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I find it weird that nobody here has noticed the fact that the girl just outright lied to our big man. Not putting that you are a single mother on your dating profile from the start is SO disingenuous and deceptive. 90% of men do NOT want to raise another mans child, for a multitude of reasons. So just pretending that you have normal circumstances and leading on guys like that is so bad. I can see maybe she didn't put it on there, because well like I said, most men do not want anything to do with a single mother ( rightfully so ) and by hiding this fact she gets a lot more dates.....but that's just delaying the inevitable....Men are typically more desperate to get with a woman, and would put up with the burden, so honestly just being honest from the start would just be a better option, as the woman would still get a decent amount of matches despite having a kid. That way things would be transparent and expectations would be set. |
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| I disagree with the volume of disdain for a single mom with a healthy infant or young toddler, and maybe even a track record of how functional at work, childcare, managing to have a social life and a hobby. I have raised three of my own children. Raising one from late infancy or early toddler seems like a bargain. You miss two of the most stressful, anxiety generating, and burdensome parts of fatherhood, pregnancy and early infancy, and you get a a child with less uncertainty about health, ready for bonding with a father who will raise him. If man wants a family, are a few percent more commonality of nucleotides all that more significant to ones legacy than years of support, affection, education, love, and growth? |
| Lord Cruelty V "But my Dreams they're not as empty, as my conscience seems to be" |
| Kinda hits hard to me. I relate with Gonda, can't blame him. I was at the same situation. She asked me out. It's really hard to be in that situation. You can't just be ready for it, it's practically taking two people in. Responsibilities - financially and mentally. That's when I realized I was still a "kid" that time. |
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I find it weird that nobody here has noticed the fact that the girl just outright lied to our big man. Not putting that you are a single mother on your dating profile from the start is SO disingenuous and deceptive. 90% of men do NOT want to raise another mans child, for a multitude of reasons. So just pretending that you have normal circumstances and leading on guys like that is so bad.
I can see maybe she didn't put it on there, because well like I said, most men do not want anything to do with a single mother ( rightfully so ) and by hiding this fact she gets a lot more dates.....but that's just delaying the inevitable....Men are typically more desperate to get with a woman, and would put up with the burden, so honestly just being honest from the start would just be a better option, as the woman would still get a decent amount of matches despite having a kid. That way things would be transparent and expectations would be set.
I can see maybe she didn't put it on there, because well like I said, most men do not want anything to do with a single mother ( rightfully so ) and by hiding this fact she gets a lot more dates.....but that's just delaying the inevitable....Men are typically more desperate to get with a woman, and would put up with the burden, so honestly just being honest from the start would just be a better option, as the woman would still get a decent amount of matches despite having a kid. That way things would be transparent and expectations would be set.
| @DoctorWasabi I don’t think Gonda saw her dating profile. IIRC, Gonda said that no responded when he contacted people thru their profiles, but the dating app has a community area where people with similar interests could meet and talk. When they first met, they didn’t know what each other looked like. She hid the fact that she is a single parent, but she didn’t lie on her profile. By meeting in the community instead of the dating profiles, is there an expectation that to meet is to start a romantic relationship? It’s not clear because there’s no profile so users don’t know the sexual orientation of the other people in the community. Maybe it’s just unsaid. |
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I find it weird that nobody here has noticed the fact that the girl just outright lied to our big man. Not putting that you are a single mother on your dating profile from the start is SO disingenuous and deceptive. 90% of men do NOT want to raise another mans child, for a multitude of reasons. So just pretending that you have normal circumstances and leading on guys like that is so bad.
I can see maybe she didn't put it on there, because well like I said, most men do not want anything to do with a single mother ( rightfully so ) and by hiding this fact she gets a lot more dates.....but that's just delaying the inevitable....Men are typically more desperate to get with a woman, and would put up with the burden, so honestly just being honest from the start would just be a better option, as the woman would still get a decent amount of matches despite having a kid. That way things would be transparent and expectations would be set.
I can see maybe she didn't put it on there, because well like I said, most men do not want anything to do with a single mother ( rightfully so ) and by hiding this fact she gets a lot more dates.....but that's just delaying the inevitable....Men are typically more desperate to get with a woman, and would put up with the burden, so honestly just being honest from the start would just be a better option, as the woman would still get a decent amount of matches despite having a kid. That way things would be transparent and expectations would be set.
| @DoctorWasabi They meet in a community for fans of an idol, not through the matching of the app. Is like if you met a user in here, not the place to specify. She even treated him right as a friend and not as dates for the little we saw and the moment he wanted to be involved romantically the first thing she did is make sure he knew what he was getting into, so your analysis feels wrong and the opposite of the truth. That said, she, or not exactly she but her friend, lied in a big thing. The friend said that this girl would never use her child as a mean of deterring a man for trying to go out with her, but she gave him less than a fucking minute to process everything in front of his eyes before leaving with a "I thought so" and by the time the dude has fully processed and is going to answer the question she sends another woman in her place. Bad faith behaviour right there in that front. |
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