a question, is being raped considered cheating?)

In such a situation I find it most important to appeal to ones rationality, consciously affecting our behavior, and move forth while cutting all contacts(or in some cases limit as much as possible) to the second party.
Being emotionally unstable at first, or even falling victim to sadness is understandable, as long as it is a momentary state of being that has no long lasting impact.
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